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By *erenowforyou OP   Man
over a year ago

Bath

Need some help why I am finding hard to meet someone on here.

Appreciate any feedback on my profile on how I can make it more appealing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I took a look at your profile and it seems fine. Damn it look s a lot like mine. And I am hardly Mr successful perhaps it is the wrong place...

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

other than wondering about the psychic moment(can u tell me the lottery numbers) its fine...few too many mentions of the word discretion, but thats nit picking. Very few swingers go around telling their auntie ethel what they get up to.

Thats the problem, its fine, it doesnt stand out in any way...what else are you doing to meet people. Are you active in chat, on the socials, in clubs ?

This is just an internet site, when it comes down to it you get into swinging what you are willing to put in.

Oh and quite a few ppl ,including me delete messages with no profile pic, you actually have to go to your profile to see you have pics, and then its just the same one twice.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I took a look at your profile and it seems fine. Damn it look s a lot like mine. And I am hardly Mr successful perhaps it is the wrong place..."

Yours says what you want and gives absolutely no reason to meet you...what are you going to do for me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Need some help why I am finding hard to meet someone on here.

Appreciate any feedback on my profile on how I can make it more appealing."

Your pants aren't special enough, they look like everyones elses and tell us nothing about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've been on here two weeks! Must seem like an age when you're feeling horny. And that's just the trouble, so many young men sign on here because they are feeling horny at the time and that's great, but its a completely different story when it comes to making a meet. Our experience (and we have been around since the dawn of the dinosaur, well before the pc anyhow) is that most young men bottle it when it comes to getting in the car and going to meet strangers for sex. So all I can say is calm down and look at it from a different view point and start to think about what you are doing and why and come up with a plan that works, instead of sending off a mass of e-mails and getting pissed off with not having any luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've been on here two weeks! Must seem like an age when you're feeling horny. And that's just the trouble, so many young men sign on here because they are feeling horny at the time and that's great, but its a completely different story when it comes to making a meet. Our experience (and we have been around since the dawn of the dinosaur, well before the pc anyhow) is that most young men bottle it when it comes to getting in the car and going to meet strangers for sex. So all I can say is calm down and look at it from a different view point and start to think about what you are doing and why and come up with a plan that works, instead of sending off a mass of e-mails and getting pissed off with not having any luck. "

He's been on here for 6 months..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Need some help why I am finding hard to meet someone on here.

Appreciate any feedback on my profile on how I can make it more appealing."

Better pics might help.. without seeing what messages you're sending out, it's hard to give any other advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It took me just 9 days on this site to get a meet. That is not bad!

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By *rs and mr sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

Boldon


"It took me just 9 days on this site to get a meet. That is not bad!"

It took me no time at all! - I was verified within 10 mins of joining as had been shagging a guy off this site and as soon as I joined he verified me. That was back in my single days - seems such a long time ago now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It took me just 9 days on this site to get a meet. That is not bad!"
Shaven heads always do well, we are the chosen people!..that it!! Yer hairs too bloody long!

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

i ain't the expert but a face pic will help, maybe use it as yer avatar too so people can decide if there is a reason to look at your profile. Other than that keep going, it can take a while to kick off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put a photo on Andy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the profile was emulsion it would be magnolia - totaly bland.

Too many profiles seem to be about attemptuing to cover all bases with generic soundbites, while ensuring nobody is put off by avoiding specifics. Always seems a bit desperate too me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the profile was emulsion it would be magnolia - totaly bland.

Too many profiles seem to be about attemptuing to cover all bases with generic soundbites, while ensuring nobody is put off by avoiding specifics. Always seems a bit desperate too me."

Dont hold back hey lol tell him what ya really think. Enough to put the poor chap right off that lol sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Need some help why I am finding hard to meet someone on here.

Appreciate any feedback on my profile on how I can make it more appealing."

Your profile says large and you haven't any pictures on. Now this makes us think how large and in what way. It makes us apprehensive so it might just do the same for others. Add pictures as it is bound to help.

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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago

harrow


"Better pics might help.. without seeing what messages you're sending out, it's hard to give any other advice "

Yes, with an example of your messages, we could pull that to bits as well.

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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago

harrow

Apologies. A moment of madness.

To the OP, you've had loads of good advice.

Put up some photos, and get out to the socials.

Oh, and patience, lots of patience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I took a look at your profile and it seems fine. Damn it look s a lot like mine. And I am hardly Mr successful perhaps it is the wrong place...

Yours says what you want and gives absolutely no reason to meet you...what are you going to do for me?"

To be fair, there are a lot of profiles on here like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile looks ok to me but definitely needs more pics. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9 months and still waiting!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Need some help why I am finding hard to meet someone on here.

Appreciate any feedback on my profile on how I can make it more appealing."

This is a website and a virtual world. You need to charm someone into stepping into the real world for an encounter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would edit out the phsycic moments as the spelling is wrong and it makes you sound like you may contain nuts.

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