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Finding regular couple or fb- is it possible

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've tried to find a couple for regular meets or a regular Fuck buddy. In both cases the other parties have later become more attached than the original NSA agreements.One particular couple were even ringing 3 or 4 times a week to meet- which was great at first but then limited the other stuff I wanted to do. Is finding a couple or Fb who would/could stick to the arrangements possible?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, ive tried, last one wanted to move in with me lol

You best off sticking to one offs i find them much easier

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By *exytwo_xCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Would love a regular fuck buddy to move in with us. (He has to be able to cook a decent meal though) N.

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

we wouldnt dream of havin reg with same guy or guys, can be no misunderstandings that way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, ive tried, last one wanted to move in with me lol

You best off sticking to one offs i find them much easier"
I understand what you are saying but the misunderstanding was not on my part.And similar things have happened several times now.One off's can be more difficult to sort out and arrange for guys.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I've tried to find a couple for regular meets or a regular Fuck buddy. In both cases the other parties have later become more attached than the original NSA agreements.One particular couple were even ringing 3 or 4 times a week to meet- which was great at first but then limited the other stuff I wanted to do. Is finding a couple or Fb who would/could stick to the arrangements possible? "

i think too regular will inevitably lead to some form of emotional attachment, this doesnt have to be needy( as ringing several times a week is).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would love a regular fuck buddy to move in with us. (He has to be able to cook a decent meal though) N."

mmmm could you live on egg and chips?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've tried to find a couple for regular meets or a regular Fuck buddy. In both cases the other parties have later become more attached than the original NSA agreements.One particular couple were even ringing 3 or 4 times a week to meet- which was great at first but then limited the other stuff I wanted to do. Is finding a couple or Fb who would/could stick to the arrangements possible? "

Found this can happen too, if meets are too regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have about 3 guys that I meet up with every few weeks or maybe a month or two goes by. I get the occasional text off them and vice versa but we never phone each other. Really nice guys, we have fun and that's it, I am not interested in a relationship with them nor them with me.

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By *onestbabeWoman
over a year ago

canvey

That's just what I am looking for a regular fb local to me and wants the same as me its not easy to find my search goes on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are hard to come by but it can happen...I have had a couple in the past and it worked out great x

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By *onestbabeWoman
over a year ago

canvey

Yeah I had one for a year now looking for another a few maybes but that it oh well hopefully soon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have regulars that we play with singularly and a lovely couple who we play with together and who we count as very good friends. Guess we're very lucky by the looks of things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Na I dont think it is possible lol I been looking for one sice I came on here and recently found one only for her to get all gelouse at the thought of me arranging a meet let alone playing then she says im not allowed to play on my single profile.

Im like sorry luv what was your name again! lol safe journey home yeah. Needless to say im on the look out again hahaha grrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well thanks for the comments etc everyone. I will just have to keep 'banging away' at it

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Yes it is possible... but it takes time to find the right mindset in the right person.

Sometimes it is better not to look too hard for something... it will be found in due course.

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By *ayman2002Man
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Yes it is possible... but it takes time to find the right mindset in the right person.

Sometimes it is better not to look too hard for something... it will be found in due course."

I agree with every word of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's possible. However, people don't become clingy or needy overnight...the clues are there.

You said you found the phone calls flattering at first...one man's flattery another's stalker alert. I simply stopped meeting anyone that showed any hint of being possessive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it's possible. However, people don't become clingy or needy overnight...the clues are there.

You said you found the phone calls flattering at first...one man's flattery another's stalker alert. I simply stopped meeting anyone that showed any hint of being possessive."

+1

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes it's possible. However, people don't become clingy or needy overnight...the clues are there.

You said you found the phone calls flattering at first...one man's flattery another's stalker alert. I simply stopped meeting anyone that showed any hint of being possessive."
Duly read and noted. I'm not looking too hard and would just like it to happen if it does.Am now more aware of the signs and pitfalls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it's possible. However, people don't become clingy or needy overnight...the clues are there.

You said you found the phone calls flattering at first...one man's flattery another's stalker alert. I simply stopped meeting anyone that showed any hint of being possessive.Duly read and noted. I'm not looking too hard and would just like it to happen if it does.Am now more aware of the signs and pitfalls "

We are a couple in a strong and close relationship which means that we can handle 'attraction'. The sex must be awful if you have no respect or understanding of the others involved. Might as well go into the fridge at the local butchers.

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