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By *erenowforyou OP   Man
over a year ago

Bath

Do some women like men with a chubby tummy or beer belly?

As I dont seem to be able to meet any nice women.

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By *otswbabeCouple
over a year ago

north cornwall

there is someone for everyone

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

Really depends how "chubby" he is and if tall enough to carry it....

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By *r n mrs togetherCouple
over a year ago

redruth

nothing wrong with a man wth a belly at least you know what you got hold of better than stick thin any day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a rule, I am not attracted to gents with flesh that wobbles when I ride them, sorry.

Just because I am no skinny stick insect and allegedly look like the back end of a bus, it does not mean I cannot have a preference for lean muscular gents!

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By *erenowforyou OP   Man
over a year ago

Bath

It would be really nice to meet some female and couple swingers.

If interested then please send me a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Classic case, I don't particularly like fat woman, yet I'm fat, but energetic.

Fact is is you want a fuck and you own a vagina and you're not shy, it as difficult as breathing.

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area


"

Fact is is you want a fuck and you own a vagina and you're not shy, it as difficult as breathing."

And with so many hot fit guys to choose from as well!!!

Just a shame not many on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Fact is is you want a fuck and you own a vagina and you're not shy, it as difficult as breathing.

And with so many hot fit guys to choose from as well!!!

Just a shame not many on here "

But did you really think there would be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not really attracted to big men, tho i have played with all shapes and sizes in my time, but over all i prefer muscular/toned guys

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

there is a different between big and beer belly in my eyes

some short spindly men have the worst beer bellies

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Classic case, I don't particularly like fat woman, yet I'm fat, but energetic.

Fact is is you want a fuck and you own a vagina and you're not shy, it as difficult as breathing."

i'm shy but breathe just fine

i dont mind men on the larger side lol and despite what others have said on other threads, i have never had a problem accomodating a gent, no matter how big he or i was the big bits squidge you know lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These threads always make for a quick list of who to say Hi to and who to avoid! hehe

its a buyers market and the kegs are not selling as well as the 6 packs - but If your happy and confident in your own skin you will be sexy as hell no matter what

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The worse thing on Fab is seeing morbidly obese women making a long list of demands about how they want this and that from a man, he should be toned, tall, hairless, muscular etc etc - in the real world they'd get laughed (and humiliated) at if they tried coming on to a guy with those attributes...

FAB does show up some strange paradoxes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never meet anyone unless we have chatted to them, having conditions is normal. You may like, tall, VWE or indeed a list of things, thats normal.

The one thing we really hate is narrow minded nasty people, the site poser's, the, I'm so beautiful, type. We steer well clear of them and have met some wonderful people.

Be yourself, talk normally , honestly and don't lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The worse thing on Fab is seeing morbidly obese women making a long list of demands about how they want this and that from a man, he should be toned, tall, hairless, muscular etc etc - in the real world they'd get laughed (and humiliated) at if they tried coming on to a guy with those attributes...

FAB does show up some strange paradoxes!"

That's not always the case, but it will happen because of supply and demand. Most men are more driven to focus upon sex than women are, therefore in fab men vastly outnumber them. More women focus upon feeling protected and secure therefore have a burning desire to get a ring on their finger. So the on the kind of site aimed at getting couples hitched and into monogamous relationships men will be able to pick and choose a toned woman with classic curves even though they are carrying the weight that would leave them breathless from climbing a flight of stairs.

That's not to say that men can't improve their overall chances on here merely by being warm friendly and genuine. Or hitting the weights for six hours a week as I manage that even though I work 70 hours on average, so its entirely possible. Just catch up on sleep at weekends, lol!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"The worse thing on Fab is seeing morbidly obese women making a long list of demands about how they want this and that from a man, he should be toned, tall, hairless, muscular etc etc - in the real world they'd get laughed (and humiliated) at if they tried coming on to a guy with those attributes...

FAB does show up some strange paradoxes!"

Worse? How exactly is that a problem for you in any way?

Either the women get a fuck...or

they don't....

Fab shows up some unpleasant attitudes too, just like the real world

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"The worse thing on Fab is seeing morbidly obese women making a long list of demands about how they want this and that from a man, he should be toned, tall, hairless, muscular etc etc - in the real world they'd get laughed (and humiliated) at if they tried coming on to a guy with those attributes...

