FabSwingers.com forum: Damned if you do damned if you don’t

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Decided to be honest on my profile and admit I’m not single but don’t have permission !!

Seems some people feel they need to express their distaste to this which of course bothers me none but does seem to offend somewhat

Thoughts ?? Should I remove and lie ?

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By *k_intriguedCouple
over a year ago

Warwickshire

Maybe just add to the line that they should keep such opinions to themselves? I think it's best to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The replies should be interesting.

If this was a guy he'd be ripped to shreds.

My thoughts, if it doesn't bother you to hear people tell you they don't agree with it then leave it up. Fairer then to the people who don't want to meet attached people so they can make the choice early on rather than find out later.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe just add to the line that they should keep such opinions to themselves? I think it's best to be honest. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The replies should be interesting.

If this was a guy he'd be ripped to shreds.

Indeed my thoughts exactly and no it doesn’t bother me that people feel the need to force their opinion on me it’s not church group after all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a fellow bottom feeder /scum of the earth cheater, I have found that by declaring it on my profile allows other fab members to make an informed choice.

I have had everything from "oh you are honest on here, but not at home" and "I feel sorry for your poor wife".

A message from someone random stating they despise what I am doing isn't going to have me changing my ways.

Some people will always judge, but will keep their opinions to themselves.

You will never be applauded in public for your honesty, but there are people who will nod sagely, make a note and not actively persue you because it doesn't align with their moral code.

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This post is not an invitation for the morally indignant Brigade to board the Outrage Bus and arm themselves with pitchforks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh its ok that you're a coward but you have phrased it in an antagonistic way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Copy and paste a-la sydney university

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Decided to be honest on my profile and admit I’m not single but don’t have permission !!

Seems some people feel they need to express their distaste to this which of course bothers me none but does seem to offend somewhat

Thoughts ?? Should I remove and lie ? "
Good on you for being honest.

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By *aling69Man
over a year ago

London

"Maybe just add to the line that they should keep such opinions to themselves? I think it's best to be honest.

Agreed, people should not judge each other especially on this site

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As a fellow bottom feeder /scum of the earth cheater, I have found that by declaring it on my profile allows other fab members to make an informed choice.

I have had everything from "oh you are honest on here, but not at home" and "I feel sorry for your poor wife".

A message from someone random stating they despise what I am doing isn't going to have me changing my ways.

Some people will always judge, but will keep their opinions to themselves.

You will never be applauded in public for your honesty, but there are people who will nod sagely, make a note and not actively persue you because it doesn't align with their moral code.

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This post is not an invitation for the morally indignant Brigade to board the Outrage Bus and arm themselves with pitchforks."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep it...at least you’re being honest. Whatever the personal feelings are on your situation, truth is there’ll be people fine with it - ignore the haters and chat to the ones that are okay if it.

Better knowing now than later.

People seem to mistake a swingers sex site for Twitter Social Justice Warriors!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Keep it...at least you’re being honest. Whatever the personal feelings are on your situation, truth is there’ll be people fine with it - ignore the haters and chat to the ones that are okay if it.

Better knowing now than later.

People seem to mistake a swingers sex site for Twitter Social Justice Warriors!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better to be honest as some people don’t want to get involved in any potential drama.

I have my personal views and they are the same for both men and women.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Decided to be honest on my profile and admit I’m not single but don’t have permission !!

Seems some people feel they need to express their distaste to this which of course bothers me none but does seem to offend somewhat

Thoughts ?? Should I remove and lie ? "

General advice is to be honest.

Trouble is when you are you're vilified for it.

My advice here is pretty uniform. Run your profile your way and if people don't like it they can not interact with you.

Seems simple eh?

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By *otwife for useCouple
over a year ago

manchester

More married guys on here than you can shake a stick at, neither will be leaving there partners so honest is good, my thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll always have far more respect for someone who has this on their profile, so people can make an informed choice from the off. I would keep It, if i were you. Report abusive comments. Nobody should have to put up with that. I would say the same if this were a man or a woman. I dont judge those that are married. I would just prefer people to be upfront about It, which is what you are doing OP

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

I think you should be honest on your profile, so others can make a choice. No one should judge you or be abusive, they can move onto another profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'll always have far more respect for someone who has this on their profile, so people can make an informed choice from the off. I would keep It, if i were you. Report abusive comments. Nobody should have to put up with that. I would say the same if this were a man or a woman. I dont judge those that are married. I would just prefer people to be upfront about It, which is what you are doing OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"More married guys on here than you can shake a stick at, neither will be leaving there partners so honest is good, my thoughts "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think you should be honest on your profile, so others can make a choice. No one should judge you or be abusive, they can move onto another profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Decided to be honest on my profile and admit I’m not single but don’t have permission !!

