FabSwingers.com forum: Cross dressing and TV

By *picknspan OP Man
over a year ago

North West Leeds

I have a question that is a genuine enquiry.

As a Cross Dresser or TV (I am unsure if there is a difference or whether they are alternative names for the same) do you strive to feel like a woman or look like a woman?

Or is it both?

Or do individuals have different intentions?

I have never had a desire or inclination to cross dress and so I ask this question in the hope of some revelation.

Thank you

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By *allyCD123TV/TS
over a year ago

Wexford

as someone with no inclination to dress its a bit of a strange question to ask??? For me its to look and feel feminine but for every CD it may well be different.

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

I once walked by the bedroom of my mate's sister, as she was fastening up her suspender clips to her stockings. She gave me a look I'll never forget. But the whole scene I witnessed was what made me fall in love with stockings. Out of nowhere the thought came of "how does it feel to be a girl being f*@%ed?" How i reached that point I cannot answer, it just happened. When I finally found out how it felt, I was addicted. In truth, it's nowhere near what a real woman feels. Biologically, why were men given a prostate? and when massaged can deliver a trembling orgasm?

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By *ony 529Man
over a year ago

coventry

For me it's simple... when I'm dressed up it does change my thought process into bi senareos... and would do all most anything sexuality, but I never think of trying to pass myself off as a woman !! I sure most lady's out there enjoy that sexy feeling of slipping into a nice pair of stockings

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

I strive to be myself.

There was a time I thought I could be a woman.

I was destined to fail every time I went out, because I am not.

I realised I could not be anyone except me.

So I resolved to be the best "me" I could be.

Now, every time I go out I succeed, because I understand who I am and who I am not.

And I have the confidence knowing I made the best job of what I have, not of what I don't have.

Hopefully this makes sense.

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

"I have a question that is a genuine enquiry.

As a Cross Dresser or TV (I am unsure if there is a difference or whether they are alternative names for the same) do you strive to feel like a woman or look like a woman?

Or is it both?

Or do individuals have different intentions?

I have never had a desire or inclination to cross dress and so I ask this question in the hope of some revelation.

Thank you"

Me I just like going to my allotment dressed planting spuds. The sex part is a peripheral bonus.

Sex as a woman heightens the erotic factor , women are the personification of sex as far as I'm concerned.

Guess that's why Eve tempted Adam and not the other way round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dress because I choose to. I don't look or act like a woman, not do I want to. I don't do wigs or makeup. Iam a man who gets a thrill out of X dressing, I do it for me.

My wife likes it as well, which is a bonus as she sometimes buys me things to wear.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"I strive to be myself.

There was a time I thought I could be a woman.

I was destined to fail every time I went out, because I am not.

I realised I could not be anyone except me.

So I resolved to be the best "me" I could be.

Hopefully this makes sense.

Exactly this

Thank you for putting it very eloquently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm married to a TV who is also on fabs (Jenny_TV) and for her it is both, but only in a sexual capacity. At all other times he is definitely a he, but talk about making Jenny get on her knees a suck cock and she's defo wanting to look and feel female. Some of it is the sensation of the clothing too. Tight dress, tights, high shoes. Her look is classy slut I'd say.

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

Suppose it's different for everyone, and it also changes over time.

As a young teen it was the feel of the clothes on my body, it was a huge turn on - it still is.

Over time the idea of having sex with a man came to the fore, and I found anal sex to be wonderful.

Now, I enjoy dressing for sex but I also enjoy dressing just to go out.

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By *erriAnneTV/TS
over a year ago

The shire

I like to feel fem and being out shopping or just going to the coop or for diesel is where I get my thrill. Sex is an extra bonus for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I strive to be myself.

There was a time I thought I could be a woman.

I was destined to fail every time I went out, because I am not.

I realised I could not be anyone except me.

So I resolved to be the best "me" I could be.

Now, every time I go out I succeed, because I understand who I am and who I am not.

And I have the confidence knowing I made the best job of what I have, not of what I don't have.

Hopefully this makes sense.

It makes perfect sense. Thank you for sharing.