FAB does show up some strange paradoxes!

That's not always the case, but it will happen because of supply and demand. Most men are more driven to focus upon sex than women are, therefore in fab men vastly outnumber them. More women focus upon feeling protected and secure therefore have a burning desire to get a ring on their finger. So the on the kind of site aimed at getting couples hitched and into monogamous relationships men will be able to pick and choose a toned woman with classic curves even though they are carrying the weight that would leave them breathless from climbing a flight of stairs.

That's not to say that men can't improve their overall chances on here merely by being warm friendly and genuine. Or hitting the weights for six hours a week as I manage that even though I work 70 hours on average, so its entirely possible. Just catch up on sleep at weekends, lol!

"

Sleep when you dead...come visit me at weekends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The worse thing on Fab is seeing morbidly obese women making a long list of demands about how they want this and that from a man, he should be toned, tall, hairless, muscular etc etc - in the real world they'd get laughed (and humiliated) at if they tried coming on to a guy with those attributes...

FAB does show up some strange paradoxes!

That's not always the case, but it will happen because of supply and demand. Most men are more driven to focus upon sex than women are, therefore in fab men vastly outnumber them. More women focus upon feeling protected and secure therefore have a burning desire to get a ring on their finger. So the on the kind of site aimed at getting couples hitched and into monogamous relationships men will be able to pick and choose a toned woman with classic curves even though they are carrying the weight that would leave them breathless from climbing a flight of stairs.

That's not to say that men can't improve their overall chances on here merely by being warm friendly and genuine. Or hitting the weights for six hours a week as I manage that even though I work 70 hours on average, so its entirely possible. Just catch up on sleep at weekends, lol!

Sleep when you dead...come visit me at weekends "

Many women on this site obviously don't own a mirror. They have demands as to what they want from a man but obviously have a different perception of how they look... I think they're called real women... which basically means they can stuff themselves with bad food, squeeze into an Ann Summers basque and be God's gift to anyone. We go by personality more than anything. But a fat woman who demands a shaven, slim, six-pack guy is pissing in the wind.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"The worse thing on Fab is seeing morbidly obese women making a long list of demands about how they want this and that from a man, he should be toned, tall, hairless, muscular etc etc - in the real world they'd get laughed (and humiliated) at if they tried coming on to a guy with those attributes...

FAB does show up some strange paradoxes!

That's not always the case, but it will happen because of supply and demand. Most men are more driven to focus upon sex than women are, therefore in fab men vastly outnumber them. More women focus upon feeling protected and secure therefore have a burning desire to get a ring on their finger. So the on the kind of site aimed at getting couples hitched and into monogamous relationships men will be able to pick and choose a toned woman with classic curves even though they are carrying the weight that would leave them breathless from climbing a flight of stairs.

That's not to say that men can't improve their overall chances on here merely by being warm friendly and genuine. Or hitting the weights for six hours a week as I manage that even though I work 70 hours on average, so its entirely possible. Just catch up on sleep at weekends, lol!

Sleep when you dead...come visit me at weekends

Many women on this site obviously don't own a mirror. They have demands as to what they want from a man but obviously have a different perception of how they look... I think they're called real women... which basically means they can stuff themselves with bad food, squeeze into an Ann Summers basque and be God's gift to anyone. We go by personality more than anything. But a fat woman who demands a shaven, slim, six-pack guy is pissing in the wind."
lol...ya see me? Im just plain gorgeous...in fact if i was a man...i would

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you


"The worse thing on Fab is seeing morbidly obese women making a long list of demands about how they want this and that from a man, he should be toned, tall, hairless, muscular etc etc - in the real world they'd get laughed (and humiliated) at if they tried coming on to a guy with those attributes...

FAB does show up some strange paradoxes!"
oh dear

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"Do some women like men with a chubby tummy or beer belly?

As I dont seem to be able to meet any nice women."

Try dieting then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The worse thing on Fab is seeing morbidly obese women making a long list of demands about how they want this and that from a man, he should be toned, tall, hairless, muscular etc etc - in the real world they'd get laughed (and humiliated) at if they tried coming on to a guy with those attributes...

FAB does show up some strange paradoxes!"