Seems some people feel they need to express their distaste to this which of course bothers me none but does seem to offend somewhat

Thoughts ?? Should I remove and lie ?

General advice is to be honest.

Trouble is when you are you're vilified for it.

My advice here is pretty uniform. Run your profile your way and if people don't like it they can not interact with you.

Seems simple eh?"

Thick skin comes in handy too

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I personally don't agree with cheating but I'd prefer people to be up front about it so I can make a fully informed decision. I definitely wouldn't go messaging them telling them I don't agree with it though. That's out of order.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You would think this is the last placed you'd be judged..it's completely up to you

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I would much rather someone be honest about their situation.

We're all in here for our own reasons, it's not my place to judge but I'd prefer to know and be able to make an informed decision.

No one should be giving you abuse OP, if they are then report them.

Far too many people on here who think they have the right to take the moral high ground, push their opinions on others while hiding behind their keyboards.

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By *e_jpMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"I would much rather someone be honest about their situation.

We're all in here for our own reasons, it's not my place to judge but I'd prefer to know and be able to make an informed decision.

No one should be giving you abuse OP, if they are then report them.

Far too many people on here who think they have the right to take the moral high ground, push their opinions on others while hiding behind their keyboards. "

I don’t think I could put it any better myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better knowing now than later.

People seem to mistake a swingers sex site for Twitter Social Justice Warriors!!"

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better knowing now than later.

People seem to mistake a swingers sex site for Twitter Social Justice Warriors!!

Well said "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s your profile, your choice. Everyone on here have their own reasons, it’s not for anyone else to judge.

If they don’t agree, that’s fine, but being abusive to you is not xx

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Leave it on, especially as it doesn't bother you and you felt the need to put it up there in the first place.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Better knowing now than later.

People seem to mistake a swingers sex site for Twitter Social Justice Warriors!!

Well said

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By *uffnmuffCouple
over a year ago

London

Definitely better honest.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

Better to be honest so people that don't like cheating won't be unwilling participants. The most distasteful part of your profile is the useless 'legal notice' on the bottom lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s great that you’re honest and I don’t know you’re situation and would never judge, I wouldn’t necessarily ask others advice, do what feels right to you and as a fellow female if I was playing and we lived local to each other I’d be saying hell yeah keep it up means one less female to compete with lol I wouldn’t really but you catch my drift

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Be honest

It's only fair on other site users.

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

How about being honest to your partner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sharing their judgemental opinions seems to be a popular past time for some fabbers.

All you can do is report abusive messages and maybe tighten your filters if you feel one demographic is more vocal than others.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Better to be honest so people that don't like cheating won't be unwilling participants. The most distasteful part of your profile is the useless 'legal notice' on the bottom lol

Lol it’s been on there so long I’m worried to take it off !!

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By *he RingmasterMan
over a year ago

Canford Cliffs

There are bigger things in life and the world to be outraged about that someone's decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Better to be honest so people that don't like cheating won't be unwilling participants. The most distasteful part of your profile is the useless 'legal notice' on the bottom lol

Lol it’s been on there so long I’m worried to take it off !! "

Absolutely don’t take it off!! You have you’re reasons and it’s best to know now!!

Just delete the block the trolls...they can cry wank during the Sunday church service they clearly go to every week, being such sinless people (you know, being on Fab and all!!)

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

Truth is 2% of men will care if you are . The other 98% probably haven’t even read your profile . It won’t make the slightest difference. Probably will make you more popular as guys are probably married too and won’t have to worry about you asking to meet at awkward times

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

"Better to be honest so people that don't like cheating won't be unwilling participants. The most distasteful part of your profile is the useless 'legal notice' on the bottom lol

Lol it’s been on there so long I’m worried to take it off !!

Absolutely don’t take it off!! You have you’re reasons and it’s best to know now!!

Just delete the block the trolls...they can cry wank during the Sunday church service they clearly go to every week, being such sinless people (you know, being on Fab and all!!)"

I'm pretty certain she was talking about the legal notice bit....

