FabSwingers.com forum: Going to a strip club as a couple...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello you lovely lot...

My boyfriend and are planning to go to a lapdancing place together this week... Just wondering if anyone has any experience of going as a couple or ladies going to these places in general.

Awaiting your replies lol

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

We tried it before going to swinger clubs (one of the “posh” lap dancing places in Leicester Square London) and.... honestly didn’t do much for us probably because:

1) For our tastes, the girls were either too thin, or not flirty, or not ‘into’ it

2) compared to swinger clubs, it seemed so fake...

Having said that, if you can get a rapport going with your type of girl in a couples dance then who knows, obviously lots of people do enjoy it.

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

We’ve been to a few and have always had positive experiences. We’ve found the women friendly and not at all bothered by talking to a couple, after all they are there to make money. From our experience they are as happy to lapdance either of us. We’ve only ever stayed in the open club though, never had private dances. It can be a fun, sexy end to an evening. You don’t have to buy a dance, just keep a drink going and soak up the atmosphere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did a strip club in Amsterdam with a former girlfriend .It got us both all horny and in the mood for some fun back at the hotel later on. Give it a go you will love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno, the whole lapdancing thing is a bit of a rip off IMO. They are just there to extract as much money as they quickly can from you. If the woman you select is straight then it could be very boring and over very quickly, sorry to dissolution you. We did try it once in a club in Bristol but the reality was that as always it's over in 3 mins and you are £ 20 or £ 30 worse off in 2 shakes of a lambs tail.

It's much more exciting if you and the mrs role play with friends

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

The Women are earning a living dancing,

All you can expect is a dance maybe a little flirting nothing more, I've seen couples in clubs before and they seemed to be enjoying themselves, Go to one for a hour have a few drinks/dances then hit the town, Its a good way to start the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve always wanted to go to one but never have.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for everyone's replies. I feel a bit more confident going now... Think we'll go for an hour then continue our evening elsewhere. I shall let you know how we get on lol

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

They're a rip off in our experience. £20 for a 3 minute private dance, £40 for a couple as you pay per person!? No thanks! The classic scam is trying to get peoples credit cards. Stay away and go to a swinging club, loads of stripping and sexy dancing there

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

"They're a rip off in our experience. £20 for a 3 minute private dance, £40 for a couple as you pay per person!? No thanks! The classic scam is trying to get peoples credit cards. Stay away and go to a swinging club, loads of stripping and sexy dancing there

If money is no object, then why not give it a go, but swinger clubs have real people in them who are in the mood to party, even on quiet nights I think we’ve always found exhibitionists and a sexy atmosphere. And the party goers are not looking at the clock.

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By *tary47Couple
over a year ago

mold

We enjoying going together

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By *empsey and hotpieceMan
over a year ago

North west

Last time we went to a strip club was in Antwerp, it was kim’s idea, and we were the only paying customers in there. Kim was d*unk and asked the bar man if she could dance on the bar, he said it was fine, but kim decided it was a good idea to remove all her clothes, the bar man went into a blind panic, all the strippers who were standing around started staring daggers at us, and I was trying to remind her we weren’t in a swingers club.

Then a very intimidating gentleman along with two heavies came over, completely ignored me and told kim he wanted her to work for him.

Needless to say, we made a pretty quick exit .

We can laugh about it now , but it was quite scary at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love going but just as a tease for the night ahead as nothing happens other than an ass rubbed on your crotch for a decent sum of cash !!

Good fun and turns me on though def givenit a try

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By *otlipsandSirCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We have been a few times, hot lips loves it !! I however aren't that bothered as I have been numerous times before with work so the novelty has gone .

Certainly gets my girl especially if the strippers put their hands up her skirt!!

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Last time we went to a strip club was in Antwerp, it was kim’s idea, and we were the only paying customers in there. Kim was d*unk and asked the bar man if she could dance on the bar, he said it was fine, but kim decided it was a good idea to remove all her clothes, the bar man went into a blind panic, all the strippers who were standing around started staring daggers at us, and I was trying to remind her we weren’t in a swingers club.

Then a very intimidating gentleman along with two heavies came over, completely ignored me and told kim he wanted her to work for him.

Needless to say, we made a pretty quick exit .

We can laugh about it now , but it was quite scary at the time."
PMSL

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

You probably will not be the only couple there..

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

They may try to get more money form you guy go to a swinger club..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought this thread was going to be about a couple bursting out of a pantomime horse ,,

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Before we discovered clubs, we were regulars at a lap dance club. We were never the only couple there, and we found the girls really appreciate having couples in.

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By *ouble CCouple
over a year ago

Gran Canaria

We went to a Lapdancing club in Watford a few years ago.

It was Januray so was quite quiet. Alot of the girls weren't to our taste but we enjoyed watching them dance on the pole....THEN this GORGEOUS Brazilan girl came on the pole. Curvy. Tattoos. Lovely smile. Very natural beauty. Laughed and smiled the whole time.....phew. Anyway, we had a couple's dance with her, 60 quid, and she danced for me really. Mr C was stuck in the corner. Lol. But I loved it because she was so friendly and just natural ya know. Really wanna go back to a lap dancing club in the future. Miss C Xx

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By *vonshirebeefCouple
over a year ago

A Rural Village

Theatre Chochotte - Paris

We read reviews as a balance between Moulin Rouge and a Stripclub

85 Euros for a couple and you can stay as long as you like without the pint glass coming round for donations....

First time Mrs Beef and I have been to a club together, we walk down the stars and there are about 5 other guys ( i had read the reviews by couples so a little shocked to be only couple at 9pm) Mrs beef was a little shocked but continued...

Think the girls like girls in the audience, after 30 mins another couple turned up and cos continued with 5 girls rolling in different scenarios.

Girls got a little feely with the couples wives and it was quite hot seeing one of the dancers rub cream in to my wives tits as she went around the audience of amax capacity of about 20!

At the end of the night you could also spend more cash for a private dance with one of the dancers.

We didn't but went to a bar nearby, about half hour later one of the other couples came in, he looked like the cat that got the cream and she was all sweaty and hair dishevelled - we can only think the dancer gave a private dance while his mrs sucked him off..... or somethin like that...

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