FabSwingers.com forum: Interracial Thoughts

By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago

London

Just concentrating on interracial dynamics here:

(1) Are there many black cucks?

Most of the time it's white men in relationships with white women who are the cuck and black men being the bull.

Is that a lesser known porn category?

(2) If SOME white women in relationships with white men only like to play with black men, why aren't they in relationships with black men?

I'm attracted to white men mostly, for sex and relationships. I've branched out of course but that's where my eyes drift to. This could be from my past experiences with Filipino men being negative and positive attention from white men. Also the influence of movies, TV shows, etc.

I also know a lot of black ladies who predominantly play with white men, sex as well as relationships. Is this you too?

(3) What's your preference? And if you are attracted to someone not of the same ethnicity as you, does that stem from past experiences, society, curiosity, etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just want to watch this..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

White male asian female couples are way more common than seeing Asian male and white female. Always wondered why that was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the 2nd question

Nailed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some interesting observations.

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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"White male asian female couples are way more common than seeing Asian male and white female. Always wondered why that was"

That is true, however I have 2 male cousins who are both married to white women. My bother and one of my other male cousins only date black women having had negative experiences with Filipino women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to hear their answer’s to 2.

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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago

London

Brother not bother haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"White male asian female couples are way more common than seeing Asian male and white female. Always wondered why that was

That is true, however I have 2 male cousins who are both married to white women. My bother and one of my other male cousins only date black women having had negative experiences with Filipino women."
Guess it's just down to individuals. Listening to kpop has made me a big fan of Korean women though lol

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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago

London

I guess (3) is the easiest to answer.

(1) and (2) are another story that I hope to get some insight into

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love the 2nd question

Nailed it"

Yes good question!

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By *laytimenowMan
over a year ago

Essex

"Just concentrating on interracial dynamics here:

(1) Are there many black cucks?

Most of the time it's white men in relationships with white women who are the cuck and black men being the bull.

Is that a lesser known porn category?

(2) If SOME white women in relationships with white men only like to play with black men, why aren't they in relationships with black men?

I also know a lot of black ladies who predominantly play with white men, sex as well as relationships. Is this you too?

(3) What's your preference? And if you are attracted to someone not of the same ethnicity as you, does that stem from past experiences, society, curiosity, etc. "

Plenty of passive Bi Black males which is a Bonus for me

Love a Couple with a passive Bi Black male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm attracted to English Caucasian men.

Probably because I'm a typical mixed race cliche who had a white mother and an absent black father.

It's not rocket science

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"White male asian female couples are way more common than seeing Asian male and white female. Always wondered why that was"

Mail order brides?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know what it stems from but I have allways felt more attracted to black women

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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"White male asian female couples are way more common than seeing Asian male and white female. Always wondered why that was

Mail order brides?"

I thought that was a Russian thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For (2), there are many couples where the wife only wants to play with women. Doesn't mean they want a relationship with one.

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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"For (2), there are many couples where the wife only wants to play with women. Doesn't mean they want a relationship with one."

That still doesn't answer (2). So, they don't want a relationship with black men, just to play with them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For (2), there are many couples where the wife only wants to play with women. Doesn't mean they want a relationship with one.

That still doesn't answer (2). So, they don't want a relationship with black men, just to play with them?

Yes. They fetishize black men and the stereotype BBC to the point where it does come off as white women just using them for sex, of course black men are happy to go along with this as it means easy sex for them in the scene.

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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"For (2), there are many couples where the wife only wants to play with women. Doesn't mean they want a relationship with one."

If a women in a relationship with a man only wants to play with women and not be in a relationship with women, those are different dynamics to playing with a man who isn't the same ethnicity as them.

Example:

Woman married to a man plays with women but won't want to have a relationship with said women as they don't have a penis, aren't a male head figure for the family, unable to naturally procreate and share DNA with children, etc.

Some women who are in white male-female relationships only play with black men because?

