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What do women actually want in the bedroom ?!!

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

Been trying to work out what women really want . Once read up that women only like plenty of play and not so much pounding . Also asked a woman i used to play with and she said the same .

For me in my 40s now plenty of playing is top of the agenda lol . Tbh i was never keen on every postion under the sun for hours on end coz you can see its pretty much one way as the woman likes only one or two postions haha .

So what do you women want hours and hours of pounding Or 50 50 Or a 75% oral play ......ect

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

Quickies were also top of the list for many women ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly they want cock son .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Orgasms, they want all the orgasms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Orgasms, they want all the orgasms "

A man who knows what a woman wants!

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Matching wall paper and curtains

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to be treated like an individual .... not a homogenous group

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all want exactly the same thing of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just like all men like different things so do all ladies what you have to do is listen to them not just what they say but there body language as well when you feel you know them well is when they surprise you lol but please treat them all as individuals xx

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By *oolsGoldxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Respect.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

What you need to work out is what the woman you are with at the time wants!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally after marriage ,sleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every one is individual every time is unique it all depends on people's moods desires at that time....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like someone to decorate and hang blinds....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want no dirty socks in my bedroom. And he cannot wear socks whilst having sex with me.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Answer to your question, people who know what they are doing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't part of the fun finding out what each different woman wants?

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By *irty doggXXXMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

They want lots of pillows and storage space I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want a nice firm mattress. I need a new one.

Also no one will ever give you the exact same answer. Everyone is different.

For example; I love lots of ‘pounding’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely you should know by now at 40 op ?

If not your not doing it right

*roxi I'm city and guilds qualified in .............hanging blinds and i fit em in my birthday suit

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

To be treated as an individual

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Matching curtains.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Matching curtains..... "

And cuffs ?

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Matching curtains.....

And cuffs ?"

O yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want Gin, some snacks and a back rub

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

Don't forget the four poster bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want Gin, some snacks and a back rub "

Greedy

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By *Carver-Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Been trying to work out what women really want ."

A freshly laundered bra, in my experience.

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Breakfast in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Matching wall paper and curtains"

Bugger, you beat me to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Breakfast in bed"

I thought that was the thread topic Diane?

Now how would you like your breakfast in bed hard n fast or nice and slow for easier digestion

Or 50/50

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

I want to feel desired and to cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice Lamp?

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By *oupleNeedPlus1Couple
over a year ago

Reading

Slightly concerned that anyone would think you can generalise what all women want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A nice Lamp lovers ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been trying to work out what women really want . Once read up that women only like plenty of play and not so much pounding . Also asked a woman i used to play with and she said the same .

For me in my 40s now plenty of playing is top of the agenda lol . Tbh i was never keen on every postion under the sun for hours on end coz you can see its pretty much one way as the woman likes only one or two postions haha .

So what do you women want hours and hours of pounding Or 50 50 Or a 75% oral play ......ect "

To each their own... personally I like the chat, banter and that bit of erm dunno what to call it but it’s the thing that makes that first kiss so damn good...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try the Mel Gibson film op

He seemed to have cracked it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been trying to work out what women really want . Once read up that women only like plenty of play and not so much pounding . Also asked a woman i used to play with and she said the same .

For me in my 40s now plenty of playing is top of the agenda lol . Tbh i was never keen on every postion under the sun for hours on end coz you can see its pretty much one way as the woman likes only one or two postions haha .

So what do you women want hours and hours of pounding Or 50 50 Or a 75% oral play ......ect

To each their own... personally I like the chat, banter and that bit of erm dunno what to call it but it’s the thing that makes that first kiss so damn good... "

Seduction ffg

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

Women in my experience want orgasms from someone that can read the body language and the person. Knowing the spots to touch and from the foreplay spots you can take a rough guess at what positions they like but I'm a big fan of giving women a good foreplay session before a shag

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

I find it funny people generalise

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Cake

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Slightly concerned that anyone would think you can generalise what all women want "

It happens all the time

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I’ve never really thought about it...certainly not to the point of working out some sort of perfect ratio *laughs*

It would depend on the partner and the dynamic and where the session was going and whether I’ve just eaten a Sunday carvery and a litre of ice cream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women in my experience want orgasms from someone that can read the body language and the person. Knowing the spots to touch and from the foreplay spots you can take a rough guess at what positions they like but I'm a big fan of giving women a good foreplay session before a shag"

See op Neils got it covered

Stud of the north

New nickname my friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been trying to work out what women really want . Once read up that women only like plenty of play and not so much pounding . Also asked a woman i used to play with and she said the same .

For me in my 40s now plenty of playing is top of the agenda lol . Tbh i was never keen on every postion under the sun for hours on end coz you can see its pretty much one way as the woman likes only one or two postions haha .

