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"New to this but after trying to speak to girls and boys plus couples find that some girls aren’t very friendly as they seem to think all couples are men...I’m defo not a man last time I checked anyway!!!! Wounded "Just ignore them you get some stuck up ones but not all of us are bad like myself  hey how are you this evening and yes I can see your a woman not bad nice figure u got others ? | |||
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"I've found after six months on fab bloody hard to get a conversation out of women unless u write a novel to them I cba this is a swinging site not Shakespeare " Even with that they still block you can't win and they wonder why we go back to hi how are you line lol | |||
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"New to this but after trying to speak to girls and boys plus couples find that some girls aren’t very friendly as they seem to think all couples are men...I’m defo not a man last time I checked anyway!!!! Wounded "I've looked at your profile and you have some stunning pictures. Unfortunately, the bio part is a little short and reads as if the hubby has written it and that he's desperate for anything. Effectively, I think, you are looking for a unicorn which are notoriously difficult to find on here. Maybe get some advice on your profile and inject a little own tour own personality into it. Good luck. | |||
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"New to this but after trying to speak to girls and boys plus couples find that some girls aren’t very friendly as they seem to think all couples are men...I’m defo not a man last time I checked anyway!!!! Wounded "I can see why they think that. | |||
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"Fab has an ability to up an ego of most women. Where a women may be “3 or 4/10” on the “street”, on fab they become a “7 or a 8/10”. Unfortunately some let this go to their head, they know they wouldn’t get a second look in the real world!" Couldn't agree with this more. If you're looking for single women, you'd probably do better on a dating site or down your local boozer. | |||
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"You profile is written from a man’s perspective. That’s why. " Ignore this. My singles profile is on point. I'm hot too... and even I struggled. | |||
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"New to this but after trying to speak to girls and boys plus couples find that some girls aren’t very friendly as they seem to think all couples are men...I’m defo not a man last time I checked anyway!!!! Wounded "It does come across as a profile written by a single male. | |||
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"OP I'm pretty local to you but if you sent me a message I wouldn't reply to you. You claim to be a couple but your profile is confusing. It reads like it was written by a single man who's horny and just wants a willing hole, yet your photos are mostly the lady. If the lady is only going to watch why do you need lots of pictures of her and only one of you? If someone is going to meet and fuck the man they want to know what HE looks like not what his partner looks like! You need to be more clear about what you are looking for and make more of an effort with your profile." I couldn't agree more | |||
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"OP I'm pretty local to you but if you sent me a message I wouldn't reply to you. You claim to be a couple but your profile is confusing. It reads like it was written by a single man who's horny and just wants a willing hole, yet your photos are mostly the lady. If the lady is only going to watch why do you need lots of pictures of her and only one of you? If someone is going to meet and fuck the man they want to know what HE looks like not what his partner looks like! You need to be more clear about what you are looking for and make more of an effort with your profile. I couldn't agree more" Me either xx | |||
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"OP I'm pretty local to you but if you sent me a message I wouldn't reply to you. You claim to be a couple but your profile is confusing. It reads like it was written by a single man who's horny and just wants a willing hole, yet your photos are mostly the lady. If the lady is only going to watch why do you need lots of pictures of her and only one of you? If someone is going to meet and fuck the man they want to know what HE looks like not what his partner looks like! You need to be more clear about what you are looking for and make more of an effort with your profile."  I'd certainly want to see what I'm getting before meeting. | |||
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"I've found after six months on fab bloody hard to get a conversation out of women unless u write a novel to them I cba this is a swinging site not Shakespeare " You don't have to write a novel ha (though I have done in the past on my singles profile) just be seductive and clear about what you can offer them? I've never had any trouble on here with attracting women on my singles profile either, so that statement is completely false I'm afraid. B | |||
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"Fab has an ability to up an ego of most women. Where a women may be “3 or 4/10” on the “street”, on fab they become a “7 or a 8/10”. Unfortunately some let this go to their head, they know they wouldn’t get a second look in the real world!" I find a lot of people here aren't willing to connect on a basic level. I know I'm not amazing, stunning, etc (I'm not putting myself down for false flattery in my inbox thanks guys), and the fawning is transparent. I don't think I'm better than anyone, no not even those I reject. I look for people I might want to spend an evening with. Who respect me as a person, who I might get on with. The way to do that is by having a conversation. To get past the competition for my attention, people need to stand out. It's just a fact that I can't respond to all my messages. A lot of people on here don't know how to use the medium to connect with people, and/or they think it beneath them. | |||