They do have a penis (and according to a lot of threads here are very well endowed at that), so can procreate naturally.

I'm trying to understand, honestly...

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

The answer to 2 is exactly the same answer if you took colour out of the equation and asked "Why do hot wives like to have a series of men other than their husband, and not enter into relationships with these men? Or let's follow the line of thinking "Why do swinging couples not enter into relationships with other swingers? "

It is because they are happy with their partners/husbands, but like most swingers in primary relationships they like to have some fun with someone different. Not forgetting it is a joint decision so the male partner alao enjoys bringing polite well mannered malea into their play.

That was not so difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My 2p

I’m white F, I’m attracted to black M of African origin, partial to Asian men every now and then too.

I’ve dated White M & had relationships however I seem to struggle to respect them. White M very complex and hard work to understand...and weaker in bedroom.

Yet to have a relationship with Black African M simply because I haven’t found one who wanted to date me

Black African M generally exceptional in bedroom, able to take control, confident and dynamic just feels right. Relaxed, playful, horny yet respectful always.

Not sure if this answers your questions but there you go

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

"White male asian female couples are way more common than seeing Asian male and white female. Always wondered why that was

Mail order brides?

I thought that was a Russian thing?

About 40 years ago. Not any more. You probably mean Ukrainian.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just concentrating on interracial dynamics here:

(1) Are there many black cucks?

Most of the time it's white men in relationships with white women who are the cuck and black men being the bull.

Is that a lesser known porn category?

(2) If SOME white women in relationships with white men only like to play with black men, why aren't they in relationships with black men?

I also know a lot of black ladies who predominantly play with white men, sex as well as relationships. Is this you too?

(3) What's your preference? And if you are attracted to someone not of the same ethnicity as you, does that stem from past experiences, society, curiosity, etc. "

I’ve met two black cuck couples in my 10 years swinging.... Both were cool guys but black cucks are not common on the scene...

Hotwives and wives in cuck couples are not looking to date anyone... they have love at home with their partners and just want sex from bulls. Love and sex are not mutually inclusive...

The great couples I have met understand this dynamic, and the drama couples don’t....

I don’t have a racially preference when it comes to dating... I like tall skinny women, with glasses, a good credit score, and a IQ over 140....

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Just concentrating on interracial dynamics here:

(1) Are there many black cucks?

Most of the time it's white men in relationships with white women who are the cuck and black men being the bull.

Is that a lesser known porn category?

(2) If SOME white women in relationships with white men only like to play with black men, why aren't they in relationships with black men?

I also know a lot of black ladies who predominantly play with white men, sex as well as relationships. Is this you too?

(3) What's your preference? And if you are attracted to someone not of the same ethnicity as you, does that stem from past experiences, society, curiosity, etc. "

1. Don't know.

2. Same could be asked of bi people who are only bi in clubs etc. If they like both why aren't they in a same sex relationship?

3. I was married to a black man, he's the father of my children but my current partner and those after my divorce have been white. I don't often come into contact with black men my age. Those I do have my dad's mentality...no thanks.

Thing is, outside my immediate family, the top five people I love/have influenced my life are white but still I wouldn't trust them with my life as I grew up hearing "you can't trust white people".

The British government sent officials to Jamaica after the war asking for people to come to Britain to help rebuild. They were sold a dream only to he met with hostility and suspicion. Growing up in the 60s was brutal but my parents never complained. I remember asking my dad why he never answered back. He said you don't insult someone in their own home.

Fifty years on, white partner, white brother and son-in-laws, white friends...but still...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any couples answered 2 yet ?

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By *LawMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I dont have a preference really. All my ex's have been white apart from my kids mum who is Jamaican.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are curious about interracial and it’s a turn on for us both with the contrast of skin colour

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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago

London

Thank you for all your answers so far.

At least (1) isn't a myth

it's just not as common. I wonder why?

