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By *ocky82 OP   Man
over a year ago

Watford

I’m on here as bloke alone I’m not single I’m married and yes the wife knows nothing about it !

But I haven’t met anyone I’ve chatted etc but that’s about it tbh it all boils down to I just want the wife to be apart of it I’ve told her I’d love to see her with another man and she thinks I’m going nuts !!! How do I encourage her to experiment? Has anyone been here and changed their wife’s views ?? Or should I forget it and leave the site ?

Thanks in advance x

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"

I’m on here as bloke alone I’m not single I’m married and yes the wife knows nothing about it !

But I haven’t met anyone I’ve chatted etc but that’s about it tbh it all boils down to I just want the wife to be apart of it I’ve told her I’d love to see her with another man and she thinks I’m going nuts !!! How do I encourage her to experiment? Has anyone been here and changed their wife’s views ?? Or should I forget it and leave the site ?

Thanks in advance x"

OP if your wife's reaction to being with another man was to say you're nuts it's a safe bet to say she isn't interested and nothing you say or do will persuade her otherwise.

In this instance you have two choices. Respect her decision and choose to be faithful or stay on fab and cheat on your wife. If you choose the latter you have to be prepared for everything to go tits up if your wife finds out. Also many people on fab don't have a high opinion of those who are cheating.

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By *ocky82 OP   Man
over a year ago

Watford


"

I’m on here as bloke alone I’m not single I’m married and yes the wife knows nothing about it !

But I haven’t met anyone I’ve chatted etc but that’s about it tbh it all boils down to I just want the wife to be apart of it I’ve told her I’d love to see her with another man and she thinks I’m going nuts !!! How do I encourage her to experiment? Has anyone been here and changed their wife’s views ?? Or should I forget it and leave the site ?

Thanks in advance x

OP if your wife's reaction to being with another man was to say you're nuts it's a safe bet to say she isn't interested and nothing you say or do will persuade her otherwise.

In this instance you have two choices. Respect her decision and choose to be faithful or stay on fab and cheat on your wife. If you choose the latter you have to be prepared for everything to go tits up if your wife finds out. Also many people on fab don't have a high opinion of those who are cheating."

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By *ocky82 OP   Man
over a year ago

Watford


"

I’m on here as bloke alone I’m not single I’m married and yes the wife knows nothing about it !

But I haven’t met anyone I’ve chatted etc but that’s about it tbh it all boils down to I just want the wife to be apart of it I’ve told her I’d love to see her with another man and she thinks I’m going nuts !!! How do I encourage her to experiment? Has anyone been here and changed their wife’s views ?? Or should I forget it and leave the site ?

Thanks in advance x

OP if your wife's reaction to being with another man was to say you're nuts it's a safe bet to say she isn't interested and nothing you say or do will persuade her otherwise.

In this instance you have two choices. Respect her decision and choose to be faithful or stay on fab and cheat on your wife. If you choose the latter you have to be prepared for everything to go tits up if your wife finds out. Also many people on fab don't have a high opinion of those who are cheating."

I think I agree I have no real intention of cheating I would only ever chat on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I’m on here as bloke alone I’m not single I’m married and yes the wife knows nothing about it !

But I haven’t met anyone I’ve chatted etc but that’s about it tbh it all boils down to I just want the wife to be apart of it I’ve told her I’d love to see her with another man and she thinks I’m going nuts !!! How do I encourage her to experiment? Has anyone been here and changed their wife’s views ?? Or should I forget it and leave the site ?

Thanks in advance x

OP if your wife's reaction to being with another man was to say you're nuts it's a safe bet to say she isn't interested and nothing you say or do will persuade her otherwise.

In this instance you have two choices. Respect her decision and choose to be faithful or stay on fab and cheat on your wife. If you choose the latter you have to be prepared for everything to go tits up if your wife finds out. Also many people on fab don't have a high opinion of those who are cheating.

I think I agree I have no real intention of cheating I would only ever chat on here. "

Probaly best to erase the "maybe more" bit pal tbh then else before you know it you'll be neck deep in wet flange

And how do you know she's not cheating on you?

What's good for the goose.......

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By *ocky82 OP   Man
over a year ago

Watford


"

I’m on here as bloke alone I’m not single I’m married and yes the wife knows nothing about it !

But I haven’t met anyone I’ve chatted etc but that’s about it tbh it all boils down to I just want the wife to be apart of it I’ve told her I’d love to see her with another man and she thinks I’m going nuts !!! How do I encourage her to experiment? Has anyone been here and changed their wife’s views ?? Or should I forget it and leave the site ?

Lol I don’t mate in all honesty but I’d put my house on it that she wouldn’t !

Thanks in advance x

OP if your wife's reaction to being with another man was to say you're nuts it's a safe bet to say she isn't interested and nothing you say or do will persuade her otherwise.

In this instance you have two choices. Respect her decision and choose to be faithful or stay on fab and cheat on your wife. If you choose the latter you have to be prepared for everything to go tits up if your wife finds out. Also many people on fab don't have a high opinion of those who are cheating.

I think I agree I have no real intention of cheating I would only ever chat on here.

Probaly best to erase the "maybe more" bit pal tbh then else before you know it you'll be neck deep in wet flange

And how do you know she's not cheating on you?

What's good for the goose......."

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Dude, it comes down to this. Your wife doesn’t want to swing. If you’ve asked her outright and she doesn’t want to do it then pressuring her into it would be wrong.

If you have sat down and had an honest and open chat with your wife, there is nothing more you can do. If you haven’t, do so.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"

I’m on here as bloke alone I’m not single I’m married and yes the wife knows nothing about it !

But I haven’t met anyone I’ve chatted etc but that’s about it tbh it all boils down to I just want the wife to be apart of it I’ve told her I’d love to see her with another man and she thinks I’m going nuts !!! How do I encourage her to experiment? Has anyone been here and changed their wife’s views ?? Or should I forget it and leave the site ?

Thanks in advance x"

If I were you I would leave the site. You're obviously not happy with your sex life though. I suggest you work together on your emotional and sexual communication to see if you can improve that side of your life. You might find that from that you can move forward together to a more experimental sex life. This might never include swinging but it might be great in other ways.

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