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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am off out with my flatmate for her 'pissing off to London' night out......

One of her friends, who is 'fucking gorgeous', is staying at our flat over night after the piss up and is in a bit of a purple patch with her fella and apparently gets a bit 'loose' when she has had a few. We have flirted a bit every time we have met up (me n the friend, that is) but my flat mate has asked me to laugh it off if the friend comes on to me.

This is soooooo counter what I want to do, but...............

What do I do? Go for the fuck and ruin a friendship (though doubtless our girl will forgive me in time, she has before)? Or play safe and perhaps flirt and pay attention to the free and single, but slightly plain other girl who has also been invited along?

(decisions, decisions......eh?)

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Which one is more likely to fuck you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you'll do whatever you feel no matter what anyone says on here

If you've had a drink and shes had a drink, and you've flirted in the past you'll probably end up fucking, you can face your mate and her fella in the morning

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well it's a different post code for her fellah....... we had a minor run in (of all things, playing trivial pursuit, cos he thought I was a twat cos I knew all the answers to his questions as well as my own!!!) so that would be quite entertaining......

And I think the lush girl is probably more likely to shag me.........

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By *umcoveredpussyCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

fuck them both

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"fuck them both"

I'd say one after the other or at the same time, but I know what the answer would be.....

I'll probably end up fucking neither and just havin a wank......

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"fuck them both

I'd say one after the other or at the same time, but I know what the answer would be.....

I'll probably end up fucking neither and just havin a wank......"

serious advice...the plainer girl is probably more likely...

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

Maybe your friend is trying to tell in in a nice way it could be more trouble than its worth.

Just a different side to the coin so to speak

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

why would you want to sleep with anyone who wouldnt sleep with you sober anyway ???

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By *eighleedsMan
over a year ago

leeds

maybe your friend is warning you off because she wants to fuck you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why would you want to sleep with anyone who wouldnt sleep with you sober anyway ???

"

cause hes a man lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your friend sounds as if she is trying to subtly warn you off because she can see possible repercussions after the event.

From your post I get the impression you will do what you want regardless and your dick is ruling your head. So do what you think best and deal with the fall out, if any after the event without whinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am off out with my flatmate for her 'pissing off to London' night out......

One of her friends, who is 'fucking gorgeous', is staying at our flat over night after the piss up and is in a bit of a purple patch with her fella and apparently gets a bit 'loose' when she has had a few. We have flirted a bit every time we have met up (me n the friend, that is) but my flat mate has asked me to laugh it off if the friend comes on to me.

This is soooooo counter what I want to do, but...............

What do I do? Go for the fuck and ruin a friendship (though doubtless our girl will forgive me in time, she has before)? Or play safe and perhaps flirt and pay attention to the free and single, but slightly plain other girl who has also been invited along?

(decisions, decisions......eh?)"

I am surprised you have to ask but on reading further down when you say she forgiven you before points at possibly a lack of respect.

If she has asked you to laugh it off then its fair to say that's what a real friend would do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd get them all into bed, and add one more.....

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"why would you want to sleep with anyone who wouldnt sleep with you sober anyway ???

"

is that a serious question ? only a woman could ask that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she needs to be half soaked just to flirt with you, it's a big no no!

You should never take advantage just cos she's drank to much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friendship verses fuck??

Call me fa getting old but Id forget the fuck xx

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"If she needs to be half soaked just to flirt with you, it's a big no no!

You should never take advantage just cos she's drank to much "
not even if she is fucking goreous in his own words ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just go for it and , see what the morning brings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If she needs to be half soaked just to flirt with you, it's a big no no!

You should never take advantage just cos she's drank to much not even if she is fucking goreous in his own words ? "

of course

Anyone who is only having sex with someone because they are d*unk and knows full well they wouldnt do it sober has no respect for other people at all

And in my opinion its border line sexual assault

sorry to lower the tone but thats just how i see it

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"If she needs to be half soaked just to flirt with you, it's a big no no!

