FabSwingers.com forum: doing something wrong?

By *ovingittwo OP Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

Mrs here, I love the forums and used to post a lot. Anyway started to realise that whenever I contributed anything the thread stopped. After a month or so I started I interacting again, today and same thing .

I honestly want to know if there's a problem with me.

Thanks in advance xx

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Honestly, that's just how some threads & conversations go. Don't worry about it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please don’t take it to heart, it’s more likely to be another thread has garnered attention, and no reflection on you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m new to the forums and finding it hard as everyone seems to know each other well but I enjoy reading and just contribute when I can . Maybe it’s just been coincidence, don’t stop posting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just green arrowed you, out of all the recent threads you've contributed to you're the last poster on only 3. That's not bad going really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mrs here, I love the forums and used to post a lot. Anyway started to realise that whenever I contributed anything the thread stopped. After a month or so I started I interacting again, today and same thing .

I honestly want to know if there's a problem with me.

Thanks in advance xx"

Just be yourself. Keep on keeping on. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly want to know if there's a problem with me.

Thanks in advance xx"

It happens more to me than I'd like to to admit.

Quite often the more regular forumites seem to ignore your points.

Makes me giggle when I post something on a thread which is ignored and then 10 minutes later, I somebody at the same and everyone picks up their comment and not yours.

It happens to us all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly want to know if there's a problem with me.

Thanks in advance xx"

Don’t let it get you down OP. I used to feel like I was the kiss of death to threads when using this profile and my joint one.

I love the forums and will keep contributing. You keep doing the same. You can get to know some lovely people on here.

V x

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"I’m new to the forums and finding it hard as everyone seems to know each other well but I enjoy reading and just contribute when I can . Maybe it’s just been coincidence, don’t stop posting "

Many forum regulars have known eachother for a long time, through Fab or through socials etc, so are good friends. However, don't let that stop you posting, and maybe try to get to an organised social; they're great fun!

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By *ovingittwo OP Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

"I've just green arrowed you, out of all the recent threads you've contributed to you're the last poster on only 3. That's not bad going really

Thanks for that x

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By *ovingittwo OP Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

I honestly want to know if there's a problem with me.

Thanks in advance xx

It happens more to me than I'd like to to admit.

Quite often the more regular forumites seem to ignore your points.

Makes me giggle when I post something on a thread which is ignored and then 10 minutes later, I somebody at the same and everyone picks up their comment and not yours.

It happens to us all"

This is exactly what I was talking about !

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By *ovingittwo OP Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

Thanks everyone, thought it was just me xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're overthinking. It's just the nature of the forums x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me a few times. I suck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly want to know if there's a problem with me.

Thanks in advance xx"

Just bad timing I guess, don't take it personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like Lisa said - these guys have known each other for a long time and will pick up their mates' posts first.

Its natural - but infuriating

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Naaaah...definitely not just you. I’ve been knocking about here for three years and still feel like I’m the kiss of death to the threads. I tend to post now, then not go back to that thread again unless it shows up regularly in the latest feed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Naaaah...definitely not just you. I’ve been knocking about here for three years and still feel like I’m the kiss of death to the threads. I tend to post now, then not go back to that thread again unless it shows up regularly in the latest feed. "

Hi not the kiss of death now I like your profile!

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By *nowy and the GruffaloCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Try not to take offence at anything anyone says (or doesn’t say) in any forum, especially one where people can post behind a pseudonym.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just keep posting as and whenever you like and dont worry about it. Someone has to be the last on a thread

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I honestly want to know if there's a problem with me.

Thanks in advance xx

It happens more to me than I'd like to to admit.

Quite often the more regular forumites seem to ignore your points.

Makes me giggle when I post something on a thread which is ignored and then 10 minutes later, I somebody at the same and everyone picks up their comment and not yours.

It happens to us all"

Totally with you on that although I have noticed the ‘swingers chat’ is more accepting to everyone than ‘the lounge’

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By *ovingittwo OP Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

Cheers all, feeling a bit better about the situation xx

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By *nowy and the GruffaloCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

We’ll put the last post in, just so you don’t think you stopped the thread! Xx

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

You're not alone. Just post whatever you feel you want to and don't sweat it, that's what we do

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It's the same with internet forums on any subject - there will always be threads that are fast moving and where comments get missed, always will be a group of people who know each other and bounce off one another, and those that feel they're ignored etc. - then sometimes you have the thing where you post something that doesn't require a response etc.