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By *rinthiaMan
over a year ago

dundee

As you said right at the start

Dammed if you do , dammed if you don’t.

Personally leave it as it is

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By *nowy and the GruffaloCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"The replies should be interesting.

If this was a guy he'd be ripped to shreds. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Decided to be honest on my profile and admit I’m not single but don’t have permission !!

Seems some people feel they need to express their distaste to this which of course bothers me none but does seem to offend somewhat

Thoughts ?? Should I remove and lie ? "

It's not your business what they think of you as much as it's not their business to feel the need to vocalise their distaste towards you. No one knows the dynamics of your relationship but you and your partner so tell them to shove their opinion up their ring piece

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The replies should be interesting.

If this was a guy he'd be ripped to shreds.

Not by me. My opinion would be the same either way. We're not all looking for an excuse to bash men whenever we get the chance.

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

Well said xx

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Decided to be honest on my profile and admit I’m not single but don’t have permission !!

Seems some people feel they need to express their distaste to this which of course bothers me none but does seem to offend somewhat

Thoughts ?? Should I remove and lie ? "

Good for you being honest and upfront...........you filthy cheating slutbag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The choices you make are yours along with the reasons you have made them.

No one else has walked in your shoes, so the opinions of others are a matter solely for those who wish to express them.

Me, I'm not here to condemn others for their choices, I cannot know what their lives may be....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Better to be honest so people that don't like cheating won't be unwilling participants. The most distasteful part of your profile is the useless 'legal notice' on the bottom lol

Lol it’s been on there so long I’m worried to take it off !!

Absolutely don’t take it off!! You have you’re reasons and it’s best to know now!!

Just delete the block the trolls...they can cry wank during the Sunday church service they clearly go to every week, being such sinless people (you know, being on Fab and all!!)"

As much as I don’t like people who send nasty messages, that’s a bit harsh. I don’t agree with cheating but I’m certainly not cry wanking during a church service. That’s just as judgmental as the trolls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Decided to be honest on my profile and admit I’m not single but don’t have permission !!

Seems some people feel they need to express their distaste to this which of course bothers me none but does seem to offend somewhat

Thoughts ?? Should I remove and lie ?

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Better to be honest so people that don't like cheating won't be unwilling participants. The most distasteful part of your profile is the useless 'legal notice' on the bottom lol

Lol it’s been on there so long I’m worried to take it off !!

Absolutely don’t take it off!! You have you’re reasons and it’s best to know now!!

Just delete the block the trolls...they can cry wank during the Sunday church service they clearly go to every week, being such sinless people (you know, being on Fab and all!!)

Was a joke, but okay!!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

It’s up to you honey what you do, no one really knows your situation and why, only you do but be prepared for the haters who will always come out.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Better to be honest so people that don't like cheating won't be unwilling participants. The most distasteful part of your profile is the useless 'legal notice' on the bottom lol

Lol it’s been on there so long I’m worried to take it off !!

Absolutely don’t take it off!! You have you’re reasons and it’s best to know now!!

Just delete the block the trolls...they can cry wank during the Sunday church service they clearly go to every week, being such sinless people (you know, being on Fab and all!!)

Was a joke, but okay!!"

Sorry I missed the joke. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Better to be honest so people that don't like cheating won't be unwilling participants. The most distasteful part of your profile is the useless 'legal notice' on the bottom lol

Lol it’s been on there so long I’m worried to take it off !!

Absolutely don’t take it off!! You have you’re reasons and it’s best to know now!!

Just delete the block the trolls...they can cry wank during the Sunday church service they clearly go to every week, being such sinless people (you know, being on Fab and all!!)

Was a joke, but okay!!

Sorry I missed the joke. x"

We put our sensible reply up above! Same as you....don’t necessarily agree with cheating, but at least she’s being honest on her profile and not for people to all get in her face...just block and move on x

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Nope OP being upfront about it is the right thing to do,then people have a choice to get involved or not.

Other people shouldn't message and have a go at you for your choices,report them if they are abusive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Decided to be honest on my profile and admit I’m not single but don’t have permission !!

Seems some people feel they need to express their distaste to this which of course bothers me none but does seem to offend somewhat

Thoughts ?? Should I remove and lie ?

General advice is to be honest.

Trouble is when you are you're vilified for it.

My advice here is pretty uniform. Run your profile your way and if people don't like it they can not interact with you.