You should never take advantage just cos she's drank to much not even if she is fucking goreous in his own words ?

of course

Anyone who is only having sex with someone because they are d*unk and knows full well they wouldnt do it sober has no respect for other people at all

And in my opinion its border line sexual assault

sorry to lower the tone but thats just how i see it"
where does he say he knows full well she wouldnt do it with him when she was sober and is waiting for her to get d*unk to shag her ? it reads to me that when she has a few drinks she loses her inhibitions and likes to have sex whats wrong with that if she is consenting ?..of course if she is legless and blind d*unk thats different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If she needs to be half soaked just to flirt with you, it's a big no no!

You should never take advantage just cos she's drank to much not even if she is fucking goreous in his own words ?

of course

Anyone who is only having sex with someone because they are d*unk and knows full well they wouldnt do it sober has no respect for other people at all

And in my opinion its border line sexual assault

sorry to lower the tone but thats just how i see it where does he say he knows full well she wouldnt do it with him when she was sober and is waiting for her to get d*unk to shag her ? it reads to me that when she has a few drinks she loses her inhibitions and likes to have sex whats wrong with that if she is consenting ?..of course if she is legless and blind d*unk thats different"

well im guessing by the fact they have met a few times while she been sober and not jumped into bed with him says she wouldnt do it sober

I could be wrong tho

I dont know the ins and outs of the situation i can only go off what has been put but it reads to me like hes asking if other think its ok for him to make a move on her while shes had a few as hes been told she gets 'loose' and my answer to that is no its not

That does not mean im right but a question was asked and thats my reply

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Is there an update?

I want to know if the flatmate asked him to laugh it off because her mate had told her there was nothing in the flirting and it was just harmless banter... or something like that.

Has the OP been back since posting?

Did the boyfriend read this and wait for him in the toilets of the bar?

Did the plain single one knock him back?

Did he get so d*unk he shat himself?

Can I find out what happens next on E4?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Is there an update?

I want to know if the flatmate asked him to laugh it off because her mate had told her there was nothing in the flirting and it was just harmless banter... or something like that.

Has the OP been back since posting?

Did the boyfriend read this and wait for him in the toilets of the bar?

Did the plain single one knock him back?

Did he get so d*unk he shat himself?

Can I find out what happens next on E4?"

Tune in next week for another thrilling instalment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nowt like an orgy i say feck um all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did he get so d*unk he shat himself?

"

haha just got images of trainspotting then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nah it's all going on tonight.......

Hung over update due tomorrow.....

BTW we wouldn't jump into bed as she's vanilla, the flat mate is lesbian and the 'plain' one isn't plain, just not as gorgeous as the one with a boyfriend.....

No trainspotting please........

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"why would you want to sleep with anyone who wouldnt sleep with you sober anyway ???

is that a serious question ? only a woman could ask that lol"

maybe the op hadnt thought about it in that context i put ....

sorry but i dont tar all guys the same ,that they think "every holes a goal". there are some who actually have standards and self respect .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A standing prick has no concious, so go for it

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By *waymanMan
over a year ago

newcastle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Friendship verses fuck??

Call me fa getting old but Id forget the fuck xx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well..............

I would seem that my flatmate is far less popular than i had expected her to be....

Not only did the cute girl make the excuse that she was ill, but her other friends did not turn up......

Turned out I was her only friend after all, aren't I a good egg?.......

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By *kyblue2681Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Well..............

I would seem that my flatmate is far less popular than i had expected her to be....

Not only did the cute girl make the excuse that she was ill, but her other friends did not turn up......

Turned out I was her only friend after all, aren't I a good egg?.......

"

yes your a very good egg but i feel bad for your friend its crap when your so called friends let you down like that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well..............

I would seem that my flatmate is far less popular than i had expected her to be....

Not only did the cute girl make the excuse that she was ill, but her other friends did not turn up......

Turned out I was her only friend after all, aren't I a good egg?.......

yes your a very good egg but i feel bad for your friend its crap when your so called friends let you down like that "

C'est la vie. I did say to her that she needed to give people more than 4 days warning on these things.......

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By *kyblue2681Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Well..............

I would seem that my flatmate is far less popular than i had expected her to be....

Not only did the cute girl make the excuse that she was ill, but her other friends did not turn up......

Turned out I was her only friend after all, aren't I a good egg?.......

yes your a very good egg but i feel bad for your friend its crap when your so called friends let you down like that

C'est la vie. I did say to her that she needed to give people more than 4 days warning on these things......."
yeah it is usually better to give more notice but if they say they'd come then its still pretty bad they let her down

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