FabSwingers.com forum: How did you get into swinging

By *he fab two OP Couple
over a year ago

brentwood

So let’s hear how we all ended up here!

How did you come to try swinging and who brought up the conversation in a couple and decided to start and what was your first experience

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

It's a natural by product of mainlining heroin really

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Got tired of all the drama of a relationship and bored of night clubs.

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By *umbriaman1962Man
over a year ago

outside of penrith

With a long since ex she aways liked reading sexy stories and looking at top shelf mags etc . We used to get one that had couples adds in talk about swinging etc. Then talked about watching been watched etc and one day put a add our selves . I dont think either of us thought we would go throw with it but met a couple rest was history

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

I had been told what went on in saunas,

I thought I would go a see for my self I had a fantastic night the first time when the three nights they were rubbish but it did not put me off over the 30 years I’ve had some wonderful times and met some realy nice people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got into swinging when me and my wife separated about 4 years ago, it’s always being a fantasy to swing so I decided to join fab and after meeting couples and single ladys and with my verifications I am still here enjoying myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still trying to get into swinging

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I was looking for IC (a now defunct BDSM site) on the web, ended up on swinging site chat room. The rest is history

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By *oubledongWoman
over a year ago

Headington, Oxford

Things just kind of progressed.

Started off going swimming at a naturist club, that is swimming, not swinging, lol.

Then gained more confidence about being naked in front of other people so went dogging to put on a show.

Got into swinging later, for reasons already discussed here that caused a bit of a controversy so won't go over them again. Initially I wasn't so sure, my husband was keen but I guess I was just conditions that women should not sleep around. After the initial worries it just kind of snowballed, I got a lot of attention from men that I never thought would be interested in me and my confidence grew from there. Now it is just one of those everyday things (well not everyday!) that I don't give a second thought to now.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

Hit 40 and thought it was obligatory to explore your sex life at this age?

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By *he fab two OP Couple
over a year ago

brentwood

"Things just kind of progressed.

Started off going swimming at a naturist club, that is swimming, not swinging, lol.

Then gained more confidence about being naked in front of other people so went dogging to put on a show.

I think your right it’s drummed into girls not to enjoy there body’s and wait untill your married etc etc but in fact we only have a small window in our life’s to enjoy our bodies and should do so as much as possible

My wife still not as keen on it as me and at 50 now I’m guessing she never will

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I met someone and after a few sex sessions he asked if I fancied having a meet with someone whilst he photographed it, I thought yeah why not

he gave me details to a swinging web site and away I went

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

I was in a sexless marriage, separate lives, separate rooms and wanted sex but couldn’t look for it in the normal places that people look. Fab was recommended so I tried it. I met guys for coffee then if we hit it off we went to Amours next time! I accidentally met Mr J who was in the same position as me, we became friends and within 3 months we left our ex’s moved in together and are now married (to each other!). Funny enough proper swinging didn’t happen until Amours closed! We missed the social side of clubs and re-joined Fab as a couple and here we are!

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By *ornysquirtingcoupleCouple
over a year ago

somerset

We started by watching porn then after a while one night the wife and I got tipsy we went to a lap dance club and she got a lot of attention from the girls. She was so horny after we had our first mfm with a guy from hotel bar. We woke up next day realizing we were still happily married. We then booked a night away and went to a swingers club (Chameleons) and realised we liked the lifestyle and its grown from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fffmm with some friends d*unk after a party. Went on to have a 3 way relationship for a few months then stumbled across fab when I became single. Vanilla sex was never the same again

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By *woofuslondonCouple
over a year ago

london

Had a d*unken 3sum wanted more lol

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By *armupartistMan
over a year ago

York

Got to 60 in a sexless marriage and decided it was time to do 'stuff' the wife had never shown interest in - the first thing was to go skiing - befriended by a skiing couple in the hotel (they kindly invited me to eat with them on the third night as I was on my own). A couple of nights later the wife excused herself for an "early night" and Mr and I went into the bar for a last drink during which he handed me a key to their room and invited me to go and ensure his wife was tucked up in bed and that I was to ensure she slept well...! It was skiing and swinging and swinging and skiing for what remained of the holiday... I haven't been skiing since but the other new sport was too rewarding not to pursue with vigour!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit random really lol, was at it in a tent in Cornwall and Lucy was been a bit noisy so told her to be quiet or the couple next to us would hear, unless you want them to come join in I said and she rode me like the clappers haha so I knew it tickled her fancy then we started looking into local clubs etc and hear we are

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By *aucyred3187Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I’d been single for a while, sick of going to vanilla clubs and getting some d*unk guy randomly sticking his smoky tasting tongue down my throat before trying to take me home. Also i’d Tried regular dating but I never seemed to have much luck, always picking guys who were just not right in the head.

