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By *awtynath88 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Ive been dating this woman for a couple of months now, and want to tell her about my interest in swinging, I think she will be up for it as she is very kinky, I did drop a hint about her with another guy and she did seem turned on and played along with the idea but when she realised I was serious she seemed a bit shocked and said I can't be that Into her or love her,... How do I re aproach this subject?

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By *voryforebonyMan
over a year ago

boogie town


"Ive been dating this woman for a couple of months now, and want to tell her about my interest in swinging, I think she will be up for it as she is very kinky, I did drop a hint about her with another guy and she did seem turned on and played along with the idea but when she realised I was serious she seemed a bit shocked and said I can't be that Into her or love her,... How do I re aproach this subject? "

Give her my phone number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Introduce it as a game one evening in the pub.

Talk about if you "would" with various people in the bar.

Things could slowly grow from there. Afterwards chat about it and fantasise.

Slowly is the key.

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By *ream3.14159Man
over a year ago

Here & there


"Ive been dating this woman for a couple of months now, and want to tell her about my interest in swinging, I think she will be up for it as she is very kinky, I did drop a hint about her with another guy and she did seem turned on and played along with the idea but when she realised I was serious she seemed a bit shocked and said I can't be that Into her or love her,... How do I re aproach this subject? "

I dont have an answer but have a question, if the subject come up again and she makes it clear she's not interested, what is more important to you staying with her to build up the relationship or swinging?

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Ive been dating this woman for a couple of months now, and want to tell her about my interest in swinging, I think she will be up for it as she is very kinky, I did drop a hint about her with another guy and she did seem turned on and played along with the idea but when she realised I was serious she seemed a bit shocked and said I can't be that Into her or love her,... How do I re aproach this subject? "

Fantasy and reality 2 different things ....what turns your partner on in fantasy maybe won't in reality ...and tbh you've not been together that long....you really think swinging is more important than the relationship?

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By *awtynath88 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Ive been dating this woman for a couple of months now, and want to tell her about my interest in swinging, I think she will be up for it as she is very kinky, I did drop a hint about her with another guy and she did seem turned on and played along with the idea but when she realised I was serious she seemed a bit shocked and said I can't be that Into her or love her,... How do I re aproach this subject?

Fantasy and reality 2 different things ....what turns your partner on in fantasy maybe won't in reality ...and tbh you've not been together that long....you really think swinging is more important than the relationship? "

Our relationship is the number 1 priority, swinging is just an interest of mine I'm in know shape addicted and am loyal so it wouldn't bother me if she wasn't Intrested, I just don't want to scare her off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s always a dodgy subject at first so it needs revisiting the more comfortable you both become with eachother!

Let’s be honest how many people would jump at the idea on the first time of asking?

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Ive been dating this woman for a couple of months now, and want to tell her about my interest in swinging, I think she will be up for it as she is very kinky, I did drop a hint about her with another guy and she did seem turned on and played along with the idea but when she realised I was serious she seemed a bit shocked and said I can't be that Into her or love her,... How do I re aproach this subject?

Fantasy and reality 2 different things ....what turns your partner on in fantasy maybe won't in reality ...and tbh you've not been together that long....you really think swinging is more important than the relationship?

Our relationship is the number 1 priority, swinging is just an interest of mine I'm in know shape addicted and am loyal so it wouldn't bother me if she wasn't Intrested, I just don't want to scare her off "

Then leave it.....grow the relationship first, stronger that is who knows what will happen....good luck OP

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

Does she know about your Bisexuality? That may be a Deal Breaker. Honestly is the key.

Good luck xx

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