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"Fab has an ability to up an ego of most women. Where a women may be “3 or 4/10” on the “street”, on fab they become a “7 or a 8/10”. Unfortunately some let this go to their head, they know they wouldn’t get a second look in the real world! I find a lot of people here aren't willing to connect on a basic level. I know I'm not amazing, stunning, etc (I'm not putting myself down for false flattery in my inbox thanks guys), and the fawning is transparent. I don't think I'm better than anyone, no not even those I reject. I look for people I might want to spend an evening with. Who respect me as a person, who I might get on with. The way to do that is by having a conversation. To get past the competition for my attention, people need to stand out. It's just a fact that I can't respond to all my messages. A lot of people on here don't know how to use the medium to connect with people, and/or they think it beneath them. " Brilliantly put. Just because we say we need a connection doesn't mean we have an over inflated ego if we say no x | |||
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"OP I'm pretty local to you but if you sent me a message I wouldn't reply to you. You claim to be a couple but your profile is confusing. It reads like it was written by a single man who's horny and just wants a willing hole, yet your photos are mostly the lady. If the lady is only going to watch why do you need lots of pictures of her and only one of you? If someone is going to meet and fuck the man they want to know what HE looks like not what his partner looks like! You need to be more clear about what you are looking for and make more of an effort with your profile." What she said. | |||
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"OP I'm pretty local to you but if you sent me a message I wouldn't reply to you. You claim to be a couple but your profile is confusing. It reads like it was written by a single man who's horny and just wants a willing hole, yet your photos are mostly the lady. If the lady is only going to watch why do you need lots of pictures of her and only one of you? If someone is going to meet and fuck the man they want to know what HE looks like not what his partner looks like! You need to be more clear about what you are looking for and make more of an effort with your profile." | |||
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"Lots of ladies chat on here, with people they want to chat to. Lots of negative posts by some of you guys on here, nothing more off putting tbh. Try helping yourselves by reading other threads on similar subjects to the OP. You may find them helpful. Make the effort and dont expect everything to just fall into your laps as if by magic just because you have joined a swingers site. Effort in = rewards out. We are here for our needs, not yours. " I couldn't agree with this more some very negative comments and as we as women are always being told the reason we don't talk is because we have over inflated egos I don't think you're gonna win us round by those kind of comments! | |||
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"Lots of ladies chat on here, with people they want to chat to. Lots of negative posts by some of you guys on here, nothing more off putting tbh. Try helping yourselves by reading other threads on similar subjects to the OP. You may find them helpful. Make the effort and dont expect everything to just fall into your laps as if by magic just because you have joined a swingers site. Effort in = rewards out. We are here for our needs, not yours. I couldn't agree with this more some very negative comments and as we as women are always being told the reason we don't talk is because we have over inflated egos I don't think you're gonna win us round by those kind of comments! " Precisely my point. | |||
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"Fab has an ability to up an ego of most women. Where a women may be “3 or 4/10” on the “street”, on fab they become a “7 or a 8/10”. Unfortunately some let this go to their head, they know they wouldn’t get a second look in the real world! I find a lot of people here aren't willing to connect on a basic level. I know I'm not amazing, stunning, etc (I'm not putting myself down for false flattery in my inbox thanks guys), and the fawning is transparent. I don't think I'm better than anyone, no not even those I reject. I look for people I might want to spend an evening with. Who respect me as a person, who I might get on with. The way to do that is by having a conversation. To get past the competition for my attention, people need to stand out. It's just a fact that I can't respond to all my messages. A lot of people on here don't know how to use the medium to connect with people, and/or they think it beneath them. Brilliantly put. Just because we say we need a connection doesn't mean we have an over inflated ego if we say no x" Omg, we're people and want to be treated like people. The nerve! | |||
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"Over inflated egos? Not the women I know I'm seeing lots of bruised egos on here though " Quite. You wouldn't apply for a job with "hey bro you pay me now yeah?" with a "fill in later I done stuff" LinkedIn profile and public social media posts bashing the company. While this isn't a job application, it is an application of sorts. The analogy holds. | |||
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"What is interesting is that the men who talk of points out of 10 or not looking twice on the street or in a pub are the ones I will not look at even once - on Fab, on the street, in a pub or otherwise. An inflated ego? Anything to scare off the desperados. "Oh god yeah. If inflated ego means scares off the people who think I have no standards or self respect, sign me up. | |||
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"Over inflated egos? Not the women I know I'm seeing lots of bruised egos on here though Quite. You wouldn't apply for a job with "hey bro you pay me now yeah?" with a "fill in later I done stuff" LinkedIn profile and public social media posts bashing the company. While this isn't a job application, it is an application of sorts. The analogy holds. " +100000 | |||
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"What is interesting is that the men who talk of points out of 10 or not looking twice on the street or in a pub are the ones I will not look at even once - on Fab, on the street, in a pub or otherwise. An inflated ego? Anything to scare off the desperados.
