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"ok ,i love it up my bum ,so i supose a bum is a bum .its easyer with a condom as they are pre lubed ,bare back is great ,the more you do it the easyer it becomes ,prob because your partner will relax more each time you do it. now to your point ,i have had a few blisters and even a tear ,they are very open to infection,seccreat is ,take it easy loads of lube ,fingers or small toys first ,then your cock ,but most of all lube even throught out your fuck keep on adding lube" | |||
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"ok ,i love it up my bum ,so i supose a bum is a bum .its easyer with a condom as they are pre lubed ,bare back is great ,the more you do it the easyer it becomes ,prob because your partner will relax more each time you do it. now to your point ,i have had a few blisters and even a tear ,they are very open to infection,seccreat is ,take it easy loads of lube ,fingers or small toys first ,then your cock ,but most of all lube even throught out your fuck keep on adding lube" ![]() | |||
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"I will probably get banned again from the forums. Having lost a baby son from Aids my reponse is ' dont' do it'... but it's your choice." It says "Is this true or is it ok with your (((long term partner)))" At the bottom of the ops post. | |||
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"So how about reading our profile then?" I really should learn to quote the post I'm answering, I was answering the OP's post, not yours. | |||
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"So let me think bareback anal.. that sounds good." With your partner that why would it be wrong? | |||
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"make it clear then. Happy barebacking" It seemed clear to everyone else.. I am sorry for your loss, but it doesnt mean you can condem the rest of the world.. Cali | |||
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"Good for you. You can't 'hear' AIDS so don't expect to hear anything. Just look for the physical signs." Well as it takes a lot to become that.. I just will get my regular checks.. although I am thinking I should quite troll feeding cali | |||
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"The OP is talking about bareback with his own partner!! OP....Enjoy ![]() Yeah so was I lol xx ![]() | |||
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"Good for you. You can't 'hear' AIDS so don't expect to hear anything. Just look for the physical signs." I too am sorry for your loss and agree that AIDS is not something to be taken lightly. It does beg the question as to why you would put yourselves at risk by involving others in your sex life when you have such strong _iews on safe sex? My intention is not to be critical, but most people are aware that no sexual practice is ever 100% safe even when using protection. To the OP, take your time, use loads of lube, stretch your partner slowly and keep her relaxed and you will have no problems. As for bareback, only you two can make that decision based on your knowledge and trust for each other. Final tip - make sure your finger nails are well trimmed with no sharp bits! | |||
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"The OP is talking about bareback with his own partner!! OP....Enjoy ![]() ![]() Wasn't aimed at you ![]() ![]() | |||
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"PS the reason we can still play is because we have 'knowledge' and fully understand the precautions etc. We have seen the devastation... a lot of people just think it's going to happen 'elsewhere' or it doesn't really exist etc. etc." But we are mostly on here very informed.. we all make informed choices.. For my partner and I.. its to sometimes go bare.. So we take that risk and get our check ups.. To the OP.. its nice that your still trying new things after being together so long.. cali | |||
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"The OP is talking about bareback with his own partner!! OP....Enjoy ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() No I know it wasn't I just used your post xx ![]() | |||
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"Hi everyone n thanks for your help ! We are both very sorry for your loss n did not want to upset anyone just wanted the facts so to speak . We have been married 23 years & are very happy so with us I no we are as safe as we can be and we would NEVER play without a condom outside of our relationship . But thank you all for your help !!!!" Then treat anal sex exactly the same. If you intend doing it with others, play safe. We can never eliminate all of the risks with swinging, we just make informed decisions. Many people keep anal for just themselves, it is one way of reducing the risks, but not all of them!! | |||
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"Sounds like we are spoiling everyones' fun...it's a pity that debates are disallowed on these forums. I fully expect to be put in the sin bin again for speaking my mind. Ciao" Debates are allowed... however your argument (opinion) is so strong that you seem to disregard that other people may disagree with you. I respect Cali (as she has mentioned on this thread) for her _iew on how she plays... I wouldn't do that myself but I don't deem it so wrong that I would condemn her for her choices. | |||
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"I respect your comments...thanks. Just wish and want people to be 'careful'. What people do is of course their own choice and I respect that. I wish everyone well but at least we don't need regular checkups...doesn't sound very nice.... and why have regular checkups if you are being careful in the first place." see and you say your informed.. I am sorry.. I dont mean to hijack a thread.. but being careful doenst mean you dont need check ups.. Thats where the danger lies.. as condoms dont protect totally... Cali | |||
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"never heard of this? we do bareback anal together and have never experienced any issues." Same here ![]() | |||
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"The OP is speaking about bareback anal with their partner, who I'm assuming they're already fluid bonded with. " +1 god knows what all this attention whoring about AIDS is. Nowhere in the original post where they talking about bareback with anyone other their partner. | |||
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"I respect your comments...thanks. Just wish and want people to be 'careful'. What people do is of course their own choice and I respect that. I wish everyone well but at least we don't need regular checkups...doesn't sound very nice.... and why have regular checkups if you are being careful in the first place." For someone who claims to know all about the dangers you come across as incredibly naive! To the OP, your thread has been hi-jacked by the sex police! Sorry about that. Congratulations on your relationship and have fun exploring new boundaries. Anal sex bareback is great and my wife and I love to include it in our lovemaking. We don't do it with anyone else as a big part of it is being relaxed enough to enjoy it and that comes with trust, which you obviously have. | |||
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" and why have regular checkups if you are being careful in the first place." Really ??? ![]() | |||
