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"approach someone in a pub, if you thought you recognised them off here? or even were certain you recognised them.....?" no, ive had people come upto me in real life who have recognised me off here and to be honest i havnt appreciated it, infact on a couple of occasions its really naffed me off, so i wouldnt do it to anyone else | |||
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"Generally no, but it depends on the situation, who and a few other things." Totally, if we had met rather than being recognised from a pic...would probably be weirder than not saying anything... But the worst one is when you both look at each other across the PTA meeting, you both know you have met somewhere before and are working it out... when you click one was on the top the other at the bottom of a bunch of bodies in Chams.... | |||
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"approach someone in a pub, if you thought you recognised them off here? or even were certain you recognised them.....?" Depends if we fancied them. | |||
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"approach someone in a pub, if you thought you recognised them off here? or even were certain you recognised them.....?" no...its wrong as u dont know their boundaries, there are several friends off here i am happy to chat to out and about,(usually in tesco lol) but a random approach to someone i dont know well is just indiscreet, | |||
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"why not iv asked if i think ive seen them on here no prob just ask if threr on fab no hardship as they say dont ask dont get " walk up to me with my friends or kids and mention fab and you would get a my drink shoved where the sun dont shine discretion matters to some of us | |||
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"I have recognised a couple whilst shopping in Tesco's, standing right next to me, said nothing" If they want to say hi and have general conversation, then yes. As far as the site convo, there's a time and place I think. | |||
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"why not iv asked if i think ive seen them on here no prob just ask if threr on fab no hardship as they say dont ask dont get " i wouldnt because you dont know if your going to put them in a awkward situation, all because you see someone whos alone does not mean they are alone, what if you see a lady who you know from off here so you go over and say....hi are you from fab? and the next thing her hubby walks over and asked where she knows you from? Something you may see as innocent maybe something thats your not thanked for i think privacy is important, even if i see someone i have met either at a club, party or privately i would never go and talk to them if i saw them in every day life, not because im rude but because again you never know why they maybe with and they may not want to explain to people who you are if however we made eye contact and they said hi i would say hello back | |||
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"why not iv asked if i think ive seen them on here no prob just ask if threr on fab no hardship as they say dont ask dont get walk up to me with my friends or kids and mention fab and you would get a my drink shoved where the sun dont shine discretion matters to some of us" +1 | |||
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"I have recognised a couple whilst shopping in Tesco's, standing right next to me, said nothing If they want to say hi and have general conversation, then yes. As far as the site convo, there's a time and place I think. " exactly...the ppl i talk to have been to our house, in some cases met our kids, we can have a general chat. About day to day things. Quite frankly if all i have done is fuck someone , or they have perved my pics, what on earth do we have to talk about! | |||
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"I had it once while shopping in the asda next to chams, because i live close i see a few people from chams out and about Anyway i was packing the shopping in the boot of the car and as i bent over a felt a hand on my arse and a guy said "alright sexy?" i turned round to see a guy i knew from inside the club and my kids stood at the side of the car watching him, i was still with my husband at the time and my eldest daughter wanted to know who the man was who felt my arse and even told her dad a guy felt my bum in asda car park i wast impressed he just laughted and walked off" And that is why we need tasers...straight to the bollocks! | |||
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"I wouldnt.... but ive had guys come up to me that have seen me here, one at a petrol station whilst i was filling up, my kids were in the car! Ive had 1 message me after he saw me in town and another message to tell me he'd just been behind me in the queue at tesco's" That is fooking creapy and out of order if you ask me! Particularly with you being with your kids (Unless you were actually good friends with them). I'd never dream about approaching someone from here unless I was friends with them. That's just creepy. I would think it would be a bit nerving for a women to just have some random bloke approach out of nowhere. | |||
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"I had it once while shopping in the asda next to chams, because i live close i see a few people from chams out and about Anyway i was packing the shopping in the boot of the car and as i bent over a felt a hand on my arse and a guy said "alright sexy?" i turned round to see a guy i knew from inside the club and my kids stood at the side of the car watching him, i was still with my husband at the time and my eldest daughter wanted to know who the man was who felt my arse and even told her dad a guy felt my bum in asda car park i wast impressed he just laughted and walked off" You should have slapped him! Fook that, you should have punched him! What goes through some peoples minds??? They are clearly on another planet! | |||
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" And that is why we need tasers...straight to the bollocks!" oooh Jem ya kinky sod im on me way xx | |||
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"why not iv asked if i think ive seen them on here no prob just ask if threr on fab no hardship as they say dont ask dont get " Are you for real??? What makes you think it's ok to invade someone's private life just because you've seen them on Fab???? If you're friends then fair enough and when I say friends I don't just mean on their friends list. When I was here as a couple we were messaged by a guy who said he's seen us in asda and was going to come and say hi. If he had I'd have told him exactly where to go!! We were with our kids at the time, we'd never seen or spoken to this guy before and to put it bluntly he looked like a creep too!!!! Just because people are on here to have fun, that fun being sex, that doesn't give a green light to just barge into someone's private life. Honestly what goes through peoples heads??? I've no doubt there probably will be people on here who would be fine with just being approached by strangers. I can't see there being many though! | |||
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