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By *ed Petal OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent

We were in a club this weekend. We mistakenly thought it was a couples’ night, but we were wrong. We’ve been on mixed nights before and have become quite used to not letting the single guys put us off and a respectful guy may even get lucky.

But that night we had: lots of staring, men gradually and obviously moving closer & closer while staring, men touching E without asking permission to join first, following us en masses from area to area and worst of all, continuously rattling the door handle of the locked playroom and banging the door, as if that would entice us to let them in. Do these men really think all of the above will get them to fuck E?? Guess who did get lucky though, the guy who was friendly, no pressure and had a good chat & laugh with us. That’s how you do it, guys. That’s how you do it

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


"We were in a club this weekend. We mistakenly thought it was a couples’ night, but we were wrong. We’ve been on mixed nights before and have become quite used to not letting the single guys put us off and a respectful guy may even get lucky.

But that night we had: lots of staring, men gradually and obviously moving closer & closer while staring, men touching E without asking permission to join first, following us en masses from area to area and worst of all, continuously rattling the door handle of the locked playroom and banging the door, as if that would entice us to let them in. Do these men really think all of the above will get them to fuck E?? Guess who did get lucky though, the guy who was friendly, no pressure and had a good chat & laugh with us. That’s how you do it, guys. That’s how you do it "

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

did u not complain to managment

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By *ed Petal OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent


"did u not complain to managment"

Management seemed pretty ineffective, tbh. Regulars said it was always like that.

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

where was the clu. as we will be avoiding it

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By *ed Petal OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent


"where was the clu. as we will be avoiding it"

It was abroad

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

aw right havent been to any clubs abroad

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By *lattyukbiMan
over a year ago

Rugby


"We were in a club this weekend. We mistakenly thought it was a couples’ night, but we were wrong. We’ve been on mixed nights before and have become quite used to not letting the single guys put us off and a respectful guy may even get lucky.

But that night we had: lots of staring, men gradually and obviously moving closer & closer while staring, men touching E without asking permission to join first, following us en masses from area to area and worst of all, continuously rattling the door handle of the locked playroom and banging the door, as if that would entice us to let them in. Do these men really think all of the above will get them to fuck E?? Guess who did get lucky though, the guy who was friendly, no pressure and had a good chat & laugh with us. That’s how you do it, guys. That’s how you do it "

That’s what I try to get across to newbies at my local club... some get it... some... well... it seems they were first in the queue for brains, but had to hold the door for every other bugger!

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

Standard MO for Rio's. Best try another "club".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were in a club this weekend. We mistakenly thought it was a couples’ night, but we were wrong. We’ve been on mixed nights before and have become quite used to not letting the single guys put us off and a respectful guy may even get lucky.

But that night we had: lots of staring, men gradually and obviously moving closer & closer while staring, men touching E without asking permission to join first, following us en masses from area to area and worst of all, continuously rattling the door handle of the locked playroom and banging the door, as if that would entice us to let them in. Do these men really think all of the above will get them to fuck E?? Guess who did get lucky though, the guy who was friendly, no pressure and had a good chat & laugh with us. That’s how you do it, guys. That’s how you do it "

Yeah once had a guy try to physically hold the door open to a private room at a club when i went in with my fwb.

Walked it pulling door closed behind me as you do when it got ripped out my hand lol.

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria


"We were in a club this weekend. We mistakenly thought it was a couples’ night, but we were wrong. We’ve been on mixed nights before and have become quite used to not letting the single guys put us off and a respectful guy may even get lucky.

But that night we had: lots of staring, men gradually and obviously moving closer & closer while staring, men touching E without asking permission to join first, following us en masses from area to area and worst of all, continuously rattling the door handle of the locked playroom and banging the door, as if that would entice us to let them in. Do these men really think all of the above will get them to fuck E?? Guess who did get lucky though, the guy who was friendly, no pressure and had a good chat & laugh with us. That’s how you do it, guys. That’s how you do it "

Exactly, no pressure and manners win the day.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Ah yes the wanking frustrated zombies, it’s there mo rattling them there doors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had exactly the same problem at several clubs in UK Guys looking intently at you like they had ever seen a woman,moving closer to you on the sofa ever so slightly every five minutes, following you if you even go to the loo, asking cheesy questions, trying locked doors if you go to a playroom, wanking outside when you are having fun inside...sounds familiar? The list goes on and it puts me going to clubs now