So what do you women want hours and hours of pounding Or 50 50 Or a 75% oral play ......ect

To each their own... personally I like the chat, banter and that bit of erm dunno what to call it but it’s the thing that makes that first kiss so damn good...

Seduction ffg "

Don’t even know if it’s that... whatever it is I wasn’t complaining x

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

How about I feed you the Sunday carvery and eat the icecream off you lol

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

I find an intensely seductive look as you get firstly close works a treat

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I find an intensely seductive look as you get firstly close works a treat"

If you quote people we'll know who you're talking to.

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire


"A nice Lamp? "

I actually am looking for a new lamp for my bedroom at the moment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mostly find out by asking them

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I mostly find out by asking them "

What a novel concept!

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

Swingingdress I just put things out there see if there's replies lol

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

Lol I like it mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been trying to work out what women really want . Once read up that women only like plenty of play and not so much pounding . Also asked a woman i used to play with and she said the same .

For me in my 40s now plenty of playing is top of the agenda lol . Tbh i was never keen on every postion under the sun for hours on end coz you can see its pretty much one way as the woman likes only one or two postions haha .

So what do you women want hours and hours of pounding Or 50 50 Or a 75% oral play ......ect

To each their own... personally I like the chat, banter and that bit of erm dunno what to call it but it’s the thing that makes that first kiss so damn good...

Seduction ffg

Don’t even know if it’s that... whatever it is I wasn’t complaining x"

When he pushes you against the wall, holds your hands above your head,eases his leg inbetween yours and comes in for that first smoldering kiss

You gaze deeply into his eyes and your totally and utterly lost in the moment

*should have been an erotic novelist instead of a bloody window fitter babe lol jx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been trying to work out what women really want . Once read up that women only like plenty of play and not so much pounding . Also asked a woman i used to play with and she said the same .

For me in my 40s now plenty of playing is top of the agenda lol . Tbh i was never keen on every postion under the sun for hours on end coz you can see its pretty much one way as the woman likes only one or two postions haha .

So what do you women want hours and hours of pounding Or 50 50 Or a 75% oral play ......ect

To each their own... personally I like the chat, banter and that bit of erm dunno what to call it but it’s the thing that makes that first kiss so damn good...

Seduction ffg

Don’t even know if it’s that... whatever it is I wasn’t complaining x

When he pushes you against the wall, holds your hands above your head,eases his leg inbetween yours and comes in for that first smoldering kiss

You gaze deeply into his eyes and your totally and utterly lost in the moment

*should have been an erotic novelist instead of a bloody window fitter babe lol jx "

Something like that... and that’s me off to have a cold shower

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

Jay you an me both lol let's join up, an FLT Driver with his MASSIVE Mast I wasn't suppose to be lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been trying to work out what women really want . Once read up that women only like plenty of play and not so much pounding . Also asked a woman i used to play with and she said the same .

For me in my 40s now plenty of playing is top of the agenda lol . Tbh i was never keen on every postion under the sun for hours on end coz you can see its pretty much one way as the woman likes only one or two postions haha .

So what do you women want hours and hours of pounding Or 50 50 Or a 75% oral play ......ect

To each their own... personally I like the chat, banter and that bit of erm dunno what to call it but it’s the thing that makes that first kiss so damn good...

Seduction ffg

Don’t even know if it’s that... whatever it is I wasn’t complaining x

When he pushes you against the wall, holds your hands above your head,eases his leg inbetween yours and comes in for that first smoldering kiss

You gaze deeply into his eyes and your totally and utterly lost in the moment

*should have been an erotic novelist instead of a bloody window fitter babe lol jx

Something like that... and that’s me off to have a cold shower "

I could throw a bucket of water over you instead gawjus x *giggling

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

Ice bath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ice bath"

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Respect."

Is earned not given.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"What you need to work out is what the woman you are with at the time wants!!!"

If only there was a way of find out... talking perhaps.

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

Not even sure most people on here know what respect is

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Respect.

Is earned not given."

Perhaps, but whatever you call "treating us as equal human beings with our own desires and a right to be as we want to be" should be automatic.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Isn't part of the fun finding out what each different woman wants? "

Apparently men are supposed to know.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Swingingdress I just put things out there see if there's replies lol"

It's extremely difficult to follow without a quote before it. Try it, more people might engage with you. This is a conversation, not just an echo chamber.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you need to work out is what the woman you are with at the time wants!!!

If only there was a way of find out... talking perhaps."

Smoke signals from the heat of her vagina ?

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"To be treated as an individual "

And yet women treat men like they are one and the same.

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

I thought that at mmp when I seen ya lol

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Respect.

Is earned not given.

