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"That's only to test who has the stamina and the mental strength to read through it, to discover the hidden word that you're supposed to add in the message title, it is some sort of sieving process " Haha yes you are correct , it’s crazy I’m glad someone understands what I’m saying . | |||
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"Depends on how it's written and why it's that long. Ours is in an attempt to stop time being wasted... On both sides " Nothing to do with how it’s written. | |||
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"Depends on how it's written and why it's that long. Ours is in an attempt to stop time being wasted... On both sides Nothing to do with how it’s written." That was our opinion so yes it is for us. Long profile with poor or no punctuation are much harder to read | |||
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"Yes you are wrong OP. I've been told mine is too long, although I've seen longer. It takes less that 2 minutes to read, so shouldn't be too much of an issue for the kind of men I like. How are you getting on with your 5 word profile?" | |||
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"Depends on how it's written and why it's that long. Ours is in an attempt to stop time being wasted... On both sides Nothing to do with how it’s written. That was our opinion so yes it is for us. Long profile with poor or no punctuation are much harder to read " I’m not talking about punctuation, I’m generally expressing my thought about profile length. I see so many profiles that are ridiculously boring. Be exciting for fuck sake , be real , be YOU!! | |||
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"Depends on how it's written and why it's that long. Ours is in an attempt to stop time being wasted... On both sides Nothing to do with how it’s written. That was our opinion so yes it is for us. Long profile with poor or no punctuation are much harder to read I’m not talking about punctuation, I’m generally expressing my thought about profile length. I see so many profiles that are ridiculously boring. Be exciting for fuck sake , be real , be YOU!!" Yes and you asked for other people's opinions... Hence we have ours!! | |||
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"Depends on how it's written and why it's that long. Ours is in an attempt to stop time being wasted... On both sides Nothing to do with how it’s written. That was our opinion so yes it is for us. Long profile with poor or no punctuation are much harder to read I’m not talking about punctuation, I’m generally expressing my thought about profile length. I see so many profiles that are ridiculously boring. Be exciting for fuck sake , be real , be YOU!!" I agree. I'd much rather see too much than too little though. There's not much exciting or real about a 5 word profile. | |||
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"Depends on how it's written and why it's that long. Ours is in an attempt to stop time being wasted... On both sides Nothing to do with how it’s written. That was our opinion so yes it is for us. Long profile with poor or no punctuation are much harder to read Fair play I’m not talking about punctuation, I’m generally expressing my thought about profile length. I see so many profiles that are ridiculously boring. Be exciting for fuck sake , be real , be YOU!! Yes and you asked for other people's opinions... Hence we have ours!! " | |||
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"Depends on how it's written and why it's that long. Ours is in an attempt to stop time being wasted... On both sides Nothing to do with how it’s written. That was our opinion so yes it is for us. Long profile with poor or no punctuation are much harder to read I’m not talking about punctuation, I’m generally expressing my thought about profile length. I see so many profiles that are ridiculously boring. Be exciting for fuck sake , be real , be YOU!!" Because,"hi please to meet you"is totally exciting | |||
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"Depends on how it's written and why it's that long. Ours is in an attempt to stop time being wasted... On both sides Nothing to do with how it’s written. That was our opinion so yes it is for us. Long profile with poor or no punctuation are much harder to read it’s not boring tho ?? I’m not talking about punctuation, I’m generally expressing my thought about profile length. I see so many profiles that are ridiculously boring. Be exciting for fuck sake , be real , be YOU!! I agree. I'd much rather see too much than too little though. There's not much exciting or real about a 5 word profile. " | |||
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"Yes you are wrong OP. I've been told mine is too long, although I've seen longer. It takes less that 2 minutes to read, so shouldn't be too much of an issue for the kind of men I like. How are you getting on with your 5 word profile? " But the funny thing is, even those who read it and know after reading it that they're not compatible, they still message you! | |||
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"I am satisfied, well almost satisfied that I am correct about what my original post said. Well done posters ????" Opinion by its very definition does not allow for correct or incorrect but sure, whatever makes you happy OP. | |||
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"The irony in this thread is palpable lol " That’s not correct. | |||
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"I am satisfied, well almost satisfied that I am correct about what my original post said. Well done posters ???? Opinion by its very definition does not allow for correct or incorrect but sure, whatever makes you happy OP. I am correct about my original post therefor. Yes I am correct. " | |||
