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What is it with some women and oral sex!?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So bit of a quite spit in clinic and I get chatting to one of the nurses in my team, we always have a good banter when ever we work together but nothing more than that. So today the subject gets onto sex and her new BF apparently he fryed to go down on her and she freaked. When I asked her why she said "ewwww no that's dirty!" I just looked at her and said but it's not is it as long as you wash properly and she should know that, but she was still adamant that it was dirty. This is not the first time I've cone across this I had a ex GF who was the same. I love giving oral to a woman it's git to be my fave thing to do even better than full on sex sometimes! So can any one explain the thinking behind this?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

They just dont like it.

And others do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They just dont like it.

And others do."

Fair enough but then why say it's dirty? It's obviously not, why not say it's just not my thing?

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Well I usually need a ten min break after four orgasms or so but after that I'm good to go again. Would happily accommodate a queue of hotties down there but don't allow more than two at a time.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only think its because of the way they have been brought up.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If they've been told it's dirty all their lives, then they'll think it's dirty!

My mother didn't bother telling me the birds and the bees. I picked most of it up from Jackie Collins novels. When I had my first shag I wondered why we weren't 'screwing'. When I had my first orgasm from oral I thought I'd done something wrong. Sex ed has a long way to go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy once ad he wouldnt kiss me after i had given him a blow job, he was ok kissing me before but after every time i tried after he moved his head, so i asked him if he was ok and he said he didnt like the idea of kissing me after id had his cock in my mouth

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I met a guy once ad he wouldnt kiss me after i had given him a blow job, he was ok kissing me before but after every time i tried after he moved his head, so i asked him if he was ok and he said he didnt like the idea of kissing me after id had his cock in my mouth "

See now I've heard that before as well and that makes even less sense! It's your cock or pussy they have had in their mouths what's the problem lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some just don't feel comfortable with it and its their choice. You can tell people things like you can do with swinging but its not for everyone.

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

Wouldn't say it was dirty..

But can't stand it myself! Does nothing for me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if these girls that don't enjoy oral if they mastebate or do they think that's dirty too. Getting to know what your own body enjoys and what it likes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As has been previously stated, it must have something to do with the way she was brought up or religous views if she is devout in which ever faith she belongs to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a guy once ad he wouldnt kiss me after i had given him a blow job, he was ok kissing me before but after every time i tried after he moved his head, so i asked him if he was ok and he said he didnt like the idea of kissing me after id had his cock in my mouth "

Don't think they will be getting their cocked sucked often with that attitude, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if these girls that don't enjoy oral if they mastebate or do they think that's dirty too. Getting to know what your own body enjoys and what it likes."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There have been times where I didn't let the guy go down on me, but not because I thought the idea was dirty. It was due to the fact I was being very shy. Guys don't even realise how shy I am until they meet me.

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area


"I wonder if these girls that don't enjoy oral if they mastebate or do they think that's dirty too. Getting to know what your own body enjoys and what it likes."

Are you saying the women that don't enjoy it don't know what they like/want?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I am saying that it is totally natural.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a guy once ad he wouldnt kiss me after i had given him a blow job, he was ok kissing me before but after every time i tried after he moved his head, so i asked him if he was ok and he said he didnt like the idea of kissing me after id had his cock in my mouth

See now I've heard that before as well and that makes even less sense! It's your cock or pussy they have had in their mouths what's the problem lol "

he said it was gay lol

I love kising a guy after hes gone down on me, adds to the flavour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if these girls that don't enjoy oral if they mastebate or do they think that's dirty too. Getting to know what your own body enjoys and what it likes.

Are you saying the women that don't enjoy it don't know what they like/want?"

