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Is 25 too young an age for a guy to get into swinging?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The subject title says it all, ive been on the site for close to 2 months now but have only had 1 meet...

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

No it's not. But you are relying on a cock pic with no profile outlining anything else bar the above to gather interest.

It may be enough for those that like the anonominity of meets.

Really you ought to consider like many others have been told too, make yourself stand out there's a lot of competition out there.

Stand out referring to other attributes not just your chopper

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

see, thats my biggest bugbear of some profiles on here, whether man, woman or couple. most people are told you have a nice dick/tits/ass/legs so most will focus on just that part of yourself. after you have looked at 100 pics of a dick, or a pair of tits, they all look the same, so you really do need to stand out.

a lot of women are just as interested in what its attached to, rather than just a length.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i dont think so

I started on the scene through my Bi side at 17

Used ta meet blokes in saunas and they took me home to their wives and then i met their friends and so on

If i had my time again i wouldn't advocate quite so young but 25 aint a bad age in my book

My partner loves blokes around that age and so do a lot of females i know

Good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and, imo, having 4 meets for the same date, on your profile, gives over a feeling of desperation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The subject title says it all, ive been on the site for close to 2 months now but have only had 1 meet..."

I think you will find there are guys who are 30,35,40,45,50,55,60 and 65 who are in the same boat as you.

You can't expect instant results on here its all down to what effort you put in.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

2 months and had 1 meet, that is pretty good going.

You are not too young, you are just relying too much on one part of your body.

Your profile advises me to ask more about you. Why should I bother when plenty of other men the same age, with a big cock, tell me all about them on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I didnt realise they showed up simultaneously on my profile, i thought they only were listed for 12 hours hence why i kept renewing it! Desperation yuk that's a terrible thing to portray or even say to someone lol - how do you delete them?

Ok so from the advise listed above I should fill out my profile more and put more pics up? I do have more pics but I generally send them via messages as i like to be discreet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask yourself this question:

Would I buy something if I knew nothing what-so-ever about it?

We all look at the labels or in this case profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"see, thats my biggest bugbear of some profiles on here, whether man, woman or couple. most people are told you have a nice dick/tits/ass/legs so most will focus on just that part of yourself. after you have looked at 100 pics of a dick, or a pair of tits, they all look the same, so you really do need to stand out.

a lot of women are just as interested in what its attached to, rather than just a length."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope

i think the way a man presents himself and the way he approaches meets & meeting has more to do with it than his age

being honest with yourself, being open and honest in your communications, being realistic with your expectations, being respectful in your approach, being gracious in taking knock backs, being accepting of others boundaries are, to me, all more important than what age you are

emotional maturity is for many far more attractive than physical maturity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is like saying 55 too old to be on this site!

Age is a number man or woman it shoudnt matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no info on profile..only a cock shot..your username suggests the only thing youve got going for you is a big dick..try personality,,humour,,face pics,,give the girls something to muse over,,,there are hundreds of faceless big dicks out there hunni

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you say you like being descreet.

how is whacking your cock out on a table for all to see being descreet??

descretion isnt just hiding your face ya know lol.

never heard of the saying less is more? never noticed some of the sexiest pics on here are those that actually leave thigns to the imagination??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didnt realise they showed up simultaneously on my profile, i thought they only were listed for 12 hours hence why i kept renewing it! Desperation yuk that's a terrible thing to portray or even say to someone lol - how do you delete them?

Ok so from the advise listed above I should fill out my profile more and put more pics up? I do have more pics but I generally send them via messages as i like to be discreet.

"

well its one thing being discreet, but for most people your profile probs says to them your somewhat attached!

im not saying thats the case or its not , but fact is you wont publically show your face nor will you accomnodate.

and to be fair how many 100% single men that want sex wouldnt have a lady back to their place?

sure theres reasons to be discreet, work, family etc, but everyone is in the same boat on here.

the asssumption people going to make is that your married/living with someone! and this is something you cant change unless your more open. alot of people use sites like this cheat and not get caught

this is probs the main reason your struggling. people say it takes weekes/months to get meets, i dont think it does, ive had them from my first week and never struggled. probally because im quite open on my profile (nothing to hide at all) and i can also travel and accomodate to make things happen as well as being quite genuine and not pushy. all things that help

but no photo suggests something to hide even if you send it in private. just the way peoples minds work on this site!

