FabSwingers.com forum: We are an Attractive, beautiful, good looking couple!

By *ixey and Copper OP Couple
over a year ago

Exeter

Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?

Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?

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By *otlipsandSirCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?

Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?"

Nope that is a definite red flag to us too .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such judgments are for the third party to make, not the first party. We all see such things differently and have our own tastes. Also, for many of us such attributes manifest in more ways than physical appearance. To self describe as such comes across as arrogant to me.

To prefix it with “we’ve often been described by other people as...” less so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?

Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?"
very off putting

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By *antasticMrFucksMan
over a year ago

Taunton

"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?

Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?"

No but you could xx

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By *ixey and Copper OP Couple
over a year ago

Exeter

"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?

Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?

No but you could xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?

Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?"

It's their profile, they can say what they like. Obviously they are confident and trying to attract similar people I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, puts us off aswell.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

How else should they describe themselves if the believe to be an attractive couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the sentence

'I'm a good looking, genuine professional male' is a massive put off for me. cos no Geoff, your my local bin man and you ain't a looker

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By *jEuphoriaCouple
over a year ago

north kent

"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?

Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?"

I’v met people who are just plain looking, and they are the best. Met some ‘beautiful’ people, who are so up themselves, they can barely manage a, ‘hello’.

There seems to be a bigger divide between old and young these days too.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?

Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?"

Both, but it's off putting for us. We had a invite to play from a profile like that, apparently we were lucky to be considered is what they told us. They were confident but arrogant too in our book, an unattractive trait for us.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Very off putting.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It makes me think that i will judge that myself,attractiveness is totally subjective.

So one persons hot,might not be to me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It's confidence and I like confidence. I think we celebrate and praise low self esteem too much. Someone describing themselves as ugly (well a woman) will get a much more positive reaction from people telling her she's beautiful and should believe in herself than the same woman following that advice and describing herself as beautiful. It's crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if cpls start putting ,we are ugly and unattractive? Would that be good ?

Lol guys, why do you just others so fast? Check their face pics and then decide .

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"What if cpls start putting ,we are ugly and unattractive? Would that be good ?

Lol guys, why do you just others so fast? Check their face pics and then decide ."

People prefer that. It gives them a chance to boost that person up on order to knock them down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if cpls start putting ,we are ugly and unattractive? Would that be good ?

Lol guys, why do you just others so fast? Check their face pics and then decide .

People prefer that. It gives them a chance to boost that person up on order to knock them down. "

Everyone is beautiful and attractive in their own way. We tend to respect that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if cpls start putting ,we are ugly and unattractive? Would that be good ?

Lol guys, why do you just others so fast? Check their face pics and then decide ."

*Judge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't put me off but I might not agree with them. If I can't see their faces I couldn't tell anyway as I don't decide if a person is attractive by their body .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't bother us if someone says how great/good looking they are but we do tend to move on once we've read it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s off putting because there are couples of all shapes and sizes and I take them has they come, if you have a wife or hubby who has a problem with there self confidence then it may them think twice and does nothing for there confidence too, but some couples are so far up there own arses, it’s about meeting people for fun not how they look, I love the Nextdoor type couple that enjoy people for what they are and not what they look like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What puts us off is the word ELITE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a turn off for us, beauty is subjective, and not all about aesthetics either - a beautiful personality determines how attractive someone is as much as anything else, in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Such judgments are for the third party to make, not the first party. We all see such things differently and have our own tastes. Also, for many of us such attributes manifest in more ways than physical appearance. To self describe as such comes across as arrogant to me.

To prefix it with “we’ve often been described by other people as...” less so."
Well said, but if that is their choice of words fine, it would be the rest of the message I would judge them by...by the way, do such people have a hair out of place after sex?

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"It's confidence and I like confidence. I think we celebrate and praise low self esteem too much. Someone describing themselves as ugly (well a woman) will get a much more positive reaction from people telling her she's beautiful and should believe in herself than the same woman following that advice and describing herself as beautiful. It's crazy"

Big difference between low self esteem and humility. Nobody likes people who, despite being remarkable only for their averageness, parade around with an "I'm too special for the likes of YOU" attitude...

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"What puts us off is the word ELITE

"we are 1% and we are considerably richer than yow"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attractiveness is subjective, I'll let other people decide whether I'm a minger or not.

It's not unlike describing yourself as professional, wearing a suit to work doesnt make you better than a plumber or stay at home parent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own but it would put me off approaching them as I’d feel I wouldn’t pass muster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think attractive people have to declare they're attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?

Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?"