Perhaps, but whatever you call "treating us as equal human beings with our own desires and a right to be as we want to be" should be automatic. "

And visa versa

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

True that, or shall I say a high percentage of women do

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Respect.

Is earned not given.

Perhaps, but whatever you call "treating us as equal human beings with our own desires and a right to be as we want to be" should be automatic.

And visa versa"

Sure. But that's not what's being asked here.

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

Same cater Gary to be fair and it opens up the convo, but I hope people don't start arguing lol

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By *ert n BerylCouple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

If you’re asking it says to me you’re too lazy to find out OP

I find it exciting when a partner starts finding all those little things that get me going!

A year later and hubby is finding things about me that even I didn’t know!

Learn and enjoy and then reap the rewards!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slightly concerned that anyone would think you can generalise what all women want

It happens all the time "

Yep it does.

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

I might call myself bora the explorer lol

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Respect.

Is earned not given.

Perhaps, but whatever you call "treating us as equal human beings with our own desires and a right to be as we want to be" should be automatic.

And visa versa

Sure. But that's not what's being asked here. "

Wise man once said you can not expect what you want us less you are prepared to give.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I might call myself bora the explorer lol"

Oops Neil

A fave and fabulous

formulite

And not to be messed with

If you've become attatched to your gonads that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft lighting and a hard cock.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Respect.

Is earned not given.

Perhaps, but whatever you call "treating us as equal human beings with our own desires and a right to be as we want to be" should be automatic.

And visa versa

Sure. But that's not what's being asked here.

Wise man once said you can not expect what you want us less you are prepared to give."

I'm not sure why you think I don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They want an attentive partner (or more).

Someone that can read them, their subtle movements, sighs and general signals.

Knowing how and when to be gentle or rough, etc

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

......il never understand a woman

(Lets see if this gets the regular forum abuse from regular offenders lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mural that says “live laugh love” an abstract photo of some pebbles, one furry cushion “for display” that never actually gets used for sleeping and a walk In wardrobe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pinned down and fucked

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want what I want at that time. Do you have a formula for how you do sex or just read each other at the time whilst also talking.

Hours and hours of pounding doesn't really happen does it. One or both of you must pass out or die of boredom?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I want what I want at that time. Do you have a formula for how you do sex or just read each other at the time whilst also talking.

Hours and hours of pounding doesn't really happen does it. One or both of you must pass out or die of boredom? "

Actually, this brings up an excellent point. I hate little more than a sexual formula. No matter what the damn formula is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want what I want at that time. Do you have a formula for how you do sex or just read each other at the time whilst also talking.

Hours and hours of pounding doesn't really happen does it. One or both of you must pass out or die of boredom?

Actually, this brings up an excellent point. I hate little more than a sexual formula. No matter what the damn formula is! "

A little stopwatch ticking down. Aaaaand next is .... cock sucking. *tick tock

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

People clock watching well having sex must be such a turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People clock watching well having sex must be such a turn on"

I'd rather cock watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just want the duvet to myself and the Netflix button tbf, though a cuddle buddy would be good, after he's put the kettle on provided biscuits mind.

Theres me all happy days!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A doxy wand that can actually get a round of drinks in aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A doxy wand that can actually get a round of drinks in aswell "

Good idea! Tea for me diolch yn fawr

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

I thought thats what you was young sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought thats what you was young sir"

Neeer pal I'm just a big dildo

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

6ft tall dildo?

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

Clean sheets ideally.

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By *zamiWoman
over a year ago

LONDON


"Matching wall paper and curtains"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same thing as life holds.

Respect

Treated as an Indiviual

Kindness

Laughter

And a kiss ..

Oh and a few orgasms ...is a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The secret is, what women actually want is [Rest of post removed by Platinum Members at 22:59 03/03/2019]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want someone willing to spend time getting to know what I like and respond to, sexually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cushions.

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

Lol now that's funny lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *Carver-Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Respect.

Is earned not given.

Perhaps, but whatever you call "treating us as equal human beings with our own desires and a right to be as we want to be" should be automatic.

And visa versa

Sure. But that's not what's being asked here.

Wise man once said you can not expect what you want us less you are prepared to give."

Sounds like MRA nonsense but ok

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

Sounds like the German trying to decrypt English Intel lol

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

They want whatever is not available to them at that time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A comfy pillow and good duvet is my bet..

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent


"They want whatever is not available to them at that time."

A blokes money ...or if divorcing THE FUCKING LOT inc KIDS !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice cup of tea and a biccy...........

Followed by a morning of hot cunnilingus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mrs prefers quick chat good fuck cum and go as usually that’s all we after

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

Lick and leave lol

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent


"Lick and leave lol"

Prefer a ..Suck of my cock, Cum then Go . Thats me being selfish though lol . Oral both ways then go id settle for at a push if limited for time

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I don't want no dirty socks in my bedroom. And he cannot wear socks whilst having sex with me. "

Oh no not the socks...that is such a turn off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't want no dirty socks in my bedroom. And he cannot wear socks whilst having sex with me.