Oh god yeah. If inflated ego means scares off the people who think I have no standards or self respect, sign me up. ""Think"? They don't think. They just have no respect for women. Maybe something resulting from poor upbringing, who knows. | |||
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"You've only been here for a week. You're profile has clearly been written by the male half. You're both straight and looking for a unicorn to be with the male while the female half just watches. Need a miracle for that to happen on here. Try rewriting your profile. Good in the chatrooms on camera and strike up conversations to get yourselves known. Might also get a cam veri while your in there. Good luck in your search. It not at easy I have add 2 meets Cannot verify them they cannot verify mine because we haven’t been verified Mr2 " | |||
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"Fab has an ability to up an ego of most women. Where a women may be “3 or 4/10” on the “street”, on fab they become a “7 or a 8/10”. Unfortunately some let this go to their head, they know they wouldn’t get a second look in the real world!" I find it all fake. Whenever i use the chatroom and go on cam i get flooded by men telling me how pretty i am etc and it isn't possible to talk to them all. But then the second i turn my cam off the men have no interest and instantly move straight onto the next woman with a webcam on and start flooding her with compliments and demands. So those compliments they all paid me while my cam was on then appear fake. Some of them even reuse the exact same compliments just seconds after using them on me, lol. It shows that 99% of men here are just here to fuck or wank and they will fuck and wank over absolutely anything that will allow them to do so. Hardly flattering. So this place does nothing for my ego personally. I can see how it does for some women though. But me, nah. These men have let their team down in my eyes. | |||
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"I wondered why have very little reply , having contacted a couple ,received a sharp reply as to no verification having been on here as a gold sponsor and have sent my face pic to addmin ? Apparently I need to meet someone so they can verify me . Will some look at my profile and get back to me for all this to happen . Wish I would have known this a while ago Many thanks ." While it's bad form to piggyback on someone else's thread... Write some profile text. Sell yourself. | |||
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"Fab has an ability to up an ego of most women. Where a women may be “3 or 4/10” on the “street”, on fab they become a “7 or a 8/10”. Unfortunately some let this go to their head, they know they wouldn’t get a second look in the real world! Couldn't agree with this more. If you're looking for single women, you'd probably do better on a dating site or down your local boozer. " Agree with all of this. | |||
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"Yeah, it's definitely fake. Women aren't stupid. If I were as amazing as people claim I am here, I'd get a lot more attention on the street. And honestly, some of the fawning reads a bit unhinged anyway. Even if I am WOW WOW AMAZING SO SEXY OMG (I get messages like that), putting it like that wants me to back away from the crazy person. " | |||
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"You've only been here for a week. You're profile has clearly been written by the male half. You're both straight and looking for a unicorn to be with the male while the female half just watches. Need a miracle for that to happen on here. Try rewriting your profile. Good in the chatrooms on camera and strike up conversations to get yourselves known. Might also get a cam veri while your in there. Good luck in your search. It not at easy I have add 2 meets Cannot verify them they cannot verify mine because we haven’t been verified Mr2 " Go in the chatrooms on here with your cam on and see if you can strike up conversations with people. If you can do that then there is a good chance that one of them will verify you. You will then be able to verify the ones that you have met and in turn they then verify you. Mr2 | |||
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"Guys often think fancy a fuck will work but women on here in general are after a guy of many talents and that includes the ability to communicate and at least average intelligence sadly many just fail all round. " An ability to convince me that they're a normal friendly safe human being is a good start. | |||
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"Guys often think fancy a fuck will work but women on here in general are after a guy of many talents and that includes the ability to communicate and at least average intelligence sadly many just fail all round. An ability to convince me that they're a normal friendly safe human being is a good start. " Many people fail before that point sadly. | |||
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"Guys often think fancy a fuck will work but women on here in general are after a guy of many talents and that includes the ability to communicate and at least average intelligence sadly many just fail all round. An ability to convince me that they're a normal friendly safe human being is a good start. " Bloody hell then its a 50/50 with the guys on here then  | |||
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"Guys often think fancy a fuck will work but women on here in general are after a guy of many talents and that includes the ability to communicate and at least average intelligence sadly many just fail all round. An ability to convince me that they're a normal friendly safe human being is a good start. Bloody hell then its a 50/50 with the guys on here then "That's optimistic. | |||
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"Guys often think fancy a fuck will work but women on here in general are after a guy of many talents and that includes the ability to communicate and at least average intelligence sadly many just fail all round. An ability to convince me that they're a normal friendly safe human being is a good start. Bloody hell then its a 50/50 with the guys on here then
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"Guys often think fancy a fuck will work but women on here in general are after a guy of many talents and that includes the ability to communicate and at least average intelligence sadly many just fail all round. An ability to convince me that they're a normal friendly safe human being is a good start. Bloody hell then its a 50/50 with the guys on here then
