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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

had a d*unken nite out with my younger brother recently + found out he + his wife on swingingheaven, also found out he was fucking my ex wife on a regular basis back in the early 80s. my ex was a real flirt + tease so cant blame him realy but not sure how i shud feel ? part of me exicited but part of me gutted bcus she wasnt interested in swinging...anybody else found out secrets like this + how did you feel ?

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Was she your ex at the time when he was shagging her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nowt as queer as folk eh? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if I found out that my brother was shagging my ex at the same time as I was seeing her, it would seriously affect his health

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think id be pissed off with him ta be honest xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if I found out that my brother was shagging my ex at the same time as I was seeing her, it would seriously affect his health"

+1

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we were married at the time, he wasnt, i was in early 20s he was the same age as her late teens, weve grown closer 2gether this last year due to us losing our other brother to the big C so not guna let something that happen so long ago come btween us now !!!

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool


"if I found out that my brother was shagging my ex at the same time as I was seeing her, it would seriously affect his health"
i agree what a thing to do

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By *ellraisersCouple
over a year ago

Near Glasgow

Sorry to hear about your brother. You are right to let what's in the past stay there and appreciate the brother you still have.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"we were married at the time, he wasnt, i was in early 20s he was the same age as her late teens, weve grown closer 2gether this last year due to us losing our other brother to the big C so not guna let something that happen so long ago come btween us now !!! "

That is a very sensible way of thinking about it really. She is your ex now so no point worrying about what happened back then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think I would be too impressed with my brother doing things behind my back. it smacks of lack of respect. Fair enough if you had known at the time but not like that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanx to everone who vioced there opinion... will say blood is thicker than water + not guna fall out bcus of it....but now i know he + his wife our swingers...maybe its my turn ??? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

finding it hard getting round the fact a little bit of you is excited once you was told ffs your brother was fucking your wife....an affair does not make you a swinger...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You find it exciting that your brother was fucking your missus behind your back and you didn't know.

Blimey

He probably got off telling you that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we were married at the time, he wasnt, i was in early 20s he was the same age as her late teens, weve grown closer 2gether this last year due to us losing our other brother to the big C so not guna let something that happen so long ago come btween us now !!! "

Seems that you have sorted your priorities so stick with them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanx to everone who vioced there opinion... will say blood is thicker than water + not guna fall out bcus of it....but now i know he + his wife our swingers...maybe its my turn ??? lol "

What difference does it make that your brother and his ex are swingers? Being sexually liberated makes you prone to infidelity????

If you make a move on her you're as big a twat as he clearly is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meant to say brother and his wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it,s a tough one ,he was clearly wrong,and should have made you aware.we all make mistakes but that one was really stupid.time heals but hey ,never forget ,and really what would be the point revenge? move on with your own life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we were married at the time, he wasnt, i was in early 20s he was the same age as her late teens, weve grown closer 2gether this last year due to us losing our other brother to the big C so not guna let something that happen so long ago come btween us now !!! "
right i think what you should do is chat to him about this ...... saying you feel a bit peed off .. he was doing this when you was married to her .... and how would he have felt if it was him. Now this is years ago and people change and as you say your close .... things like this if not in open in time can make you mad and up-set and i know years ago so you need to chat ... you dont have to get nasty .... just say how your feeling and if he care about you he will lisen x jo xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think I would be too impressed with my brother doing things behind my back. it smacks of lack of respect. Fair enough if you had known at the time but not like that. "

actually i think its smacks a typical teenager, lets be honest most of us did things as a kid that we wouldnt do now, and obviously im not talking just about sex, they are older and wiser now and tho id make it clear i wasnt impressed i wouldnt fall out with someone over something they did as a teenager

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

im not looking for revenge + wont make a play for my sister in law behind my brothers back believe me, but have fancied her ever since they started dating. + now i know they swing who knows ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im not looking for revenge + wont make a play for my sister in law behind my brothers back believe me, but have fancied her ever since they started dating. + now i know they swing who knows ???"
WHO Knows ... could all end up having alot of fun .. maybe weird seeing brother shagging if all together , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds to me like your brother has become more honest and open, good on ye for seeing it as it probably was...a horny shag!

did yous compare notes? (her)

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By *cotscple4funCouple
over a year ago

lanarkshire


"had a d*unken nite out with my younger brother recently + found out he + his wife on swingingheaven, also found out he was fucking my ex wife on a regular basis back in the early 80s. my ex was a real flirt + tease so cant blame him realy but not sure how i shud feel ? part of me exicited but part of me gutted bcus she wasnt interested in swinging...anybody else found out secrets like this + how did you feel ? "
just shag his wife quits simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry to hear about your brother. You are right to let what's in the past stay there and appreciate the brother you still have.

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