FabSwingers.com forum: Straight, bi curious or bi .. who am I

By *neamigo OP Man
over a year ago

should read 58… mistake with my age , cannot change it

I am straight acting , would never kiss another guy or have anal sex , however I do enjoy male oral sex so my question is am I straight , bi curious (what ever that means or bi ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

orally bi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need to explore more

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

"Need to explore more"

Looking at your pics I’d say you definitely do!

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By *ykmwyldTV/TS
over a year ago

Belpre

Your bi .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go with what you think. Only you know.

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

"I am straight acting , would never kiss another guy or have anal sex , however I do enjoy male oral sex so my question is am I straight , bi curious (what ever that means or bi ? "

You’re not alone but orally bi sounds about right - enjoy it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am straight acting , would never kiss another guy or have anal sex , however I do enjoy male oral sex so my question is am I straight , bi curious (what ever that means or bi ? "

You are bi, welcome to the joys of cock sucking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about putting a label on yourself if you're unsure, it really doesn't matter.

If you'd rather our view, I'd say that's bisexual with boundaries you want respecting. Embrace it, it's much less painful than bottling it. Explore, it's a good place for it.

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

"I am straight acting , would never kiss another guy or have anal sex , however I do enjoy male oral sex so my question is am I straight , bi curious (what ever that means or bi ?

You are bi, welcome to the joys of cock sucking!"

Both ways hopefully and there’s also wanking and frottage and edging and docking - quite a variety of things to do

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By *neamigo OP Man
over a year ago

should read 58… mistake with my age , cannot change it

All of you comments are very valid . Unfortunately we are governed by labels as we are on here which is difficult.. maybe orally bi should be a 4 th category x

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

You say you dont know what bi-curious is,yet that is how you are identifying on here.

Whether you are gay/ bi/ straight we all have boundaries and restrictions, within that category..just mention on your profile e.g no anal etc.

Just enjoy the adventure..

ps what does 'straight acting' mean???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All of you comments are very valid . Unfortunately we are governed by labels as we are on here which is difficult.. maybe orally bi should be a 4 th category x"

Only if you allow yourself to be governed. Submitting to them is voluntary.

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By *ross-eyed MaryMan
over a year ago

Salisbury

"I am straight acting , would never kiss another guy or have anal sex , however I do enjoy male oral sex so my question is am I straight , bi curious (what ever that means or bi ?

You are bi, welcome to the joys of cock sucking!

Both ways hopefully and there’s also wanking and frottage and edging and docking - quite a variety of things to do

Always happy to help out a local

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am straight acting , would never kiss another guy or have anal sex , however I do enjoy male oral sex so my question is am I straight , bi curious (what ever that means or bi ? "

We need labels buddy, imagine going into a supermarket and everything is in the same packet.

You nipped in for a couple of beers and a bag of crisps and walk out with a car jack and some tampons.

It’s the same for people, you like to suck guys dicks so you need to identify the guys that like having their dicks sucked by other guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you enjoy it, do it. Don't worry about labels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why put a label on yourself. Just enjoy what you enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you feel you are OP?

Will the oral develop into more over time?

If you must label then say no-curious and then you can expand on that with the person if you so desire.

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By *eathrow_blokeMan
over a year ago

Crowthorne

If you like it.....do it!

If you don’t like it, do it, you might like it!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strictly speaking you are bisexual by definition. I am orally bi in mmf situations only, but find the limited labels difficult on here. Unfortunately OP, you need to outline your bisexuality in your profile, due to limited labels. I go with bicurious to let people know that I am not fully bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Labels are not nice.... Who cares anyway..?

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

As said by others, just enjoy, don't worry about labels, enjoy and explore, over the years I have dicovered more and more sides to myself that I find pleasures in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Labels are not nice.... Who cares anyway..?"
yeah i agree with that..is just fun no labels.

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By *etCloseMan
over a year ago

north

Well after classing myself as curious for about 2 years tonight I’ve qualified as a bi-sexual.... was amazing

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Well after classing myself as curious for about 2 years tonight I’ve qualified as a bi-sexual.... was amazing "

My rule is if you enjoy it then great

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By *etCloseMan
over a year ago

north

"Well after classing myself as curious for about 2 years tonight I’ve qualified as a bi-sexual.... was amazing

My rule is if you enjoy it then great

Definitely!! My curiosity stemmed from female partners bending me over and having their way with me. Also finding out some women love watching guys together. Always loved oral sex and cum kisses. I was nervous as fuck but it was as good as I’d been thinking it would be

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

Just call yourself bi its easier than all this straight acting crap, or say not out, gay men generaly dont act any different to straight ones.

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

"Well after classing myself as curious for about 2 years tonight I’ve qualified as a bi-sexual.... was amazing "

That took a while then

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

"I am straight acting , would never kiss another guy or have anal sex , however I do enjoy male oral sex so my question is am I straight , bi curious (what ever that means or bi ?

We need labels buddy, imagine going into a supermarket and everything is in the same packet.

You nipped in for a couple of beers and a bag of crisps and walk out with a car jack and some tampons.

It’s the same for people, you like to suck guys dicks so you need to identify the guys that like having their dicks sucked by other guys.

Not easy to do that tho if a guy writes ‘straight ‘ on his profile

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By *urrey Dave 69Man
over a year ago

Epsom, Surrey

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By *urrey Dave 69Man
over a year ago

Epsom, Surrey

"I am straight acting , would never kiss another guy or have anal sex , however I do enjoy male oral sex so my question is am I straight , bi curious (what ever that means or bi ? "

If you want a label it's probably hetro flexible. Best however explain your Dos and Donts in your profile and as Hetro flexible doesn't exist as a Fabswingers category use bicurious

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By *neamigo OP Man
over a year ago

should read 58… mistake with my age , cannot change it

Everyone’s comments are very interesting. My take is that fab should add another category stating — orally Bi

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

Still a problem identifying guys if they put ‘straight’ on their profile

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By *ross-eyed MaryMan
over a year ago

Salisbury

Serious lack of bi guys on this site. Loads of married straight men who have sex with other men. But they rarely accommodate.

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By *etCloseMan
over a year ago

north

"Well after classing myself as curious for about 2 years tonight I’ve qualified as a bi-sexual.... was amazing

That took a while then

Yeah and was well worth the wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am straight acting , would never kiss another guy or have anal sex , however I do enjoy male oral sex so my question is am I straight , bi curious (what ever that means or bi ? "

You’re a transgender lesbian with bi curious tendencies

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By *etCloseMan
over a year ago

north

I know one thing I am.... that’s not going back to plain old straight and narrow again haha

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

If there was enough tags for evryone there would literally be billions just chill be yourself.

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By *etCloseMan
over a year ago

north

"If there was enough tags for evryone there would literally be billions just chill be yourself. "

Definitely you do what you do with who you want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why label yourself ? Heteoflexible? Pansexual ? Go with flow and enjoy.

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By *laytimenowMan
over a year ago

Essex

I love Carrots but dont like brussel sprouts .

Am i a Vegetarian ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am straight acting , would never kiss another guy or have anal sex , however I do enjoy male oral sex so my question is am I straight , bi curious (what ever that means or bi ? "

What do you want to be? What makes you most comfortable? Provided you're honest with people in private? It's good manners to let someone know before anything physical happens and the usual acceptance regardless, will only make you more comfortable with who you are. Women who aren't bothered by sexual labels tend to be more attracted to people who are comfy in their own skin. Like attracts like. If that means admitting a few kinks, it's worth it. They are a lot sexier than the ones who aren't so tolerant anyway. So it's win win if you are happy with what you choose to be.

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