a great face and body pic gets you alot more action than just a photo of a cock, which could be of anyone really (not saying its fake but photos of tits, cock, ass, fanny only have huge potential to not be legit if the user dont want to show them!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you say you like being descreet.

how is whacking your cock out on a table for all to see being descreet??

descretion isnt just hiding your face ya know lol.

never heard of the saying less is more? never noticed some of the sexiest pics on here are those that actually leave thigns to the imagination??"
nice sunglassess

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, I guess I will learn more tips about the scene as I go along and the more I interract with experienced swingers. When I first joined this site I naturally assumed it was just sex,sex sex lol hence why I put my cock pic as the display, and didnt think people really read profiles. That and the fact that I got numerous messages with my profile as it is so didnt think there was anything more to add.

The reason I also ask the question is because I did a search for local females in my area and most of the verified girls are looking for guys from atleast 35 years old. Then the girls who dont have an age limit are not verfied which makes me wonder whether they are genuine or not?

I will have a little flirt with my profile text and maybe display more pics publically and see if that attracts more of the genuine females.

...and the name lol, I wanted to change it within the first week of being here but you have to be a gold member to do so

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"The subject title says it all, ive been on the site for close to 2 months now but have only had 1 meet..."

can ask what you were expecting when you came on the site? genuine question..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This falls into Fabio's magic formula despite only haveing 23 words in the whinge it is still twice as many as the profile

Get to work, profile is advert, CV, Appliction form etc. all rolled into one, yours basically says:-

I am male, and I have a cock, also the inference of not accomodating can be, probably a wife / partner that will turn psycho on you next month when she finds out about you so can I shag you at your place, so she can find your address too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"you say you like being descreet.

how is whacking your cock out on a table for all to see being descreet??

descretion isnt just hiding your face ya know lol.

never heard of the saying less is more? never noticed some of the sexiest pics on here are those that actually leave thigns to the imagination??"

discreet in terms of not revealing one's identity. have been a member on this site for 6 weeks so first concern is not to be seen by someone who might recognise you however unlikely that may be.

I dont know about you, but outside of us swingers (and those who are aspiring to be) it's not exactly something you wnat to proudly admit to everyone.

So let me rephrase-when I say discreet i mean discreet in the sense of hiding one's identity.

When I get more comfortable with the site than maybe will reveal face pic etc publically. Just dont assume please!

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

But you have no information on your profile, so all that is left is assumption!

Not fair? Maybe, but that is the way a lot of people will think!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Although you are not in my preferred age range I wouldnt say 25 is too young because there are some people here who are looking for that.

What I can say is, if you were in my age range, there is absolutely nothing on your profile that would make me vaguely interested in wanting to contact you or find out more about you.

Your posts here shows that you can obviously string a sentence together so why not try doing that with your profile?

Good luck.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"This falls into Fabio's magic formula despite only haveing 23 words in the whinge it is still twice as many as the profile

Get to work, profile is advert, CV, Appliction form etc. all rolled into one, yours basically says:-

I am male, and I have a cock, also the inference of not accomodating can be, probably a wife / partner that will turn psycho on you next month when she finds out about you so can I shag you at your place, so she can find your address too.

"

actually it wasn't where i was going to go with this quite yet..... but i was getting to that eventually...

what i wanted to make him aware of 1st is that he has been here 6 weeks and already gotten one meet.... whereas there are loads of guys who have been here 6 months or more and never gotten close to a meet....

so first off i wanted to show him the reality.... wanted him to feel thankful for what he had rather than to think about those things he hadn't.... and look at it as half full so to speak rather than half empty...

once the attitude changed... then i was going on to the "shop window" so to speak.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This falls into Fabio's magic formula despite only haveing 23 words in the whinge it is still twice as many as the profile

Get to work, profile is advert, CV, Appliction form etc. all rolled into one, yours basically says:-

I am male, and I have a cock, also the inference of not accomodating can be, probably a wife / partner that will turn psycho on you next month when she finds out about you so can I shag you at your place, so she can find your address too.

actually it wasn't where i was going to go with this quite yet..... but i was getting to that eventually...

what i wanted to make him aware of 1st is that he has been here 6 weeks and already gotten one meet.... whereas there are loads of guys who have been here 6 months or more and never gotten close to a meet....

so first off i wanted to show him the reality.... wanted him to feel thankful for what he had rather than to think about those things he hadn't.... and look at it as half full so to speak rather than half empty...

once the attitude changed... then i was going on to the "shop window" so to speak......."