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"but you can also get aids from vaginal penatration " my cousin got it from a blood transfusion... he was only 40 when he died | |||
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"So you have regular DNA tests.. glad you can afford them. AIDS requires more than a smear. It's a bit mor than a litmus test" Ever person who goes to the GUM clinic now is automatically tested for HIV free of charge You used to have to opt in IE sign a form saying you accepted to be tested Now its opt out Cant actually see the DNA relevance myself in connection with HIV sorry | |||
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"Fine glad to hear that you are a regular visitor. Thank God our paths have never crossed." I think with your lack of sexual health awareness I think the same. I am tested often.. for everything.. Yes its more than a smear test.. I have oral swabs as well as HIV tests.. So sorry you lost a child but that is a tragic accident and something that happened that now wouldnt... because people learn and science progresses.. You seem to think that comdoms make you immune.. well sorry you should still be tested every couple of months. Cali | |||
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"this is some of the worst trolling I have ever seen, if its not then someone should really take your computer away. " ![]() | |||
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"this is some of the worst trolling I have ever seen, if its not then someone should really take your computer away. ![]() i think someone is either very damaged , or trolling, i think it is best not to reply to any more of their posts. If they use condoms for sex with their partner, that is their choice, engaging with them about why we trust those we are fluid bonded with is not going to do anything ![]() | |||
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"DNA and HIV are very closely related. That's what viruses do. They are not living organsisms... they invade you DNA. If you don't believe me then read up on it." Are you for real? You hijack a thread to stand on your soapbox and then spill out your misinformed and quite frankly ludicrous opinions! | |||
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"DNA and HIV are very closely related. That's what viruses do. They are not living organsisms... they invade you DNA. If you don't believe me then read up on it. Are you for real? You hijack a thread to stand on your soapbox and then spill out your misinformed and quite frankly ludicrous opinions!" don't seriously dont bother... OP i love anal sex,never heard of the probems u mention...i dont tend to use lube (oi who said i dont need it ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"a douche or home enema kit can ensure no sweetcorn where you dont want to see it ![]() Ewwwww!!! ![]() | |||
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"a douche or home enema kit can ensure no sweetcorn where you dont want to see it ![]() ![]() Ohhh its my fave position for anal ![]() | |||
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"Not entirely sure why AIDS caught by blood transfusion has come up in a post about anal sex. " because one poster is on a mission to either troll the entire forum or is so damaged and hurt by the events of their life any excuse to post about it. Just remember the OP started this thread about anal sex without a condom with his long term partner and its been hijacked by someone with a serious agenda. | |||
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"Ohhh its my fave position for anal ![]() Women on top always better for control. Men tend to just ram it in if they're all horny! | |||
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"Not entirely sure why AIDS caught by blood transfusion has come up in a post about anal sex. because one poster is on a mission to either troll the entire forum or is so damaged and hurt by the events of their life any excuse to post about it. Just remember the OP started this thread about anal sex without a condom with his long term partner and its been hijacked by someone with a serious agenda. " so lets all give the op useful advice...i am sure many of us have fave positons ect ![]() | |||
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"Ohhh its my fave position for anal ![]() (rolf) you have such a way with words | |||
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"Not entirely sure why AIDS caught by blood transfusion has come up in a post about anal sex. because one poster is on a mission to either troll the entire forum or is so damaged and hurt by the events of their life any excuse to post about it. Just remember the OP started this thread about anal sex without a condom with his long term partner and its been hijacked by someone with a serious agenda. " Yes I guessed that they have an agenda. Luckily they seem to have buggered off at last and left the thread for what it was originally for. | |||
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"Ohhh its my fave position for anal ![]() I know! ![]() | |||
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"a douche or home enema kit can ensure no sweetcorn where you dont want to see it ![]() ![]() ![]() Actually I find doggy the best way if they are bigger because I can move myself to a position that I can accomodate the entire length.. ![]() | |||
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"a douche or home enema kit can ensure no sweetcorn where you dont want to see it ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() i agree bout the switching holes( ie i am milling to take the riks with sir or kev) but just thought they should be informed so they can make the decision. Interestingly i love face to face with sir cos i feel more dominated thta way ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Sorry in advance if you think I'm incredibly stupid, but what is "trolling"? ![]() posting on a forum to cause upset or get a reaction from regulars... From urban dictionary Being a prick on the internet because you can. Typically unleashing one or more cynical or sarcastic remarks on an innocent by-stander, because it's the internet and, hey, you can. Guy: "I just found the coolest ninja pencil in existence." Other Guy: "I just found the most retarded thread in existence." | |||
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"Sorry in advance if you think I'm incredibly stupid, but what is "trolling"? ![]() Ohhh better definition ![]() | |||
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"Fine glad to hear that you are a regular visitor. Thank God our paths have never crossed." Well we agree on that for sure | |||
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"am ignorant to this? are the blisters caused by friction? I would have imagined a lubed cock would be more gentle than a lubed cock with rubber on it. " before it kicked off, I did ask the above? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"as i stated in another thread .... these trolls keep banging on about safe everything ... yet they're both smokers ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I love this place.. I learn something new every day.. thanks ![]() ![]() Me too, now I know what trolling is lol ![]() | |||
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"I love this place.. I learn something new every day.. thanks ![]() ![]() ![]() I'm glad you asked because I didn't know either ![]() | |||
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