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"So I was looking for a memory card and came across videos & pics of mr and his ex. Is there a reason why he would keep these? They are full on and she's very sexy which made me jealous and think he's kept these as a reminder?" Maybe just forgot all about them , found some of ours a while ago that we hadnt seen for years | |||
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"So I was looking for a memory card and came across videos & pics of mr and his ex. Is there a reason why he would keep these? They are full on and she's very sexy which made me jealous and think he's kept these as a reminder?" truthfully from a guys point, 1. He genuinely forgot about it 2. He kept them as a memory not because he wants her back but just for his sexual needs 3. He's a trophy guy (meaning he sleeps around and collects images and vids of him and counterparts for bragging rights) There's a few other reasons I can put but these are the ones that are relevant  | |||
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"So I was looking for a memory card and came across videos & pics of mr and his ex. Is there a reason why he would keep these? They are full on and she's very sexy which made me jealous and think he's kept these as a reminder?" I’d say that’s pretty damn disrespectful myself . Unless he forgot he had them , I’d truly wonder why he felt the need to have them . | |||
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"So should I confront him and say it to him? He's away with work until Friday? Hoping that he forgot!" I wouldnt confront him , i would ask him | |||
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"So should I confront him and say it to him? He's away with work until Friday? Hoping that he forgot!" well if he genuinely forgot about its an argument that's just going to piss you both off but you want answers I would say ask him about it but don't ask him in a pissed of way ask him like you're cool with it and he will feel comfortable and will give you a honest answer. If he doesn't hesitate or ask anything just tell him you're going to delete them because you feel uncomfortable by the pictures | |||
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"So should I confront him and say it to him? He's away with work until Friday? Hoping that he forgot! well if he genuinely forgot about its an argument that's just going to piss you both off but you want answers I would say ask him about it but don't ask him in a pissed of way ask him like you're cool with it and he will feel comfortable and will give you a honest answer. If he doesn't hesitate or ask anything just tell him you're going to delete them because you feel uncomfortable by the pictures " Maybe ask him to delete them , not tell him you are | |||
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"So should I confront him and say it to him? He's away with work until Friday? Hoping that he forgot!" I can say I fell victim of this year's ago, I totally forgot and was purely innocent but it did cause problems for a long time from very early on but did last 7/8 years still, but tbh wud of been better if just binned it an moved on an see what reactions you get from him either not knowing (great) or realising an guilty enough to come forward in own time realising you obvs know! Rather than you jumping the gun an making (maybe) an innocent mistake a bigger problem than needs be.. Hope helps x | |||
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"So should I confront him and say it to him? He's away with work until Friday? Hoping that he forgot! well if he genuinely forgot about its an argument that's just going to piss you both off but you want answers I would say ask him about it but don't ask him in a pissed of way ask him like you're cool with it and he will feel comfortable and will give you a honest answer. If he doesn't hesitate or ask anything just tell him you're going to delete them because you feel uncomfortable by the pictures Maybe ask him to delete them , not tell him you are" depending on if you want to know why he kept them | |||
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"So should I confront him and say it to him? He's away with work until Friday? Hoping that he forgot! well if he genuinely forgot about its an argument that's just going to piss you both off but you want answers I would say ask him about it but don't ask him in a pissed of way ask him like you're cool with it and he will feel comfortable and will give you a honest answer. If he doesn't hesitate or ask anything just tell him you're going to delete them because you feel uncomfortable by the pictures Maybe ask him to delete them , not tell him you are depending on if you want to know why he kept them" Maybe best just to let him do what he wants , if he deletes them , problem solved | |||
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"So should I confront him and say it to him? He's away with work until Friday? Hoping that he forgot! well if he genuinely forgot about its an argument that's just going to piss you both off but you want answers I would say ask him about it but don't ask him in a pissed of way ask him like you're cool with it and he will feel comfortable and will give you a honest answer. If he doesn't hesitate or ask anything just tell him you're going to delete them because you feel uncomfortable by the pictures Maybe ask him to delete them , not tell him you are depending on if you want to know why he kept them Maybe best just to let him do what he wants , if he deletes them , problem solved" I agree with this | |||
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"Hubby had pics with his ex and family, not naughty pics lol , i would never have dreamed of telling him to get rid of them he cut her of lol " it depends on how you are as a person. Some people don't like it others don't mind it. But it just gets awkward when they bring them up | |||