So do you think it was wrong for me to post this topic as a whole?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

25 isnt that young.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"

So do you think it was wrong for me to post this topic as a whole?"

nope... what i was going to point out was that the expectation and the reality are usually two different things......

if we show you the reality, you might have been less inclined to post the original post....

then I normally go onto the shop window so to speak...... as it is at the moment:

"would you answer your own profile"....

if the answer is yes... you don't need our help at all and i hope that you continue on on your merry way......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This falls into Fabio's magic formula despite only haveing 23 words in the whinge it is still twice as many as the profile

Get to work, profile is advert, CV, Appliction form etc. all rolled into one, yours basically says:-

I am male, and I have a cock, also the inference of not accomodating can be, probably a wife / partner that will turn psycho on you next month when she finds out about you so can I shag you at your place, so she can find your address too.

actually it wasn't where i was going to go with this quite yet..... but i was getting to that eventually...

what i wanted to make him aware of 1st is that he has been here 6 weeks and already gotten one meet.... whereas there are loads of guys who have been here 6 months or more and never gotten close to a meet....

so first off i wanted to show him the reality.... wanted him to feel thankful for what he had rather than to think about those things he hadn't.... and look at it as half full so to speak rather than half empty...

once the attitude changed... then i was going on to the "shop window" so to speak.......

So do you think it was wrong for me to post this topic as a whole?"

No you are not wrong in putting up this thread as many younger guys will wonder the same. Your profile content and what you put on a thread should have no connection unless you ask for advice on your profile.

It may help to use the search function on age as there have been lots of different viewpoints.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"

So do you think it was wrong for me to post this topic as a whole?"

Not at all, its an open forum. You can post as you wish and people can reply as they wish.

Just dont keep harping on about it in multiple threads cos that really gets on my tits and Id have to chop that cock off which is so conveniently placed on the table ready for the cleaver...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So do you think it was wrong for me to post this topic as a whole?"

Yes and no, if you took the time to look through the threads then this exact same topic is a regular may be slightly different age's or whatever but it's a common theme, where the good non piss taking advice is always the same'ish

1 Evaluate what you expect from this site.

2 Write a decent profile, and develop a strategy with an aim to achieving that expectation.

I appologise for my phrasing on the not accomodating part, it is true that many see that on a single mans profile will assume married and cheating (again read the forums to see that) so if you can't then some explanation MAY help... the pitch has been queered by many "single guys" before you who have been less than honest, so you are paddling against the tide.

Do some research, both on the forums and amongst the profiles...

Face pics are not the only alternative to cock pics, forums rate bum and general body dressed or naked higher than single cock pics.

Then re-launch your profile and see the rejections still rolling in.... also a fact of life, see forums past

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This falls into Fabio's magic formula despite only haveing 23 words in the whinge it is still twice as many as the profile

Get to work, profile is advert, CV, Appliction form etc. all rolled into one, yours basically says:-

I am male, and I have a cock, also the inference of not accomodating can be, probably a wife / partner that will turn psycho on you next month when she finds out about you so can I shag you at your place, so she can find your address too.

"

That's a bit tricky then lol, when I first joined I put up that I could accomodate but I changed it because I could only do so at set days and times. Reason being I am back at the parents house and unless its a single female I know or have gotten to know, I have too much respect to be bringing random people back for sex in front of their face. On top of this I got contacted by several couples when I said I could accomodate and explained the situation to one of them (they asked why i couldnt accomodate at a better time) and they said my profile was misleading if that was the case. It would probably look even more immature if I put on my profile "can accomodate on certain days depending on whether parenst are in" lol. It's like you cant win, "cannot accomodate" he's atatched, "can accomodate" but at certain times it's false advertising.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

What it may be worth your while doing is not so much concentrating on the things you can't control (age) as it would be concentrating on the things that you can control (profile)...

Age is too easy an excuse if you are not using all the tools available to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its not.. recently I have met guys much younger than you.. but they sent me face photos.. they had face photos on their profile.. and actually had to ask for cock photos

There profiles showed that they were making an effort..

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is like saying 55 too old to be on this site!

