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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just me or do you have to be David beckham to at least start a conversation? This place is giving me a complex

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By *hezGeekCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

As always, it’s about pics, profile and personality. If you don’t pit the time in with those you stand very little chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or do you have to be David beckham to at least start a conversation? This place is giving me a complex "

You don't have to be Beckham to get Messi with a lady on here

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Lower your expectations and you'll be fine.

It's not instashag and takes time, loads of forum threads giving advice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I always post with a pic? With a long introduction, if go out to a night club I have no problems, here I feel hated lol

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Is it just me or do you have to be David beckham to at least start a conversation? This place is giving me a complex "

Not just David Beckham, Tom Hardy, Leo Di Caprio, Tom Hiddleston, Richard Madden, any close resemblance would help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or do you have to be David beckham to at least start a conversation? This place is giving me a complex

You don't have to be Beckham to get Messi with a lady on here "

Bravo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it definitely helps (The only six pack I have is the pepsi max in my fridge, which doesn't help when older women seem to like buff guys ) but remember that guys outnumber women here probably 50 to 1 as far as messages are concerned, yesterday I saw a woman who joined 5 hours ago and she already had 80 'fabs' on her picture

Even if you are david beckham, there's a fair chance she's got so many messages she wont reply to all of them, which is totally fair. I've been left on 'read' 3/3 times today, that's just life.

Be patient and you will strike it lucky with someone in the future no doubt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or do you have to be David beckham to at least start a conversation? This place is giving me a complex "

It must be just you.

I'm not even David Seaman never mind David Beckham but get messages and replies.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Most women look at a profile before a message OP

You haven't asked for advice so can't give if,however look at how you can change or improve it so it sells you better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use the "search the forums" option for advice and take the advise. This is not instashag as someone above said.

You have been a member for 6 weeks and i feel your expectations are far greater than reality. You say you have no problems with meeting in clubs, so why worry about on here. It can be extremly difficult to get conversations started on here and meets aranged. In real life it is simple compared to here simply because of the ratio of men to women.

Dont fret, keep going and certainly dont start threads about it being impossible to get meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are so many more women on here you have to make yourself stand out don’t be boring with messages be original be funny be respectful . I nearly always get a reply but I do look stunning as well xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or do you have to be David beckham to at least start a conversation? This place is giving me a complex "

I'd only shag David Beckham if I could gag him!

Not my type. I like a tall rugby forward size man

Patience x

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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago

London

David beckham lol

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

It's like a job interview, remember you're competing with alot of candidates, there are alot of guys out there. Stand out without being pretentious, be imaginative not boring, subtle not creepy. Pics always help, she might think you're her boss or a neighbour or even worse another member of her family arrrrgh,!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Been here for more years than I care to remember and it has got worst no replies no no thanks messages and a lot of threads like this and time wasters pic collectors and wannabes.

Take heart its not just guys couples have the same problem so I`am told!

Use the site but do not rely on it fun can be found elsewhere

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By *oupleNeedPlus1Couple
over a year ago

Reading


"Most women look at a profile before a message OP

You haven't asked for advice so can't give if,however look at how you can change or improve it so it sells you better."

Yep. I prioritise who I reply to based on profile and the msg they send.

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By *rinthiaMan
over a year ago

dundee


"It's like a job interview, remember you're competing with alot of candidates, there are alot of guys out there. Stand out without being pretentious, be imaginative not boring, subtle not creepy. Pics always help, she might think you're her boss or a neighbour or even worse another member of her family arrrrgh,!"

lol

job interview..... ive been self employed for 30 years, that explains a lot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or do you have to be David beckham to at least start a conversation? This place is giving me a complex "

No you don't but lots look at profiles and decide if they are interested based on that so a poor profile tends to mean someone is passed over.

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