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By *picknspan OP Man
over a year ago

North West Leeds

I appreciate the comments, views,thoughts, opinions and candid honesty of those who have answered.

If I have asked the question in a way that demeans or some how appears to lessen the desires or actions of an individual who explores their own life, personality or self through this 'fashion' then I apologise as it was never meant to be the case.

I simply wondered what the differing (or general) thought processes were/are since I have not experienced them.

It is not something that I am seeking detail of to judge, praise or criticise just to answer a curiosity that entered my mind.

Thanks to all

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"I strive to be myself.

There was a time I thought I could be a woman.

I was destined to fail every time I went out, because I am not.

I realised I could not be anyone except me.

So I resolved to be the best "me" I could be.

Now, every time I go out I succeed, because I understand who I am and who I am not.

And I have the confidence knowing I made the best job of what I have, not of what I don't have.

Hopefully this makes sense.

It makes perfect sense. Thank you for sharing.

I echo these thoughts too, put in a lovely way and mostly.... whether you have gender dysphoria or simply love the clothes its just us being us

Being a girl or acting like one is a fun thing to do on many levels.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

When I’m fully dressed (wig, make up etc..) I’m very much in my feminine self, enjoying feeling more softer and comfortable in myself.

As in bloke mode, enjoy the usual stuff, Motorbikes, Football and makeup ....sorry I mean grrr ..... meat

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

I’m a tv

Not a cd

I have my own clothes and a full range of lingerie, shoes, outfits, coats, make up, wigs etc

I love the feeling of women’s clothes, I love looking at myself as Stella

I’m amazed he w good it feels even if I’m not really that convincing..

Thing is I’m not into other men...

I just like sex and love dressing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I strive to be myself.

There was a time I thought I could be a woman.

I was destined to fail every time I went out, because I am not.

I realised I could not be anyone except me.

So I resolved to be the best "me" I could be.

Now, every time I go out I succeed, because I understand who I am and who I am not.

And I have the confidence knowing I made the best job of what I have, not of what I don't have.

Hopefully this makes sense.

Makes a lot of sense to me Sara! X

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"Being a girl or acting like one is a fun thing to do on many levels. "

I'm not a girl, I'll never look like one, but I certainly love the clothes and being on the receiving end of a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such a honest and interesting chst. Thanks for sharing all. Makes total sense and quite inspiring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know, I'm honestly confused by all of the terms: CD, TV, TS, Gender Fluid, pansexual, etc, etc and Googling it doesn't help. As a male, I empathise with women a lot more and feel comfortable around them. I definitely don't look at men. When dressed as female, I love going out, shops, theatre, etc and it's not sexual but I feel so much more confident and comfortable in myself. I still don't find men attractive but I do think about sucking cock and being fucked. Not acted on it and don't know what that makes me but there it is!

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"I still don't find men attractive but I do think about sucking cock and being fucked. Not acted on it and don't know what that makes me but there it is! "

Me neither, not attracted to men but love being fucked by them. It's an odd thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The times where I've loved the cock but not what it is attached to lol

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By *allyCD123TV/TS
over a year ago

Wexford

Know what you mean it is odd the dark recesses of the mind LOL

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"You know, I'm honestly confused by all of the terms: CD, TV, TS, Gender Fluid, pansexual, etc, etc and Googling it doesn't help. As a male, I empathise with women a lot more and feel comfortable around them. I definitely don't look at men. When dressed as female, I love going out, shops, theatre, etc and it's not sexual but I feel so much more confident and comfortable in myself. I still don't find men attractive but I do think about sucking cock and being fucked. Not acted on it and don't know what that makes me but there it is! "
A curious CD I'd say...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say for me, I'm very aware of this female part of me, so naturally for me it's both. I feel female and I want to look how I picture my female self. So I strive as best I can to do that through my makeup, shaving everything, wig choice, outfit choice etc.

With the whole labels thing I struggle to think of something that I feel fits, many would say TV, I often say TS but that doesn't quite fit right. I've thought about using 'polar gender fluid' as I'm never in-between genders but very comfortable at either end. But that doesn't sound right either and kinda pretentious lol.

