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What do single females and couples look for in a single guy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do single females and couples look for most in single guys on this site, is it their profile, their pics, whether or not they can hold a decent conversation or all of the above?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A thoughtful informative profile and plenty of pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A thoughtful informative profile and plenty of pictures."

thats a good start anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put it this way its very little to do with cock size for most xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A thoughtful informative profile and plenty of pictures."

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By *iceguydaveMan
over a year ago

Monmouth


"Put it this way its very little to do with cock size for most xx "

Fortunately, for some of us

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

If your initial message doesn't make me laugh, or doesn't use some imagination, then I won't even look at your profile.

If I go on to look at your profile, and it tells me nothing about you, then I won't message you, likewise if there is just a cock pic or an "action" pic, then I won't answer you either.

But that is just me, and I'm one of several thousand single fems on this site! And you can't please us all!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

me personally,,,

i like a nice body or face pic something funny on the profile and some veris

dont care what you do and how professional you are if i can raise a smile when im reading your profile your half way there

cheeky sense of humour always a good thing with me

oh did i mention,,,NO KNOB SHOTS!!!!

lol auds xx

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Ok for me and me only as cannot speak for others.

I like the profile pic to not be a cock as all men have them but rather unwrap my presents. If the profile pic is a cock it tells me all this person wants is action for his cock and isnt necessarily creative with photos and may not be suited to me. I like him to be in the age range I meet. wether he is 19 and likes to meet women of 40 that isnt what I want.

A good informative profile showing personality. Body pics, naked or not, hints of the mans equipment but not it 6 by 4 on the pic, would rather have hints.

A good well written message using my name and something to show he has read my profile and not just gawped at my pics. Attraction is a must both ways. And including a face pic in a first message is essential

That is what I personally like.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

being bi helps

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By *r-MissCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

A guy that can read a profile and understand an age criteria. For us we prefer a guy to have a detailed profile, not just the usual 'will fill this in later'.

A good first message is always a start telling us a little about yourself, and must admit really hate cock pics as the profile pic.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Draw a little 'smiley face' onto the end of that cock with a marker pen.

That'll be different

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

a cock attached to a personality with good personal hygiene.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

o and certainly agree to the if he is bi too mmmm

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By *4FantasyCouple
over a year ago

Spalding

Being straight for us

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By *essesCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

A face photo, soon after contact. Don't want to spend ages chatting to someone and then find out that they do nothing for us. Yes for bi too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's different every time but usually something that catches my attention and always well written, I'm a text speak nazi, hate it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who puts a bit of thought into a message and has come to bed eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like someone we can have a banter with. Prefer face pics on a profile or first message and show that they have actually read our profile. There's nothing worse than a copy and paste message, doesn't exactly make a couple feel special.

Guys that can follow conversation and not just try to bring it round to sex all the time. We know we're on here for sex but we wanna know you can talk about other stuff too.

The guys we tend to meet are the guys who are good at "closing". There loads of guys that have interested us, but have since gone off our radar cos they didn't persist. It's such a fine line between persistence and pushy tho. Persistence = meet - Pushy = block.

but that's just us. everyone will have a different answer. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do single females and couples look for most in single guys on this site, is it their profile, their pics, whether or not they can hold a decent conversation or all of the above?"

a guy that hasnt got a cock that will paralyze me

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By *heiraWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"What do single females and couples look for most in single guys on this site, is it their profile, their pics, whether or not they can hold a decent conversation or all of the above?"
All of the above as far as im concerned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of recent pics including one of face at least. A cock pic, so i can see how big and hard it is. A pretty boy who is well mannered and polite and not too stupid.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"What do single females and couples look for most in single guys on this site, is it their profile, their pics, whether or not they can hold a decent conversation or all of the above?"

Mixture of the above, plus they have to be able to make me laugh and keep me interested.

What might attract me one day, could well put me off the next.

Women, eh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a good topic to bring up as I often think the same thing when I'm thinking about sending messages.

I'd like to think I have a good profile and I try to keep my verifications and pictures updated. But I'm always open to helpful comments as I like to believe where all on here to make friends and experice the good joys of swinging.

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