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By *ams12345 OP   Man
over a year ago

london

I been on here for a while but I can’t seem to get lucky with the ladies and I was wondering if anyone can give me any advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be what they are looking for. There is no magic formula.

Having an enticing profile helps though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read profiles only message if you are what they looking for put some effort into your first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I been on here for a while but I can’t seem to get lucky with the ladies and I was wondering if anyone can give me any advice "

It isn’t luck.

Send a good message. Have a good profile. Be what they are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send cock pics call them babe ask them if they fancy a fuck

That should do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I been on here for a while but I can’t seem to get lucky with the ladies and I was wondering if anyone can give me any advice "

there's no rhyme or reason im not even looking for women and I get loads of messages of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join club fella its not just you

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I been on here for a while but I can’t seem to get lucky with the ladies and I was wondering if anyone can give me any advice "

Offer them cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good profile text. A few good pics and a message that caters to the one you are messaging, based on their profile. Not foolproof, but it may help get some responding. It's not down to luck, it's down to being proactive and getting your profile to stand out, amongst the masses

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

You have 1 photo that doesn’t show who you are and your profile text isn’t clear. (Needs re reading and put into sentences) and you have the Sydney crap which is a big hoax.

Needs a big shake up or people won’t respond

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden


"I been on here for a while but I can’t seem to get lucky with the ladies and I was wondering if anyone can give me any advice "

You can’t.

The same way you can’t make a girl dance with you at a party.

You can only

Have decent profile photos

Write a decent description

Accept that you may not be what others are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Send cock pics call them babe ask them if they fancy a fuck

That should do it "

Yes , all the time ? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Step 1) Don't assume women are a puzzle you need to unlock to be guaranteed a message

Step 2) Understand that guys outnumber girls on this website probably by hundreds to 1, at least as far as messaging is concerned, so you may well be half way into the pile.

That's about it. Just be patient, if your hook doesn't land, it doesn't land.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99% of women dont reply to messages from single men.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Be polite and gracious

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By *oodyshere2011Man
over a year ago

Midlands

Tell them you know me , hahaha !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"99% of women dont reply to messages from single men. "

Yes, only 1% reply

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln


"99% of women dont reply to messages from single men. "

All women reply to messages from guys they want to meet. If 99% of women don’t reply to you then your the reason why they don’t

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By *oodyshere2011Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"99% of women dont reply to messages from single men. "

Rubbish I get loads of reply’s!!!

Depends what you messaging to be fair you don’t have to be sleazy just be normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Send cock pics call them babe ask them if they fancy a fuck

That should do it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good profile text. A few good pics and a message that caters to the one you are messaging, based on their profile. Not foolproof, but it may help get some responding. It's not down to luck, it's down to being proactive and getting your profile to stand out, amongst the masses "

I’m 99yrs old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Join club fella its not just you"

Mate that's the truth we're like peas in a pod makes me u and the first post like the 3 muskatiers lol all good lookin lads but 2 many fakes on here to know what 2 do with. an cos all the nobs spoil it for us the ladys r too nervous 2 wanna bang properly.

its shit cos we r about on the same level I reckon and should all have the fanny falling at our feet really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Join club fella its not just you

Mate that's the truth we're like peas in a pod makes me u and the first post like the 3 muskatiers lol all good lookin lads but 2 many fakes on here to know what 2 do with. an cos all the nobs spoil it for us the ladys r too nervous 2 wanna bang properly.

its shit cos we r about on the same level I reckon and should all have the fanny falling at our feet really"

Should you though

Should you really have fanny falling at your feet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Join club fella its not just you

Mate that's the truth we're like peas in a pod makes me u and the first post like the 3 muskatiers lol all good lookin lads but 2 many fakes on here to know what 2 do with. an cos all the nobs spoil it for us the ladys r too nervous 2 wanna bang properly.

its shit cos we r about on the same level I reckon and should all have the fanny falling at our feet really

Should you though

Should you really have fanny falling at your feet"

Falling fanny sounds like it would be somethign you'd buy from Fred & George's joke shop in an envelope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good profile text. A few good pics and a message that caters to the one you are messaging, based on their profile. Not foolproof, but it may help get some responding. It's not down to luck, it's down to being proactive and getting your profile to stand out, amongst the masses

I’m 99yrs old "

You look great for your age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I been on here for a while but I can’t seem to get lucky with the ladies and I was wondering if anyone can give me any advice "

Dont put your phone in front of your face

Seripusly mate your fully dressed in baggy Clothes and your face is completely covered what is the point of that picture.

Reme.ber you're selling yourself so think sexy

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By *ummersongWoman
over a year ago

fleetwood

I normally don’t respond to guys who start off with one or two word messages, ask about something that is already in my bio or who send dick pics.

We are all here for the same thing but I’d much rather play with someone/people who I can have a laugh with and who aren’t rude to me.

