FabSwingers.com forum: Hide on who looked at me

By *ustfun009 OP Man
over a year ago

oxford

Whats your view on this? I dont see why people want to look at peoples profiles but not let anyone know they have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What ya talkin about Willis!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you mean ninja mode?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because some men take a view on their profile as meaning the lady wants to fuck them and proceeds to message them.

I've seen how many messages some women get on here for that very reason, can run into hundreds.

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By *ustfun009 OP Man
over a year ago

oxford

"Do you mean ninja mode? "

Yes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats your view on this? I dont see why people want to look at peoples profiles but not let anyone know they have

Its simple if you don't you get harassed by people you wern't interested in after looking at their profiles its not that hard to understand.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Because some men take a view on their profile as meaning the lady wants to fuck them and proceeds to message them.

I've seen how many messages some women get on here for that very reason, can run into hundreds."

Yeah. Me looking at a profile means precisely nothing, but some people get nasty when you look and aren't prepared to drop your knickers right this second. My block list is long enough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone is in ninja mode. I don't bother and don't get even half the hassle you would think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I don't want it to be mistaken for an invite to message, or that I'm interested.

Most of the time I look at profiles out of curiosity, not because I want to meet them.

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By *ustfun009 OP Man
over a year ago

oxford

"Because some men take a view on their profile as meaning the lady wants to fuck them and proceeds to message them.

I've seen how many messages some women get on here for that very reason, can run into hundreds."

Very true there are a lot of idiots on here who think they are gods gift lol

I am fully aware ladies get loads of messages thats why i only reply if i am lucky enough to get one

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Not everyone is in ninja mode. I don't bother and don't get even half the hassle you would think. "

I got a lot before I turned it on, and some of it was really bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because I don't want it to be mistaken for an invite to message, or that I'm interested.

Most of the time I look at profiles out of curiosity, not because I want to meet them. "

I look at profiles too out of curiosity, yeah you may get the odd knobhead but I haven't had nearly as much bother as you may think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does this mean when I view a profile. The profile owner will always know ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does this mean when I view a profile. The profile owner will always know ?

I think if your site supporter and the person who looked isn't in ninja mode then yes but I don't know who's looked at me

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Does this mean when I view a profile. The profile owner will always know ?

If they're a site supporter, if they look when you're in the last 100 views, unless you disable being seen.

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By *cedGemsWoman
over a year ago

South West Wales ;-)

"Because I don't want it to be mistaken for an invite to message, or that I'm interested.

Most of the time I look at profiles out of curiosity, not because I want to meet them. "

Very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because some men take a view on their profile as meaning the lady wants to fuck them and proceeds to message them.

I've seen how many messages some women get on here for that very reason, can run into hundreds."

Exactly this!

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because some men take a view on their profile as meaning the lady wants to fuck them and proceeds to message them.

I've seen how many messages some women get on here for that very reason, can run into hundreds.

Exactly this!

V x "

Funny I don't get these hundreds of messages

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"Because some men take a view on their profile as meaning the lady wants to fuck them and proceeds to message them.

I've seen how many messages some women get on here for that very reason, can run into hundreds.

Exactly this!

V x "

Yes nails it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because some men take a view on their profile as meaning the lady wants to fuck them and proceeds to message them.

I've seen how many messages some women get on here for that very reason, can run into hundreds.

Exactly this!

V x

Yes nails it "

Are these hundreds of messages a result of lack of filters rather than looking at profiles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because some men take a view on their profile as meaning the lady wants to fuck them and proceeds to message them.

I've seen how many messages some women get on here for that very reason, can run into hundreds.

Exactly this!

V x

Yes nails it

Are these hundreds of messages a result of lack of filters rather than looking at profiles? "

I would say the reams of unwanted messages we received before hiding our profile when looking, were more down to the sender's desperation and lack of common sense...neither of which is attractive!

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does it bother you what other people’s preferences are OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because some men take a view on their profile as meaning the lady wants to fuck them and proceeds to message them.