Thing is not liking oral and not wanting oral isnt the same, if the reason you do say no is down to your upbringing then maybe they are putting up a mental block telling themsleves they dont like it and saying no because they have been told its wrong as a child, where as women who simply dont like it is different,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend of mine has never gone down on a woman and says he never will as "its dirty" i couldnt belive it when he said i just told him he didnt know what he was missing out on

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


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My mother didn't bother telling me the birds and the bees. I picked most of it up from Jackie Collins novels"

I'm still waiting for my mam to have the birds and bees talk with me

My sex ed was also Jackie Collins and those Mandingo books that I pinched off my Dad's bookshelf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A friend of mine has never gone down on a woman and says he never will as "its dirty" i couldnt belive it when he said i just told him he didnt know what he was missing out on "

bet he expects a blow job tho dont he?

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

i have met quite a few black guys (though not all) who won't go down on a woman. i dated one who acted like i was asking him to french his grandad when sober, but after a drink there was no stopping him. the only problem was the sobbing and shame the next morning as he begged that i would never tell anyone his dirty secret!

have to say i am happy to kiss after a guy comes back up, but if hes (or i've got him) really wet i kinda prefer it wiping off first...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I met a guy once ad he wouldnt kiss me after i had given him a blow job, he was ok kissing me before but after every time i tried after he moved his head, so i asked him if he was ok and he said he didnt like the idea of kissing me after id had his cock in my mouth

See now I've heard that before as well and that makes even less sense! It's your cock or pussy they have had in their mouths what's the problem lol

he said it was gay lol

I love kising a guy after hes gone down on me, adds to the flavour "

Your welcome to come kiss me anytime hub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are probably still some who change into night clothes in the other room and never have sex with the light on, or fully naked.... Don't know them and don't want to know them either

Everyone has limits, one of the good things about sites like this is you can find out what they are in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if she doesnt like the idea of a tongue in her foo foo, she probably wont suck a tinkel then. Wonder what she thinks of rimming ? You should ask her !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"if she doesnt like the idea of a tongue in her foo foo, she probably wont suck a tinkel then. Wonder what she thinks of rimming ? You should ask her !"

Clinics always quite on a Thursday I'll ask her then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if she doesnt like the idea of a tongue in her foo foo, she probably wont suck a tinkel then. Wonder what she thinks of rimming ? You should ask her !"

pmsl at this one..

Devil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if she doesnt like the idea of a tongue in her foo foo, she probably wont suck a tinkel then. Wonder what she thinks of rimming ? You should ask her !"

ehh, i havent a clue wat all thats about, i'll ask the vicar tomorrow.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I can only think its because of the way they have been brought up."

I had a funny reply for this... but then I realised some may not want to find it funny.... so I'll just chuckle to myself for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can only think its because of the way they have been brought up.

I had a funny reply for this... but then I realised some may not want to find it funny.... so I'll just chuckle to myself for a while."

Hey, no fair I wanna know! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can only think its because of the way they have been brought up.

I had a funny reply for this... but then I realised some may not want to find it funny.... so I'll just chuckle to myself for a while.

Hey, no fair I wanna know! lol"

me too

come on its late theres only us here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to think it was dirty until i tried it and its amazing lol. And as for kissing when they come back up adds to the enjoyment i think.

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By *isterTeaseMan
over a year ago

Chigwell


" Used to think it was dirty until i tried it and its amazing lol. And as for kissing when they come back up adds to the enjoyment i think. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This clinic where you work, where is it? I think we should all go along for immoral support

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There have been times where I didn't let the guy go down on me, but not because I thought the idea was dirty. It was due to the fact I was being very shy. Guys don't even realise how shy I am until they meet me. "

I can understand why guys may find it a bit of a surprise when you say you are shy as your username - cock teasing cunt - is a little at odds with someone of a shy nature.

Nothing wrong with it, but maybe that is the reason for the surprise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to live in a north African country and the men won't go down on a woman, they say only prostitutes like that lol but they expect a woman to give them a bj. . . that's the only form foreplay you get to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This clinic where you work, where is it? I think we should all go along for immoral support "

Lol nowhere near nowhere lol and before some one asks no its not a GUM clinic lol

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