FabSwingers.com forum: Never Cum from a BJ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you were with a guy that tells you that he has never cum from a blow job, how would you feel? Would you see it as a challenge? If so, how would you feel if you still didn't get him to?

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

Wouldn't see it as a challenge and wouldn't care...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"If you were with a guy that tells you that he has never cum from a blow job, how would you feel? Would you see it as a challenge? If so, how would you feel if you still didn't get him to?"

Wouldnt care less, sex is fun. If he didnt cum id know i wasnt alone in not making him cum. I dont try to be bigger and better than everyone else or think im the best shag on the planet. Its all fun to me,

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By *rPandSlutCouple
over a year ago

wakefield

Id get into a... oooh i must be the first to make him mode lol, and would give him a utterly awesome bj :D Even if he didn't come i'd love the challenge :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you were with a guy that tells you that he has never cum from a blow job, how would you feel? Would you see it as a challenge? If so, how would you feel if you still didn't get him to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasnt until i had been with hubby a while that he ammited he dosnt cum this way either.....

I thought no way it just dosnt happen.

ALL the other men i've been with i can make cum oraly.

In all our time together i have only made it happen once oraly with hubby.

With all the other women hes been with nobody has managed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I don't cum.. either gett too excited.. but I agree with the other posts.. sex is fun.. if it has happened before then i wouldn't worry..

I think my main worry would be cumming to fast...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my husband never comes from oral sex, does not bother me.

He does not come through oral sex full stop so i know its not me.

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By *Y MAN n MECouple
over a year ago

FIFE

"Wasnt until i had been with hubby a while that he ammited he dosnt cum this way either.....

I thought no way it just dosnt happen.

ALL the other men i've been with i can make cum oraly.

In all our time together i have only made it happen once oraly with hubby.

With all the other women hes been with nobody has managed it

OMG I thought I was the only one with a hubby like this.... I feel so much better now. its fun trying though

new friends try so hard coz he don't tell them... oops you secrets out now love

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

Not all blokes cum from oral. I very rarely do even though I love it. Penetration is different though, its hard to last then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never cum from a blowjob though I had one girl before get really close, felt like I was going to passout???

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

Feels incredible though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It dont matter does it... Unless he has said make me cum..which he wont if he normally cant... Personally some woman have, some havent but never a problem as ther are other things to to do!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to take quite an interest in this thread, I too can't cum from a blowjob, plenty of people have used the 'well you haven't tried me yet' approach.. but it ends the same way lol.

Although I guess I've always felt it a waste and want to be cumming elsewhere :D

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Depending on how your partner would feel and to what extent they could/would wish to try letting them do the motion of fucking the lips and mouth. Slowly and long in bursts or as rigorous as you feel comfortable with. Sometimes i cannot come through being sucked. If i ask to take over and she's certainly willing to let me - it will definately work and result in coming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id get into a... oooh i must be the first to make him mode lol, and would give him a utterly awesome bj :D Even if he didn't come i'd love the challenge :D"

That's why I have never cum from a BJ

oops except this time and next time and....

Actually I don't very often, but have to take a few minutes between mouth and pussy or I have zero staying power, If I hold out long enough then I can sometimes last for hours but then can't cum at all.

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By *esmond70Man
over a year ago

tavistock

i cum in fact i spurt feel sorry for the lady doing it. im a heavy cummer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if any of you ladies want to practice your technique I'm prepared to make myself available.

Well, if you don't ask, you don't get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its funny isnt it how we walk around thinking omg i'm the only one yet when a thread goes up you find out your not.

See it does pay to be honest xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not offering services lol but good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its funny isnt it how we walk around thinking omg i'm the only one yet when a thread goes up you find out your not.

See it does pay to be honest xxxx"

Amen to that! I thought I was "weird" as no-one has ever made me come from a bj, and only rarely from a wank. Glad that penetration still works though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was a teenager I couldn't come through getting a blow job. Think I had a block that just wouldn't let me, maybe thinking that the girl wouldn't like it. With hindsight I now realise that at least one female really wanted me to, and must have been really frustrating for her. Thankfully I eventually got over this , and I love coming this way now.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

i would assume he was trying to get me to prove something and walk away , very quickly, i am not a performing seal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, i've never been able to cum this way. Do tend to mention it as previous partners have sometimes been a bit disconcerted that I last more than 5mins despite their amazing oral skills lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same with me. I did a few times when I was 21 and those were my first but never since.

Prefer to cum else where.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you were with a guy that tells you that he has never cum from a blow job, how would you feel? Would you see it as a challenge? If so, how would you feel if you still didn't get him to?"

You find after a while with a number of women some are far better at oral than others. They are not born to do it you have to instruct them to what you like.

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

I'd just carry on regardless until he asked me to stop but as a previous poster says - it's a whole lot of fun trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can come from oral and as ever I come hard and heavy, but not from the sucking alone.

The sucking mouth upon the end of my prong is what inevitably tips me over the edge, but only when a willing hand works my shaft, rubbing up and down upon the pump till I'm ready to explode is orgasm possible most of the time.

Needless to say I enjoy this immensely...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't let guys cum in my mouth so it wouldn't be a problem for me. I've not had anyone not get to orgasm from oral even people who say they can't cum from it usually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd just carry on regardless until he asked me to stop but as a previous poster says - it's a whole lot of fun trying

every time

Takes forever for me to pop - I find it a curse sometimes. I'd love to be able to set the controls where I want em to be, but hey.... I have an awful lot of fun being slowly cajoled over the edge - the drop is out of your control so it's way way better than having the handle on it yourself when buried...

Wolf

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

I can't cum through oral and im not arsed....pisses me off when men say that they'll do it. Tbh im not very clitoral and tend to cum through penetration if i cum at all. I know its me and my block somehow but as long as I've had a right good seeing to, im happy

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