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By *thleticgirth OP   Man
over a year ago

wirral

Having been on here with an ex as a couple and now as a single male, id love to meet a local girl who i could have a normal bf/gf relationship but also to enjoy swinging with. I know people have met partners on here but there must be woman looking for the same. Would also be good with the list of likes to find someone with similar likes.

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Having been on here with an ex as a couple and now as a single male, id love to meet a local girl who i could have a normal bf/gf relationship but also to enjoy swinging with. I know people have met partners on here but there must be woman looking for the same. Would also be good with the list of likes to find someone with similar likes. "

No there are sites made especially for that this is a swingers site not a dating site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is an idea as other normal dating apps arent involved in swinging or swinger related so at least to meet on a dating/swinging site youd know theres mutual liking for it and the subject is therr on the table to discuss

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By *thleticgirth OP   Man
over a year ago

wirral

There are but fab is well established, maybe less a dating section then and more a relationship post board.

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By *thleticgirth OP   Man
over a year ago

wirral

Yeah that’s exactly my thoughts too.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Yes. I would love to meet someone on here looking for a proper relationship to swing with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience of the 'mainstream' dating sites a lot of the people on them are also on FAB anyway

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Ppl moan about time wasters as it is, I just think it would bring alot more single guys to the site and many more fake profiles, maybe an icon on your profile to let others know you'd be looking for a relationship, however I think that would turn alot of ppl off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is a great idea. I agree there are dating sites to go on for a relationship .. However not all of them are for swingers

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I think this is a great idea. I agree there are dating sites to go on for a relationship .. However not all of them are for swingers "

But surly swinging is about no strings,not relationships with feelings and stuff, I'd be a bit worried if we had someone in our home and they were looking for a relationship whoes to say they wouldn't try put a spanner in the works coz he/she likes one half of a couple

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By *thleticgirth OP   Man
over a year ago

wirral

I mean singles for singles who can then form a relationship and go on to play with couples etc but as well as sex can go out for a nice meal in the week or cuddle on the sofa. In the normal dating world you go out, have a few dates, like the person, bring up the dreaded “do you like the thought of swinging” they say no and then if it’s in you and they dont like it then I think its easier to date with someone you already know does.

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I mean singles for singles who can then form a relationship and go on to play with couples etc but as well as sex can go out for a nice meal in the week or cuddle on the sofa. In the normal dating world you go out, have a few dates, like the person, bring up the dreaded “do you like the thought of swinging” they say no and then if it’s in you and they dont like it then I think its easier to date with someone you already know does. "
but can't that be done as it is now there are many fuck buddy profiles ,if you've met someone and you like each other couldn't you ask them

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

There are lots of people looking for that. If you hit it off ask them.

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By *inkyKittyWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

I think this would be a good idea. But what’s stopping you mentioning on your profile that you are actively seeking a partner for a relationship to swing with?

I know there are sites for dating, but having gone down that route myself, they don’t understand the swinging world. I’ve met a fella on here and the relationship was beautiful, but just be careful the swinging doesn’t take over your relationship to stay strong xx

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"There are lots of people looking for that. If you hit it off ask them. "

Exactly this, fab already allows for the whole spectrum by stating on your profile what you are looking for.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I think this is a great idea. I agree there are dating sites to go on for a relationship .. However not all of them are for swingers

But surly swinging is about no strings,not relationships with feelings and stuff, I'd be a bit worried if we had someone in our home and they were looking for a relationship whoes to say they wouldn't try put a spanner in the works coz he/she likes one half of a couple "

You are already in a swinging relationship as a couple, why can't us singles have the chance to do this with fellow single swingers?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"There are lots of people looking for that. If you hit it off ask them.

Exactly this, fab already allows for the whole spectrum by stating on your profile what you are looking for.

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And profiles don't get read.

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By *thleticgirth OP   Man
over a year ago

wirral

Yeah i know you can put that but how many profiles have you got to go through to find people who are. Much easier to locate the people that do if it had the tab to do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like dating site already.

Those apps (which we all know) are now for dating but used to be for quick hook ups. They got hijacked by the desperate singles.

Now they're coming here for their fun but actually want BFs.

Sod off & leave us whorebags to it please!

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

I can see both sides of the debate lol

But I suspect a ‘dating’ section will probably bring the same complaints that people make on these forums already : fake profiles, times wasters, misleading pics etc etc

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By *attooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Expand to a dating section maybe but this is a swinging site

I find it really awkward when someone thinks that just because I like a cuddle after sex and a chat that suddenly I’m looking to date

Swinging is swinging

Go fish for a bf/gf on the 100 other sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it should, I met my hubby on here.

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Yes !

Yes !

Yes !

Yes !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think this is a great idea. I agree there are dating sites to go on for a relationship .. However not all of them are for swingers

But surly swinging is about no strings,not relationships with feelings and stuff, I'd be a bit worried if we had someone in our home and they were looking for a relationship whoes to say they wouldn't try put a spanner in the works coz he/she likes one half of a couple

You are already in a swinging relationship as a couple, why can't us singles have the chance to do this with fellow single swingers? "

My thoughts exactly Woody x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having been on here with an ex as a couple and now as a single male, id love to meet a local girl who i could have a normal bf/gf relationship but also to enjoy swinging with. I know people have met partners on here but there must be woman looking for the same. Would also be good with the list of likes to find someone with similar likes. "

Sure lets get pof to add a swing section too

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

I think it is used as a dating site anyway, a lot of people on here are looking for a partner and one that as the interests in swinging no doubt, so no harm really although don’t see why the need of a separate area, singles will find singles anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m using like that there’s some people on here who are just hungry for sex no swinging etc

Tinder and pof are as bad people just aren’t as open

This is like naked attraction in some cases you get to meet people but have seen them already

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I think if you want a relationship and are actively seek such then you're on the wrong site go on a dating site and put you're a swingers on there and as so many of you are already on those sites as someone pointed out, then you'd be snapped up surely?

I just think why so many ppl want to change things when it's perfectly fine as it is

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By *oodyshere2011Man
over a year ago

Midlands

I don’t see why there couldn’t be a part of the forum for this, it wouldn’t harm anyone and for people that did want this it would work.

Still doesn’t mean it will work , haha

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By *etroHairyTeamCouple
over a year ago

London

Wonderful idea... Was married twice for many happy years to two wonderful swinging ladies.

No secrets, no regrets...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabswingers? No.

But that's not to say they shouldn't open a dating site called maybe fab dating.

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Fabswingers? No.

But that's not to say they shouldn't open a dating site called maybe fab dating. "

All for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having been on here with an ex as a couple and now as a single male, id love to meet a local girl who i could have a normal bf/gf relationship but also to enjoy swinging with. I know people have met partners on here but there must be woman looking for the same. Would also be good with the list of likes to find someone with similar likes. "

Be a great idea. Love to meet someone with similar life style .. other sites are not swingers sites. like everything.. if your not interested dont look. hopefully some good relationships could unfold. We all deserve happiness

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

It’s quite funny when you see all the usual suspects on here and every other site going

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