Totally with you on this..we all have insecurities but to describe yourself basically as a god/goddess is jus pure vanity to me and off putting!! already you are weary as to how they would describe you I think that's just another way to start a fab argument

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

When written about each other is lovely tbf but to state about self is off putting. Attraction can't be gauged soley on looks. When we started out had a meet but didn't gel so now its clubs social. It's the people as a whole size, looks irrelevant if there's chemistry xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?

Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?

It's their profile, they can say what they like. Obviously they are confident and trying to attract similar people I guess. "

I’m with you on that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What puts us off is the word ELITE

"we are 1% and we are considerably richer than yow" "

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South

We are ordinary, normal(ish) people and describe ourselves the same.

Whether people find us attractive or not is for them to decide, the reverse is also true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah outwardly saying it is off putting

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Attractiveness is subjective, I'll let other people decide whether I'm a minger or not.

It's not unlike describing yourself as professional, wearing a suit to work doesnt make you better than a plumber or stay at home parent."

But they aren't saying they're better than anyone else. They're saying they think they're attractive not that they think nobody else is.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I would think Jesus !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Attractiveness is subjective, I'll let other people decide whether I'm a minger or not.

It's not unlike describing yourself as professional, wearing a suit to work doesnt make you better than a plumber or stay at home parent.

But they aren't saying they're better than anyone else. They're saying they think they're attractive not that they think nobody else is. "

Exactly,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a cunt with a beard not sure if that helps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a cunt with a beard not sure if that helps?"

Hahahahaha! I’d rather read that on a profile tbh. Unless it was a females.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as they live up to the description I don’t see anything wrong with it

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By *asco3Man
over a year ago

neath

Very much agree with this statement.Recently met a woman who described herself as a " stunna" and " a Goddess" To be fair she wasnt bad looking but Id have had more fun fucking an inflatable. Absolutely so concerned about her image she just hardly participated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very much agree with this statement.Recently met a woman who described herself as a " stunna" and " a Goddess" To be fair she wasnt bad looking but Id have had more fun fucking an inflatable. Absolutely so concerned about her image she just hardly participated."

I think that's a bit over board

Stunna and Goddess

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a cunt with a beard not sure if that helps?"

It works for me

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Wouldn't bother me, I'd look at their pix and either fancy them or not.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I'm happy for people to describe themselves however they like. I'm just disappointed when their description seems to fly in the face of reality.... But given the different tastes that people on Fab seem to have, it might be my problem that their self descriptions don't match my expectations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just boosting their chances for getting laid.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Im a cunt with a beard not sure if that helps?

It works for me

It's the truth for me

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wouldn't bother me, I'd look at their pix and either fancy them or not."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wouldn't bother me, I'd look at their pix and either fancy them or not."

This

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?

Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?"

No there just sorting the wheat from the chaff at the very start.

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By *oastal1968Man
over a year ago

London

What's the difference between a couple describing themselves as good looking and a woman describing herself as a BBW? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You be the judge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence is an attractive trait, no point selling yourself short.

It’s all subjective anyway so I’d look at the photos, rest of their profile text and make my decision based on that.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Yes I once had a meet with a woman who was supposedly, (and could well have been) an ex 'Page 3 Model.' Just in no way a person you felt there was communication or bonding with. Other people have said the same about her on that meet and other meets. Yes basically like sex with an inflatable / robot or incredibly bored prostitute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Confidence is an attractive trait, no point selling yourself short.

It’s all subjective anyway so I’d look at the photos, rest of their profile text and make my decision based on that."

Precisely it's subjective that's why it's in description .

People take it too seriously and pass judgement on description too .

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By *loria JamesTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

My mother has a saying " Self praise is no praise at all"

I find personality is key and the one thing that makes a meet go well x

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

I'm starting to believe that I too am so attractive its off putting to ladies. makes perfect sense when I think about it why so many say no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?

Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?"

I actively seek these couples out and add them to my hotlist.....

There are some real stunners in the swinging world.....

But I need to know something..... if some people find couples/men/women describing themselves as attractive , off putting....

Do you only go for people that describe themselves as average/unattractive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Confidence is an attractive trait, no point selling yourself short.

It’s all subjective anyway so I’d look at the photos, rest of their profile text and make my decision based on that.

Precisely it's subjective that's why it's in description .

People take it too seriously and pass judgement on description too .

Thank the lord they didn’t use the words professional and exceptional too, would have caused a fabs meltdown.....

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Confidence is an attractive trait, no point selling yourself short.