For (2) I mainly meant: if some women in white male-female relationships only play with black men, why aren't they in a relationship with a black man PRIOR to the relationship they are in now? I'm not saying they are going to run off into the sunset or anything like that.

Does that liking or preference of black men happen only after they enter into a white male-female relationship?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t understand in 2019 how inter racial is a term? We’re all people.

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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"I can’t understand in 2019 how inter racial is a term? We’re all people."

Of course it's a term, you can't pretend it's not there.

And of course we're all people but we aren't all the same people, we have diverse cultural and ethnic backgounds.

So none of this dismissing interacial as a term.

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By *LawMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"I can’t understand in 2019 how inter racial is a term? We’re all people."

Its still a category on porn sites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good question. I’ve played with white women who love black men in the bed but only date white men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can’t understand in 2019 how inter racial is a term? We’re all people."

Because we're different races and people like to point that out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can’t understand in 2019 how inter racial is a term? We’re all people.

Of course it's a term, you can't pretend it's not there.

And of course we're all people but we aren't all the same people, we have diverse cultural and ethnic backgounds.

So none of this dismissing interacial as a term.

Which I think makes us interesting.

I love hearing of other races and nationalities culture and way of life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good question. I’ve played with white women who love black men in the bed but only date white men"

But don’t you feel used?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People both men and women have different criteria for relationships than they do for sexual partners.

What might be seen as exciting for a sexual encounter might not be suitable for a long term relationship.

When your looking for sex you really only need to tick two boxes, 1 do you fancy them 2 are they available.

Where as for a relationship there are many more requirements to fulfill.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Not sure where we fit in in the spectrum. Black male, white female, stag/vixen not cuck, male the dominant character, present at meets but doesn't play and most of our meets have been with black guys, not all but the majority. Good luck figuring that one out.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"Thank you for all your answers so far.

At least (1) isn't a myth

it's just not as common. I wonder why?

Does that liking or preference of black men happen only after they enter into a white male-female relationship?

(2) is because a white woman having sex with a black man is seen as transgressive and thus exciting.

Yes, I know it's 2019, but that's the root of it.

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good question. I’ve played with white women who love black men in the bed but only date white men

But don’t you feel used? "

Yeah I do a bit but I guess I use them back?

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

"Thank you for all your answers so far.

At least (1) isn't a myth

it's just not as common. I wonder why?

Does that liking or preference of black men happen only after they enter into a white male-female relationship?

(2) is because a white woman having sex with a black man is seen as transgressive and thus exciting.

Yes, I know it's 2019, but that's the root of it. "

By whom?!

Wow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you for all your answers so far.

At least (1) isn't a myth

it's just not as common. I wonder why?

Does that liking or preference of black men happen only after they enter into a white male-female relationship?

(2) is because a white woman having sex with a black man is seen as transgressive and thus exciting.

Yes, I know it's 2019, but that's the root of it. "

It would be interesting to hear from the women the question applies to.

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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago

London

I think single white women who play with or even date black men are a completely different kettle of fish to white women in a marriage/ relationship with a white man, that then seek to only play with black men outside of their relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good question. I’ve played with white women who love black men in the bed but only date white men

But don’t you feel used?

Yeah I do a bit but I guess I use them back?"

We're all being used on here to some extent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you for all your answers so far.

At least (1) isn't a myth

it's just not as common. I wonder why?

Does that liking or preference of black men happen only after they enter into a white male-female relationship?

(2) is because a white woman having sex with a black man is seen as transgressive and thus exciting.

Yes, I know it's 2019, but that's the root of it.

It would be interesting to hear from the women the question applies to. "

Could be a long wait.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Thank you!

Precisely.