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"Hubby had pics with his ex and family, not naughty pics lol , i would never have dreamed of telling him to get rid of them he cut her of lol " These were naughty. And she was way to good for my liking! That's what pissed me off the most, that she is hotter than me lol | |||
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"Hubby had pics with his ex and family, not naughty pics lol , i would never have dreamed of telling him to get rid of them he cut her of lol These were naughty. And she was way to good for my liking! That's what pissed me off the most, that she is hotter than me lol" But he is with you , why compare yourself to her | |||
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"Hubby had pics with his ex and family, not naughty pics lol , i would never have dreamed of telling him to get rid of them he cut her of lol These were naughty. And she was way to good for my liking! That's what pissed me off the most, that she is hotter than me lol But he is with you , why compare yourself to her" I know but that's why I thought he kept them, to relive being with her. I think I'm mad, I'm sure he has forgotten, a good guy so I'll ask him about them. | |||
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"Hubby had pics with his ex and family, not naughty pics lol , i would never have dreamed of telling him to get rid of them he cut her of lol These were naughty. And she was way to good for my liking! That's what pissed me off the most, that she is hotter than me lol" this annoys me slightly because females you have a gift it's called a vagina. Sorry I don't mean to sound crude but you're giving him a feeling of extasy when you sleep with him so make him feel good and he won't even think about the ex. | |||
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"Hubby had pics with his ex and family, not naughty pics lol , i would never have dreamed of telling him to get rid of them he cut her of lol These were naughty. And she was way to good for my liking! That's what pissed me off the most, that she is hotter than me lol But he is with you , why compare yourself to her I know but that's why I thought he kept them, to relive being with her. I think I'm mad, I'm sure he has forgotten, a good guy so I'll ask him about them. " I would never compare myself to his ex , why would i ? shes his ex oh and she was super hot | |||
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"Hubby had pics with his ex and family, not naughty pics lol , i would never have dreamed of telling him to get rid of them he cut her of lol These were naughty. And she was way to good for my liking! That's what pissed me off the most, that she is hotter than me lol But he is with you , why compare yourself to her I know but that's why I thought he kept them, to relive being with her. I think I'm mad, I'm sure he has forgotten, a good guy so I'll ask him about them. I would never compare myself to his ex , why would i ? shes his ex oh and she was super hot" | |||
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"Hubby had pics with his ex and family, not naughty pics lol , i would never have dreamed of telling him to get rid of them he cut her of lol These were naughty. And she was way to good for my liking! That's what pissed me off the most, that she is hotter than me lol But he is with you , why compare yourself to her I know but that's why I thought he kept them, to relive being with her. I think I'm mad, I'm sure he has forgotten, a good guy so I'll ask him about them. " We all have had various good times and bad times in life and relationships. Seh's his ex so presumably they had bad times as well as good. I ouldn't woudn't to keep photos of bad times, good times, why not? I haven't heven't even checked out your age, but maybe you two won't be together in 5 or 10 years time? One of you will be dead at some point in the future, maybe when he's 70 / 80 he will enjoy looking back on those days of paat glories? If anyone should have an acceptance of the fact that peoples sexual thoughts and feelings it's people on a site like this? | |||
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"So I was looking for a memory card and came across videos & pics of mr and his ex. Is there a reason why he would keep these? They are full on and she's very sexy which made me jealous and think he's kept these as a reminder?" omg really I think you should put the videos on later as a surprise | |||
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"So I was looking for a memory card and came across videos & pics of mr and his ex. Is there a reason why he would keep these? They are full on and she's very sexy which made me jealous and think he's kept these as a reminder?" We can all theorise why he disn't delete them you will only get the answer by asking him just be straight with him though and hopefully he will be te same back with you. | |||
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"As hot as she may look, he chose you. Who knows what the relationship was like, but seriously she could of been an utter bitch. My fwb showed me pics of his Ex, Stunning. He also said she was a vile person, selfish, abusive to her kids, abusive to him, and took drugs far more than she should of. Now trying to get back with him once she heard his career was taking off. He showed me her messages, started out nice, he told her he wasn't going back there. Then nastiness after he told her he'd moved on with someone beautiful inside and out. One way to describe me lol, and soon melted the insecurities. Your guy is with you, not her. Don't let her infringe any more than she should x " Thank you!!! | |||
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"So ... if he looks at your fab account and sees this post ... what then? " It was posted while Mr was away, all sorted thanks to here so it's all good! | |||
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