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"You profile is written from a man’s perspective. That’s why. " It looks that way to me too | |||
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"New to this but after trying to speak to girls and boys plus couples find that some girls aren’t very friendly as they seem to think all couples are men...I’m defo not a man last time I checked anyway!!!! Wounded "Welcome to fab.. Do you know how to wank!?! | |||
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"Ya joking? Ya really think that??" If you click reply+quote we’ll know who you’re chatting to. Cause I have no idea by your replies | |||
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"Fab has an ability to up an ego of most women. Where a women may be “3 or 4/10” on the “street”, on fab they become a “7 or a 8/10”. Unfortunately some let this go to their head, they know they wouldn’t get a second look in the real world!" Ain't that the truth.  | |||
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"Unicorn hunters have ruined the fab experience for me. I never want to meet with couple on fab. The way they speak to single women on first approach, and then the way they don't follow through, or if you say no thanks , you get loads of abuse. Maybe I expect too much as there is a woman in the couple. They should think about how they want to be approached before they approach other women. It's put me off so much that I have now vowed to never become a unicorn Hunter because I think ethically it just feeds into the whole male gaze." Agree We have plenty of regular meets with single ladies and the stories we hear about unicorn hunters is ridiculous | |||
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"Unicorn hunters have ruined the fab experience for me. I never want to meet with couple on fab. The way they speak to single women on first approach, and then the way they don't follow through, or if you say no thanks , you get loads of abuse. Maybe I expect too much as there is a woman in the couple. They should think about how they want to be approached before they approach other women. It's put me off so much that I have now vowed to never become a unicorn Hunter because I think ethically it just feeds into the whole male gaze. Agree We have plenty of regular meets with single ladies and the stories we hear about unicorn hunters is ridiculous" It's gross. I think if you meet randomly in a club and build up a rapport it's no so bad. But I still wonder how good the sex can be with the attitude of most couples | |||
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"Unicorn hunters have ruined the fab experience for me. I never want to meet with couple on fab. The way they speak to single women on first approach, and then the way they don't follow through, or if you say no thanks , you get loads of abuse. Maybe I expect too much as there is a woman in the couple. They should think about how they want to be approached before they approach other women. It's put me off so much that I have now vowed to never become a unicorn Hunter because I think ethically it just feeds into the whole male gaze. Agree We have plenty of regular meets with single ladies and the stories we hear about unicorn hunters is ridiculous It's gross. I think if you meet randomly in a club and build up a rapport it's no so bad. But I still wonder how good the sex can be with the attitude of most couples " Unicorn hunters? First ive heard of this | |||
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"Unicorn hunters have ruined the fab experience for me. I never want to meet with couple on fab. The way they speak to single women on first approach, and then the way they don't follow through, or if you say no thanks , you get loads of abuse. Maybe I expect too much as there is a woman in the couple. They should think about how they want to be approached before they approach other women. It's put me off so much that I have now vowed to never become a unicorn Hunter because I think ethically it just feeds into the whole male gaze." everyone is looking for a woman and women that are up for meeting couples unfortunately have been approached by lots of supposed couples which are either lead by guys or are just guys ,so the women have become distrustful and therefore want proof that a woman's involved early on and to be honest I don't blame them ,a phone call maybe woman to woman early on in getting to know each other seems like the way forward or cam | |||
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"Still here after so called wank!!!!!! Good God we say one thing and everyone is so friendly...not" hey don't worry about what others say if you're genuine you're genuine you'd only ultimately be deceiving yourself anyway ,get out of this site what you want and on your terms don't let rude people put you off | |||
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"Well not from us and as a girl I couldn't agree more about guys just wanting a fuck but were a little more than that tbf " | |||
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"Well not from us and as a girl I couldn't agree more about guys just wanting a fuck but were a little more than that tbf " like I said take from fab what you want ,improve your profile to write a little bit more of your wants and not wants and tell people rudeness will not be accepted | |||
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"Would it look more appealing if i wrote it then a girl???? Amended profile now" yes the feminine touch is always good | |||
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"Would it look more appealing if i wrote it then a girl???? Amended profile now" your profile says you're looking for a woman between 30-60 but says you're both straight so that says to me you're looking for a woman for your male partner and that's how it comes across to potential women | |||
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"Sorry. Still think this is a Fake Profile "For what reason and this is the female of the couple I don't get it???? | |||
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"Would it look more appealing if i wrote it then a girl???? Amended profile nowyour profile says you're looking for a woman between 30-60 but says you're both straight so that says to me you're looking for a woman for your male partner and that's how it comes across to potential women " Yes correct we are as its something I like but that's not all I'm not just going to sit back and play on my own am I???? | |||
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