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By *urved HunnyWoman
over a year ago

Essex

In reply to question 2 ... I dated both black and white guys when young, married a white man, eventually when I started playing, I just seemed more attracted to Black males and eventually, once having meets, I realised I have a distinct preference. We've just found out hubbies great gma was a black lady so maybe that's why I went for his dark looks too haha, but anyway, essentially my tastes have become more defined sexually. This preference has no impact on my marriage, as in real world scenario I fell for the person, who could really have been any colour. Not sure if this is helpful at all x

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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Thank you for all your answers so far.

At least (1) isn't a myth

it's just not as common. I wonder why?

Does that liking or preference of black men happen only after they enter into a white male-female relationship?

(2) is because a white woman having sex with a black man is seen as transgressive and thus exciting.

Yes, I know it's 2019, but that's the root of it.

It would be interesting to hear from the women the question applies to.

Could be a long wait. "

And number (1) too!

Not likely that couples that this applies to will be willing to give us an insight.

So far we're all skating around the rink waiting...

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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"In reply to question 2 ... I dated both black and white guys when young, married a white man, eventually when I started playing, I just seemed more attracted to Black males and eventually, once having meets, I realised I have a distinct preference. We've just found out hubbies great gma was a black lady so maybe that's why I went for his dark looks too haha, but anyway, essentially my tastes have become more defined sexually. This preference has no impact on my marriage, as in real world scenario I fell for the person, who could really have been any colour. Not sure if this is helpful at all x"

No, that's great thanks

Thank you for your input x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're all being used on here to some extent "

Exactly which is why I’m not too bothered by how black men are fetishised on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good question. I’ve played with white women who love black men in the bed but only date white men

But don’t you feel used?

Yeah I do a bit but I guess I use them back?"

Fair point

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Let me play Devils Avocado shall I as no one else wants to?

Is it because they feel black guys are good enough to fetishise and fuck, but not "good enough" to have a relationship with?

They see BBCs as just that, a cock not a person.

It's an aspect of Fab that doesn't sit well with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let me play Devils Avocado shall I as no one else wants to?

Is it because they feel black guys are good enough to fetishise and fuck, but not "good enough" to have a relationship with?

They see BBCs as just that, a cock not a person.

It's an aspect of Fab that doesn't sit well with me.

This is total nonsense...... most people you meet for sex will be one offs.... dating has nothing to do with nsa sex....

If you want a relationship, you go to a dating site... if you want nsa sex , you go to a sex swinging site...

I don’t ask the people I meet swinging if they date black guys in their vanilla life... that has no bearing on my choice to have sex with them...

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Let me play Devils Avocado shall I as no one else wants to?

Is it because they feel black guys are good enough to fetishise and fuck, but not "good enough" to have a relationship with?

They see BBCs as just that, a cock not a person.

It's an aspect of Fab that doesn't sit well with me.

This is total nonsense...... most people you meet for sex will be one offs.... dating has nothing to do with nsa sex....

If you want a relationship, you go to a dating site... if you want nsa sex , you go to a sex swinging site...

I don’t ask the people I meet swinging if they date black guys in their vanilla life... that has no bearing on my choice to have sex with them..."

It may be total nonsense in your opinion dear.

It's the same kind of mind set that some people have in terms of women on here are ok to fuck and not to date.

I find it disrespectful.

That's my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let me play Devils Avocado shall I as no one else wants to?

Is it because they feel black guys are good enough to fetishise and fuck, but not "good enough" to have a relationship with?

They see BBCs as just that, a cock not a person.

It's an aspect of Fab that doesn't sit well with me.

This is total nonsense...... most people you meet for sex will be one offs.... dating has nothing to do with nsa sex....

If you want a relationship, you go to a dating site... if you want nsa sex , you go to a sex swinging site...

I don’t ask the people I meet swinging if they date black guys in their vanilla life... that has no bearing on my choice to have sex with them...

It may be total nonsense in your opinion dear.

It's the same kind of mind set that some people have in terms of women on here are ok to fuck and not to date.

I find it disrespectful.

That's my opinion."

I respect your opinion, but I would like you to try and understand mine as well....