Think your _iew is quite narrow minded TBH but that is your _iew, your personal opinion. An opinion you're totally entitled to.

But....you suggest that toned, tall, hairless, muscular etc etc men don't find the larger woman attractive, bit of a generalisation don't you think.

All I can say is thank god we're all different and like different things, life would be very boring otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do some women like men with a chubby tummy or beer belly?

As I dont seem to be able to meet any nice women.

Try dieting then "

Diet for your health or just for your own confidence, don't lose weight just to appeal to certain people and get laid

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"The worse thing on Fab is seeing morbidly obese women making a long list of demands about how they want this and that from a man, he should be toned, tall, hairless, muscular etc etc - in the real world they'd get laughed (and humiliated) at if they tried coming on to a guy with those attributes...

FAB does show up some strange paradoxes!

That's not always the case, but it will happen because of supply and demand. Most men are more driven to focus upon sex than women are, therefore in fab men vastly outnumber them. More women focus upon feeling protected and secure therefore have a burning desire to get a ring on their finger. So the on the kind of site aimed at getting couples hitched and into monogamous relationships men will be able to pick and choose a toned woman with classic curves even though they are carrying the weight that would leave them breathless from climbing a flight of stairs.

That's not to say that men can't improve their overall chances on here merely by being warm friendly and genuine. Or hitting the weights for six hours a week as I manage that even though I work 70 hours on average, so its entirely possible. Just catch up on sleep at weekends, lol!

Sleep when you dead...come visit me at weekends

Many women on this site obviously don't own a mirror. They have demands as to what they want from a man but obviously have a different perception of how they look... I think they're called real women... which basically means they can stuff themselves with bad food, squeeze into an Ann Summers basque and be God's gift to anyone. We go by personality more than anything. But a fat woman who demands a shaven, slim, six-pack guy is pissing in the wind."

i have a perfectly adequate perception of how i look thank you very much...and Ann Summers does great stockings, wouldn't touch it for anything else though.

i dont demand anything, i am too sub, but i also go off personality, which is handy in this case

If mr lick is in any way offended by my flirting he is a big boy and more than capable of speaking for himself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been blunt, many guys will shag anyone, looks not important. How many times do you see guys in chat chatting up any female regardless of looks?

Whereas the ladies are, shall we say somewhat more selective on who they sleep with.

To an extent I think that's the same off the site too, many guys I have worked with, especially those away from home will chase any burd in a bar. They start with the most attractive and work their way through after every knock back.

Steve.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


" But a fat woman who demands a shaven, slim, six-pack guy is pissing in the wind."

I don't agree with this at all,I know some really ripped guys that adore larger ladies, so no she won't be pissing in the wind at all

She'll be getting what she wants and so will he

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


" But a fat woman who demands a shaven, slim, six-pack guy is pissing in the wind.

I don't agree with this at all,I know some really ripped guys that adore larger ladies, so no she won't be pissing in the wind at all

She'll be getting what she wants and so will he"
they might be if they like watersports

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" they might be if they like watersports "

Outdoor watersports as well

its the age old argument that people who are deemed by society on a whole as the beautiful people should only be attracted to each other

There are people that will always break those conventions - individuality and confidence and personality count for much more long term

There are ugly slim women on here and beautiful big women, conversely there are hot slim women and ugly bigger women - which category you put people in is down to your tastes - I know I am a bigger guy and if i find someone attractive large or small I will drop them a message and say Hi. Its then upto the person to decide if they want to reply and progress with a conversation, I certainly wouldn't NOT message someone just because I'm fat and they are thin and some people don't think I would have the right to.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think 'chubby chasing' is a largely male domain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" But a fat woman who demands a shaven, slim, six-pack guy is pissing in the wind.

I don't agree with this at all,I know some really ripped guys that adore larger ladies, so no she won't be pissing in the wind at all

She'll be getting what she wants and so will he"

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" But a fat woman who demands a shaven, slim, six-pack guy is pissing in the wind.