Oh no not the socks...that is such a turn off!"

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I want what I want at that time. Do you have a formula for how you do sex or just read each other at the time whilst also talking.

Hours and hours of pounding doesn't really happen does it. One or both of you must pass out or die of boredom? "

Spot on for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bed maybe a lamp

Nice wall paper good linen

A sexy man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just been reading on here what woman want, some say a quite fuck and go, my experience it’s always been a nice relaxing meet taking your time kissing, slowly running your hands all over there body’s and plenty of oral has most orgasm though oral sex and then a nice slow fuck it’s about enjoyment and making sure they are fully satisfied not just shoving you dick in and cumming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just been reading on here what woman want, some say a quite fuck and go, my experience it’s always been a nice relaxing meet taking your time kissing, slowly running your hands all over there body’s and plenty of oral has most orgasm though oral sex and then a nice slow fuck it’s about enjoyment and making sure they are fully satisfied not just shoving you dick in and cumming "

Nothing prescriptive ^^^ for me please! It all depends on so many factors ...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Just been reading on here what woman want, some say a quite fuck and go, my experience it’s always been a nice relaxing meet taking your time kissing, slowly running your hands all over there body’s and plenty of oral has most orgasm though oral sex and then a nice slow fuck it’s about enjoyment and making sure they are fully satisfied not just shoving you dick in and cumming "

That sounds like you've found something you think is one size fits all. One size never fits all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I said is what I experienced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I said is what I experienced "

In all your life you've never been with a lady who wants anything different to that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes of course, in clubs and on Greedy girls night and that’s all about just fucking, but in private meets it’s different and couples have said it’s nice when I guy that’s takes his time then just fuck and go, but you may be different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes of course, in clubs and on Greedy girls night and that’s all about just fucking, but in private meets it’s different and couples have said it’s nice when I guy that’s takes his time then just fuck and go, but you may be different "

I just like what I feel like at the time ... it all depends on so many things really e.g. mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe try chatting to the woman individually before you meet, they may tell you! We don’t all like the same thing btw lol!!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

7 hours uninterrupted sleep, breakfast in bed and a doxy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe try chatting to the woman individually before you meet, they may tell you! We don’t all like the same thing btw lol!!"

I’ve finally learnt this, a one size fits all approach doesn’t work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Platinum card.

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

Good sex and orgasom then cuddle after lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe try chatting to the woman individually before you meet, they may tell you! We don’t all like the same thing btw lol!!

I’ve finally learnt this, a one size fits all approach doesn’t work. "

Good choice lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ham and cheese toastie one day Victoria sponge another.

Your mission OP should you choose to accept it, is to work out which

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent

Ive offten found a cup of tea and to be left alone to watch the soaps....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been trying to work out what women really want . Once read up that women only like plenty of play and not so much pounding . Also asked a woman i used to play with and she said the same .

For me in my 40s now plenty of playing is top of the agenda lol . Tbh i was never keen on every postion under the sun for hours on end coz you can see its pretty much one way as the woman likes only one or two postions haha .

So what do you women want hours and hours of pounding Or 50 50 Or a 75% oral play ......ect "

My best guess a boudoir filled with naked beutifull guys....

All hung like a horse feeding her grapes,massaging her and awaiting her every command

Apologies for my bad grammar xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *antasticMrFucksMan
over a year ago

Taunton

Bed, wardrobe, dresser, maybe a tv and definitely a mirror

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice cosy hot water bottle/blanket

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good cuppa and a nap

Works a treat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treat them like an animal in bed...

Bring them food and pet them.

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire


"Treat them like an animal in bed...

Bring them food and pet them."

Basically yes

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

Found this as my first lesson from a 3some lol

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Nice decoration, freshly laundered linen.

No mirrored ceilings

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By *asterslittlewhoreCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Orgasms, they want all the orgasms "

Fuck yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Found this as my first lesson from a 3some lol"

Oh yes, know it well. MFF becomes FFB (female, female, butler)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back stroking and someone to get up before me to turn on the heating

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan
over a year ago

Close By


"Back stroking and someone to get up before me to turn on the heating "

As long as I've got a big fluffy dressing gown... I'm all over it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion? Women want to feel special & comfortable with a partner.

Of course they want/like orgasms & a bit of kink. But if that spark isn’t their? It’s just another bonk with a stranger.

However, some women, especially on fab. Are only after that?

Personally, when your packing 9inches of prime British like me! Life’s a doddle. Lol

Bless all you fabbers! And those who sail in you!

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