So one day I was surfing the web and came across Club F in Stanley. I texted the number and asked if I could join that night. Walked straight in there, head held high, and got chatting to some lovely people. That was in October last year and i’ve Never looked back. I seem to have been born for this crazy life - “I didn’t choose the swinging life, the swinging life chose me”

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

Love reading through how others became involved!

Ours was pretty mundane with us both noticing how excited we each got when talking dirty in bed and started introducing the idea there which ended up us playing out the fantasy in a club and we haven’t looked back since.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I was early twenties, and living with a lady some ten years older. She had told me she had done MMF & FMM. One night she wa out and sat there talking to my best mate, he admitted he fancied her. She came home, a bit pissed and went to bed. I went up and put the idea of a threesome to her, she fancied it. I came down and told him to go up, he did. A few minutes later i went up and watched through the crack in the door befor joining them.

We all fucked and sucked all night long, she was really turned on watching us together sucking each others cocks. We used to have fun every so often until he got married and we had his farewell fuck.

Come to think of it even before then she was the first woman to dress me in her underwear and put make up on me. She was such a horny one, makes me feel like going round, she lives quite close) and trying my hand?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came across fab this time last year. Sent my husband the link, thought it would be something fun for us to do together. He never really embraced it but is ok that I have. Actually think it has saved my marriage. I am a lot happier as a person to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having got to the wrong side of 50 & my wife had lost interest in sex on a regular basis,I decided to look elsewhere & ended up on fab. It seemed to get my wifes interest & for a while we had a couples profile,but for various reasons she decided it wasn't for her,so I'm here on my own,for how much longer remains to be seen as like lots of solo men I'm strugling to get meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both of us decided to come on here after a couple of years going to watch other and just us playing solo, me (Rebecca) wanted to play with other female...

naked tues at chameleons was our first go at swinging

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By *ab_SparklesWoman
over a year ago

sparkle Surprised

A friend mentioned another site while d*unk that her then fella was trying to get her to swing.

So I raised a eyebrow and asked the name i was on it for yrs i go back not so much now I don't like the new chat room.

I asked if there was any other from a swinging friend and gave me here.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

On all 4's giving Him a BJ and he said wouldn't it be fun if another man was behind you pounding away. I looked at him, said yes and we went off to find a swinger club on the ol' interwebby. 3 weeks later we were at Abfabs in a 6 couple orgy

How I discovered I liked being Greedy is a whole new story lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex boss told me about fab after I left company and moved to city 7 years ago.. we are still friends on here

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By *he fab two OP Couple
over a year ago

brentwood

"I was in a sexless marriage, separate lives, separate rooms and wanted sex but couldn’t look for it in the normal places that people look. Fab was recommended so I tried it. I met guys for coffee then if we hit it off we went to Amours next time! I accidentally met Mr J who was in the same position as me, we became friends and within 3 months we left our ex’s moved in together and are now married (to each other!). Funny enough proper swinging didn’t happen until Amours closed! We missed the social side of clubs and re-joined Fab as a couple and here we are! "

Great story I’m glad you both found happiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was using another site for casual hookups (AFF) as didn't want a relationship, and a couple I knew from there signposted me to fab about four years ago so here I am! I discovered the club and party scene and haven't looked back

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By *he fab two OP Couple
over a year ago

brentwood

"Got to 60 in a sexless marriage and decided it was time to do 'stuff' the wife had never shown interest in - the first thing was to go skiing - befriended by a skiing couple in the hotel (they kindly invited me to eat with them on the third night as I was on my own). A couple of nights later the wife excused herself for an "early night" and Mr and I went into the bar for a last drink during which he handed me a key to their room and invited me to go and ensure his wife was tucked up in bed and that I was to ensure she slept well...! It was skiing and swinging and swinging and skiing for what remained of the holiday... I haven't been skiing since but the other new sport was too rewarding not to pursue with vigour!!"

