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Older women into younger men?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm 20,

Do older women tend to like younger men these days or do they see them as too "childish"

Love to here peoples opinion on this

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't see them as childish but I don't think there would be much common ground between me and a man 40 odd years younger than me. I know you're not looking for women of my age though .

There are women who love younger guys though, you just need to look out for them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't see them as childish but I don't think there would be much common ground between me and a man 40 odd years younger than me. I know you're not looking for women of my age though .

There are women who love younger guys though, you just need to look out for them "

What's your lowest age u would go to?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

These women exist. I don't find myself attracted to anyone under 25, and in terms of having anything in common tend to skew my age and older. I prefer maturity to (excess) energy. Sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May prefers young men. We’ee Not looking for a deep connection, just good fun, so the age difference isn’t a big deal to us. We understand why it’s different for others though

David

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't see them as childish but I don't think there would be much common ground between me and a man 40 odd years younger than me. I know you're not looking for women of my age though .

There are women who love younger guys though, you just need to look out for them

What's your lowest age u would go to?"

39 or 40 but that's pushing it I prefer men of 50 and over. I have no problem socialising with younger men or women I think it's good to mix with people of all ages but for sexual partners I prefer older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on your idea of how old an older woman is?

For me you are way to young but to someone in their 30’s it may work.

I don’t think it’s an easy ride on here for young men, give yourself a head start by having a decent profile and looking through old forum threads for advice / tips. You’re not the 1st and won’t be last to ask this kind of question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great topic!...

I love the older women don't know why I just do. Seem a lot more sweetie at heart too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Urm yes! We / I do!!!!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Also, I'm not sure where this caps out, but I don't love being called mature or old or anything like that. I'm 33 not 93!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Younger yes. Your age no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Younger yes. Your age no."

What's your lowest then oldest age range ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Also, I'm not sure where this caps out, but I don't love being called mature or old or anything like that. I'm 33 not 93!"

You're not old though, I wouldn't have liked being called old at 33. I honestly don't mind now, old, older, mature etc is fine by me. What I don't like is people saying "you look great...for your age"

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Your profile says you're 21 OP - which I know is only a years difference but the suggestion that your profile is not accurate (possibly deliberately so) may not help your cause.

As for older women liking younger men, simple answer is some will some won't - maybe try an advanced search for the age range you are looking for, and tick the "Will meet people of my age" box, that should help narrow it down.

After that it's down to having an appealing profile and pics, the right approach and attitude in your messages and finding those that you connect with

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Also, I'm not sure where this caps out, but I don't love being called mature or old or anything like that. I'm 33 not 93!

You're not old though, I wouldn't have liked being called old at 33. I honestly don't mind now, old, older, mature etc is fine by me. What I don't like is people saying "you look great...for your age" "

I occasionally get messages from guys less than five years younger than me calling me old. Ffs I have a sibling that age, sod off.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Younger yes. Your age no.

What's your lowest then oldest age range ?"

30 to 55

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP all these people you are asking what is their age range have it clearly displayed on their profile!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Also, I'm not sure where this caps out, but I don't love being called mature or old or anything like that. I'm 33 not 93!

You're not old though, I wouldn't have liked being called old at 33. I honestly don't mind now, old, older, mature etc is fine by me. What I don't like is people saying "you look great...for your age"

I occasionally get messages from guys less than five years younger than me calling me old. Ffs I have a sibling that age, sod off. "

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By *isstemptressWoman
over a year ago

york

Need to try a younger guy but not 20! They would at least need to be 30 +

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My eldest is 24 so minimum age tends to be 30-35.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

What age do we call mature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer around my own age. It's all subjective... The next lady to post may adore 20yr olds

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond


"I prefer around my own age. It's all subjective... The next lady to post may adore 20yr olds "

;)

Yes, must be said that I do like younger men. Not just any though...as in all things, depends on the man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer around my own age. It's all subjective... The next lady to post may adore 20yr olds

;)

Yes, must be said that I do like younger men. Not just any though...as in all things, depends on the man."

What sort of age difference? 5yrs? 10yrs? 20yrs?

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By *andys manMan
over a year ago

colchester

Think that bus has left the station for me to be classed as a younger man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer around my own age. It's all subjective... The next lady to post may adore 20yr olds

;)

Yes, must be said that I do like younger men. Not just any though...as in all things, depends on the man."

Ah ha! See.. from out of thin air!!

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond


"I prefer around my own age. It's all subjective... The next lady to post may adore 20yr olds

;)

Yes, must be said that I do like younger men. Not just any though...as in all things, depends on the man.

What sort of age difference? 5yrs? 10yrs? 20yrs?"

Oh, it depends on the man! My partner is 15 years younger; had a thing a while ago with someone 26 years younger. I find that so many men my age or similar have a more jaded outlook on life. I like vibrancy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer around my own age. It's all subjective... The next lady to post may adore 20yr olds

;)

Yes, must be said that I do like younger men. Not just any though...as in all things, depends on the man.

What sort of age difference? 5yrs? 10yrs? 20yrs?