I don't agree with this at all,I know some really ripped guys that adore larger ladies, so no she won't be pissing in the wind at all

She'll be getting what she wants and so will hethey might be if they like watersports "

+1

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


" they might be if they like watersports

Outdoor watersports as well

its the age old argument that people who are deemed by society on a whole as the beautiful people should only be attracted to each other

There are people that will always break those conventions - individuality and confidence and personality count for much more long term

There are ugly slim women on here and beautiful big women, conversely there are hot slim women and ugly bigger women - which category you put people in is down to your tastes - I know I am a bigger guy and if i find someone attractive large or small I will drop them a message and say Hi. Its then upto the person to decide if they want to reply and progress with a conversation, I certainly wouldn't NOT message someone just because I'm fat and they are thin and some people don't think I would have the right to....."

then there are people with ugly personalities, the biggest turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

But a fat woman who demands a shaven, slim, six-pack guy is pissing in the wind."

I can assure you they are not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

then there are people with ugly personalities, the biggest turn off "

or who are missing a personality all together as they have relied on a face and body to get them through all their lives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

then there are people with ugly personalities, the biggest turn off

or who are missing a personality all together as they have relied on a face and body to get them through all their lives"

ouch!

I'll take personality with a smile - that's why I fancy the pants of the cheshire cat

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lose the beer gut if its that much of a hinderance mate.

its not as hard you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a rule, I am not attracted to gents with flesh that wobbles when I ride them, sorry.

Just because I am no skinny stick insect and allegedly look like the back end of a bus, it does not mean I cannot have a preference for lean muscular gents!

"

skinny doesnt = stick insect

ur hating on slim folk same way some hate on chubbs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer chubby to skinny if that's any consolation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think 'chubby chasing' is a largely male domain "

Very much so. I know loads of guys who like larger women, but I only know one woman who likes larger men.

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By *awkeye and HotlipsCouple
over a year ago

Takeley

Biggest organ/muscle is the mind! To the shallow minded, phobic folk, try working on that. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Cliches over. Summat for all on here! Whatever your taste!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined chat rooms etc I was looking for perfection trust me it does not exist (present company excepted of course) and i did not like the Idea of Large women per se

However over the last couple of years I got a reality check and have had some excellent meets with big ladies, all of which have been amazing, I still like slim girls but at the end of the day corny as it sounds personality is king, If We can have a laugh I'd fuck Bella Emberg lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So my advice is forget looks (that is you and her/him) and concentrate on engaging Dialogue, trust me I am no Oil painting but I can't complain about the quality or number of contacts I have made (Never enough though lol)

I am now getting messages from local guys asking for tips lol

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"

then there are people with ugly personalities, the biggest turn off

or who are missing a personality all together as they have relied on a face and body to get them through all their lives"

Oooh meow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

then there are people with ugly personalities, the biggest turn off

or who are missing a personality all together as they have relied on a face and body to get them through all their lives

Oooh meow

"
So honeypot how do you get on with that body and that personality

I know you have "people" to deal with your box (In-box you filthy minded people)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

then there are people with ugly personalities, the biggest turn off

or who are missing a personality all together as they have relied on a face and body to get them through all their lives

Oooh meow

"

Haha i wasn't directing that at anyone but I spent a lot of time in Southern California and the whole beautiful people thing really pisses me of because over there the most attractive people tend to be the most vapid and arrogant inbreds - but im well aware there will always be exceptions - I think the majority of fabbers don't fall into this category we are all looking for a good time and that is all we should care about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I first joined chat rooms etc I was looking for perfection trust me it does not exist (present company excepted of course) and i did not like the Idea of Large women per se

However over the last couple of years I got a reality check and have had some excellent meets with big ladies, all of which have been amazing, I still like slim girls but at the end of the day corny as it sounds personality is king, If We can have a laugh I'd fuck Bella Emberg lol "

Think that's called pragmatism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The worse thing on Fab is seeing morbidly obese women making a long list of demands about how they want this and that from a man, he should be toned, tall, hairless, muscular etc etc - in the real world they'd get laughed (and humiliated) at if they tried coming on to a guy with those attributes...

FAB does show up some strange paradoxes!

That's not always the case, but it will happen because of supply and demand. Most men are more driven to focus upon sex than women are, therefore in fab men vastly outnumber them. More women focus upon feeling protected and secure therefore have a burning desire to get a ring on their finger. So the on the kind of site aimed at getting couples hitched and into monogamous relationships men will be able to pick and choose a toned woman with classic curves even though they are carrying the weight that would leave them breathless from climbing a flight of stairs.