Love this one! Gives us al hope that life might get better!

Wonder what your wife was doing while you was skiing lol

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By *innypopsCouple
over a year ago

Huddersfield

When K and I first got together, one night she plucked up the nerve and said "I've got something I want to tell you". She told me she was also attracted to women and had had a ff experience in her teens. She thought it might scare me away and was worried about telling me. She said she was always curious but would be content if it never happened again, but if the opportunity ever arose she would like to explore it more. I nearly fell off the couch! After a few months together we discussed how we may be able to "encourage" the opportunity to arise. We started on tinder with very limited success but we soon incorporated "swipey time" as part of our foreplay(we still do) it's amazing how horny K gets imagining what could be. Little actual interest from there so we started exploring clubs a little. Met some great people and had some great experiences. We both particularly enjoy the apprehension and the build up of the multi way flirt. Watching K with another woman brings this amazing smile that nothing else gives her, she has this aura that's she's found what Cs he's looking for. We only play together and make sure we're all involved in a big pile and it's amazing. Never want this to stop. K is still trying to get me to believe that it turns her on to see me with other women but she assures me it does!

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By *he fab two OP Couple
over a year ago

brentwood

"When K and I first got together, one night she plucked up the nerve and said "I've got something I want to tell you". She told me she was also attracted to women and had had a ff experience in her teens. She thought it might scare me away and was worried about telling me. She said she was always curious but would be content if it never happened again, but if the opportunity ever arose she would like to explore it more. I nearly fell off the couch! After a few months together we discussed how we may be able to "encourage" the opportunity to arise. We started on tinder with very limited success but we soon incorporated "swipey time" as part of our foreplay(we still do) it's amazing how horny K gets imagining what could be. Little actual interest from there so we started exploring clubs a little. Met some great people and had some great experiences. We both particularly enjoy the apprehension and the build up of the multi way flirt. Watching K with another woman brings this amazing smile that nothing else gives her, she has this aura that's she's found what Cs he's looking for. We only play together and make sure we're all involved in a big pile and it's amazing. Never want this to stop. K is still trying to get me to believe that it turns her on to see me with other women but she assures me it does! "

To find something you can both do together and all enjoy is amazing!

My wife comes to clubs with me and sometimes I feel she really enjoys herself others feel she’s just there for me

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By *r_thickdick777Man
over a year ago

Dover

It’s in my genes

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

New joint hobby when kids left home - was tough decision along with stamp collecting & trainspotting

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By *talian PassionMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

As far as I'm concerned, I started to go to swinger clubs on 2002 in Rome, when I was 26 and never stop anymore. When I was at University a friend of mine introduced me in a club, with a couple of beautiful Italian girl and I realized immediately that it was my home. I have been going continuously for years, every weekend and not only.

I met load of couple and I used to rent b&b for organising swinger party with international couples in visit to Rome.

I knew all the owner and they were really proud to see me with lady.

Whenever I went to disco or cafe, I asked to girls to come with in a club and most of them said yes. So it was pretty easy in Rome find a woman to go there.

Inside clubs you don't need to talk or drink to have fun, but the approach consist to touch the other couple and If you like each other you go directly in a room. I've never talked to much.

In Britain I enjoy a lot as well, different approach: talk, drink and ask to play.

I have swinger club in my DNA and can't wait more than 3 days to go.

I love, they are my passion.

I was considering to open one all for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the early days of us dating, as a joke, I challenged Niki to let me fuck her over our bosses desk, the forfeit being she came to a swingers club with me if she didn’t.

She did, and we still went - Win Win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My flat mate’s girlfriend in our first year of uni popped her head around my door and asked if I’d rather join in than just listen to them fucking. In that semester we went from 3somes to the whole first year rugby team joining the fun, haven’t looked back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got hooked on hook ups from tinder and ended up sleeping with someone who reccomended this site. This is my second profile now and I love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's how we met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife and I were in a sexless marriage, due to my growing acceptance that I preferred men to women for my sexual enjoyment.

We openly discussed our different sexual needs. She needed a man that would keep her happy whilst respecting our privacy as an unconventional married couple.