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"I have had exactly the same problem at several clubs in UK Guys looking intently at you like they had ever seen a woman,moving closer to you on the sofa ever so slightly every five minutes, following you if you even go to the loo, asking cheesy questions, trying locked doors if you go to a playroom, wanking outside when you are having fun inside...sounds familiar? The list goes on and it puts me going to clubs now"

It does a bit like hunter gatherer, best to tell em feck of gives a instant cock drop

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's weird how some people will behave, when they perhaps didn't get the user manual that their simple minds needed. People who slowly accumulate into a group, almost behaving as if invisible ghosts, edging closer, until some part of their body is millimetres from you. I've had the door rattling as well as scratching, as if there are rodents trying to get in.

Isn't the reality that these people aren't really thinking much at all, they're merely desperate and somewhat like a plague of locusts, just responsive to some elements in their environment that drive their hunger? Paying attention to them is akin to your vehicle headlights dazzling rabbits etc, in the night - there's some element of response but there's still not not that much going on up top. If you were to question them, they'd probably state they guessed there wasn't much chance but it was worth trying it on. It's utterly stupid to consider that such desperate moves were little more than sickeningly uninvited and intrusive and have no resemblance to flirting or friendly sexual chat-ups etc. When someone gropes me as I'm walking around, they perhaps think that this is like paying me a compliment, whilst the reality is I'm grimacing and angry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's really sad to see so many desperados in clubs as well as on fab. There must be so many guys out there who are so starved if any sexual contact they are prepared to make a total ass of themselves. Its a shame too many clubs let too many single guys in, who subsequently try far too hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's really sad to see so many desperados in clubs as well as on fab. There must be so many guys out there who are so starved if any sexual contact they are prepared to make a total ass of themselves. Its a shame too many clubs let too many single guys in, who subsequently try far too hard"

Of sexual contact, I meant!

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"It's really sad to see so many desperados in clubs as well as on fab. There must be so many guys out there who are so starved if any sexual contact they are prepared to make a total ass of themselves. Its a shame too many clubs let too many single guys in, who subsequently try far too hard

Of sexual contact, I meant! "

That’s why we call them wanking zombies sit there can I touch while wanking, doesn’t matter the fact you may be having a normal conversation, no savvy no brains

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By *harliebluestockingsCouple
over a year ago

london

Have to add. Most UK clubs ( well the few in London we have been too. Must try more ) nearly all the single men have been wonderful. Polite respectful and well up for it at the right time. Like to balance

But with respect to this chat. Have to blame management.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were in a club this weekend. We mistakenly thought it was a couples’ night, but we were wrong. We’ve been on mixed nights before and have become quite used to not letting the single guys put us off and a respectful guy may even get lucky.

But that night we had: lots of staring, men gradually and obviously moving closer & closer while staring, men touching E without asking permission to join first, following us en masses from area to area and worst of all, continuously rattling the door handle of the locked playroom and banging the door, as if that would entice us to let them in. Do these men really think all of the above will get them to fuck E?? Guess who did get lucky though, the guy who was friendly, no pressure and had a good chat & laugh with us. That’s how you do it, guys. That’s how you do it "

Nice guys do win!!! Well done OP!

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By *iamond coupleCouple
over a year ago

leeds

We visit our local club in Leeds on a weekly basis and find the single guys very respectful and not at all like the guys you describe. The management are also top notch and take all complaints very seriously

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Manners always count but please don't ban cheesy chat or I will be snookered

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Manners always count but please don't ban cheesy chat or I will be snookered "

The ability to communicate, without your dick is essential

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had this regularly at one club in particular. We no longer play at that club and just use it for socials and to enjoy the facilities. We find it tends to be the older generation that tend to overstep, we have never had an issue with the younger to middling age group. Their behaviour has always been impeccable.

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Slightly off topic..

But this is why I would never go to a club alone as a single guy..

I’ve been with female company many times and this is how guys act ..

I don’t want to be thought of or associated with these people so I don’t go alone ..

Clubs let so many in because it’s a good income stream..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been to a couple of clubs in the North/NW and similar has happened to me. I stopped going for this reason. Yes I did complain but they were regulars and I wasn’t!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

We've had it abroad too and some clubs don't address the problem, unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol Goto cap dadge and see the meerkat wankers on the beach I had a random guy stand by my feet while I was reading my book and spunk over them .