Age is a number man or woman it shoudnt matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

saying you dont want to be recognised by someone else from off here is somewhat silly (although my OH has the same concern, but she lives somewhere where people have no shame and would discuss it at the school gates)

ateotd IF you are recognised by someone else on a swinging site, why would you imagine they would be more willing to be 'outed' than yourself?

you are a single fella.

you are getting yourself out there.

is it really anyone elses concern where or how? not like you are married and a company director at ICI or the prime minister. lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"saying you dont want to be recognised by someone else from off here is somewhat silly (although my OH has the same concern, but she lives somewhere where people have no shame and would discuss it at the school gates)

ateotd IF you are recognised by someone else on a swinging site, why would you imagine they would be more willing to be 'outed' than yourself?

you are a single fella.

you are getting yourself out there.

is it really anyone elses concern where or how? not like you are married and a company director at ICI or the prime minister. lol"

Hey how do you know I am not a company director

I know exactly where your coming from but at the moment I would be pretty embarresed if one of my friends found out (I shouldnt care but I do), and true say if someone I know see's me on here then there in exactly the same position as me being on here lol

Maybe it's the fact that I am used to living in places where everyone likes to gossip and talk about your business too much.

Anyways I may warm to the idea of puitting one up at some point but not at the moment

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By *ojorisin22Man
over a year ago

Dudley

I feel a similar dilemma at the minute. I'm not ashamed of the way I look and always attach a photo to an email, but I worry about having it on show for anyone to see. I've settled for a small profile pic but even that worries me a little.

I am single. I'd just prefer to keep this side of my life secret. Makes things more exciting and stops narrow minded people making assumptions. And I can't accomodate because I haven't moved out yet; I'm 22 and don't have the cash (or the willpower to save) to move on my own, and no one as of yet I could move in with.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"I feel a similar dilemma at the minute. I'm not ashamed of the way I look and always attach a photo to an email, but I worry about having it on show for anyone to see. I've settled for a small profile pic but even that worries me a little.

I am single. I'd just prefer to keep this side of my life secret. Makes things more exciting and stops narrow minded people making assumptions. And I can't accomodate because I haven't moved out yet; I'm 22 and don't have the cash (or the willpower to save) to move on my own, and no one as of yet I could move in with."

The decision is entirely yours and if you dont want to, then dont.

Just recognise some people think its important to have a pic on profile, but then others are quite happy for you to send a pic privately attached to a message.

And remember you cant please all the people all the time.

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By *ojorisin22Man
over a year ago

Dudley


"I feel a similar dilemma at the minute. I'm not ashamed of the way I look and always attach a photo to an email, but I worry about having it on show for anyone to see. I've settled for a small profile pic but even that worries me a little.

I am single. I'd just prefer to keep this side of my life secret. Makes things more exciting and stops narrow minded people making assumptions. And I can't accomodate because I haven't moved out yet; I'm 22 and don't have the cash (or the willpower to save) to move on my own, and no one as of yet I could move in with.

The decision is entirely yours and if you dont want to, then dont.

Just recognise some people think its important to have a pic on profile, but then others are quite happy for you to send a pic privately attached to a message.

And remember you cant please all the people all the time."

Oh I know that. Just like I know for a single guy I'm lucky to have already been verified after such a short time. It just worries me that potentially I could miss out on some great meets based on a wrong assumption.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

i started swinging at 18, 25 isnt young at all to me, but you have to ask why so many women ask for over 25 in your area?

Swinging is not just about sex ,sex and more sex, as you said somewhere up there...some are here just for a quick shag , but many want a shag with benefits.

The benefits being respect,an open minded tolerant attitude and better sex than they can get picking up in a nightclub on a friday night.

i reckon swinging is the slowest way of getting a shag know to man (or woman) ,because you are looking for great sex, not just available sex.

Now if you can convince ppl via your profile, chat, forums, socials(which ever combination works for you best)that you have those attributes, combined with an understanding of what nsa means, then who cares how old you are!

Oh and pics will help, you might have a think about what you are ashamed of?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel a similar dilemma at the minute. I'm not ashamed of the way I look and always attach a photo to an email, but I worry about having it on show for anyone to see. I've settled for a small profile pic but even that worries me a little.