We joined fab to help her find a man friend with benefits. It worked perfectly and she now has an exclusive man friend with benefits. Also allows me to have my fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not really a swinger.

I ended up here after someone told me about their profile. This was about 2012. Like a lot of people I ran away scared at first . However,over the years I've been here a few times.

I've had some great one on one adventures and even made some friends too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty standard for us. We spoke about it a few times and always thought the other was just joking. Anyway the husband was away and we started talking about it again. After a few sexy pics was sent to each other the husband looked on the internet at found this site. He just signed us up added some pics and a write up and gave Me the log in details. We've never looked back x

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By *eaven and Hell 69Couple
over a year ago

HULL

We got in swinging, as I have always enjoyed fun with other women. I also wanted to watch and share cock with my hubby. Xx xx

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Kind of always seen the world this way in terms of sex and who it relates to relationships. The normal societal views, stigmas and rules have always seemed nuts and stifling to me. In the passed a played by the rules. I was married, loyal and loved my ex wife dearly at the time. I would never trade her or my family for anything else. Ironicly she ran of with another leaving me with the kids. Once I started to put my self together I had a chance to start afresh, understand my self better and now it was only me to ask what is it I want from life? As a working single parent realtionships were difficult but I've always been a deviant and love sex. So I found this site and started having so great meets and making some great friends. It helped me make sense of a lot. It made me see that I am not the only one with the same outlook on sex and that I too didn't have to play by the same societal rules. I then started to go to clubs and enjoy the company and fun of other likeminded people. I knew from then I had to go forward living life in accordance with who I am (a man I didn't know as well a few years back). Then going forward I had a social meet (ended up not so social) but it was different. There was something so different that over a year on we are still together and I don't see my life with anyone other, we are just made for each other. She accepts me for all my deviance (and I her) and we are a team just as much in the club or bedroom as any other aspect of life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was moaning to a work colleague about my lack of sex life following a divorce and having watched a TV doc about swingers I mentioned that I may give it a whirl. We carried on talking and he said he and his wife were swingers (who only played with couples) and said they would take me to Partners to introduce me to the scene and their friends (some of whom played with single males) if I fancied.

So a couple of weeks later they took me, introduced me to their friends and I was hooked

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By *adlyDeeplyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

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By *adlyDeeplyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We had some friends and after drinks the girls took their bras off, got touchy and kissed.

We loved it. Soft swing developed.

We explored fetish parties and were lucky to meet some great friends, who held fetish dinner parties. Remarkably erotic..

Then we went to Cap D’Agde, mainly for the naturism. What a melting pot!

We witnessed several highly erotic scenes which ultimately led us to enjoying others fully.. in MFMF / MFF and MMF scenarios..

We would both agree what we have enjoyed has very much added to what we had. Fulfilling is the word..

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By *he fab two OP Couple
over a year ago

brentwood

"It's how we met

But that do t tell us how you got into it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use to meet couple from magazine about 25 years ago. Was also a big voyeur when very young so open minded. My sense of normal was a little warped. Remember watching a couple when I was a teenager

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also o cegave a couple lift home from South London to Southend. On the way we got chatting... Spent the night with them

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By *he fab two OP Couple
over a year ago

brentwood

Loving these stories keep them coming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alcohol and friends

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By *he fab two OP Couple
over a year ago

brentwood

"Alcohol and friends

I bet alcohol helped a lot of people’s first steps lol

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"Alcohol and friends

I bet alcohol helped a lot of people’s first steps lol "

Well we definitely greased the wheels with a couple of pints before our first swinging experiance together. In fact we had such a good time in a pub called The Alexandra we were late to the club.

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By *talian PassionMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I managed a swinger Club in Rome for some years

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Ended a relationship because of no sex and visited a singers club and loved it been swinging off and on for long time

don't stay in sex less relationships people it doesn't work out

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By *he fab two OP Couple
over a year ago

brentwood

Anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just googled it one day, I think i watched something about it on TV.

I was on another site originally and I remember my first ‘meet’. It was in a car park - I got in to her car. I played with her nipples, one was pierced. I also felt her pussy and tasted her off my fingers.

There was lots of kissing and she played with my cock too.