Having sex and dating are two different things..

It doesn’t make a person racist/bad if they only want to have sex with you , but wouldn’t date you...

As long as they are honest about their intentions of a sex only relationship and treat you with respect. Then that’s all we can ask for...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you for all your answers so far.

At least (1) isn't a myth

it's just not as common. I wonder why?

Does that liking or preference of black men happen only after they enter into a white male-female relationship?

(2) is because a white woman having sex with a black man is seen as transgressive and thus exciting.

Yes, I know it's 2019, but that's the root of it.

It would be interesting to hear from the women the question applies to.

Could be a long wait. "

Looks like it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats wrong with it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My answer to no2 because they can choose to enjoy the aspects engaging with another race brings. They have freedom of choice just as you do. To dip your toes in from time to time may be more exciting than swimming in the pool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always been treated with respect by the people I have met, if both parties do so anything else is irrelevant to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've got that wrong about the cuckold thing that's the rarity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For (2), there are many couples where the wife only wants to play with women. Doesn't mean they want a relationship with one.

That still doesn't answer (2). So, they don't want a relationship with black men, just to play with them?

Yes that's what I meant. Like rudeboycane said, it's just sex.

Some people are just looking for sexual experiences, not relationships.

In my example the woman just wants to fuck another woman- her husband can never be a woman.

In your example the wife just wants to fuck a black man- her white husband can never be black.

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By *estivalMan
over a year ago

borehamwood

relatiinships or just sex colour dont really come in to it for me. you could be green with yellow spots for all i care.i find as long as ya not an arsehole all is good.i like human beings lol

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

"Just concentrating on interracial dynamics here:

(1) Are there many black cucks?

Most of the time it's white men in relationships with white women who are the cuck and black men being the bull.

Is that a lesser known porn category?

(2) If SOME white women in relationships with white men only like to play with black men, why aren't they in relationships with black men?

I also know a lot of black ladies who predominantly play with white men, sex as well as relationships. Is this you too?

(3) What's your preference? And if you are attracted to someone not of the same ethnicity as you, does that stem from past experiences, society, curiosity, etc.

Plenty of passive Bi Black males which is a Bonus for me

Love a Couple with a passive Bi Black male "

Really surprised that there are plenty of passive bi black males. Finding a bi black male is a challenge - a passive one would be even more difficult I would have thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can’t understand in 2019 how inter racial is a term? We’re all people.

Of course it's a term, you can't pretend it's not there.

And of course we're all people but we aren't all the same people, we have diverse cultural and ethnic backgounds.

So none of this dismissing interacial as a term.

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Is your emphasis actually about culture.

1. Sharing the language.

2. Been here awhile

3. Similar religious beliefs.

4. Many from Slavery/ empire/Commonwealth association.

5. Freedom of choice

6. First love experiences.

7. First sexual experiences.

8. Lack of oppression of women

9. Love of difference.

10.Like the music.

11.Like the clothing.

There could be a 101 reasons why people are initially attracted to one another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think women just want outside the norm as it's been stated previously. Try all the flavours of ice cream and that.

Bi black men are probably more of a rarity simply because of some cultures being quite homophobic. In a lot of Caribbean and African countries they are still quite religious and that has a major impact on their people being openly gay or not.

As for preference I like all colours and it has a lot to do with the society I grew up in and past experiences... Like all decisions I make. But I do honestly think it's kind of natural who you are attracted to at times . Why else would you have had people risking their lives to date other races?

Think the answer to all three is we're so intelligent as a species we feel that we have to put reason and meaning behind everything we do. Think the same intelligence is why we are so complex and things like this can never be explained

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Well I think it’s down to specially me being oriental it’s down to stereotypes personally me I’ve been with my own race and with black people Italians white Arabs people so I don’t really have a preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with interracial.

I’ve been out with white women.

Had sex with different races.