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"I'm far more put off by a lack of thought and effort to be honest. Like 5 words and one of them has a typo If it's well written and the information seems valid and not repetitive then long is fine. Bonus points for humour. I can read and my attention span is more than a minute V x" Why would you think a well written essay is more appealing? Surley typos and short messages are just as much attention as you have clearly commented on this thread so you contradict yourself. | |||
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"Do as you will , I’m saying as a fact . Long boring media profiles are a turn off for everyone. Now you can moan all you want at me , but I’m saying what everyone is thinking." Shocking innit? What them uvva buggers do? What do you propose should be done about it? | |||
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"Depends on how it's written and why it's that long. Ours is in an attempt to stop time being wasted... On both sides Nothing to do with how it’s written. That was our opinion so yes it is for us. Long profile with poor or no punctuation are much harder to read I’m not talking about punctuation, I’m generally expressing my thought about profile length. I see so many profiles that are ridiculously boring. Be exciting for fuck sake , be real , be YOU!!" But being ME is having a nice long(ish) profile so people can get to know me before I message! Not everyone is like you. Some of us actually enjoy reading people’s profiles. | |||
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"I am satisfied, well almost satisfied that I am correct about what my original post said. Well done posters ????" No your just being confrontational. The profiles may be too long for you. But as stated others find the profile length acceptable. Coming across as a bit of a jerk on forums tends to result people filtering the poster out as a potential play mate ie if their a jerk in the form then their a jerk in the flesh and so won’t meet them. | |||
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"I love a long profile. Can’t stand the ones that say, “I am a man looking to meet women”. Like...how am I supposed to have a conversation with that? How am I supposed to see whether I’d get on with you? Have fun? Make a connection? My favourite all time profile on here is MadisonBlue’s (this is the second time today that I’ve mentioned her - she must be a latent obsession of mine ) It’s epic. First time I came across it, I scanned down to the bottom and made myself a brew before settling down for a good read. By the end, I felt like I had a read on her personality, creativity and intelligence. It was wonderful. Too many people don’t put any effort or personalities into their profiles and that turns me off. Guys often accuse me of having ‘too long a profile to read’. It takes 90 seconds, if you’re a slow reader. I timed it once. If you don’t even have a 90 second attention span...for me, that does not bode well for your attention span in the bedroom " 90 second attention span ... That made me chuckle to myself. Great way of looking at it | |||
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"I am satisfied, well almost satisfied that I am correct about what my original post said. Well done posters ???? No your just being confrontational. The profiles may be too long for you. But as stated others find the profile length acceptable. Coming across as a bit of a jerk on forums tends to result people filtering the poster out as a potential play mate ie if their a jerk in the form then their a jerk in the flesh and so won’t meet them. " Maybe but honest don’t forget | |||
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"Do as you will , I’m saying as a fact . Long boring media profiles are a turn off for everyone. Now you can moan all you want at me , but I’m saying what everyone is thinking." "Everyone" - clearly not by the many replies to the contrary. You are clearly intransigent so good luck with that OP. Just off to add a few lines to our profile | |||
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"I am satisfied, well almost satisfied that I am correct about what my original post said. Well done posters ???? No your just being confrontational. The profiles may be too long for you. But as stated others find the profile length acceptable. Coming across as a bit of a jerk on forums tends to result people filtering the poster out as a potential play mate ie if their a jerk in the form then their a jerk in the flesh and so won’t meet them. Maybe but honest don’t forget " No. Not honest. Just argumentative. Your said ‘ I’m saying what everyone thinking’. No your not saying for everyone | |||
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"Do as you will , I’m saying as a fact . Long boring media profiles are a turn off for everyone. Now you can moan all you want at me , but I’m saying what everyone is thinking." where are your facts then. Have you asked everyone on the site op? | |||
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"Hi all it can’t be just me surely but do some of you find that some profiles drone on like forever? I think it’s a bad thing personally but I’d like to hear opinions. I Think when I see these looooong profiles these persons are to much hard work. Am I wrong?" You are right. We are. | |||
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"I did an experiment a couple of wks ago. I cleared my profile text to just 30 words. The standard of messages went down drastically and I'd estimate 95% hadn't read a word . The assumptions made about from me having a few words was disappointing. I say have whatever you think necessary on your profile , the right people will still find you " What an exciting experiment that was. | |||