I then got back in my car and she said we would meet again. She showed her husband the pictures and he said she couldn’t see me again... strange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching mff porn is was got me interested in someone joining us and brought it up with my man and we came on here. He has been on here before in a previous relationship and she introduced him too it

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By *orkizCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We had not been getting on and was sleeping in separate bedrooms she went out one night with her friends round town and in the morning I was sure that someone came out of the bedroom and let themselves out of the house I asked her about it she said there wasn't anyone but by this time I was hard and said I wouldn't mind seeing her with another guy 15 years later were still swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I 've always wanted to do it from a young age (male) when met partner said it was something I would like to do she never really heard of it said she wanted to wait then we had kids and never really gave it a 2nd thought now they are older I suggested it and we went on meets and socials and love them she loves all of it now

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Thinking about it..probably watching porn together sowed the seed. Amy then watered it to add some spice..Joe being the shy but curious type decided to explore the possibilities and we both got excited decided to give it a go and have enjoyed it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thinking about it..probably watching porn together sowed the seed. Amy then watered it to add some spice..Joe being the shy but curious type decided to explore the possibilities and we both got excited decided to give it a go and have enjoyed it."

This how we come to be on here in last week exactly as above so just browsing and we don.t doubt our strenght of relationship but wonder if others once meets and fun cracks appeared or actually made stronger??????????

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By *empsey and hotpieceMan
over a year ago

North west

I (dan) did quite a few porn films before we got together. On our first date, Kim asked about it because she’d heard I’d done them, she was obviously intrigued. We started seeing each other, and within weeks , she asked if she could watch one, I asked if she was sure she wanted to watch me fucking another woman, and thought to myself, this could go terribly wrong or wonderfully. Luckily for me, she got really turned on by watching it.

We then decided to visit a club about 2 months into our relationship, and the rest is history.

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By *arnsleycpl4uCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Was on a site dean and matties got talking to a cpl wife spoke to her hubby and he said he was going to discard her knickers and cast them to one side my cock has never been so hard 20 years later still hat it xx

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By *wingsingMan
over a year ago

Berkshire/London

Went the Sex Maniacs ball. It was amazing... a feast for the senses and great fun . A tantra tent where my wife and were gently ushered in blind folded ... lots of hands and mouth explored us both ... have to say that's been really hard to beat

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"Went the Sex Maniacs ball. It was amazing... a feast for the senses and great fun . A tantra tent where my wife and were gently ushered in blind folded ... lots of hands and mouth explored us both ... have to say that's been really hard to beat"

Gosh SM ball that going back a bit unless they still run this even.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Replied to a Daily sport advert from a couple in wales way way back in the day

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By *wingsingMan
over a year ago

Berkshire/London

Gosh SM ball that going back a bit unless they still run this even. "

You are right it's going back a bit for sure .. 1997 I think... but as an initiation great

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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

"Was on a site dean and matties got talking to a cpl wife spoke to her hubby and he said he was going to discard her knickers and cast them to one side my cock has never been so hard 20 years later still hat it xx"

Dean & Matties, god that is going back a while and was one of the best in its day. Mind sad to say we go back to the days before computers and Ad Mag - a meet today was three weeks lol

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By *igjohn78Man
over a year ago

lincoln

Found fab and didn't get Very far. Then out of the blue I got a party invitation. And it just want on for their. Now a full on swinger

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By *he fab two OP Couple
over a year ago

brentwood

Sounds fantastic!!

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By *alisburycplCouple
over a year ago

Salisbury

A mates wife seduced my wife, and we went on from there!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Two years ago a nervous me walked into a swingers club and since then i have never looked back.

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Most definately stronger for us.

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By *he fab two OP Couple
over a year ago

brentwood

Most definately stronger for us."

You’d think the openness of this life should only make it stronger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging got into me first

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By *he fab two OP Couple
over a year ago

brentwood

"Swinging got into me first"

Think I know what you mean but what was your first experience

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By *xelf787Man
over a year ago

Chorlton, Manchester

I was looking for a "dating" site and came across a swingers site. Made a profile went into the chat room, started chatting. Was chatting for 6 months before I got a meet. This meet happened to be a big site meet so literally jumped in at the deep end! Met people there, had some fun with the birthday girl. Started to slowly get more meets.