Reality is you're often noticed more than you think you are - just post away when you have something you think is relevant to say, and if people don't respond, don't take it to heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you make a point succinctly and it’s truthful it will stop other people in there tracks...............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just remember it is all a bit of fun too

I think there are the social clubbing clicks other people have mentioned

You seem a nice couple with a nice profile good luck with everything xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m new to the forums and finding it hard as everyone seems to know each other well but I enjoy reading and just contribute when I can . Maybe it’s just been coincidence, don’t stop posting "

I’m the same but you can get ignored a lot by the cliques lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To all concerned:

You have heard of freedom of speech, but guess what the forums are for...

Freedom of thought!

As long as you enjoy the forums carry on posting because many want to read your ideas and viewpoint. People will start to engage with you and it does not matter if you're the last poster in the thread because that happens to everyone at some point. Even the regulars sometimes feel when they post everyone else disappears so please don't dwell on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly want to know if there's a problem with me.

Thanks in advance xx"

the same thing happens to me. I usually go back to a forum and I'm the last one there.

I thinks it's the site

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By *ovingittwo OP Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

You've all made valid points, cheers xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You've all made valid points, cheers xx"

Just posting so you aren't the last one

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By *ovingittwo OP Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

"You've all made valid points, cheers xx

Just posting so you aren't the last one

Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems to be the same when i post something OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha. See!!

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By *ovingittwo OP Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

Ok!!! This isn't actually about being the last person to post. My point has been missed , one comment earlier said it: sometimes I may post a comment on a thread which gets completely ignored and then shortly afterwards someone else says the same thing and gets responses. That's all. I'm obviously a boring twat so will say no more xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm often ignored or last on a thread! Just enjoy posting OP!

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

We should start our own club. Only reply to each other. Ignore all the other bastards. You in? Guys? Hello...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started and killed a thread stone dead today. Beat THAT.

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Once upon a time i started a thread and everybody posted on it but ignored me. Then they beat me up and took my dinner money.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

" sometimes I may post a comment on a thread which gets completely ignored and then shortly afterwards someone else says the same thing and gets responses. "

Happens to me too. Generally the other person saying it is either less adversarial about it, or has nicer tits. Sometimes both.

It's not to be taken either personally or seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a thread my killer too. Either that, or just ignored for the most part.. Don't let it worry you, it's just the way it goes sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks everyone, thought it was just me xxx "

OP, there is always the chance that after you've posted something everyone clicks on you profile, looks through your gorgeous photos and then forget all about the thread

You do have some very nice pics x

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

I honestly want to know if there's a problem with me.

Thanks in advance xx

It happens more to me than I'd like to to admit.

Quite often the more regular forumites seem to ignore your points.

Makes me giggle when I post something on a thread which is ignored and then 10 minutes later, I somebody at the same and everyone picks up their comment and not yours.

It happens to us all"

Exactly this.

This happens to me all the time and ive also been a notorious thread killer for around 7 years, but I just keep posting because i can.

Ive had some fantastic meets from the forum, and been part of some hilarious and usefully informative threads.

For those that choose to ignore you when you make a valid contribution or overlook your post in favour of the same comment from a seemingly more popular forumite later in the thread, then it says more about them than you...they are just trying to get into their pants...which is quite funny to witness when they dont have a cat in hells chance

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

See what i mean! Serial thread killer!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

See what i mean! Serial thread killer!

Oh no you're not

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By *ovingittwo OP Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

I honestly want to know if there's a problem with me.

Thanks in advance xx

It happens more to me than I'd like to to admit.

Quite often the more regular forumites seem to ignore your points.

Makes me giggle when I post something on a thread which is ignored and then 10 minutes later, I somebody at the same and everyone picks up their comment and not yours.

It happens to us all

Exactly this.

This happens to me all the time and ive also been a notorious thread killer for around 7 years, but I just keep posting because i can.

Ive had some fantastic meets from the forum, and been part of some hilarious and usefully informative threads.

xx"

Brilliant love this!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am i the last one to post here?

At least my comments have been quoted which is really rare for me.

Thanks OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the thread killer gang

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Ok.........Now you can end this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok.........Now you can end this thread. "

A cheeky bump...

See if it ends here...

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Nice try. Right, nothing to see here. Move along, bed time folks. And don't come back!

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

"Nice try. Right, nothing to see here. Move along, bed time folks. And don't come back! "

Pah...make us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, you make us

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

I honestly want to know if there's a problem with me.

Thanks in advance xx"

Definitely

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