FabSwingers.com forum: Time wasters

By *amp and dragon OP Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We are still newish to this and we have found going to clubs the best way to meet people and get our faces out there.

We have unfortunately come across people who have messaged us asking to meet us and we have arranged to meet at a club as that was easier for both couples we waited at the club for hours to check online to find we have been blocked for no reason.

So far we have made 6 arrangements and all have let us down verified long-standing members ??

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been let down loads when we have arranged meets or people who message late at night expecting us to race to their house immediately which we can't with family

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why we only meet for a social first and take things from there... Ir doesn't mean we won't play straight afte the social if we click. Think this is the best way

By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

Happens .. atleast you was at a club!

Worse when its done a few minutes before, after booking a hotel Grrr lol

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are still newish to this and we have found going to clubs the best way to meet people and get our faces out there.

So far we have made 6 arrangements and all have let us down verified long-standing members ??"

People are more blasé when they say meet in a club and don't see it as firm a commitment as travelling to meet someone at their home I guess its because if they change their mind about going they think there will be others for you to meet so less inconvenience.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly people aren't honest, rather than say to your face that you are not for them, they've stood you up. This is why I do socials 1st.

By *irty Boy-123Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Shame it ruins it for genuine folk and makes people more sceptical about future meets