I've seen how many messages some women get on here for that very reason, can run into hundreds.

Exactly this!

V x

Yes nails it

Are these hundreds of messages a result of lack of filters rather than looking at profiles?

I would say the reams of unwanted messages we received before hiding our profile when looking, were more down to the sender's desperation and lack of common sense...neither of which is attractive!

V x "

And do you have strict filters to reduce your wanted messages? I assume you have blocked single male profiles if you are looking couples and women only?

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"Whats your view on this? I dont see why people want to look at peoples profiles but not let anyone know they have

Its simple if you don't you get harassed by people you wern't interested in after looking at their profiles its not that hard to understand. "

Yep this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I think some people would be quite scared at the amount of times I have a little browse through their pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell ya what, I reckon thats the rationale for most who are in ninja

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I don't get it, i like people to know that i looked, and saw nothing that i liked...

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"I don't get it, i like people to know that i looked, and saw nothing that i liked... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats your view on this? I dont see why people want to look at peoples profiles but not let anyone know they have

because there are certain aspects of profiles that aren't immediately obvious unless you look such as the ages of both of a couple or their sexuality...then once you've looked and they're not for you, you don't require any correspondence from them. We used to get quite frequent messages along the lines of "See you've looked at our profile..." from people who don't quite get the message that if you've looked and moved on, you're not interested...

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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago

chelmsford

I too am getting thoroughly pi$$ed off with the hundreds of messages I recieve daily lol.

Where do I find "ninja mode?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What ya talkin about Willis! "

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

I like looking at profiles male & female, because I'm just nosey.....look at outfits, type of pictures taken...if they know i looked then that's ok....cause I did...

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I didn't know about the Ninja mode when I first joined.

Being the nosey cow I am, I look at a lot of profiles.

When in the forums, I'm curious about posters so I'll check them out.

When people appear on local updates, being nosey again.

I'd regularly then get messages from those people. Some lead to intresting conversations & a couple of meets, but the majority I had no interest in, but I was still polite back then, I'd sit there stressing over how to in the nicest way say, no thanks.

I had a serious case of fat fingers once, scrolling down my phone, accidently clicked on the last profile, I immediately clicked back didn't even look at the profile.

I did this several times.

He obviously took my repeated views as being intrested.

When I explained my error & apologised, I got a torrent of abuse!

I found out about going ninja shortly after that & I've been hiding ever since

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think most people who get a lot of messages have worked out filters that suit them.

Do I let guys message me? Yes. Do I complain about my inbox? Yes. Does this mean I haven't thought about it? No.

I wish we could have a conversation about inbox management without someone saying that if you just try (usually obvious thing), the problem will be solved. In this case, ninja mode solves one of the issues for those who get a lot of messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats your view on this? I dont see why people want to look at peoples profiles but not let anyone know they have

I don't want an inbox full of "I noticed that you've looked at me. You interested?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you mean ninja mode? "

Ninja mode hahaha totally stealing that now

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere

I once looked at a profile that piqued my interest. Read through it and it was clear I wouldn’t be what they were looking for so just ignored. Within 5 minutes I received a mesage basxially telling me I disgusted them and to never look at their profile again blah blah (you get the picture) so obviously I obliged by viewing every half hour or so until I got fed up. Funny though, they didn’t block me....

Anyway, I’ve now got my ninja mode turned on just for that very reason

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I once looked at a profile that piqued my interest. Read through it and it was clear I wouldn’t be what they were looking for so just ignored. Within 5 minutes I received a mesage basxially telling me I disgusted them and to never look at their profile again blah blah (you get the picture) so obviously I obliged by viewing every half hour or so until I got fed up. Funny though, they didn’t block me....

Anyway, I’ve now got my ninja mode turned on just for that very reason "

I love you.

