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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any tips on getting my first couple/female meet?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Get rid of all those horrid pics and add something not as childish.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What shall I post then? Like you I don’t want my face all over the site. I have face pictures that I send when messaging people x

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

It is against site rules to post a pic of someone else's face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read all the forum posts about cock pics..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I use my own face pictures. I don’t need to use anyone else x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Your username is awful, your pictures are worse. Particularly the porn, bloody hell really?

If you only have a penis and a face to your body, you should seek urgent medical attention.

Sell yourself on your profile. What do you have to offer? What makes you different?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"What shall I post then? Like you I don’t want my face all over the site. I have face pictures that I send when messaging people x"

Do you not have legs, shoulders or a chest?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I use my own face pictures. I don’t need to use anyone else x"

There is a woman's face in your pic and you can see her boobs and open pussy too. Is that you op ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What shall I post then? Like you I don’t want my face all over the site. I have face pictures that I send when messaging people x"

Since updating my profile this week and adding new pics - I've gained a lot more interest. Take a look and maybe take some inspiration.

Some advice:

-- Take some body pics & get rid of the cock pics (especially the porn one).

-- Write a new profile description. The one you have is boring and doesn't project any confidence. I'm shy too, but it's not something I'm going to put in my bio.

--Change your username.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use my own face pictures. I don’t need to use anyone else x

There is a woman's face in your pic and you can see her boobs and open pussy too. Is that you op ?"

I can see someone else's face in your pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is the problem with this site. Man can’t have anything but ladies can, everyone that’s gave me advice with my profile all have pictures of there tits/pussy no face pictures, and picture of people faces that ain’t them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks mate, nice bit of advice! Not rude about anything. Appreciate it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is the problem with this site. Man can’t have anything but ladies can, everyone that’s gave me advice with my profile all have pictures of there tits/pussy no face pictures, and picture of people faces that ain’t them"

That's just how the internet is. Women receive 10x as much attention as guys do on here, so naturally they get to decide what they want to be seeing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is the problem with this site. Man can’t have anything but ladies can, everyone that’s gave me advice with my profile all have pictures of there tits/pussy no face pictures, and picture of people faces that ain’t them"

No one is telling your to post a face pic to your profile.

The advice is to post pictures of your body - so women have a general idea of your frame etc.

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

I feel sorry for the OP tbh

Its a Swingers Site, which involves sex. Hence his profile name and rude pics etc

The woman is clearly a porn star and wants her videos to be seen.

Ok the face needs to be hidden (site rules etc). Also if porn star finds out, she may want Royalties off you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I understand that, but how can you tell someone what they can’t post but they have all the things they tell you not too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks mate, nice bit of advice! Not rude about anything. Appreciate it "

No one has been rude to you..you asked for tips..you were given them..grow up fella

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you.

I understand that picture might have not been right, that’s why it’s gone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand that, but how can you tell someone what they can’t post but they have all the things they tell you not too?"

You need to accept that life can be unfair.

The ratio of guys to women on this site is probably 100 : 1

A women doesn't even need a bio or any pics and she'll still receive 100+ messages from single guys (I know because I tried it as an experiment).

Take peoples advice and aim to create a profile that is better than 90% better than everyone else's. Even then, there will still be work to do.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I understand that, but how can you tell someone what they can’t post but they have all the things they tell you not too?"

One, rightly or wrongly, women get away with more here. It's supply and demand. Two, more men like graphic pictures than women do. Three, I know I for one am not hypocritical, I don't have a picture of my genitals even in my private pictures. It's all my body.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I understand all that and I will make some changes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand that, but how can you tell someone what they can’t post but they have all the things they tell you not too?

You need to accept that life can be unfair.

The ratio of guys to women on this site is probably 100 : 1

A women doesn't even need a bio or any pics and she'll still receive 100+ messages from single guys (I know because I tried it as an experiment).

Take peoples advice and aim to create a profile that is better than 90% better than everyone else's. Even then, there will still be work to do. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Black silhouette avatar, crap username, one close up cock pic pic in public, bland boring profile.

There is nothing that grabs the attention, and when couples and single ladies have the pic of fab you need to make your profile stand out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Avatar only black as I’m changing for advice I was giving.

Any advice you could give to improve my bio?x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Avatar only black as I’m changing for advice I was giving.

Any advice you could give to improve my bio?x"

What kind of person are you?

What are you looking for?

What do you have to offer?

What makes you different?

Answer those questions, originally, injecting some humour and personality into it.

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton


"Avatar only black as I’m changing for advice I was giving.

Any advice you could give to improve my bio?x"

Bio seemed nice ie like the social aspects and chat some before meet etc

Alot on here just put "fill in later" lol

Dont beat yourself up over it op..... theres far worse profiles on here lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you.

Just thinking of a name change but not sure what to do with lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Thank you.

Just thinking of a name change but not sure what to do with lol "

The ones that are most off-putting are gratuitously sexual, demanding or sexist, or random letters and numbers. Oh and anything 50 Shades related.

Other than that, most things won't be positive or negative. Mine's about fashion ffs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay thank you

I’ll have a little think and I’ll get it changed ASAP x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Also what’s a good type of profile picture, I don’t want my face showing. I have face pictures for people i message x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Also what’s a good type of profile picture, I don’t want my face showing. I have face pictures for people i message x"

Chest, back, bum, undressing shot. You have more to your body than your face and your cock.

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton


"Also what’s a good type of profile picture, I don’t want my face showing. I have face pictures for people i message x"

A Cock Pick.... only joking lol

Just a body shot or a nice pair of boxers being worn etc

Use your imagination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More pictures single male profiles need to stand out more obviously you don't want to be recognised but blur out tattoos etc your profile probably a bit vague for couples to consider

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay I’ll make a couple changes and see how thing go!

At first i was think maybe I’m not good looking enough for people, I’m happy to show anyone what I look like if they PM me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s like. Cover letter for a CV. You need to grab their attention with a avatar pic and first lines. Then comes the CV part. Where they will read it and see if it offers what they want. But like a job application you will not be the only person applying.

A lot of guys who struggle to meet girls in the real world think sites like this is the answer. It is not. You still need to be able to engage in conversation and be interesting enough to want to spend some time with.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Okay I’ll make a couple changes and see how thing go!

At first i was think maybe I’m not good looking enough for people, I’m happy to show anyone what I look like if they PM me x"

Unless you're genuinely exceptional and/or are already a regular club goer (or you're a woman), you need a strong profile.

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By *oupleNeedPlus1Couple
over a year ago

Reading

Tbh I would read the words "very shy" and immediately move on.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Okay I’ll make a couple changes and see how thing go!

At first i was think maybe I’m not good looking enough for people, I’m happy to show anyone what I look like if they PM me x"

Its not all about looks. Personality, confidence and manners go a long way on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Never been to a club, definitely not a woman aha

X

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

If you want a response from a message I would recommend changing your username for a start and adding an avatar (Not of your cock).

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Oooops I see you've literally just done that.....at least you've listened to someones advice unlike some blokes on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I’ve now changed my name and will have a new avatar up soon once up showered and ready x

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