That's not to say that men can't improve their overall chances on here merely by being warm friendly and genuine. Or hitting the weights for six hours a week as I manage that even though I work 70 hours on average, so its entirely possible. Just catch up on sleep at weekends, lol!

Sleep when you dead...come visit me at weekends

Many women on this site obviously don't own a mirror. They have demands as to what they want from a man but obviously have a different perception of how they look... I think they're called real women... which basically means they can stuff themselves with bad food, squeeze into an Ann Summers basque and be God's gift to anyone. We go by personality more than anything. But a fat woman who demands a shaven, slim, six-pack guy is pissing in the wind.

i have a perfectly adequate perception of how i look thank you very much...and Ann Summers does great stockings, wouldn't touch it for anything else though.

i dont demand anything, i am too sub, but i also go off personality, which is handy in this case

If mr lick is in any way offended by my flirting he is a big boy and more than capable of speaking for himself!"

Why I'm not offended by your flirting at all, I love compliments! And what you said about me being a big boy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

But a fat woman who demands a shaven, slim, six-pack guy is pissing in the wind.

I can assure you they are not "

+1 Nope they are not. Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love this forum,bbws instead of over weight, fabulous bodies instead of obese .. chubby guys instead of bbgs why are men called fat and women called fabulous? I dont get it,i neither like or dislike fat men or women but dont agree with the terminology. Seems a bit unfair to us blokes with a beer belly lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The worse thing on Fab is seeing morbidly obese women making a long list of demands about how they want this and that from a man, he should be toned, tall, hairless, muscular etc etc - in the real world they'd get laughed (and humiliated) at if they tried coming on to a guy with those attributes...

FAB does show up some strange paradoxes!

That's not always the case, but it will happen because of supply and demand. Most men are more driven to focus upon sex than women are, therefore in fab men vastly outnumber them. More women focus upon feeling protected and secure therefore have a burning desire to get a ring on their finger. So the on the kind of site aimed at getting couples hitched and into monogamous relationships men will be able to pick and choose a toned woman with classic curves even though they are carrying the weight that would leave them breathless from climbing a flight of stairs.

That's not to say that men can't improve their overall chances on here merely by being warm friendly and genuine. Or hitting the weights for six hours a week as I manage that even though I work 70 hours on average, so its entirely possible. Just catch up on sleep at weekends, lol!

"

Lets not forget that some of those toned, gym attending, hairless, muscular guys actually have the total hots for and much prefer larger ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love this forum,bbws instead of over weight, fabulous bodies instead of obese .. chubby guys instead of bbgs why are men called fat and women called fabulous? I dont get it,i neither like or dislike fat men or women but dont agree with the terminology. Seems a bit unfair to us blokes with a beer belly lol."

and big men don't call slim men 'skinny'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When your naturally at your fittest your too young for most people so it's a case of swings and roundabouts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like incredibly overweight but I don't mind a bit of a tummy, gives me something to grab hold of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love this forum,bbws instead of over weight, fabulous bodies instead of obese .. chubby guys instead of bbgs why are men called fat and women called fabulous? I dont get it,i neither like or dislike fat men or women but dont agree with the terminology. Seems a bit unfair to us blokes with a beer belly lol."

not true

you can say your athlectic and if anyone questions it just say Geff Capes was a athlete

or......

you can always be rugby player build

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I think people underestimate the whole supply and demand factor on a site like this.

Women of all shapes and sizes can pretty much demand what they want as they are the ones in demand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

But a fat woman who demands a shaven, slim, six-pack guy is pissing in the wind.

I can assure you they are not

+1 Nope they are not. Totally agree "

Sssssh...don't shatter the illusion ffs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The worse thing on Fab is seeing morbidly obese women making a long list of demands about how they want this and that from a man, he should be toned, tall, hairless, muscular etc etc - in the real world they'd get laughed (and humiliated) at if they tried coming on to a guy with those attributes...

FAB does show up some strange paradoxes!

That's not always the case, but it will happen because of supply and demand. Most men are more driven to focus upon sex than women are, therefore in fab men vastly outnumber them. More women focus upon feeling protected and secure therefore have a burning desire to get a ring on their finger. So the on the kind of site aimed at getting couples hitched and into monogamous relationships men will be able to pick and choose a toned woman with classic curves even though they are carrying the weight that would leave them breathless from climbing a flight of stairs.