Sexually it's interesting, as we both identify as pansexual, but I'm very much bottom with guys, I just can't fuck guys, have tried. But he's probably a toppy switch as he's fucked guys, but yet to have been fucked by one... Oral, we are both really into mutual oral

With women and other trans we just go with the flow and happy for whatever role.

So yeah for me(us) it's a big mix of different things in one person that present in different ways, some are interchangeable, others are very specific to who is presenting

Hope that spew of thoughts makes sense lol x

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I would say I'm CD, I like the feel of wearing female underwear, stocking, hold ups, knickers and a Basque. However when out that's under mail clothing. I have tried full T-Girl but shit at it to be frank. What I do now is a turn on for me and for some others, I accept not everyone.

I enjoy the feel of womens underwear far more than mens, far more sensitive and tactile. I would neverbe a convincing T-Girl whatever dresses or make up I wore.

I'll stick to what feeels good for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I allways thought a TV was a television

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By *erriAnneTV/TS
over a year ago

The shire

"I allways thought a TV was a television "

Oh my....how original are you???. We've never heard that before. Please do keep us enthralled with your whit and snappy comments.

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By *ony 529Man
over a year ago

coventry

"I allways thought a TV was a television

Oh my....how original are you???. We've never heard that before. Please do keep us enthralled with your whit and snappy comments. "

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I'm a man with a typical man's life to most people.

When I'm dressed, it makes me feel good, I love the feeling of wearing ladies cloths, gives me lots of confidence and turns me on. The sex I have as Alex is so much better than when I'm in male mode, plus I get to meet lots of great people.

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By *enbobjimMan
over a year ago

Wallasey

Really interesting see what everyone else is going through. I love the feel and the taboo of dressing. I look ridiculous I know but it feels good. Exploring my bi side love cock but don’t find men attractive. I still need the female influence ie mmf of tv/cd.

Nice to know I’m not on my own thanks ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really interesting see what everyone else is going through. I love the feel and the taboo of dressing. I look ridiculous I know but it feels good. Exploring my bi side love cock but don’t find men attractive. I still need the female influence ie mmf of tv/cd.

Nice to know I’m not on my own thanks ??"

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

Yes of course there is a difference, it's wide spectrum, one label doesn't fit all.

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By *aige CoolTV/TS
over a year ago

north west

As a teen I used to get comments that I looked like a girl I used to blush as I felt feminine but not a girl as the years went by I dressed and it felt and still feels normal for me .sex is like an exiting extra .

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I'm a man with a typical man's life to most people.

I know exactly what you mean about what you mean about the sex being better when you're Alex. Even though I'm only wearing lingerie I find it so much erotic especially with a woman. For me the turn on starts when I start to pull on the stockings, such a wonderful sensation

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By *oppolocosTV/TS
over a year ago

inverurie

Would love to be convincing, but it's never going to happen. Sometimes I love how girly I look, other times it's the sight of a hard cock bulging in a pair of silky panties.

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By *emmahearttgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

northwest

Think of it like a rainbow.... there are very different reasons why Tgirls wish to present as female. I personally have felt in the wrong body since I was a child and I have very little in common with the male world. some girls like to dress because of how the clothes feel , others find the experience sexualy charging , some girls just like to be a girl every now and then and some Tgirls just feel happier and correct as a woman and wish to transition..... and everything inbetween. As with anybody else we are all unique xx xx

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By *andyMinx_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

"Think of it like a rainbow.... there are very different reasons why Tgirls wish to present as female. I personally have felt in the wrong body since I was a child and I have very little in common with the male world. some girls like to dress because of how the clothes feel , others find the experience sexualy charging , some girls just like to be a girl every now and then and some Tgirls just feel happier and correct as a woman and wish to transition..... and everything inbetween. As with anybody else we are all unique xx xx "

This is such an astute post. Personally, I'm bi-gender and relish the opportunity to live two lives. Not many people take that opportunity but it's quite an experience to see life from differing sides. Unique indeed

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