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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

just read a new profile from a cpl....... god was it scary, felt like iwas back in school and had done something wrong. made me feel as if i should be confessing something to them i havent done lol.......... why so nasty, do they think thats the type ppl on here like to read and want to meet........ well i dont think so, or is just me ? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to laugh at some of the profiles on here, tbh!

The long list of dos and don'ts, wills and won'ts

And then there are the ones all in capitals, tells you all you need to know about them just in that, imho!!

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By *ickedWWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Its a while ago now, but I read a new profile and they had some wedding pics on there too... lmao

Full frock and suit stuff !!

Had to have a word with them...

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By *_jkCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

The worst ones for us are the couples who post pics with the kids school photos on the wall in view.

Mind you we remember on a nother site a pic that had us giggling, they had their dogs face pixelated out in a pic of all of them. Must have been worried it would get recognised in the street

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The worst ones for us are the couples who post pics with the kids school photos on the wall in view.

Mind you we remember on a nother site a pic that had us giggling, they had their dogs face pixelated out in a pic of all of them. Must have been worried it would get recognised in the street "

Bet it was a handsome feker too

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By *_jkCouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"The worst ones for us are the couples who post pics with the kids school photos on the wall in view.

Mind you we remember on a nother site a pic that had us giggling, they had their dogs face pixelated out in a pic of all of them. Must have been worried it would get recognised in the street :

Bet it was a handsome feker too "

Nah he was RUFF x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The worst ones for us are the couples who post pics with the kids school photos on the wall in view.

Mind you we remember on a nother site a pic that had us giggling, they had their dogs face pixelated out in a pic of all of them. Must have been worried it would get recognised in the street :

Bet it was a handsome feker too

Nah he was RUFF x"

Smart ass

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By *_jkCouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"The worst ones for us are the couples who post pics with the kids school photos on the wall in view.

Mind you we remember on a nother site a pic that had us giggling, they had their dogs face pixelated out in a pic of all of them. Must have been worried it would get recognised in the street :

Bet it was a handsome feker too

Nah he was RUFF x

Smart ass "

Quite liking yours too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The worst ones for us are the couples who post pics with the kids school photos on the wall in view.

Mind you we remember on a nother site a pic that had us giggling, they had their dogs face pixelated out in a pic of all of them. Must have been worried it would get recognised in the street :

Bet it was a handsome feker too

Nah he was RUFF x

Smart ass

Quite liking yours too "

Oh you likkle minx Have a sambuka, I hear it gets you wild

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By *_jkCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

hey let me finish my wine first! then some vodka...then if im good ...maybe ahhhh black sambucca...

(just going for the ladders to get it down from the top fo the cupboard where it lives...out of easy reach lol - want me to pour you one? or two)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the OP ..

Because some people are so far up their own arses, they think they are a cut above the rest and can talk to people like they are shit ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To the OP ..

Because some people are so far up their own arses, they think they are a cut above the rest and can talk to people like they are shit .. "

hear hear ... or here here... canna mind which one.. but I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well put, redhot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To the OP ..

Because some people are so far up their own arses, they think they are a cut above the rest and can talk to people like they are shit ..

hear hear ... or here here... canna mind which one.. but I agree "

view are you that guy off the tele that gets good deals on everything he buys cant remember the name of the show but your his double

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hey let me finish my wine first! then some vodka...then if im good ...maybe ahhhh black sambucca...

(just going for the ladders to get it down from the top fo the cupboard where it lives...out of easy reach lol - want me to pour you one? or two)

"

um, I want four! You owe me some I'll have one sambuka though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh... & i agree with redhot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

martin somethingorother ... no, he has hair

but he a nice lad, so thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your welcome fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dont see anything wrong with listing what we would do and not do with other consenting couples, just so you are both singing from the same hymn sheet lol no pun intended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We dont see anything wrong with listing what we would do and not do with other consenting couples, just so you are both singing from the same hymn sheet lol no pun intended. "

I agree, but there are ways of saying it without belittling.. read your's and you are very pleasant about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many thanks, when your time to play is very limited best to be upfront, we had a spate of couples contacting us, and the female was heavily pregnant, might appeal to some, just not our thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weve seen some very interesting profiles on here . . Cert makes good reading on a cold night !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"martin somethingorother ... no, he has hair

but he a nice lad, so thank you "

martin lewis..... was blooming annoying me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"martin somethingorother ... no, he has hair

but he a nice lad, so thank you

martin lewis..... "

I think maybe he meant Dom Littlewood? (Dont get done, get Dom)

I dont agree, but maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear, my profile may be considered to be a bit OTT then!

Sorry, I am only being honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dear, my profile may be considered to be a bit OTT then!

Sorry, I am only being honest! "

Just read your profile, and it isnt OTT, you have just set out what you are looking for, in a nice way. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"martin somethingorother ... no, he has hair

but he a nice lad, so thank you

martin lewis.....