That's not to say that men can't improve their overall chances on here merely by being warm friendly and genuine. Or hitting the weights for six hours a week as I manage that even though I work 70 hours on average, so its entirely possible. Just catch up on sleep at weekends, lol!

Lets not forget that some of those toned, gym attending, hairless, muscular guys actually have the total hots for and much prefer larger ladies"

Now you know that's not true. Old people for old people, tall people for tall people, ugly people for ugly people, fat people for...do you see how it works?

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"The worse thing on Fab is seeing morbidly obese women making a long list of demands about how they want this and that from a man, he should be toned, tall, hairless, muscular etc etc - in the real world they'd get laughed (and humiliated) at if they tried coming on to a guy with those attributes...

FAB does show up some strange paradoxes!

That's not always the case, but it will happen because of supply and demand. Most men are more driven to focus upon sex than women are, therefore in fab men vastly outnumber them. More women focus upon feeling protected and secure therefore have a burning desire to get a ring on their finger. So the on the kind of site aimed at getting couples hitched and into monogamous relationships men will be able to pick and choose a toned woman with classic curves even though they are carrying the weight that would leave them breathless from climbing a flight of stairs.

That's not to say that men can't improve their overall chances on here merely by being warm friendly and genuine. Or hitting the weights for six hours a week as I manage that even though I work 70 hours on average, so its entirely possible. Just catch up on sleep at weekends, lol!

Sleep when you dead...come visit me at weekends

Many women on this site obviously don't own a mirror. They have demands as to what they want from a man but obviously have a different perception of how they look... I think they're called real women... which basically means they can stuff themselves with bad food, squeeze into an Ann Summers basque and be God's gift to anyone. We go by personality more than anything. But a fat woman who demands a shaven, slim, six-pack guy is pissing in the wind.

i have a perfectly adequate perception of how i look thank you very much...and Ann Summers does great stockings, wouldn't touch it for anything else though.

i dont demand anything, i am too sub, but i also go off personality, which is handy in this case

If mr lick is in any way offended by my flirting he is a big boy and more than capable of speaking for himself!

Why I'm not offended by your flirting at all, I love compliments! And what you said about me being a big boy..."

Those trousers need to come a little lower to prove it

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over a year ago


"The worse thing on Fab is seeing morbidly obese women making a long list of demands about how they want this and that from a man, he should be toned, tall, hairless, muscular etc etc - in the real world they'd get laughed (and humiliated) at if they tried coming on to a guy with those attributes...

FAB does show up some strange paradoxes!

That's not always the case, but it will happen because of supply and demand. Most men are more driven to focus upon sex than women are, therefore in fab men vastly outnumber them. More women focus upon feeling protected and secure therefore have a burning desire to get a ring on their finger. So the on the kind of site aimed at getting couples hitched and into monogamous relationships men will be able to pick and choose a toned woman with classic curves even though they are carrying the weight that would leave them breathless from climbing a flight of stairs.

That's not to say that men can't improve their overall chances on here merely by being warm friendly and genuine. Or hitting the weights for six hours a week as I manage that even though I work 70 hours on average, so its entirely possible. Just catch up on sleep at weekends, lol!

Sleep when you dead...come visit me at weekends

Many women on this site obviously don't own a mirror. They have demands as to what they want from a man but obviously have a different perception of how they look... I think they're called real women... which basically means they can stuff themselves with bad food, squeeze into an Ann Summers basque and be God's gift to anyone. We go by personality more than anything. But a fat woman who demands a shaven, slim, six-pack guy is pissing in the wind.

i have a perfectly adequate perception of how i look thank you very much...and Ann Summers does great stockings, wouldn't touch it for anything else though.

i dont demand anything, i am too sub, but i also go off personality, which is handy in this case

If mr lick is in any way offended by my flirting he is a big boy and more than capable of speaking for himself!

Why I'm not offended by your flirting at all, I love compliments! And what you said about me being a big boy...

