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By *oley999 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Land of Rainbows and Happiness

What kind of a question is that???

Unless you are famous I am pretty sure that most folks don't run around declaring they found someone on a swinging site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes absolutely unless they say please be discreet, I run down their road naked shouting I'm a swinger, I'm a swinger!

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"What kind of a question is that???

Unless you are famous I am pretty sure that most folks don't run around declaring they found someone on a swinging site. "

Ohhhh...I do! But I don’t tell people who it is. Just that I have a social or a meet (usually when I’m getting ready at work). Might share a face pic with my best mate or my brother for bragging rights but that’s it

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Oh yes absolutely unless they say please be discreet, I run down their road naked shouting I'm a swinger, I'm a swinger! "

Hahahaha...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What kind of a question is that???

Unless you are famous I am pretty sure that most folks don't run around declaring they found someone on a swinging site.

Ohhhh...I do! But I don’t tell people who it is. Just that I have a social or a meet (usually when I’m getting ready at work). Might share a face pic with my best mate or my brother for bragging rights but that’s it "

And why not if you have nothing to hide?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do. Some discuss their sex lives with people at work, mates down the pub. Some show their mates the sex pics from off here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respecting someone elses confidentiality and also what another person decides to do is no one else business.

I tend to find if other people focused on themselves and not others they would get along better in life.

What someone else does is none of my business what my concern is my own business

Maybe am just old school xx

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Some do. Some discuss their sex lives with people at work, mates down the pub. Some show their mates the sex pics from off here. "

And some tell their parents , their family and so on . It just goes to show there’s nowt so strange as folk .....

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

I'm married so I have never had a meet I'm a good boy,fab is only my fantasy but being found out would be my biggest fear so should I really not worry and dip my toes into the sexy side of fab nsa

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By *ge_load_ladMan
over a year ago

NW & Mids


"Respecting someone elses confidentiality and also what another person decides to do is no one else business.

I tend to find if other people focused on themselves and not others they would get along better in life.

What someone else does is none of my business what my concern is my own business

Maybe am just old school xx "

Totally agree Cara

I don't show my meet veri's for the above reasons

There are two things which annoy me

- People mistakingly thinking Im not verified

- folks who refuse to meet coz they think I'm "hiding" my veri's from them snd don't get the fact

If I meet someone what ever we do is no one elses business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Respecting someone elses confidentiality and also what another person decides to do is no one else business.

I tend to find if other people focused on themselves and not others they would get along better in life.

What someone else does is none of my business what my concern is my own business

Maybe am just old school xx

Totally agree Cara

I don't show my meet veri's for the above reasons

There are two things which annoy me

- People mistakingly thinking Im not verified

- folks who refuse to meet coz they think I'm "hiding" my veri's from them snd don't get the fact

If I meet someone what ever we do is no one elses business "

I'm a little bit confused so are you saying you don't show your veri's because you don't want people to know who you've been with or to protect their privacy?

I understand the first if that's the case but if it's the second then surely if they've decided to leave you a verification the happy for it to be public knowledge.

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By *oley999 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Land of Rainbows and Happiness

All in "indiscreet" people on the site aren't about to go...."oh yes, sorry. I am such a loud mouth, everyone knows everything. Best you not tell or show me anything".

Useless question!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So it turns out hiring a billboard in central London, putting a picture of her giving me a blow job with her full name and date of birth printed on it wasn’t quite as discreet as she hoped for

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By *wingersimonMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Once saw somebody post a screengrab of someone else’s fab profile to twitter.

That would be in be ‘not discreet’ category.

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By *randMrsTeaseCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Being discreet doesn't just mean keeping quiet and not talking about your activities, it means just being another face in the crowd as well.

I mean imaging if I said "yeah I'm discreet" and then rolled into your street driving a Ferrari or a Lamborghini...

Drawing attention from people that you dont want attention from.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"All in "indiscreet" people on the site aren't about to go...."oh yes, sorry. I am such a loud mouth, everyone knows everything. Best you not tell or show me anything".

Useless question!!"

Agreed! We tend to be wary of people sharing face photos or people who leave/display explicit and descriptive veris as they seem to lack discretion and are a bit too ‘proud’ of their antics but I’m sure they’d say they were discreet if they were asked.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So it turns out hiring a billboard in central London, putting a picture of her giving me a blow job with her full name and date of birth printed on it wasn’t quite as discreet as she hoped for "

Its ok ..your in Wales..

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham

We just advertise on social media that we are meeting people to have sexual fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m totally discreet and respectful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't possibly tell you

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By *andys manMan
over a year ago

colchester

I think everyones wishes should be respected as some people have a sensitive occupation, me included. The internet can be a dangerous place when naked pics or your lifestyle choice ends up going round the office or place of work. Always respect peoples confidently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What kind of a question is that???

Unless you are famous I am pretty sure that most folks don't run around declaring they found someone on a swinging site. "

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By *andys manMan
over a year ago

colchester

Wonder if there are actually any real celebrities on here or public eye figures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *PPROACHABLEMANMan
over a year ago

Wales/ Bristol


"Respecting someone elses confidentiality and also what another person decides to do is no one else business.

I tend to find if other people focused on themselves and not others they would get along better in life.

What someone else does is none of my business what my concern is my own business

Maybe am just old school xx :-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Respecting someone elses confidentiality and also what another person decides to do is no one else business.

I tend to find if other people focused on themselves and not others they would get along better in life.

What someone else does is none of my business what my concern is my own business

Maybe am just old school xx

Totally agree Cara

I don't show my meet veri's for the above reasons

There are two things which annoy me

- People mistakingly thinking Im not verified

- folks who refuse to meet coz they think I'm "hiding" my veri's from them snd don't get the fact

If I meet someone what ever we do is no one elses business "
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I couldn’t have put it better!

A woman on here, goes through other people’s verifications and then arrange her meets that way.

She had upset a few people but thinks nothing of it.

Its a shame that we have to hide our verifications

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