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By *he fab two OP Couple
over a year ago

brentwood

Sounds good way to start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to a spa and got chatting to a swinging couple . Before I knew it I was fucking his wife .... it just progressed from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not a swinger i joined fab to have a laugh

And found it got me many sexy times win win

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By *bwmusicgeeksCouple
over a year ago

Can't remember how we quite got around to talking about it, it was around the time we were going to Amsterdam so I suppose there was some talk around going to shows etc.

Overall though we met when we were 17 with only one previous sexual partner each so still quite inexperienced in 'the ways of the world' lol neither of us had the uni life our single friends did. So that's what swinging is to us, a way to play with others that we missed out on in our early 20's, and the joy and pleasure of seeing each other pleasure others and being pleasured. We are quite picky and don't play unless we're both comfortable as it isn't worth ruining what we have as a married couple. That's not to say things have been smooth sailing, but we've done well with our communication with each other x

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By *imbo59seMan
over a year ago

North Norfolk area

Many, many, many moons ago.......the days of contact magazines, Polaroid cameras, "personal" sections of local papers, etc.

First meet was a couple (mmf)...what an eye opener!

A lot more opportunities with the internet these days, but so many fantasists, photo collectors, time wasters etc as well.

Back then, if you actually made contact then there was a good chance of a successful meet.

Happy days

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By *ewnameCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

My wife was getting fucked at work and it was a big turn on for me so I asked if I could watch her getting fucked and she said she could not ask the guy, so that was that.

Then one night in the pub chatting to a mate I told him I,d love to watch my wife getting fucked and he asked if she was up for it, I said no and never told him she was getting fucked at work.

He said I would love to fuck her if you ever talk her in to it.

So I told her and she said no way as she knew his wife but I kept at her in bed and it was turning her on more and more, so I told my mate we were talking about him fucking her when we were having sex and he said great do you think she will do it, dont know I said but start flirting with her any way.

This went on for a few weeks then one Thursday night my friend and I were in my house having a drink and the wife was out with a friend.

She came home tippsy and said what are you guys up too and I said just chatting about you and she just said to my friend has he told you he wants to watch you fuck me and he said yes and I would love to fuck you.

the phone went and the chat got changed then I said I was going up to the loo and when I came back down they were in the kitchen and my wife said well he is a good kisser so I said well why stop looks like we all want it to happen.

We went into the living room and My friend sat on the sofa and my wife stradled him and started kissing him.

I went over behind her opened her top and pulled her bra up off her big tits, he just looked and started sucking them,

she then droped to her knees and got his cock out and started to wank and suck him then they both stripped and he fucked her on the floor and sofa and we all loved it.

Within a month we had joined a swinging site and the first guy to fuck her became a reg fuck that lasted 7 years as well as the other couples and guys we have met.

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By *ranberriesWoman
over a year ago

London

A couple asked me if I met couples on a social site. They then told me about Fabswingers. So I signed up to have a peek.

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

pissed 1 night said to the mrs love to see her with another girl , talking during sex kept getting wetter and more horny , so we looked on the net booked a swinging bnb down redcar, anyway booked in both got a bit tipsy ended up in playroom she was in a ffff with 3 other fems and i was getting a bj off this woman , night was a big flash haze unreal. always soft swap for about 15 years ,anyway 1 night we met a single female the mrs played with her was awesome night she said she wanted see me fuck her so i did , the big suprize end oof night ,i already had this single man to come fuck her (we were booked into hotel) she was amazed thought i was joking and not to sure how i would take it .

the man came fucked her after he went she thought i wouldnt like it but ended up fucking all night in a frenzy

since we have made dvds of her fucking men and great and horny as we watch them later.

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By *he fab two OP Couple
over a year ago

brentwood

Great story’s

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By *oupleNeedPlus1Couple
over a year ago

Reading

He said what do you think, I said let's do it and had DP a few weeks later.

The end

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By *he fab two OP Couple
over a year ago

brentwood

"He said what do you think, I said let's do it and had DP a few weeks later.

The end

That was easy lol

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By *amesnplanesMan
over a year ago

Banbridge

Many moons ago, I was working overseas in the Far East for a well known airline. Many of my pilot buddies knew I had a string of rather attractive stewardess girlfriends.