He got my foot with extreme violence into the ballsack . Some people next to me cheered lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were in a club this weekend. We mistakenly thought it was a couples’ night, but we were wrong. We’ve been on mixed nights before and have become quite used to not letting the single guys put us off and a respectful guy may even get lucky.

But that night we had: lots of staring, men gradually and obviously moving closer & closer while staring, men touching E without asking permission to join first, following us en masses from area to area and worst of all, continuously rattling the door handle of the locked playroom and banging the door, as if that would entice us to let them in. Do these men really think all of the above will get them to fuck E?? Guess who did get lucky though, the guy who was friendly, no pressure and had a good chat & laugh with us. That’s how you do it, guys. That’s how you do it "

Chuffin ell OP !! things like this put me off attending these sorts of things no one wants a single guys leering at them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You must is excuse these gentlemen....

They must have thought it was a greedy girls night at the club...

Coincidentally, the only advice given to new guys is to go to a club....

This might be a factor as to why so many single guys are in a club...

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"You must is excuse these gentlemen....

They must have thought it was a greedy girls night at the club...

Coincidentally, the only advice given to new guys is to go to a club....

This might be a factor as to why so many single guys are in a club..."

Single guys should be naturally respectful to others, they shouldn't need telling

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Some do some stupid things, trying to cum on some one they don’t know grabbing a woman without consent, takes them close to having to sign a register weekly, explaining that to missus would be tricky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We see it as a Benny hill sketch long que of guys following a couple around the premises it's fun to watch male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t happen in all clubs on mixed nights but I had it happen and it was bloody awful. Club were amazing about it though and we pointed out who were harassing us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess that different cultural expectations might apply abroad? In Britain we queue up ...

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

We had this in 1 club but the better clubs do not have this problem...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We visit our local club in Leeds on a weekly basis and find the single guys very respectful and not at all like the guys you describe. The management are also top notch and take all complaints very seriously"

I go to the same club in Leeds .. If I see this sort of behaviour I step up and say something myself.. It's single males like this that spoil it for the nice respectful ones

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I guess that different cultural expectations might apply abroad? In Britain we queue up ... "

Well some single guys abroad think they are entitled and think any woman is fair game.

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By *istressdandsubtCouple
over a year ago

caterham

We have had it happen a couple of times and wife if not me is very vocal telling them where to go if they don't listen we stop dead , and walk away.

All be it once a big black guy did grab the misses while she was tied to a bench with another lady while I was changing tools to use and I simply hit him with it , he got the surprise of his life , thought I wouldn't say or do anything and as I went to him fuming others cane to stop what was about to happen , I'm not a small guy so most of the time I only have to say step back or get lost and they do. Perhaps all should try it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People really arent selling clubs in this thread are they?

I feel bad for all the newbies who take the advice to go to clubs shell out and find this

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"We have had it happen a couple of times and wife if not me is very vocal telling them where to go if they don't listen we stop dead , and walk away.

All be it once a big black guy did grab the misses while she was tied to a bench with another lady while I was changing tools to use and I simply hit him with it , he got the surprise of his life , thought I wouldn't say or do anything and as I went to him fuming others cane to stop what was about to happen , I'm not a small guy so most of the time I only have to say step back or get lost and they do. Perhaps all should try it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People really arent selling clubs in this thread are they?

I feel bad for all the newbies who take the advice to go to clubs shell out and find this"

Well said.

We get that request so many times that one day we both were seriously thinking of visiting clubs. Glad we never tried and will never visit any club.

Dont want to visit any place where they charge fees even on couples night .

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"where was the clu. as we will be avoiding it

It was abroad "

This is why we must leave the EU. Scheming politicians and now unruly single men!

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Club's in UK are great one bad visit to 1 club not in the UK and some you guy's are how never going to a club grow some ball's..

If the club not looking after you make like a tree and leaf a guy approaches miss you are there to protect her spot what you doing and protect her it's one word No or Stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds horrible n a tad creepy tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People really arent selling clubs in this thread are they?

I feel bad for all the newbies who take the advice to go to clubs shell out and find this

Well said.

We get that request so many times that one day we both were seriously thinking of visiting clubs. Glad we never tried and will never visit any club.

Dont want to visit any place where they charge fees even on couples night .

"

don't blame you its sounds seedy as fuck

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