I am single. I'd just prefer to keep this side of my life secret. Makes things more exciting and stops narrow minded people making assumptions. And I can't accomodate because I haven't moved out yet; I'm 22 and don't have the cash (or the willpower to save) to move on my own, and no one as of yet I could move in with.

The decision is entirely yours and if you dont want to, then dont.

Just recognise some people think its important to have a pic on profile, but then others are quite happy for you to send a pic privately attached to a message.

And remember you cant please all the people all the time.

Oh I know that. Just like I know for a single guy I'm lucky to have already been verified after such a short time. It just worries me that potentially I could miss out on some great meets based on a wrong assumption."

well you come across lovely in these posts

a few younger gents could do with taking a leaf out of your book my good man !

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By *ojorisin22Man
over a year ago

Dudley

Thanks, but I'm sure I have my moments. There's good and bad in any demographic, I just try to treat people like I want to be treated.

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By *4FantasyCouple
over a year ago

Spalding

25 is not too young for some.

I started at 28 (Kaz)

You are obviously not of the "txt spk" crowd on here, so that will give you brownie points.

As for discreet... you don't have to put face pics on your profile (just keep them private), but pictures of the bod would be interesting

Good luck!

Kazx

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

What makes me laugh is people that don't want to put a face pic on their profile, in case someone recognises them. Fair enough.

But they then attach it to every mail they send out. How do they know they are not sending it to someone they know? Much more incriminating that way, at least then they know you are actively sharking, and you can't pretend it was your d*unk mates!!!

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By *ojorisin22Man
over a year ago

Dudley


"What makes me laugh is people that don't want to put a face pic on their profile, in case someone recognises them. Fair enough.

But they then attach it to every mail they send out. How do they know they are not sending it to someone they know? Much more incriminating that way, at least then they know you are actively sharking, and you can't pretend it was your d*unk mates!!! "

Fair point but I'd argue that if they're also a member and have the same reason for discretion. I could be wrong but I thought anyone, member or not, could go on the site and see the profiles.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

To the question in the title I would say no, but then I read the post and it was more of a moan about only having 1 meet.

Personally if you are 16-death you are old enough to swing. It's personal choice after all. I would not always recommend it, but then I would not recommend swinging to a 1 day old widow/er from a 40 year long monogomous relationship. But if they want to give it a go, it's their life and it ain't illegal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"What makes me laugh is people that don't want to put a face pic on their profile, in case someone recognises them. Fair enough.

But they then attach it to every mail they send out. How do they know they are not sending it to someone they know? Much more incriminating that way, at least then they know you are actively sharking, and you can't pretend it was your d*unk mates!!!

Fair point but I'd argue that if they're also a member and have the same reason for discretion. I could be wrong but I thought anyone, member or not, could go on the site and see the profiles."

You can change your privacy settings, so that only registered logged in members can see your profile and pics.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"What makes me laugh is people that don't want to put a face pic on their profile, in case someone recognises them. Fair enough.

But they then attach it to every mail they send out. How do they know they are not sending it to someone they know? Much more incriminating that way, at least then they know you are actively sharking, and you can't pretend it was your d*unk mates!!!

Fair point but I'd argue that if they're also a member and have the same reason for discretion. I could be wrong but I thought anyone, member or not, could go on the site and see the profiles."

only if you set your profile to be visable to non members and search engines, it is in your privacy settings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it's not. But you are relying on a cock pic with no profile outlining anything else bar the above to gather interest.

It may be enough for those that like the anonominity of meets.

Really you ought to consider like many others have been told too, make yourself stand out there's a lot of competition out there.

Stand out referring to other attributes not just your chopper

Good luck."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some 25 year olds can come across alot older then there years i find x Have meet some men in 20s and been lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The subject title says it all, ive been on the site for close to 2 months now but have only had 1 meet..."

Thing is mate im a little tired of hearing "been here 2 months and had 1 meet"..This is a swinging site and not a knocking shop,so you have done ok to get 1 meet!

If i was you though i would get rid of the cockpic as a profile pic...Ladies don't

wanna talk to a cock...Trust me.

Oh and if yer 18 yer old enuf...But some people have min age for reasons such as there kids age!

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By *ojorisin22Man
over a year ago

Dudley

Oh, didn't know about the privacy settings. That's my argument gone out of the window lol. Cheers guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some 25 year olds can come across alot older then there years i find x Have meet some men in 20s and been lovely."

+1

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