I was invited to a colleagues flat for a bit of a social gathering - just a good excuses as I saw it for the guys to drink beer and the wives to have a good gas. Came out of the kitchen into the lounge and found it was a Roman orgy.... and then got a BJ from my colleagues wife. When in Rome as they say!

Opened Pandora's box as they say

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By *sontopMan
over a year ago

Billericay

Took some passengers to a swingers club (I'm a taxi driver) I asked them when I picked them up how to get involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years ago was dating an older woman and a party descended into a semi orgy loved it and been involved since then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The dying embers of a LTR for me, and found AFF online.. all from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my ex tried escorting she was very successful me not so much. Don’t get the money was great but hearing the stories of what she got up to was so hot. Every girl I’ve been with since I always mentioned swinger as a fantasy and I’m always amazed how many are keen to try it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh i kinda fell into it if that makes much sense. I was going out with a lass and the sex was phenomenonal i mean it was fanfuckintastic about 7 months into the relationship she randomly says i should join this site fab so obviously i asked her why yadda yadda and so on so i did started looking around and found a lass i got the horn for she was really local too lol so my gf says i should message her and see if she wants to meet up well it turns out my gf knew the lass i was chatting to and had organised the whole thing i was kinda trapped tbh and well in that situation did the only thing any guy would apparently my then gf had a kinky secret she had been using fab for weeks for spanking and domming guys for fun and well im willing to try anything once and so here i am

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By *immCouple
over a year ago

Stourport on Severn

Met young, involving a fantasy third person in our sex talks. Initially a female and then changed to a Male joining us. I was going to visit an army buddy for a weekend and whilst mrs listening to the call told my mate she wanted to come as well. I told him she can only come if she is our sex slave all weekend, he replied that he was ok with that. Mrs shocked but agreed, we spent 3 days using the mrs in every way. We have been to VA since but too shy to play with others. Looking to go in March.

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By *hisismeXXXMan
over a year ago

Welsh Wales

I've posted this previously in a thread about cross dressing. It is also my intro to swinging. Not far off 30 years ago now...

Many years ago when I was 19/20 I had a relationship with an older lady (early 30s) who told me an awful lot about sex!

One night when we played she suggested I wear her stockings for some fun which I was up for and it went from there.

We started having sex with both wearing s&s, then she bought me my own set.

Before long we'd go out together to buy matching lingerie, sets, basques etc and we'd do photo shoots etc, sending the film off to PO boxes in the back of Escort!

Eventually we'd be going out for nights out, regular vanilla nights to normal clubs, dressed normal but with matching lingerie on, knowing each others secrets.

Once or twice she went as far as making me up for a night of fun at home. I can't say I ever loved dressing and I certainly was never convincing but she found it incredibly horny and it drove her wild. That I did love!

It was on holidays in PdI that we first met a few genuine dressers on a night out and that really intrigued us both - and made us fuck like crazy back at the hotel. One of the last nights on holiday, a visit to the old yumbo centre saw one thing lead to another and ended with the most gorgeous dresser masturbating in front of us until they came over my partners feet in her sandals. That was the night I discovered I was attracted to dressers. Also, it was the night that led to our adventures involving others.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I've posted this previously in a thread about cross dressing. It is also my intro to swinging. Not far off 30 years ago now...

Many years ago when I was 19/20 I had a relationship with an older lady (early 30s) who told me an awful lot about sex!

One night when we played she suggested I wear her stockings for some fun which I was up for and it went from there.

We started having sex with both wearing s&s, then she bought me my own set.

Before long we'd go out together to buy matching lingerie, sets, basques etc and we'd do photo shoots etc, sending the film off to PO boxes in the back of Escort!

Eventually we'd be going out for nights out, regular vanilla nights to normal clubs, dressed normal but with matching lingerie on, knowing each others secrets.