Oh, it depends on the man! My partner is 15 years younger; had a thing a while ago with someone 26 years younger. I find that so many men my age or similar have a more jaded outlook on life. I like vibrancy!"

Good answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find inexperience a turn on, but because 2 of my children are older than the OP, I just couldn't go there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to meet a nice sexy mature lady..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, I like/prefer younger men, but it depends on the individual. Some (younger) guys are very immature and for me, that is very unattractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there’s lots of women who like younger men. However, I find that older women tend to be fetishised a lot by younger men. It would certainly put me off, if I was attracted to younger men (when I’m older that is).

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I think there’s lots of women who like younger men. However, I find that older women tend to be fetishised a lot by younger men. It would certainly put me off, if I was attracted to younger men (when I’m older that is). "

That and the teacher thing. Guys looking for a teacher often seems like, I want a wild sexual experience but without being able to return the favour. I've had enough crap sex from selfish lovers to last a lifetime!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there’s lots of women who like younger men. However, I find that older women tend to be fetishised a lot by younger men. It would certainly put me off, if I was attracted to younger men (when I’m older that is).

That and the teacher thing. Guys looking for a teacher often seems like, I want a wild sexual experience but without being able to return the favour. I've had enough crap sex from selfish lovers to last a lifetime! "

That as well! So many men my age want to meet older women to ‘show me the ropes’

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I think there’s lots of women who like younger men. However, I find that older women tend to be fetishised a lot by younger men. It would certainly put me off, if I was attracted to younger men (when I’m older that is).

That and the teacher thing. Guys looking for a teacher often seems like, I want a wild sexual experience but without being able to return the favour. I've had enough crap sex from selfish lovers to last a lifetime!

That as well! So many men my age want to meet older women to ‘show me the ropes’

"

Yeah. Younger guys reading this: don't do this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also, I'm not sure where this caps out, but I don't love being called mature or old or anything like that. I'm 33 not 93!"

That is definitely still young. Mature/old is surely double that at least.

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By *essons in LustCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield


"I think there’s lots of women who like younger men. However, I find that older women tend to be fetishised a lot by younger men. It would certainly put me off, if I was attracted to younger men (when I’m older that is).

That and the teacher thing. Guys looking for a teacher often seems like, I want a wild sexual experience but without being able to return the favour. I've had enough crap sex from selfish lovers to last a lifetime! "

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Also, I'm not sure where this caps out, but I don't love being called mature or old or anything like that. I'm 33 not 93!

That is definitely still young. Mature/old is surely double that at least. "

I occasionally get messages from guys who I'd consider roughly my contemporaries, even up to 30, calling me old. Not a good look.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I like younger men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer younger men, childish is definitely not an age related trait, especially in a place where men are hoping for sex

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By *unfemale1980Woman
over a year ago

St Helen's

I love younger guys, both on here and in relationships. Since I returned to Fab last year, the youngest guy I have met with has been 22. But if I really wanted to meet the guy, I would meet a 20 year old.

But that is the key point, it depends much more on how the guy appeals to me in looks, chat, interests....than his age. I just wouldn't say no because of his age.

The one thing I would say here is I don't have kids so maybe I don't have the issue of comparing young guys to my kids' age. Also, I am only 38.

So as with everything, we all have our own likes and preferences. Mine happens to be meeting younger guys for fantastic sex. And many of my favourite meets and repeat meets have been with guys in their 20s.

I'd say though that the majority of my meets have been with guys aged 24 - 34 and this is the age range I actively look for on here and for a boyfriend. But I do sometimes meet someone older than me the same way I may meet someone younger. There's always exceptions to my rules! Or maybe I should say rules are made to be broken

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I prefer younger men, childish is definitely not an age related trait, especially in a place where men are hoping for sex "

Oh so true.

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon

As others have said, I'm not on here to teach an inexperienced guy the ropes - I want great sex, I like meeting someone I can hold a conversation with and find that hard with much younger guys I have little in common with, and even if it's true I don't appreciate being called older, mature or experienced - all a turn off. Therefore I rarely consider guys at the lower end of my age range let alone younger.

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By *ieandteaseMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Over 50s big breasted milf with under 25 yr old guy or even 3 guys is my idea of ideal viewing so keep up the good work you mature ladies & come on lads give her a try she's the ride of your life if you'd just give her a go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only here for older women but I don't seem to be what many people are after looks wise, if you're not completely average height and you're muscular you'll probably have more success

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

I much prefer younger guys. Eighteen to early twenties is great... but I never meet guys who want a "teacher."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is an excellent question! I find myself being told I look too young for some people... I'm 31! X

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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"I much prefer younger guys. Eighteen to early twenties is great... but I never meet guys who want a "teacher.""

Put that on your profile and see what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is an excellent question! I find myself being told I look too young for some people... I'm 31! X"

Can't tell from your pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Roarrr I prefer younger any day 22 to 30 is my best with tats nothing better than a younger fit hung lad amazed by my oral skills plus they fuck much better I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Roarrr I prefer younger any day 22 to 30 is my best with tats nothing better than a younger fit hung lad amazed by my oral skills plus they fuck much better I think"

Can confirm, we are pretty great

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