All the same, just different skin colour.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Good question. I’ve played with white women who love black men in the bed but only date white men

But don’t you feel used? "

Same could be said for men who will fuck a woman on here behind closed doors but wouldn't be seen dead with her in Costa's.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"People both men and women have different criteria for relationships than they do for sexual partners.

What might be seen as exciting for a sexual encounter might not be suitable for a long term relationship.

When your looking for sex you really only need to tick two boxes, 1 do you fancy them 2 are they available.

Where as for a relationship there are many more requirements to fulfill.

This!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Let me play Devils Avocado shall I as no one else wants to?

Is it because they feel black guys are good enough to fetishise and fuck, but not "good enough" to have a relationship with?

They see BBCs as just that, a cock not a person.

It's an aspect of Fab that doesn't sit well with me.

Again, same could be said about women on here. Good enough to spit roast with your mates, lovely to shag on cheap sheets in a Travelodge with breakfast thrown in, unfortunately they can't join you, early start and all that but not good enough to date etc.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Let me play Devils Avocado shall I as no one else wants to?

Is it because they feel black guys are good enough to fetishise and fuck, but not "good enough" to have a relationship with?

They see BBCs as just that, a cock not a person.

It's an aspect of Fab that doesn't sit well with me.

This is total nonsense...... most people you meet for sex will be one offs.... dating has nothing to do with nsa sex....

If you want a relationship, you go to a dating site... if you want nsa sex , you go to a sex swinging site...

I don’t ask the people I meet swinging if they date black guys in their vanilla life... that has no bearing on my choice to have sex with them..."

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Let me play Devils Avocado shall I as no one else wants to?

Is it because they feel black guys are good enough to fetishise and fuck, but not "good enough" to have a relationship with?

They see BBCs as just that, a cock not a person.

It's an aspect of Fab that doesn't sit well with me.

This is total nonsense...... most people you meet for sex will be one offs.... dating has nothing to do with nsa sex....

If you want a relationship, you go to a dating site... if you want nsa sex , you go to a sex swinging site...

I don’t ask the people I meet swinging if they date black guys in their vanilla life... that has no bearing on my choice to have sex with them...

It may be total nonsense in your opinion dear.

It's the same kind of mind set that some people have in terms of women on here are ok to fuck and not to date.

I find it disrespectful.

That's my opinion."

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

We don’t choose who we meet based on skin colour alone and feel it’s pretty ignorant to do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you for all your answers so far.

At least (1) isn't a myth

it's just not as common. I wonder why?

Does that liking or preference of black men happen only after they enter into a white male-female relationship?

(2) is because a white woman having sex with a black man is seen as transgressive and thus exciting.

Yes, I know it's 2019, but that's the root of it. "

I find sex exciting, skin colour etc makes no difference. If your not an idiot and can interact at an adult level that’s the attraction.

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over a year ago

Put simply when looking for a life partner you look for many characteristics/ personality traits etc and physical attraction plays a small part in the much bigger overall package. The guy I chose to spend the rest of my life with happened to be white. He could have been any race/ colour/ ethnicity. That wasn't an important factor and didn't form part of my selection process.

On fab, I get to pick and choose physical attributes of a person that I find particularly attractive, that's way up on the priority list. The rest of the package is much less important to me. I happen to find guys with darker skin very attractive. There is a certain look I find attractive. Fab is about finding attractive sexual partners for me. That's it. It's just sex, so why would I be looking for someone with relationship potential? It's not that I wouldn't have a relationship with a black man or even with any of the guys I've met. It's just I've met them for their physical attraction to me first and foremost. So of course they're ok to fuck and not to date! Fab isn't about dating for people that are swinging.