It’s all subjective anyway so I’d look at the photos, rest of their profile text and make my decision based on that.

Precisely it's subjective that's why it's in description .

People take it too seriously and pass judgement on description too .

Thank the lord they didn’t use the words professional and exceptional too, would have caused a fabs meltdown.....

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?

Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?

I actively seek these couples out and add them to my hotlist.....

There are some real stunners in the swinging world.....

But I need to know something..... if some people find couples/men/women describing themselves as attractive , off putting....

Do you only go for people that describe themselves as average/unattractive?"

Its fab law, you must not say positive things about yourself in order to give people a chance to shower you with compliments.

This is a serious question the answer to which interests me. Is it a British trait, this knocking down of confident people or does it happen in America too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?

Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?

I actively seek these couples out and add them to my hotlist.....

There are some real stunners in the swinging world.....

But I need to know something..... if some people find couples/men/women describing themselves as attractive , off putting....

Do you only go for people that describe themselves as average/unattractive?"

Excellent question!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?

Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?

I actively seek these couples out and add them to my hotlist.....

There are some real stunners in the swinging world.....

But I need to know something..... if some people find couples/men/women describing themselves as attractive , off putting....

Do you only go for people that describe themselves as average/unattractive?

Excellent question!!"

It is. I wonder too if when looking forva tradesman people would rather they describe themselves as average or not very good. E.g. "average plumber" or "just about passable electrician"

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?

Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?

I actively seek these couples out and add them to my hotlist.....

There are some real stunners in the swinging world.....

But I need to know something..... if some people find couples/men/women describing themselves as attractive , off putting....

Do you only go for people that describe themselves as average/unattractive?

Excellent question!!

It is. I wonder too if when looking forva tradesman people would rather they describe themselves as average or not very good. E.g. "average plumber" or "just about passable electrician""

Don't want a plastered plaster afterall do we

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Confidence is an attractive trait, no point selling yourself short.

It’s all subjective anyway so I’d look at the photos, rest of their profile text and make my decision based on that.

Precisely it's subjective that's why it's in description .

People take it too seriously and pass judgement on description too .

Thank the lord they didn’t use the words professional and exceptional too, would have caused a fabs meltdown.....

Oh yes, there was a thread about professional too.

Even that was off putting to some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?

Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?

I actively seek these couples out and add them to my hotlist.....

There are some real stunners in the swinging world.....

But I need to know something..... if some people find couples/men/women describing themselves as attractive , off putting....

Do you only go for people that describe themselves as average/unattractive?

Its fab law, you must not say positive things about yourself in order to give people a chance to shower you with compliments.

This is a serious question the answer to which interests me. Is it a British trait, this knocking down of confident people or does it happen in America too?"

No this is not a American trait..... we are very boisterous....

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By *avidberksMan
over a year ago

Wokingham

'Athletic' can be subjective too. Met a couple where this covered fat too (no pics on their profile). She was described as 'shaved', turned out not recently enough and my face was ripped to pieces

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"'Athletic' can be subjective too. Met a couple where this covered fat too (no pics on their profile). She was described as 'shaved', turned out not recently enough and my face was ripped to pieces

Him athletic beer drinking dart player, her hedgehog (should have checked with your hand first mate)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance. It's up to me or others to judge whether they are attractive. I'm totally put off by anyone like this. Great sex doesn't have a body type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

could,nt care less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe their joking,,havin a laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe their joking,,havin a laugh

Anyway,,seriously,,i am the most attractive person on this site,,ever

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

So many men describe themselves as 'good looking or so I have been told' all profiles are picture less though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?

Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?

It's their profile, they can say what they like. Obviously they are confident and trying to attract similar people I guess. "

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Arrogance. It's up to me or others to judge whether they are attractive. I'm totally put off by anyone like this. Great sex doesn't have a body type. "

Why is it less arrogant for you or me to decide if someone is good looking than for the person themselves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arrogance. It's up to me or others to judge whether they are attractive. I'm totally put off by anyone like this. Great sex doesn't have a body type.

Why is it less arrogant for you or me to decide if someone is good looking than for the person themselves?"

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over a year ago

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?

Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?

I actively seek these couples out and add them to my hotlist.....

There are some real stunners in the swinging world.....

But I need to know something..... if some people find couples/men/women describing themselves as attractive , off putting....

Do you only go for people that describe themselves as average/unattractive?

Excellent question!!

It is. I wonder too if when looking forva tradesman people would rather they describe themselves as average or not very good. E.g. "average plumber" or "just about passable electrician""

I might be put off by a plumber or electrician who gave the impression that they might be too good to work for me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?

Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?

I actively seek these couples out and add them to my hotlist.....

There are some real stunners in the swinging world.....

But I need to know something..... if some people find couples/men/women describing themselves as attractive , off putting....

Do you only go for people that describe themselves as average/unattractive?

Excellent question!!

It is. I wonder too if when looking forva tradesman people would rather they describe themselves as average or not very good. E.g. "average plumber" or "just about passable electrician"

I might be put off by a plumber or electrician who gave the impression that they might be too good to work for me. "

How would they do that?

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London

"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?

Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?

I actively seek these couples out and add them to my hotlist.....

There are some real stunners in the swinging world.....

But I need to know something..... if some people find couples/men/women describing themselves as attractive , off putting....

Do you only go for people that describe themselves as average/unattractive?

Excellent question!!

It is. I wonder too if when looking forva tradesman people would rather they describe themselves as average or not very good. E.g. "average plumber" or "just about passable electrician""

I don’t see how you can compare someone who describes their “skill set” to someone describing their looks.

Poor analogy.

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By *uicyfruit3Man
over a year ago

portsmouth

I like confidence. Confidence is a turn on for me. If you're fortunate to have an attractive face and you're motivated enough to go to the gym and have a good figure, then why not promote that fact?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No wonder we dont get girls here..everyone loking for models..no offence to anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In had shutters on my pram.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yup. Also would anyone ever describe themselves as an unattractive couple?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup. Also would anyone ever describe themselves as an unattractive couple? "

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Yup. Also would anyone ever describe themselves as an unattractive couple? "

It seems that using positive adjectives to describe yourself is frowned on so people might be very successful if they did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't bother describing our looks as positive or negative at all, there really is no point anyway as it's far easier to look at our pics and make your own judgement be it fair or foul obviously!

Far better to concentrate on what the pics don't always reveal, which is our characters, personalities, spirit of adventure and penchant for kink...

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By *n_thy_kneesMan
over a year ago

Ipswich

"In had shutters on my pram."

With tits that size I'm not surprised!

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?

Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?"

It certainly puts us off. It's even worse when they state they'll only meet "exceptional" people.

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By *olexMan
over a year ago

Hull

Now modesty i do find to be an attractive trait but it does seem to be somewhat lacking with a lot of fabbers.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?

Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?

It certainly puts us off. It's even worse when they state they'll only meet "exceptional" people."

We all have different versions of what we find attractive in other people.

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

We would probably just skip past the profile, I think we all have our red flags as such and to us that is one, along with things like “elite” and the demanding/ abrupt profile text.

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By *avidberksMan
over a year ago

Wokingham

"'Athletic' can be subjective too. Met a couple where this covered fat too (no pics on their profile). She was described as 'shaved', turned out not recently enough and my face was ripped to pieces

Him athletic beer drinking dart player, her hedgehog (should have checked with your hand first mate)"

I like licking pussy, so i don't think it would have stopped me

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"Now modesty i do find to be an attractive trait but it does seem to be somewhat lacking with a lot of fabbers."

See I see the opposite and it's like alot of people feel they have to put the downers on themselves or they get accused of being up their own arses. We are realistic. We know we aren't munters, but certainly not models, but we do ok and get lots of offers to play when we go to clubs. No self esteem issues and know our own worth, without having to put others down. Works for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

does seem extremely shallow.would prefer it if they boasted about their personalities instead.too me that is more important.i do find the contant selfie taking while covered in a ridiculous amount of make-up and pouting so boring and a turn-off

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I always think that when people put 'profesional' I wonder if they expect paying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many people are going to say they are unattractive if they are trying to seem appealing.

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By *uffnmuffCouple
over a year ago

London

Its a put off for us. We prefer to hang out with normal down to earth people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now the word " attractive" has become a racist word lol

Half of the profiles here say " Mutual attraction is a must"

Many veris describe each others as " stunning, gorgeous ,attractive cpl"

And still people have problems with this word.

Funny hypocrites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now the word " attractive" has become a racist word lol

Half of the profiles here say " Mutual attraction is a must"

Many veris describe each others as " stunning, gorgeous ,attractive cpl"

And still people have problems with this word.

Funny hypocrites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now the word " attractive" has become a racist word lol

Half of the profiles here say " Mutual attraction is a must"

Many veris describe each others as " stunning, gorgeous ,attractive cpl"

And still people have problems with this word.

