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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

approach someone in a pub, if you thought you recognised them off here?

or even were certain you recognised them.....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt.... but ive had guys come up to me that have seen me here, one at a petrol station whilst i was filling up, my kids were in the car! Ive had 1 message me after he saw me in town and another message to tell me he'd just been behind me in the queue at tesco's

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By *acciWoman
over a year ago

leeds

No i wouldnt,tho i have seen peeps ive met from here while out shopping and didnt say hi lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but may send a message on here later, discretion means never risking outing someone in our view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Have recognised some, but don't even make eye contact if I can help it. Meets are for here, nowhere else.

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

No but id probably not notice cos im a bit like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I saw someone in the metro centre the other day, wouldn't of dreamed of saying hi. I hope no-one comes up to me when I'm out doing say to day stuff, it's hardly discreet is it! Don't think I would mind too much if we were on a night out just the 2 of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"approach someone in a pub, if you thought you recognised them off here?

or even were certain you recognised them.....?"

no, ive had people come upto me in real life who have recognised me off here and to be honest i havnt appreciated it, infact on a couple of occasions its really naffed me off, so i wouldnt do it to anyone else

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Generally no, but it depends on the situation, who and a few other things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Generally no, but it depends on the situation, who and a few other things."

Totally, if we had met rather than being recognised from a pic...would probably be weirder than not saying anything...

But the worst one is when you both look at each other across the PTA meeting, you both know you have met somewhere before and are working it out... when you click one was on the top the other at the bottom of a bunch of bodies in Chams....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no but i do like to wink at them

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By *appyfuckerMan
over a year ago

in a happy place north wales coast

why not iv asked if i think ive seen them on here no prob just ask if threr on fab no hardship as they say dont ask dont get

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"approach someone in a pub, if you thought you recognised them off here?

or even were certain you recognised them.....?"

Depends if we fancied them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No would'nt out them but does not hurt to chat and be polite and maybe even have a flirt.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Not if I only recognised them from a profile no

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Half the male profiles on here I'd have to ask them to drop their trousers first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no it's not the right place, and you have to be descrite dont you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ha ha very true

(did you see my penis ??)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have recognised a couple whilst shopping in Tesco's, standing right next to me, said nothing

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"approach someone in a pub, if you thought you recognised them off here?

or even were certain you recognised them.....?"

no...its wrong as u dont know their boundaries,

there are several friends off here i am happy to chat to out and about,(usually in tesco lol) but a random approach to someone i dont know well is just indiscreet,

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By *ong_legs2Couple
over a year ago

essex

i (m) was out in a night club with some friends and got reconised, but i was really d*unk and the whole thing took me off guard so i just played dumb n then left

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"why not iv asked if i think ive seen them on here no prob just ask if threr on fab no hardship as they say dont ask dont get "

walk up to me with my friends or kids and mention fab and you would get a my drink shoved where the sun dont shine

discretion matters to some of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have recognised a couple whilst shopping in Tesco's, standing right next to me, said nothing"

If they want to say hi and have general conversation, then yes. As far as the site convo, there's a time and place I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why not iv asked if i think ive seen them on here no prob just ask if threr on fab no hardship as they say dont ask dont get "

i wouldnt because you dont know if your going to put them in a awkward situation, all because you see someone whos alone does not mean they are alone, what if you see a lady who you know from off here so you go over and say....hi are you from fab? and the next thing her hubby walks over and asked where she knows you from?

Something you may see as innocent maybe something thats your not thanked for

i think privacy is important, even if i see someone i have met either at a club, party or privately i would never go and talk to them if i saw them in every day life, not because im rude but because again you never know why they maybe with and they may not want to explain to people who you are

if however we made eye contact and they said hi i would say hello back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why not iv asked if i think ive seen them on here no prob just ask if threr on fab no hardship as they say dont ask dont get

walk up to me with my friends or kids and mention fab and you would get a my drink shoved where the sun dont shine

discretion matters to some of us"

+1

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I have recognised a couple whilst shopping in Tesco's, standing right next to me, said nothing

If they want to say hi and have general conversation, then yes. As far as the site convo, there's a time and place I think. "

exactly...the ppl i talk to have been to our house, in some cases met our kids, we can have a general chat. About day to day things.

Quite frankly if all i have done is fuck someone , or they have perved my pics, what on earth do we have to talk about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had it once while shopping in the asda next to chams, because i live close i see a few people from chams out and about

Anyway i was packing the shopping in the boot of the car and as i bent over a felt a hand on my arse and a guy said "alright sexy?" i turned round to see a guy i knew from inside the club and my kids stood at the side of the car watching him, i was still with my husband at the time and my eldest daughter wanted to know who the man was who felt my arse and even told her dad a guy felt my bum in asda car park

i wast impressed he just laughted and walked off

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I had it once while shopping in the asda next to chams, because i live close i see a few people from chams out and about

Anyway i was packing the shopping in the boot of the car and as i bent over a felt a hand on my arse and a guy said "alright sexy?" i turned round to see a guy i knew from inside the club and my kids stood at the side of the car watching him, i was still with my husband at the time and my eldest daughter wanted to know who the man was who felt my arse and even told her dad a guy felt my bum in asda car park

i wast impressed he just laughted and walked off"

And that is why we need tasers...straight to the bollocks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldnt.... but ive had guys come up to me that have seen me here, one at a petrol station whilst i was filling up, my kids were in the car! Ive had 1 message me after he saw me in town and another message to tell me he'd just been behind me in the queue at tesco's"

That is fooking creapy and out of order if you ask me! Particularly with you being with your kids (Unless you were actually good friends with them).

I'd never dream about approaching someone from here unless I was friends with them. That's just creepy. I would think it would be a bit nerving for a women to just have some random bloke approach out of nowhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had it once while shopping in the asda next to chams, because i live close i see a few people from chams out and about

Anyway i was packing the shopping in the boot of the car and as i bent over a felt a hand on my arse and a guy said "alright sexy?" i turned round to see a guy i knew from inside the club and my kids stood at the side of the car watching him, i was still with my husband at the time and my eldest daughter wanted to know who the man was who felt my arse and even told her dad a guy felt my bum in asda car park

i wast impressed he just laughted and walked off"

You should have slapped him! Fook that, you should have punched him! What goes through some peoples minds??? They are clearly on another planet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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And that is why we need tasers...straight to the bollocks!"

oooh Jem ya kinky sod im on me way xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why not iv asked if i think ive seen them on here no prob just ask if threr on fab no hardship as they say dont ask dont get "

Are you for real??? What makes you think it's ok to invade someone's private life just because you've seen them on Fab????

If you're friends then fair enough and when I say friends I don't just mean on their friends list.

When I was here as a couple we were messaged by a guy who said he's seen us in asda and was going to come and say hi. If he had I'd have told him exactly where to go!! We were with our kids at the time, we'd never seen or spoken to this guy before and to put it bluntly he looked like a creep too!!!!

Just because people are on here to have fun, that fun being sex, that doesn't give a green light to just barge into someone's private life.

Honestly what goes through peoples heads??? I've no doubt there probably will be people on here who would be fine with just being approached by strangers. I can't see there being many though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone through work once who I'd played with and she just said "Hi Nick" without skipping a beat. Only problem was, she was with a friend and she was going to meet her new ***** for the first time. I gather she had a devil of a time explaining to her friend afterwards how she already knew a total stranger!

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