I do feel a bit though that I'm wasting my breath on here answering the question though. People aren't actually interested in hearing reasoning they just like to enforce their views and tell you you're one thing or another or that I'm being cruel to black guys or I'm using them as part of a fetish. That's fine. I'm not here to justify my choices or change people's way of thinking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Put simply when looking for a life partner you look for many characteristics/ personality traits etc and physical attraction plays a small part in the much bigger overall package. The guy I chose to spend the rest of my life with happened to be white. He could have been any race/ colour/ ethnicity. That wasn't an important factor and didn't form part of my selection process.

Brilliant.

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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago

London

Thank you for answering.

I'm here for the opinions of those that the OP states.

No wasted breath as I think you are one of 2 women on this thread that (2) applies to.

Now need a black cuck to say hello on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brilliant.

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I wouldn't fuck anybody I wouldn't date (did it once) wouldn't do it again. It doesnt matter to me if I don't fit into the categories for your 'research' I will state a opinion as a black man who after all could be part of the subject matter.

1 The women who stated she would fuck but not date black men has no evidence on her profile to prove all her exploits.

2.Maybe if true in her case she targets black men for whatever reason.

3.Maybe if true she comes from a background where she would cause issues in dating a black man.

4.Maybe if true With her attitude even if she was attractive to me she wouldn't have me if I knew what was in her heart.

5.If you fuck but would not date that must be a personality split issue she may need to deal with.

6.Yes swinging is not about dating but physical attraction doesn't cut it here I detect disrespect maybe for her own self projected on to black men.

7. People use others sometimes for the weirdest reasons this could apply to any race.

8. On this site their is no CV of intentions

9. For a woman who has no involvement with black men OPs interest does not sit well with me either. As I have noticed some 'baying hounds' coming out that have accompanied this post,

10. Where there are 'baying hounds' I can think of only one thing. You figure it out!

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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago

London

Brilliant.

I wouldn't fuck anybody I wouldn't date (did it once) wouldn't do it again. It doesnt matter to me if I don't fit into the categories for your 'research' I will state a opinion as a black man who after all could be part of the subject matter.

1 The women who stated she would fuck but not date black men has no evidence on her profile to prove all her exploits.

2.Maybe if true in her case she targets black men for whatever reason.

3.Maybe if true she comes from a background where she would cause issues in dating a black man.

4.Maybe if true With her attitude even if she was attractive to me she wouldn't have me if I knew what was in her heart.

5.If you fuck but would not date that must be a personality split issue she may need to deal with.

6.Yes swinging is not about dating but physical attraction doesn't cut it here I detect disrespect maybe for her own self projected on to black men.

7. People use others sometimes for the weirdest reasons this could apply to any race.

8. On this site their is no CV of intentions

9. For a woman who has no involvement with black men OPs interest does not sit well with me either. As I have noticed some 'baying hounds' coming out that have accompanied this post,

10. Where there are 'baying hounds' I can think of only one thing. You figure it out!"

In 9 are you referring to me? I don't NOT have involvement with black men. So my interest isn't from a sinister viewpoint. But it's okay if that's your opinion of me as were both strangers to each other.

And baying hounds? What's that mean? Say what you mean to say, this is a forum after all.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

9. For a woman who has no involvement with black men OPs interest does not sit well with me either. "

Pretty sure I saw a pic posted by the, OP, playing with two black men a while back.

Anyway, enjoying the thread.

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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago

London

9. For a woman who has no involvement with black men OPs interest does not sit well with me either.

Pretty sure I saw a pic posted by the, OP, playing with two black men a while back.

Anyway, enjoying the thread."

It was a sexy black lady and sexy black man

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

9. For a woman who has no involvement with black men OPs interest does not sit well with me either.

Pretty sure I saw a pic posted by the, OP, playing with two black men a while back.

Anyway, enjoying the thread.

It was a sexy black lady and sexy black man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being with a nice Indian couples most Indian hubbys like to see there wife with a white guy I know though experience with Indian couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been lucky enough to date both a black and mixed race woman. I do find them very attractive. Always have

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

A lot of what is being discussed here, op is available via this insightful, in-depth podcast, a very good listen

www.keysandanklets.com/episodes/7

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

"Good question. I’ve played with white women who love black men in the bed but only date white men

But don’t you feel used?