Seems simple eh?

Thick skin comes in handy too "

Don’t put up with abuse. Take it off. None of anyone’s bloody business anyway. As long as you tell anyone you speak to privately or are potentially going to meet with I don’t see wtf it’s got to do with anyone else.

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By *justfunxMan
over a year ago

pembs

People are on here for various reasons

Married, single, complicated

No one knows what your home sex life is like and the situation there

You should leave it on at least people know why you can’t accom

And the judgmental people should just move on if their not happy or delete their account

After all we’re all here to just have a good time and living our sexual fantasies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Better to be honest so people that don't like cheating won't be unwilling participants. The most distasteful part of your profile is the useless 'legal notice' on the bottom lol

Lol it’s been on there so long I’m worried to take it off !!

Absolutely don’t take it off!! You have you’re reasons and it’s best to know now!!

Just delete the block the trolls...they can cry wank during the Sunday church service they clearly go to every week, being such sinless people (you know, being on Fab and all!!)

Was a joke, but okay!!

Sorry I missed the joke. x

Agreed. It’s the ones that meet without telling you that I have a problem with.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"People are on here for various reasons

Married, single, complicated

No one knows what your home sex life is like and the situation there

You should leave it on at least people know why you can’t accom

And the judgmental people should just move on if their not happy or delete their account

After all we’re all here to just have a good time and living our sexual fantasies

Why should she ‘accom’ though even if she was single? Who allows strangers into their homes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Decided to be honest on my profile and admit I’m not single but don’t have permission !!

Seems some people feel they need to express their distaste to this which of course bothers me none but does seem to offend somewhat

Thoughts ?? Should I remove and lie ? "

I'd be honest (as you have been). I have done that also. If it's not for some people, they should just move on from your profile. However, do remember that we live in a world where people like to be 'offended'.

Good for you and good luck. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, pretty much what most are saying. As long as it’s advertised & you’re open from the start, no issues.

Some people may feel very uncomfortable if they found out after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope OP being upfront about it is the right thing to do,then people have a choice to get involved or not.

Other people shouldn't message and have a go at you for your choices,report them if they are abusive."

Unfortunately some people are very careful to condemn and critisise without being outright abusive. You can't report something that may be seen as an 'expression of viewpoint'

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"Nope OP being upfront about it is the right thing to do,then people have a choice to get involved or not.

Other people shouldn't message and have a go at you for your choices,report them if they are abusive.

Unfortunately some people are very careful to condemn and critisise without being outright abusive. You can't report something that may be seen as an 'expression of viewpoint'"

No but if anyone messages her and is abusive she should report .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope OP being upfront about it is the right thing to do,then people have a choice to get involved or not.

Other people shouldn't message and have a go at you for your choices,report them if they are abusive.

Unfortunately some people are very careful to condemn and critisise without being outright abusive. You can't report something that may be seen as an 'expression of viewpoint'

No but if anyone messages her and is abusive she should report ."

Totally agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope OP being upfront about it is the right thing to do,then people have a choice to get involved or not.

Other people shouldn't message and have a go at you for your choices,report them if they are abusive.

Unfortunately some people are very careful to condemn and critisise without being outright abusive. You can't report something that may be seen as an 'expression of viewpoint'"

So people actually take time to message to give their opinion/abuse when they’re not interested in meeting someone anyway? Why? God some people really have no life. Not worth worrying about sad folk like that I’d say. Laugh, delete and block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope OP being upfront about it is the right thing to do,then people have a choice to get involved or not.

Other people shouldn't message and have a go at you for your choices,report them if they are abusive.

Unfortunately some people are very careful to condemn and critisise without being outright abusive. You can't report something that may be seen as an 'expression of viewpoint'

Indeed! Pretty pathetic really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Decided to be honest on my profile and admit I’m not single but don’t have permission !!

Seems some people feel they need to express their distaste to this which of course bothers me none but does seem to offend somewhat

Thoughts ?? Should I remove and lie ? "

Your being honest and that's no bad thing. There was a post recently about honesty, if you can find it check it out.

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

I'm happily Married and fab is my relaxing read,dirty chat and wanking material with all the sexy pics and cams and i bet its the same for most on fab, if people don't like it that's not my problem I feel the same as you OP

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By *aling69Man
over a year ago

London

"Nope OP being upfront about it is the right thing to do,then people have a choice to get involved or not.

