FabSwingers.com forum: Playing separately

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We want to play separately but it’s so hard for Mr S to find someone. It’s so highly frustrating

How do you overcome this? We both have separate accounts but it’s such a struggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why most just meet in couples because men have a harder time on here! Could he go to a club one night? That might be his best bet if fab isn't working for him atm xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That's why most just meet in couples because men have a harder time on here! Could he go to a club one night? That might be his best bet if fab isn't working for him atm xxx "

Thanks for your comment. I think this is a great idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your couple's profile doesn't mention you have separate accounts for this scenario. Pop your other profile names on and that you meet separately maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's why most just meet in couples because men have a harder time on here! Could he go to a club one night? That might be his best bet if fab isn't working for him atm xxx "

Totally agree, we play separately and a club is a great place. People seem so much more amiable face to face in terms they Weill actually have a conversation with you.

Mr has had some lovely meets.

Mrs x

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Fab is so hard for guy's.....

Clubs are for people who want play ues fab to see what on in the club's..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your couple's profile doesn't mention you have separate accounts for this scenario. Pop your other profile names on and that you meet separately maybe."

Thanks Sophee... have updated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your couple's profile doesn't mention you have separate accounts for this scenario. Pop your other profile names on and that you meet separately maybe.

Thanks Sophee... have updated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not just play with other couples rather than separate? Always found it miles more fun, 2 cocks to play with, a girl to play with, never understood the need or want to separate swap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His profile isn't clear he is playing with your consent. With the cannot accommodate and no reference to you, it can appear to many as a married man 'playing away'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We want to play separately but it’s so hard for Mr S to find someone. It’s so highly frustrating

How do you overcome this? We both have separate accounts but it’s such a struggle "

We have 2 couples accounts as i talk to different people but he gets more messages than i do

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By *pikeyMan
over a year ago

chester

Why don't you have a look at going to a local social night and see if you can get a meet from there? It's worked for me in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about including some pics of your Mr. - all you have got public is a cock shot. Would that be enough for you? Mrs F is always looking to see what the man in a couple is like. That’s one reason why our profile has quite a lot of pics featuring Mr F.

Try that too. See if it helps. If you haven’t got any pics of him, look at other profiles and get some inspiration about what turns you on and then do one like it of your own.

Good luck xx

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By *urvyandNerdyCouple
over a year ago

Doncaster

We play together and have a profile we feel reflects that and separate, so we both have single profiles, and each profile as reference to the others. We both go to clubs and socials my mrs even organises socials in Doncaster.

Most of my private solo meets have been with people I’ve met at such an event. I personally believe these events are key to being a successful single male on fab

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not just play with other couples rather than separate? Always found it miles more fun, 2 cocks to play with, a girl to play with, never understood the need or want to separate swap"

Maybe because it’s something they want to try. We play together and separate, however we personally find the couples dynamic difficult.

But I wouldn’t ever tell someone I don’t understand the need for what they want to do because it’s what they want to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not just play with other couples rather than separate? Always found it miles more fun, 2 cocks to play with, a girl to play with, never understood the need or want to separate swap

Maybe because it’s something they want to try. We play together and separate, however we personally find the couples dynamic difficult.

But I wouldn’t ever tell someone I don’t understand the need for what they want to do because it’s what they want to do

Have no issue with people doing what they want, didn’t mean to come over like that. As a couple just don’t get it, never had x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How about including some pics of your Mr. - all you have got public is a cock shot. Would that be enough for you? Mrs F is always looking to see what the man in a couple is like. That’s one reason why our profile has quite a lot of pics featuring Mr F.

Try that too. See if it helps. If you haven’t got any pics of him, look at other profiles and get some inspiration about what turns you on and then do one like it of your own.

Good luck xx"

Totally agree with this. When looking at a couples profile I like to see if there is an attraction to both. Alot of couples profiles feature the women a hell of a lot more than the men.

I do have one couple which I meet the male half of regularly but he is very prominent on his profile and I could see there was an attraction instantly.

If its all womens pics I tend to move on.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It's a dynamic which *can* work OP but you have to remember that by having a single male profile that Mr is placing himself in the pool of single guys on here and all the difficulties that can bring, meaning it's key that he has a decent profile and pics, the right attitude, approach and expectations and is prepared to put a level of effort in.

I'd also suggest that he cross-references his single profile with the couple's one and your single profile for complete transparency across all the profiles, and makes it clear that Mrs can be contacted to confirm she is aware of his single male profile.

Aside from that, attending clubs, group socials and getting involved in the forums are all good ways to get to know people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have messaged people to find hubby some fun whilst he's away with work. Absolutely no luck Unfortunately you are putting him up against all the other single guys. His age won't help...no offence...It's hard when there's an age gap.

It's the same for us...i even started a thread looking for his benefit....first comment was a very sarky...'oh this would be so different if it were the female looking.'

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By *uthLessKnickersCouple
over a year ago

Cornwall/Devon

"We want to play separately but it’s so hard for Mr S to find someone. It’s so highly frustrating

How do you overcome this? We both have separate accounts but it’s such a struggle "

We share your pain. This exactly the same for us. However there are some good suggestions here from others, unfortunately the club scene is pretty much nonexistent in our area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

been swinging with hubs for 20 years + now and no matter how hot the guy is he'll never attract the same attention as his wife.... no one see the man as part of a couple once he wants to meet on his own he just becomes another man of many

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I have messaged people to find hubby some fun whilst he's away with work. Absolutely no luck Unfortunately you are putting him up against all the other single guys. His age won't help...no offence...It's hard when there's an age gap.

It's the same for us...i even started a thread looking for his benefit....first comment was a very sarky...'oh this would be so different if it were the female looking.'"

I get annoyed with those kinds of messages. No way woukd I want to be a married guys hook up, permission or not. My preferences are always blatantly ignored by women doing this for their partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the same for us...i even started a thread looking for his benefit....first comment was a very sarky...'oh this would be so different if it were the female looking.'

I get annoyed with those kinds of messages. No way woukd I want to be a married guys hook up, permission or not. My preferences are always blatantly ignored by women doing this for their partners. "

oh and agree with this the amount of messages i get from so called wives saying oh please will you play with poor tommy..i mean sometimes it maybe the wife but im sure most of the time its the male half of the couple pretending to be the wife for his own benifit then come the question how many men set up fake couples profiles and use them in this way...

oh hi funwife im nigella will you please fuck my tommy as its my time of month and poor soul needs to drain his balls..

really lol

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

It's the same for us...i even started a thread looking for his benefit....first comment was a very sarky...'oh this would be so different if it were the female looking.'

I get annoyed with those kinds of messages. No way woukd I want to be a married guys hook up, permission or not. My preferences are always blatantly ignored by women doing this for their partners.

oh hi funwife im nigella will you please fuck my tommy as its my time of month and poor soul needs to drain his balls..

really lol

That's of course assuming it is the female messaging in the first place.

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