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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can someone please enlighten me as to why people demand face photos in their first message?

I have them in the private gallery and don't put them on show for reasons to do with my job, also why I don';t send them out in the first message...never know who you might be sending them too, especially as almost everyone else hasn't got them on. You have to built up a little trust, have a bit of banter and also f*@king annoying when they insist on it when they aren't even verified themselves!

OK rant over haha just want other opinions on this

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Quite ironic that you are ranting when your name is Easygoing !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite ironic that you are ranting when your name is Easygoing !"

I just like to see if theres an attraction

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We like to see who we're talking to and also if there is an attraction.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Quite ironic that you are ranting when your name is Easygoing !"

Isn’t everyone allowed a little rant now and then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I get the attraction bit, but to just totally ignore people because they dont send a face photo in the first message.... dint get that

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

Choice is yours if you send or not . Just like it’s our choice to want to see the person before wasting time if they aren’t for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its with a view to a meet think everyone agrees there needs to be some attraction....when attraction is there people know if they can get flirty or such....no point in chatting and flirting with someone who if met in person would be a definite NO...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

To cut to the chase of whether it might happen (attraction) and because they can. Look for those who don't ask.

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

Out of interest what is your profession ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always like to get a face picture or two.. There has to be a mutual attraction.

It might be a case of body from Baywatch face from crimewatch scenario. Lol

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

The majority of women on here find facial attractiveness pretty important. No point chatting if you don't fancy the person!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always like to get a face picture or two.. There has to be a mutual attraction.

It might be a case of body from Baywatch face from crimewatch scenario. Lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to get to know people before a face pic is shared, certainly don't expect it on the first message.

I like to gauge personality, if they are nice looking it's a bonus.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

OP most people want to know straight away if there's some attraction.

Many women get oodles of messages... if you look good and send a good message, you increase your chances of a meet.

Do, my question is really...why woukdnt you send a face photo if you are genuinely interested?

Nita

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I like to get to know people before a face pic is shared, certainly don't expect it on the first message.

I like to gauge personality, if they are nice looking it's a bonus."

This is me, too.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Because it's their choice to, same as it's your choice to ignore those that ask. No need to rant just use a bit of common sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s only right to have a face photo and if your getting on with someone and looking to arrange a meet up you’ll need to see how your meeting person looks , and let’s be fair , people couple have gorgeous body and look fantastic but there look may not be on that level ?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

If its someone in interested in meeting then yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can someone please enlighten me as to why people demand face photos in their first message?

I have them in the private gallery and don't put them on show for reasons to do with my job, also why I don';t send them out in the first message...never know who you might be sending them too, especially as almost everyone else hasn't got them on. You have to built up a little trust, have a bit of banter and also f*@king annoying when they insist on it when they aren't even verified themselves!

OK rant over haha just want other opinions on this"
I think your objection is reasonable and I think also that people are reasonable asking to see a face pic ,you have to weigh up being in this life the ratio of men to women ,the ratio of response to your messages to how important being here and keeping your job is ,if you want success here many women who let's face it are in the driving position want to see if they fancy you before spending time messaging

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Can someone please enlighten me as to why people demand face photos in their first message?

I have them in the private gallery and don't put them on show for reasons to do with my job, also why I don';t send them out in the first message...never know who you might be sending them too, especially as almost everyone else hasn't got them on. You have to built up a little trust, have a bit of banter and also f*@king annoying when they insist on it when they aren't even verified themselves!

OK rant over haha just want other opinions on this"

People can ask for/demand anything they want - it doesn't mean they will get it!

If you don't like it just skip past their profile and move on to someone else.

I don't ask for or demand a face pic but I am much more likely to reply to someone who either has one visible on their profile or sends a face pic with their message - for me attraction starts with the face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although I don't demand a face pic I'm wary of talking to someone for long before seeing their face, as facial attraction is important to me.

It's not nice having to say to someone I'm not attracted to them, after hours of chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it's not blind date.

Regardless of how nice or funny the message is, if im not attracted to the face it's just not going to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can someone please enlighten me as to why people demand face photos in their first message?

I have them in the private gallery and don't put them on show for reasons to do with my job, also why I don';t send them out in the first message...never know who you might be sending them too, especially as almost everyone else hasn't got them on. You have to built up a little trust, have a bit of banter and also f*@king annoying when they insist on it when they aren't even verified themselves!

OK rant over haha just want other opinions on this"

If someone messages me wanting sex then I will ask for a face pic straight away as otherwise if we talk for a month and then don't fancy them it would just be a waste of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't demand them, however I expect to be able to judge my attraction on something fairly early on otherwise it's waisting time.

I'd always ensure I shared my face photo very quickly too. How else can you decide?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't demand them, however I expect to be able to judge my attraction on something fairly early on otherwise it's waisting time.

I'd always ensure I shared my face photo very quickly too. How else can you decide? "

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I don't demand them, however I expect to be able to judge my attraction on something fairly early on otherwise it's waisting time.

I'd always ensure I shared my face photo very quickly too. How else can you decide? "

People have different priorities for this sort of thing. I chat first (a handful of messages, not forever), because personality (yes even just for a one time thing) makes or breaks it in a way that attractiveness may not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dont mind sending eventually once a certain amount of trust has been established, that isnt the issue, its those who demand it in the first message I dont get.

Of course there has to be an attraction, goes without saying.

I have neither a baywatch body or a crimewatch face, just a normal guy haha

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Dont mind sending eventually once a certain amount of trust has been established, that isnt the issue, its those who demand it in the first message I dont get.

Of course there has to be an attraction, goes without saying.

I have neither a baywatch body or a crimewatch face, just a normal guy haha "

Thing is, if you're approached a dozen or more times a day (that number can be anything into hundreds or thousands), you can ask for anything you want and still have plenty to choose from.

You can even ask for anything you want and set your sights so high that you get that many messages and very few new meets (story of my life).

Don't worry about what other people do. Find those who work for you.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Can someone please enlighten me as to why people demand face photos in their first message?

I have them in the private gallery and don't put them on show for reasons to do with my job, also why I don';t send them out in the first message...never know who you might be sending them too, especially as almost everyone else hasn't got them on. You have to built up a little trust, have a bit of banter and also f*@king annoying when they insist on it when they aren't even verified themselves!

OK rant over haha just want other opinions on this"

There’s no point me messsginv with someone if I’m not attracted to them therefore a face pic is mandatory for me

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