Funny hypocrites

Spot on

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London

"Now the word " attractive" has become a racist word lol

Half of the profiles here say " Mutual attraction is a must"

Many veris describe each others as " stunning, gorgeous ,attractive cpl"

And still people have problems with this word.

Funny hypocrites

No it is not hypocritical at all. You and the last 3 posters seem to have missed the point the OP is making.

You say: "Many veris describe each others as " stunning, gorgeous ,attractive cpl"

Well the point here is: When people verify & describe those that they have met as being attractive; it is completely different from when people describe 'themselves' as been attractive, hence praising 'themselves'

Bottom Line is : "Self-praise is no recommendation"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that escalated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now the word " attractive" has become a racist word lol

Half of the profiles here say " Mutual attraction is a must"

Many veris describe each others as " stunning, gorgeous ,attractive cpl"

And still people have problems with this word.

Funny hypocrites

No it is not hypocritical at all. You and the last 3 posters seem to have missed the point the OP is making.

You say: "Many veris describe each others as " stunning, gorgeous ,attractive cpl"

Bottom Line is : "Self-praise is no recommendation""

So what should they write ?

People write about their own boobs, cock, stamina, length, booty size and how good are they are licking pussy, sucking cock blah blah blah.

Isn't that self praise ?

According to your logic, all profiles should be plain, without any self description .

The veris will definitely expose if their self praise is true or false anyway .

This reminds me of another similar thread where people were moaning about incomplete half attempt profiles.

Lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some have problems with " Fill in later" profiles ,while some have problems about self praise. Lol

You can't win, can you?

Nobody is forcing anyone to meet people. Just use your wise decision , chat, meet socially and decide.

Why pick on people using description?

We absolutely despise 420 profiles, but we don't create a thread about it and mock them.

We just avoid meeting such ppl, simple.

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London

"Some have problems with " Fill in later" profiles ,while some have problems about self praise. Lol

You can't win, can you?

Nobody is forcing anyone to meet people. Just use your wise decision , chat, meet socially and decide.

Why pick on people using description?

We absolutely despise 420 profiles, but we don't create a thread about it and mock them.

We just avoid meeting such ppl, simple.

"We absolutely despise 420 profiles, but we don't create a thread about it and mock them."

By your logic nobody should create a thread about what they think or feel about a subject matter on Fabs.

Might as well close the forums then based on your "logic"

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

It's arrogance IMHO. Anyone who's so up their own arse as to make those claims and big them up aren't really that attractive - outwardly or inwardly.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"the sentence

'I'm a good looking, genuine professional male' is a massive put off for me. cos no Geoff, your my local bin man and you ain't a looker"

That made me chuckle... artistic licence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now the word " attractive" has become a racist word lol

Half of the profiles here say " Mutual attraction is a must"

Many veris describe each others as " stunning, gorgeous ,attractive cpl"

And still people have problems with this word.

Funny hypocrites

No it is not hypocritical at all. You and the last 3 posters seem to have missed the point the OP is making.

You say: "Many veris describe each others as " stunning, gorgeous ,attractive cpl"

Bottom Line is : "Self-praise is no recommendation""

Everyone will have a different opinion. So their view of themselves is still valid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now the word " attractive" has become a racist word lol

Half of the profiles here say " Mutual attraction is a must"

Many veris describe each others as " stunning, gorgeous ,attractive cpl"

And still people have problems with this word.

Funny hypocrites

Well not many are in this swinging lark to blow their own horn now, are they..?

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By *exfordMan
over a year ago

discombobulated land

"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?

Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?"

Imagine if they put.. We are ugly #uckers with spots on our genitals...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now the word " attractive" has become a racist word lol

Half of the profiles here say " Mutual attraction is a must"

Many veris describe each others as " stunning, gorgeous ,attractive cpl"

And still people have problems with this word.

Funny hypocrites

Well not many are in this swinging lark to blow their own horn now, are they..?

So terming attractive is blowing their own lark ? Hmmm

How about saying nice boobs, nice cock, very bi , atheltic body etc ?

Would you like the profile to be blank ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?

Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?

Imagine if they put.. We are ugly #uckers with spots on our genitals..."

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest op I'd probably take alooksy then think twice about messaging such a profile as I probably wouldn't measure up to what they're after as so called beautiful people want to meet other beautiful people as a rule

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest op I'd probably take alooksy then think twice about messaging such a profile as I probably wouldn't measure up to what they're after as so called beautiful people want to meet other beautiful people as a rule"

That's fair point.

But we all read profile, read veris, check the pics and then decide to contact them or not .

If we fit the bill then we approach ,if not then we don't .

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