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"It’s true only a few comments but I’m confident there is more believe I am right." | |||
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"It’s true only a few comments but I’m confident there is more believe I am right. " LOL | |||
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"The irony in this thread is palpable lol That’s not correct." | |||
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"It’s true only a few comments but I’m confident there is more believe I am right." There you go then. Get a Gold star, 3 red ticks in your report and extra house points. | |||
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"Hi all it can’t be just me surely but do some of you find that some profiles drone on like forever? I think it’s a bad thing personally but I’d like to hear opinions. I Think when I see these looooong profiles these persons are to much hard work. Am I wrong? You are right. We are. " Sure | |||
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"That's only to test who has the stamina and the mental strength to read through it, to discover the hidden word that you're supposed to add in the message title, it is some sort of sieving process " he's right you know | |||
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"I'd rather a long profile than one that says "will fill in later" " We agree with you about this. These profiles of 4 or 5 words, now they are the ones that we think silly!! Each to their own of course!! | |||
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"Mine is 8 words " 9 actually | |||
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"Hi please to meet you Who the fuck is that guy " Derrrr, it's Mr Hands, don't you read profiles? | |||
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"Mine is 8 words " But what words they are, Deeds | |||
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"Do as you will , I’m saying as a fact . Long boring media profiles are a turn off for everyone. Now you can moan all you want at me , but I’m saying what everyone is thinking." And short unimaginative profiles where the author clearly can't be arsed and has a sense of entitlement are a great filter for the women of fab who want to meet more interesting and articulate individuals for stimulating conversation and awesome sex | |||
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"Some people hey!" Agree totally!! Some people can't be arsed to put in any effort, yet they expect free sex? What on earth is that all about?? | |||
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"Some people hey!" Ikr | |||
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"We really dislike the ‘negative profile’ I won’t do this I won’t do that Don’t bother messaging if you weren't born on a Monday etc etc. There appears to be a lot of angry bitter people on here as well as the fabulous people. But if you’re sooooo pissed off with your experiences then leave . " Couldn't agree more. | |||
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"Mine is 8 words 9 actually " Ok so I’m not articulate and I can’t count. Abs though | |||
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"Hi please to meet you Who the fuck is that guy Derrrr, it's Mr Hands, don't you read profiles? " Doh | |||
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"We really dislike the ‘negative profile’ I won’t do this I won’t do that Don’t bother messaging if you weren't born on a Monday etc etc. There appears to be a lot of angry bitter people on here as well as the fabulous people. But if you’re sooooo pissed off with your experiences then leave . " | |||
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"Hi all it can’t be just me surely but do some of you find that some profiles drone on like forever? I think it’s a bad thing personally but I’d like to hear opinions. I Think when I see these looooong profiles these persons are to much hard work. Am I wrong?" I don't like long profiles either. Or many pics. I treat people like human beings, not a page entry in a sex catalogue. I talk to them to find out if we are compatible. Because they are real people and not just words on a screen. | |||
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"Ultimately OP, and coming at this from another angle, why worry about and waste time moaning about things on here you don't like, when you could just focus on those that you do instead? As this thread has shown, plenty of people, me included, like a profile that provides some detail that gives them a feel and a sense of the profile owner, even if that does mean it's lengthy - that is their prerogative, just as preferring those that are shorter is yours. No-one is right, no-one is wrong, it's a matter of personal preference. Simple way round it is to look for profiles that match your own preference and ignore those that don't " That’s a good answer. Bravo ???? | |||
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"Some people hey! Agree totally!! Some people can't be arsed to put in any effort, yet they expect free sex? What on earth is that all about??" Expect ? Really do you ? Is that why your here? | |||
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"I am simply commenting on length of the profiles. That’s all . " They're easy to pass by if you don't like them...reading them is not compulsory | |||
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"I am simply commenting on length of the profiles. That’s all . They're easy to pass by if you don't like them...reading them is not compulsory" I agree | |||
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