Other people shouldn't message and have a go at you for your choices,report them if they are abusive.

Unfortunately some people are very careful to condemn and critisise without being outright abusive. You can't report something that may be seen as an 'expression of viewpoint'

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will NEVER be damned if you are honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You will NEVER be damned if you are honest.

I'll forward you some of my mail next time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is the goose and gander syndrome once again... The truth is that there are hypocrites on this site... It is your life, your body and enjoy it to the full... This life is not a rehersal...

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By *justfunxMan
over a year ago

pembs

"People are on here for various reasons

Married, single, complicated

No one knows what your home sex life is like and the situation there

You should leave it on at least people know why you can’t accom

And the judgmental people should just move on if their not happy or delete their account

After all we’re all here to just have a good time and living our sexual fantasies

Why should she ‘accom’ though even if she was single? Who allows strangers into their homes? "

If you say your single and can’t accom

People auto brain in gear and think your married accommodation can be a dangerous game.

had female friends who have been stalked from here

I don’t accom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People are on here for various reasons

Married, single, complicated

No one knows what your home sex life is like and the situation there

You should leave it on at least people know why you can’t accom

And the judgmental people should just move on if their not happy or delete their account

After all we’re all here to just have a good time and living our sexual fantasies

Why should she ‘accom’ though even if she was single? Who allows strangers into their homes?

If you say your single and can’t accom

People auto brain in gear and think your married accommodation can be a dangerous game.

had female friends who have been stalked from here

I don’t accom "

Generally, people only assume that if it's men who can't accommodate.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"Decided to be honest on my profile and admit I’m not single but don’t have permission !!

Seems some people feel they need to express their distaste to this which of course bothers me none but does seem to offend somewhat

Thoughts ?? Should I remove and lie ? "

I'm in the same situation as you OP, I have it on my profile and it does effect the amount of interest I get, I also get blocked quite a lot. There are however, people on fab that will meet people in out situation and they won't judge.

Those on here that do not approve, I respect them and their views, I don't let them effect me because I'll never meet them. If your getting messages from them then block them - they don't like you so no loss to you. Enjoy fab with those people that don't make our behaviour an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Truth is 2% of men will care if you are . The other 98% probably haven’t even read your profile . It won’t make the slightest difference. Probably will make you more popular as guys are probably married too and won’t have to worry about you asking to meet at awkward times "

Dam you two are hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Decided to be honest on my profile and admit I’m not single but don’t have permission !!

Seems some people feel they need to express their distaste to this which of course bothers me none but does seem to offend somewhat

Thoughts ?? Should I remove and lie ?

General advice is to be honest.

Trouble is when you are you're vilified for it.

My advice here is pretty uniform. Run your profile your way and if people don't like it they can not interact with you.

Seems simple eh?

Very thick foreskin comes in handy too "

What has this got to do with it rach ?

Check your auto carrot babe before sending x

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"Decided to be honest on my profile and admit I’m not single but don’t have permission !!

Seems some people feel they need to express their distaste to this which of course bothers me none but does seem to offend somewhat

Thoughts ?? Should I remove and lie ?

General advice is to be honest.

Trouble is when you are you're vilified for it.

My advice here is pretty uniform. Run your profile your way and if people don't like it they can not interact with you.

Seems simple eh?

Very thick foreskin comes in handy too

What has this got to do with it rach ?

Check your auto carrot babe before sending x"

Oh the irony

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By *lackduffyMan
over a year ago

london

"Maybe just add to the line that they should keep such opinions to themselves? I think it's best to be honest. "

Spot on ??

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By *lackduffyMan
over a year ago

london

"How about being honest to your partner?"

I thought that too. I think it’s best we dropped the “honest” word and simply say each to their own. Who are we to be honest to? Fab or Partners . Lol Food for thought

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By *arkhorse66Man
over a year ago

bristol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Decided to be honest on my profile and admit I’m not single but don’t have permission !!

Seems some people feel they need to express their distaste to this which of course bothers me none but does seem to offend somewhat

Thoughts ?? Should I remove and lie ? "

Always be honest!

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Decided to be honest on my profile and admit I’m not single but don’t have permission !!

Seems some people feel they need to express their distaste to this which of course bothers me none but does seem to offend somewhat

Thoughts ?? Should I remove and lie ? "

Be honest its the best way on your profile if people get abusive report them simple as that.

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