Those trousers need to come a little lower to prove it "

I've sent a friends request to you Madam, as a gentleman should always provide proof to a lady. I imagine you should study the proof long and hard to make sure it is genuine...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems to me , we all have freedom of choice. If you don't like someone or some aspect of someone, you don't have to go there folks!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I might leave this one be...

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"The worse thing on Fab is seeing morbidly obese women making a long list of demands about how they want this and that from a man, he should be toned, tall, hairless, muscular etc etc - in the real world they'd get laughed (and humiliated) at if they tried coming on to a guy with those attributes...

FAB does show up some strange paradoxes!

That's not always the case, but it will happen because of supply and demand. Most men are more driven to focus upon sex than women are, therefore in fab men vastly outnumber them. More women focus upon feeling protected and secure therefore have a burning desire to get a ring on their finger. So the on the kind of site aimed at getting couples hitched and into monogamous relationships men will be able to pick and choose a toned woman with classic curves even though they are carrying the weight that would leave them breathless from climbing a flight of stairs.

That's not to say that men can't improve their overall chances on here merely by being warm friendly and genuine. Or hitting the weights for six hours a week as I manage that even though I work 70 hours on average, so its entirely possible. Just catch up on sleep at weekends, lol!

Sleep when you dead...come visit me at weekends

Many women on this site obviously don't own a mirror. They have demands as to what they want from a man but obviously have a different perception of how they look... I think they're called real women... which basically means they can stuff themselves with bad food, squeeze into an Ann Summers basque and be God's gift to anyone. We go by personality more than anything. But a fat woman who demands a shaven, slim, six-pack guy is pissing in the wind.

i have a perfectly adequate perception of how i look thank you very much...and Ann Summers does great stockings, wouldn't touch it for anything else though.

i dont demand anything, i am too sub, but i also go off personality, which is handy in this case

If mr lick is in any way offended by my flirting he is a big boy and more than capable of speaking for himself!

Why I'm not offended by your flirting at all, I love compliments! And what you said about me being a big boy...

Those trousers need to come a little lower to prove it

I've sent a friends request to you Madam, as a gentleman should always provide proof to a lady. I imagine you should study the proof long and hard to make sure it is genuine... "

i think it would be impolite not to accept

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I might leave this one be... "

ohh go on _iew...say what you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to there own i say,we are what we are really,i grew up in boxing family so hence why always kept toned..must admit like woman to be in good shape too

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By *ojorisin22Man
over a year ago

Dudley

Although I need to be attracted to a partner, I've never really preferred smaller or larger women. Variety is the spice of life.

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By *otswbabeCouple
over a year ago

north cornwall

Bloody hell. It takes all sorts. If you arent happy with how you look and the reaction it gets change it. If you are.... well no probs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will shag anything !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Old man always told me "you don't put a bay window on a slum property"

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

threads like these always make me laugh because every other persons "neurosis" comes out.....

here is something I learnt from a song a while back.......

"I am what I am"........

I may be a big unit, I may be back, I may tell it like it is from time to time.....

but i am going to be the best "me" I can be.......

and if that ain't enough for some people... I aint going to worry about it, I ain't going to complain, I aint going to shed any tears.......

I will plod along being the most caustic,black,big unit I am, and concentrate on those who like me and i get along with.... rather that worry about those I don't.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"threads like these always make me laugh because every other persons "neurosis" comes out.....

here is something I learnt from a song a while back.......

"I am what I am"........

I may be a big unit, I may be back, I may tell it like it is from time to time.....

but i am going to be the best "me" I can be.......

and if that ain't enough for some people... I aint going to worry about it, I ain't going to complain, I aint going to shed any tears.......

I will plod along being the most caustic,black,big unit I am, and concentrate on those who like me and i get along with.... rather that worry about those I don't....."

That's a long rant to say you dont worry about those who dont like.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Thanks Fabio im going to have a gay anthem in my head all day now!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"

That's a long rant to say you dont worry about those who dont like. "

nah...that just me telling people you are not going to appeal to everyone so why people even bother to try is in effect a waste of time....

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

I like guys to look like guys, my John is 6'3" & built like a bouncer/rugby player...he is heaver than he should be but not really fat.

Kim x

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I like guys to look like guys, my John is 6'3" & built like a bouncer/rugby player...he is heaver than he should be but not really fat.

Kim x"

mmmmmm fancy a threesome

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