I think maybe he meant Dom Littlewood? (Dont get done, get Dom)

I dont agree, but maybe? "

aye, he's a slap head too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just read your profile, and it isnt OTT, you have just set out what you are looking for, in a nice way. xx"

Awwwww, thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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aye, he's a slap head too "

Some of the sexiest men past and present are slap heads!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

aye, he's a slap head too

Some of the sexiest men past and present are slap heads! "

ok so who is the sexiest slap head?

Duncan Goodhew

Tele Savalis

Winston Churchill

Van Diesel

Yul Brinner

Must admit think all of them are ugly as fook - why not just get an ill fitting syrup at least then you can have a laugh - bald is just a complete turn off for me - dont know about on a woman though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

aye, he's a slap head too

Some of the sexiest men past and present are slap heads!

ok so who is the sexiest slap head?

Duncan Goodhew

Tele Savalis

Winston Churchill

Van Diesel

Yul Brinner

Must admit think all of them are ugly as fook - why not just get an ill fitting syrup at least then you can have a laugh - bald is just a complete turn off for me - dont know about on a woman though lol

"

this is one of the times when I choose to say nowt .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bruce Willis and Ed Harris IMHO are drop dead gorgeous!

Jeff Bridges looks kind of cute in Iron Man too!

Andre Aggassi is another one that looks better without hair than with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

this is one of the times when I choose to say nowt .....

"

From what I can see, you look mighty good without hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bruce Willis and Ed Harris IMHO are drop dead gorgeous!

Jeff Bridges looks kind of cute in Iron Man too!

Andre Aggassi is another one that looks better without hair than with. "

Wow thats a list of people that have been cheated on by there partners - perhaps there is a link - phd in baldies perhaps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

this is one of the times when I choose to say nowt .....

From what I can see, you look mighty good without hair "

lol thanks xxx

but again, am no gonna say owt... it's the lords day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To the OP ..

Because some people are so far up their own arses, they think they are a cut above the rest and can talk to people like they are shit .. "

i agree hun some ppl are so far up

there own arse on the second shilf they

cant find anything nice 2 say about ppl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just read a new profile from a cpl....... god was it scary, felt like iwas back in school and had done something wrong. made me feel as if i should be confessing something to them i havent done lol.......... why so nasty, do they think thats the type ppl on here like to read and want to meet........ well i dont think so, or is just me ? xx"

i dont think mines is nasty

id say more i know wat i want an

wat i dont want im an honest

upfront person wat u see is wat

u get an i can be friendly 2

to the right ppl lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its nice to be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to think that our profile is detailed enough about that we will and will not do, also what we are and are not looking for. However, we would ate to thin that our profile was going to be seen as aggressive, or intimidate anyone in any way.

I think it is about getting the balance right.

Incidentally, we also hate profiles that have no likes or dislikes on as they come across desperate lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yes, well put sensuous.. i like profiles to be honest and with lots of info..... but some are so abrupt, but i suppose it shows the real them lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes, well put sensuous.. i like profiles to be honest and with lots of info..... but some are so abrupt, but i suppose it shows the real them lol xx"

i agree hon, if they thin it is ok to shout at you and demand that you put a ertain wrd in your reply to them, god kows that a meet with them would throw up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its nice to be nice

"

i do try lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its nice to be nice

i do try lol xxx"

I did...... I said nowt.... but the line I did have was a killer line...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely people put likes and dislikes on their profiles to ensure compatiblity with those they meet,not because they're "up themselves".

As occasional swingers,in as much as we don't meet new couples every week or even every month,when we do meet we like it to be successful.

Therefore its important to us to make sure we have lots in common with each other and vice versa.

Afterall,isn't that the reason for profiles?

Perhaps if more people did that,we wouldn't hear so many swinging horror stories.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely people put likes and dislikes on their profiles to ensure compatiblity with those they meet,not because they're "up themselves".

"

But there is no need for them to be nasty about it is there ? If paeope are incapable of stating their likes and dislikes without being nasty or talking to them like a peice of crap then it makes you wonder what they'd be like on a meet

You've seen them ..

"Single guys, don't bother - YOU'LL BE DELETED"

"Dont waste out time and yours"

I remember seeing one in particular which read something along the lines of,

"If you don't tick all the above boxes then fuck off"

I think that is the type of thing to which the OP is referring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely people put likes and dislikes on their profiles to ensure compatiblity with those they meet,not because they're "up themselves".

But there is no need for them to be nasty about it is there ? If paeope are incapable of stating their likes and dislikes without being nasty or talking to them like a peice of crap then it makes you wonder what they'd be like on a meet

You've seen them ..

"Single guys, don't bother - YOU'LL BE DELETED"

"Dont waste out time and yours"

I remember seeing one in particular which read something along the lines of,

"If you don't tick all the above boxes then fuck off"

I think that is the type of thing to which the OP is referring"

Of course, we agree there is no need for offensive profiles.

It makes us wonder if the people they belong to actualy want to meet,or just put up the sort of profile they know no one would reply to.

At the risk of ruffling feathers,some of the most aggressive,LOUD,arrogant profiles we've read belong to single women.

Maybe its because they feel, because they're thin on the ground, they can say what they like with impunity,on the other hand it could be just defence against the site loonies.

Either way though,it must scare people off contacting them.

XXXX

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