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Friend Request, Then Blocked??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A couple sent me a Wink then a Friend Request, I accepted there Request, and now they have blocked me! Honestly what is the point in that?

It's not like I was the one who sent the invite!

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By *landPeggyCouple
over a year ago

Holland !

It's called teasing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's called teasing."

Lol this site has got plenty of teasers (Fakers) floating about!

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

Barry, people use it as a way of quickly seeing your private pics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Barry, people use it as a way of quickly seeing your private pics."

Yeah I understand that, but to Block you after they have saw them??

I was really made up when I got the request, us Single fellas don't get many Friend Requests! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't let it concern you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Barry, people use it as a way of quickly seeing your private pics.

Yeah I understand that, but to Block you after they have saw them??

I was really made up when I got the request, us Single fellas don't get many Friend Requests! Lol"

Aww, i'll send you s friend request. Promise I won't block you. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they recognised you and panicked?

I've heard of that happening before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i hate it when people do that.so ignorant and rude. block them back lol

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By *riendlymasseurMan
over a year ago

birmingham Warwickshire &Worcestershire

I've had it happen too. Possible fakes mate shame. Don't worry but they should be named and shamed

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


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but they should be named and shamed "

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes they only want 2 look at your pics

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

yeah i had same where even after chatted and they talked about meeting so said yes great and next time saw them online in my friends list went say hi and found blocked.

so prob change of mind eh oh well move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had it happen too. Possible fakes mate shame. Don't worry but they should be named and shamed "

So they sent a friends invite, seen his pics, didnt like the look of him (we are allowed a preference you know) and so blocked so that they didnt make the mistake of contacting him again.

Does that make them fake? WTF?

Or, would it be better, to see his private pics and just delete from friends list, only to maybe ask again in a years time?

Sorry, some people really need to have a serious word with themselves. Just cos someone has a preference doesnt make them a fake or for them to be named and shamed.

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A couple sent me a Wink then a Friend Request, I accepted there Request, and now they have blocked me! Honestly what is the point in that?

It's not like I was the one who sent the invite!"

although were sure your a very nice guy maybe they didnt like your private pics, maybe they where turned off by them maybe they recognized you any of these things may cause them to block you and therefor not want to see or hear from you again.

Dont worry about it just move on there are millions of others out there just waiting to hear from you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So they could see your private pictures...

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


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but they should be named and shamed

Why? "

+1

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Nowt stranger than folk...

we all seek to understand why .. the only people who could answer that are the peeps who blocked you, as others have suggested .. move on to the next in line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

happens to couples also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Barry, people use it as a way of quickly seeing your private pics."

As far as I am aware, friends can only see public and friends only pictures; the private one's can only seen by attaching them to a message and by the person who set the profile up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So they could see your private pictures..."

No I don't think they can, only friends only pictures

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"So they could see your private pictures...

No I don't think they can, only friends only pictures "

Friends only pics are known as private pics to most people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All Valid points there! I'm not into naming and shaming, it's one persons word against another's, as for there profile, it was a bit iffy, 1picture, 0 Private pics and no Verifications, TBH I'm not that arsed, was just wanting to see if anyone else had experienced the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So they could see your private pictures...

No I don't think they can, only friends only pictures

Friends only pics are known as private pics to most people."

Ah I didn't know that, well I've only been here 2.5 years and only just worked out the difference between all three picture settings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's called teasing.

Lol this site has got plenty of teasers (Fakers) floating about!"

There is a massive difference between teasing and being fake!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I've had it happen too. Possible fakes mate shame. Don't worry but they should be named and shamed

So they sent a friends invite, seen his pics, didnt like the look of him (we are allowed a preference you know) and so blocked so that they didnt make the mistake of contacting him again.

Does that make them fake? WTF?

Or, would it be better, to see his private pics and just delete from friends list, only to maybe ask again in a years time?

Sorry, some people really need to have a serious word with themselves. Just cos someone has a preference doesnt make them a fake or for them to be named and shamed.

Steve"

this...^^^^ they saw something they didnt like or want...thats all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've sent "winks" and "friends invites" on many occaisions purely unintentionally.

Usually though, I'll send a message saying sorry, and I explain it was sent in error

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A couple sent me a Wink then a Friend Request, I accepted there Request, and now they have blocked me! Honestly what is the point in that?

It's not like I was the one who sent the invite!"

I've had exactly the same thing happen to me. Very annoying I must say .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A couple sent me a Wink then a Friend Request, I accepted there Request, and now they have blocked me! Honestly what is the point in that?

It's not like I was the one who sent the invite!

I've had exactly the same thing happen to me. Very annoying I must say . "

Likewise. Now I insist on a message with any invite. Not 100% foolproof but it filters most of the pic ooglers!

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

I've inadvertently blocked someone thanks to _iewing emails on my phone! Between having to enlarge the screen to read and the bloody touch screen not always doing what you ask and doing what it likes, instead of just moving to the next unread message, it deleted and blocked and then moved to next unread message!

Was only when I used the PC to access the website that i realised what had been done.

I've had the same done to me - had to re-add someone as they'd deleted me by mistake when _iewing via their phone lol

Not saying this was the case for the OP but giving it as an example of a new type of problem now we're accessing the site by dodgy smart phones lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

they winked

they sent a friends request

they blocked

yes name and shame them, if you need a category for the naming and shaming, log it under 'using the site's tools'

and choosing not to avail themselves of the OP's tool.

I personally would hunt the feckers down and tar and feather.....

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

really confused as to why anyone would accept a friends invite from someone they had no prior communication with anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"really confused as to why anyone would accept a friends invite from someone they had no prior communication with anyway"

I accepted there Request because... As a Single Male, Friend Requests are as rare as Rocking horse Shit!!! Lol

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

They came, they saw, they scarpered.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


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I accepted there Request because... As a Single Male, Friend Requests are as rare as Rocking horse Shit!!! Lol "

Really? How many wooden turds do you have already?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"really confused as to why anyone would accept a friends invite from someone they had no prior communication with anyway

I accepted there Request because... As a Single Male, Friend Requests are as rare as Rocking horse Shit!!! Lol "

Mate, you're better than that!

Next time you get a friend request, try sending them a message asking them for a bit more about themselves. If you get something back, then it's up to you to accept. If you don't, delete the request and move on.

We've all got needs and requirements some people have a habit of ignoring.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"really confused as to why anyone would accept a friends invite from someone they had no prior communication with anyway

I accepted there Request because... As a Single Male, Friend Requests are as rare as Rocking horse Shit!!! Lol "

They didn't like what they saw, simples. Just forget, I don't think it has happened to us but if it did I wouldn't have a clue. Lol. Don't track what happens after winking or adding. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Barry i wouldn,t let it worry you lad,i get the same,i get jealous husbands giving me grief cos am a well toned lad,and they want me pics then block me.daft fookers they are

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