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere

Anyway, I’ve now got my ninja mode turned on just for that very reason

I love you. "

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Anyway, I’ve now got my ninja mode turned on just for that very reason "

How rude... But I love your response x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyway, I’ve now got my ninja mode turned on just for that very reason "

I've had similar messages and I usually continue by fabbing all their pics

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Anyway, I’ve now got my ninja mode turned on just for that very reason

I've had similar messages and I usually continue by fabbing all their pics

I very rarely Fab pictures. I will when someone is that kind of rude to me, though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyway, I’ve now got my ninja mode turned on just for that very reason

How rude... But I love your response x"

I agree, great response to a pair of arse holes!

You would think the aim here is to meet like minded individuals rather than go out of their way to unleash unnecessary abuse. The hundreds of messages must not quite keep them busy enough eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well Justin, there's a lot of stealthy folk that just don't want to get a "hi, did you like what you saw?" kinda message when you have had a peek. Also, nosiness.

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere

Anyway, I’ve now got my ninja mode turned on just for that very reason

I've had similar messages and I usually continue by fabbing all their pics

I very rarely Fab pictures. I will when someone is that kind of rude to me, though. "

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere

Anyway, I’ve now got my ninja mode turned on just for that very reason

I've had similar messages and I usually continue by fabbing all their pics

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere

Anyway, I’ve now got my ninja mode turned on just for that very reason

How rude... But I love your response x"

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere

Anyway, I’ve now got my ninja mode turned on just for that very reason

How rude... But I love your response x

I agree, great response to a pair of arse holes!

You would think the aim here is to meet like minded individuals rather than go out of their way to unleash unnecessary abuse. The hundreds of messages must not quite keep them busy enough eh

I know full well I ain’t gonna appeal to the vast majority, which is why I read profiles before deciding whether or not to message. It’s not exactly a difficult thing to do. Of course it’s frustrating to find someone who you fancy the pants off and read the profile to find you aren’t what they’re looking for but that’s life

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I get hundreds on a busy day. But most of them I choose to delete within seconds. I get more than I can reasonably handle. Using the filters that get me what I need. There are still downsides, which are mostly about people not treating me with respect.

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere

"I get hundreds on a busy day. But most of them I choose to delete within seconds. I get more than I can reasonably handle. Using the filters that get me what I need. There are still downsides, which are mostly about people not treating me with respect. "

I treat everyone with respect personally until they give me a reason not too. Unfortunately not many people seem to share those (what I consider to be basic) qualities

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I treat everyone with respect personally until they give me a reason not too. Unfortunately not many people seem to share those (what I consider to be basic) qualities "

Sure. I'm not saying everyone on Fab is awful. But most of my complaints would vanish if the messages I got were more targeted, respectful, etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The average day of a single male on Fab-

*beep beep beep*

Snoozes alarm.

Lifts phone - checks :

Kik

Snapchat

messenger

texts

missed calls

Notes no messages - scratch balls.

Jumps out of bed and helicopters cock.

Goes to mirror - checks profile, wonders why no one has messaged.

Has shower - Takes a quick wet shirt selfie.

Checks phone again. No change.

Scratches balls and helicopters back to bedroom.

Dries himself and takes a towel selfie for POF.

Throws on Grey joggers and goes downstairs.

Makes a brew, logs on to Fab.

Checks mail - no messages.

Checks looked at me - 45 views.

Scrolls:

male

Female

male

What?

scrolls back.

Female viewed me.

Changes profile pic to towel selfie.

Looks at pics on profile.

Gets a semi on

Checks out clunge/tits/clunge.

Ignores profile text

Composes message:

Hey how u doin'.

I saw you checked out the goods, wanna piece of the action? Guaranteed to make u squirt and make ur dreams cum

true. I can be round in an hour. Wear heels.

*attaches 5 of 32 available cock pics*

Send.

*hears wife getting out of bed. Pours bottle of milk down the sink*

Messages again.

Cmon, I'm hot 4 u bby.

Did my last message arrive?

*Wife arrives downstairs, bloke hides semi on*

Good morning dearest, cuppa?

Oh, out of milk, I'l go and grab some.