Same could be said for men who will fuck a woman on here behind closed doors but wouldn't be seen dead with her in Costa's."

I have had this happen, let me think, 3 times. Maybe 4. I would not be as big-headed as to say it is their loss, but it certainly is not mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good question. I’ve played with white women who love black men in the bed but only date white men

But don’t you feel used?

Same could be said for men who will fuck a woman on here behind closed doors but wouldn't be seen dead with her in Costa's."

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By *ross-eyed MaryMan
over a year ago

Salisbury

I like chatting to men. My friends are men. In my private sex life, i like to occasionally have sex with men. Would i date a man? No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think single white women who play with or even date black men are a completely different kettle of fish to white women in a marriage/ relationship with a white man, that then seek to only play with black men outside of their relationship. "
Simple, they are attracted to black men but are married to a white man who they are committed to. No other race interests them to play with outside their relationship so they are exclusive in their choice of black men.

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By *heHotwifePairCouple
over a year ago

South

"I think single white women who play with or even date black men are a completely different kettle of fish to white women in a marriage/ relationship with a white man, that then seek to only play with black men outside of their relationship. Simple, they are attracted to black men but are married to a white man who they are committed to. No other race interests them to play with outside their relationship so they are exclusive in their choice of black men."

That’s pretty much it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve dated white blokes and currently dating a black guy, I have sex with people I click with and find attractive, race isn’t important. You get idiots in every shape, size and colour.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"I’ve dated white blokes and currently dating a black guy, I have sex with people I click with and find attractive, race isn’t important. You get idiots in every shape, size and colour. "

Very true cannot escape that one

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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago

London

With number (1) it's not looking likely I'll meet a black cuck in the forums.

(2) we're saying that women in White male-female relationships only seek to black with black men because it's different from what they have at home?

That's probably one of may reasons why they have that dynamic. Again some single white women that play with black men are different to women in relationships with white men yet only play with black men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Black cucks/bi black guys are out there. I think porn plays a big part in not many coming out or saying they are cuckolds.

Someone did mention earlier that some black communities aren't open at all to someone coming out as gay/bi, so that may play a part too.

I think some people won't admit it but they're fetishising black guys.

I'm waiting for someone to use the "but it's just my preference" as the excuse for everything but not explaining anything at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, I've heard that BMFC parties have a lot of cuck activities in private play areas and also a lot of male bisexual activity too, both bi male and bi black guys, again in private play areas.

Apparently the bi activity is never seen in the public areas.

I've never been to one but it's something I've heard that happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just concentrating on interracial dynamics here:

(1) Are there many black cucks?

Most of the time it's white men in relationships with white women who are the cuck and black men being the bull.

Is that a lesser known porn category?

(2) If SOME white women in relationships with white men only like to play with black men, why aren't they in relationships with black men?

I also know a lot of black ladies who predominantly play with white men, sex as well as relationships. Is this you too?

(3) What's your preference? And if you are attracted to someone not of the same ethnicity as you, does that stem from past experiences, society, curiosity, etc. "

There doesn't seem to be much portrayal of anything but white cucks....although surely there must be. I think the whole white woman/black man is so powerful in our media examples.

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over a year ago

"Oh, I've heard that BMFC parties have a lot of cuck activities in private play areas and also a lot of male bisexual activity too, both bi male and bi black guys, again in private play areas.

Apparently the bi activity is never seen in the public areas.

I've never been to one but it's something I've heard that happens. "

Trust me there are a lot of bi black guys out there......

I have hooked many couples up with cool black guys I know... these couples have reported back to me that some of these black guys have indulged into things I have no interest in..

They didn’t tell me in a negative or gossiping way... they just figured since my friend did it, I would be more open to it...

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