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By *eisurepleasureMan
over a year ago

belfast

Change ur title to Euromillions winner looking dirty girl to help spend it

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By *arpePinguisWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Join club fella its not just you

Mate that's the truth we're like peas in a pod makes me u and the first post like the 3 muskatiers lol all good lookin lads but 2 many fakes on here to know what 2 do with. an cos all the nobs spoil it for us the ladys r too nervous 2 wanna bang properly.

its shit cos we r about on the same level I reckon and should all have the fanny falling at our feet really"

Yeah, I think I know why women aren't flocking to you and your 4 dick pic profile

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By *arpePinguisWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"99% of women dont reply to messages from single men.

All women reply to messages from guys they want to meet. If 99% of women don’t reply to you then you're the reason why they don’t "

This should be carved on a stone tablet and handed to every single guy on Fab

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By *ams12345 OP   Man
over a year ago

london

I don’t have trouble in person like in clubs I can quickly conjure up a conversation and get things flowing but on here it’s impossible I reckon it’s due to the guy to girl ratio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Join club fella its not just you

Mate that's the truth we're like peas in a pod makes me u and the first post like the 3 muskatiers lol all good lookin lads but 2 many fakes on here to know what 2 do with. an cos all the nobs spoil it for us the ladys r too nervous 2 wanna bang properly.

its shit cos we r about on the same level I reckon and should all have the fanny falling at our feet really"

Epic satire profile

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By *w214Couple
over a year ago

Wirral

Kid nap their pets and send ransom messages. That should guarantee you a response.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I don’t have trouble in person like in clubs I can quickly conjure up a conversation and get things flowing but on here it’s impossible I reckon it’s due to the guy to girl ratio "

This a big part of it, also profiles are too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t have trouble in person like in clubs I can quickly conjure up a conversation and get things flowing but on here it’s impossible I reckon it’s due to the guy to girl ratio "

Not realy in a club they can see you and how you act here they have your profile and your first message thats it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My number one peice of advice dont be negative "not had much luck on here" has no place om amy profile let alone as a first line

Do you think anyone wants to shag the guy no one else wants to?

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By *ams12345 OP   Man
over a year ago

london

I don’t do any of them things, i try think of some common ground to start the conversation off I’ve never sent a dick pic on a first conversation I don’t understand why some guys do like you wouldn’t do that anywhere else lool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t do any of them things, i try think of some common ground to start the conversation off I’ve never sent a dick pic on a first conversation I don’t understand why some guys do like you wouldn’t do that anywhere else lool"

Use the quote button

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By *urvelover39Man
over a year ago

Somewhere

It takes time just sit back relax and enjoy the ride if you get a meet its a bonus!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I don’t do any of them things, i try think of some common ground to start the conversation off I’ve never sent a dick pic on a first conversation I don’t understand why some guys do like you wouldn’t do that anywhere else lool"

Do you send messages like you are posting on the forum?

That might be an issue for some. Block of text, with virtually no punctuation, which makes it quite hard to read.

You say you do well in person, so I'd suggest sticking to clubs.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Send cock pics call them babe ask them if they fancy a fuck

That should do it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Join club fella its not just you

Mate that's the truth we're like peas in a pod makes me u and the first post like the 3 muskatiers lol all good lookin lads but 2 many fakes on here to know what 2 do with. an cos all the nobs spoil it for us the ladys r too nervous 2 wanna bang properly.

its shit cos we r about on the same level I reckon and should all have the fanny falling at our feet really

Yeah, I think I know why women aren't flocking to you and your 4 dick pic profile"

I don't know y pics of a cock get a bad deal ith sum it's the bit that the lucky lady is gonna be suckin and giving her the best ride of her life

I'd reckon she'd want to see the goods 1st

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to go to clubs and socials get to know people as in real life .Woman get thousands of messages ..you could be Brad Pitt and not get a reply ..get out there in real swingers life and mingle ..I never message anyone ,there is no point ..hope this helps ..

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By *hunderstruckMan
over a year ago

Northampton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"99% of women dont reply to messages from single men.

Rubbish I get loads of reply’s!!!

Depends what you messaging to be fair you don’t have to be sleazy just be normal."

very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Join club fella its not just you

Mate that's the truth we're like peas in a pod makes me u and the first post like the 3 muskatiers lol all good lookin lads but 2 many fakes on here to know what 2 do with. an cos all the nobs spoil it for us the ladys r too nervous 2 wanna bang properly.

its shit cos we r about on the same level I reckon and should all have the fanny falling at our feet really

Yeah, I think I know why women aren't flocking to you and your 4 dick pic profile

I don't know y pics of a cock get a bad deal ith sum it's the bit that the lucky lady is gonna be suckin and giving her the best ride of her life

I'd reckon she'd want to see the goods 1st"

Do you not think it should be erect in that case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Join club fella its not just you

Mate that's the truth we're like peas in a pod makes me u and the first post like the 3 muskatiers lol all good lookin lads but 2 many fakes on here to know what 2 do with. an cos all the nobs spoil it for us the ladys r too nervous 2 wanna bang properly.

its shit cos we r about on the same level I reckon and should all have the fanny falling at our feet really

Yeah, I think I know why women aren't flocking to you and your 4 dick pic profile

I don't know y pics of a cock get a bad deal ith sum it's the bit that the lucky lady is gonna be suckin and giving her the best ride of her life

I'd reckon she'd want to see the goods 1st"

I honestly think you’re my idol

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