*Gets to shop, parks outside*

Messages again:

I'm ready for u but only have 15 minutes...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

*howl*

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere

"The average day of a single male on Fab-

*beep beep beep*

Snoozes alarm.

Lifts phone - checks :

Kik

Snapchat

messenger

texts

missed calls

Notes no messages - scratch balls.

Jumps out of bed and helicopters cock.

Goes to mirror - checks profile, wonders why no one has messaged.

Has shower - Takes a quick wet shirt selfie.

Checks phone again. No change.

Scratches balls and helicopters back to bedroom.

Dries himself and takes a towel selfie for POF.

Throws on Grey joggers and goes downstairs.

Makes a brew, logs on to Fab.

Checks mail - no messages.

Checks looked at me - 45 views.

Scrolls:

male

Female

male

What?

scrolls back.

Female viewed me.

Changes profile pic to towel selfie.

Looks at pics on profile.

Gets a semi on

Checks out clunge/tits/clunge.

Ignores profile text

Composes message:

Hey how u doin'.

I saw you checked out the goods, wanna piece of the action? Guaranteed to make u squirt and make ur dreams cum

true. I can be round in an hour. Wear heels.

*attaches 5 of 32 available cock pics*

Send.

*hears wife getting out of bed. Pours bottle of milk down the sink*

Messages again.

Cmon, I'm hot 4 u bby.

Did my last message arrive?

*Wife arrives downstairs, bloke hides semi on*

Good morning dearest, cuppa?

Oh, out of milk, I'l go and grab some.

*Gets to shop, parks outside*

Messages again:

I'm ready for u but only have 15 minutes...

That’s made me want a cuppa now so just had to put the kettle on. Anyone else want one??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because I think some people would be quite scared at the amount of times I have a little browse through their pics

Agreed

We like stealth mode as allows both of us to check out a profile one of us has seen and tells the other, allows us to be nosey without recourse, lots of people think a view is a sign of interest, nah if we were interested we’d communicate with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because some men take a view on their profile as meaning the lady wants to fuck them and proceeds to message them.

I've seen how many messages some women get on here for that very reason, can run into hundreds.

Exactly this!

V x

Yes nails it

Are these hundreds of messages a result of lack of filters rather than looking at profiles?

I would say the reams of unwanted messages we received before hiding our profile when looking, were more down to the sender's desperation and lack of common sense...neither of which is attractive!

V x

And do you have strict filters to reduce your wanted messages? I assume you have blocked single male profiles if you are looking couples and women only? "

We're not looking for couples and women only, so why would we block all single men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The average day of a single male on Fab-

*beep beep beep*

Snoozes alarm.

Lifts phone - checks :

Kik

Snapchat

messenger

texts

missed calls

Notes no messages - scratch balls.

Jumps out of bed and helicopters cock.

Goes to mirror - checks profile, wonders why no one has messaged.

Has shower - Takes a quick wet shirt selfie.

Checks phone again. No change.

Scratches balls and helicopters back to bedroom.

Dries himself and takes a towel selfie for POF.

Throws on Grey joggers and goes downstairs.

Makes a brew, logs on to Fab.

Checks mail - no messages.

Checks looked at me - 45 views.

Scrolls:

male

Female

male

What?

scrolls back.

Female viewed me.

Changes profile pic to towel selfie.

Looks at pics on profile.

Gets a semi on

Checks out clunge/tits/clunge.

Ignores profile text

Composes message:

Hey how u doin'.

I saw you checked out the goods, wanna piece of the action? Guaranteed to make u squirt and make ur dreams cum

true. I can be round in an hour. Wear heels.

*attaches 5 of 32 available cock pics*

Send.

*hears wife getting out of bed. Pours bottle of milk down the sink*

Messages again.

Cmon, I'm hot 4 u bby.

Did my last message arrive?

*Wife arrives downstairs, bloke hides semi on*

Good morning dearest, cuppa?

Oh, out of milk, I'l go and grab some.

*Gets to shop, parks outside*

Messages again:

I'm ready for u but only have 15 minutes...

Haha..brilliant!!

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