As said before it was the woman who got e into threesomes who first really got me into wearing womens underwear. She also used to use make up on me sometimes. She really enjoyed m fuking with her like that even though she loved me having a beard.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Swinging is more fun than going down the slide, and the roundabout just makes me dizzy

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By *he fab two OP Couple
over a year ago

brentwood

"Me and my ex tried escorting she was very successful me not so much. Don’t get the money was great but hearing the stories of what she got up to was so hot. Every girl I’ve been with since I always mentioned swinger as a fantasy and I’m always amazed how many are keen to try it. "

Best to be open from start I guess and if they don’t share your passions and kinks prob won’t work

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By *he fab two OP Couple
over a year ago

brentwood

"Tbh i kinda fell into it if that makes much sense. I was going out with a lass and the sex was phenomenonal i mean it was fanfuckintastic about 7 months into the relationship she randomly says i should join this site fab so obviously i asked her why yadda yadda and so on so i did started looking around and found a lass i got the horn for she was really local too lol so my gf says i should message her and see if she wants to meet up well it turns out my gf knew the lass i was chatting to and had organised the whole thing i was kinda trapped tbh and well in that situation did the only thing any guy would apparently my then gf had a kinky secret she had been using fab for weeks for spanking and domming guys for fun and well im willing to try anything once and so here i am "

Are you still with her she sounds fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ironically by marketing dating websites! Then the News of the World (a contradiction if ever there was one) uncovered SH so I launched a similar website and the wife liked the idea so we got into it, we did it as a couple for 7 yrs. Sadly I am a single guy now and free to explore.

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We’re here because of L’s insatiable desire for other women.

We couldn’t be happier together and are both very sexually driven so this lifestyle really works for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined as a mate told me of it

I tried swinging as in the swap thing once since joining didnt like it im too competitive

So i am not a swinger im just a mother fucker king of 1 on 1

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Met on here as singles, carrying on as a couple

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By *istressdandsubtCouple
over a year ago

caterham

We came into it after being into bdsm for a few years, we would often get asked to participate , then one night a couple invited us to there's for a private bdsm play and wanted to go further but not the way I expected. Instead the two ladies wife incl, used there strapon s on each other's husbands wasn't the way I pictured it but was a fun night , we did play with a couple of single guys in a bi cuck bdsm mmf which wife loved . Wasn't until we were trying to find out about a certain club night that we had to join fab to get details. We were invited t9 a private party and while I was chatting to the host wifey got chatting to a couple and when I walked back into the room the hubby was fucking my wife while his wife was sitting on my wife's face , and I hadn't even been introduced to them . Funny not looked back since and it is the wife now who says it's time for a mad night how lucky am I

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By *unny_linguisticsCouple
over a year ago

South Brum

While on holiday in ibiza after being together together 3 months.

After a few too many drinks,

The GF announced she once had a 3some.

After a couple of days probing I was informed this 3 some lasted a few months.

Which happened many years earlier,

And hadn't found anyone that made her think about doing it again...

Well obviously I was a dog with a bone.

Wouldn't lef that one slip.

After lots of joking & chatting over the next year,

We finally decided to explore as a couple.

I love Ibiza

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't class myself as a swringer.... Infact I'm not even sure why I'm here

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

Joined as a couple but decided it wasn't what I wanted. Created a single profile. Have had some great times as a single.

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

20+ years ago now, I found contact magazines in a Charing Cross Road bookshop in London, then found a DVD at Erotica London. I then found A.N.Other swinging website which used to be big and whilst still going to this day has gone right downhill! I then went through two more now defunct websites until I found Fab. Made loads of friends on the other two websites though!

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By *ldestswingerintownMan
over a year ago

Lancaster

Oh the good old days of the contact mag - all those hand-written letters and the stamped self-addressed envelopes! And the vast majority of women in the mags were working girls - though I did manage to meet a lovely lady and a nice couple fromthem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something I fancied doing for years, went to a club and loved it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought im single love sex .. why not join up and push my limits see what happens

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I'd been single a very long time, my GBF set me a profile on a dating app.

Totaly niave to the perils & pitfalls of this modern online approach, I had a series of very disasterous dates.

Men who spent weeks 'wooing' me, then turned a out all they wanted was a quick shag.

I met one guy, he was the only one who was upfront enough to say so, he was also on here & told me about Fabs

I was shocked - like I said very niave, but I was curious.

I spent a few weeks looking at the forums, reading threads & realised that some of these people sounded nice, fun & honest.

I signed up...

When you look at the forums as a non member, you can't see pics or full names, but a few really stood out, their attitude, opinions & approach. I had no idea who they were then.

I can now say that several of those people have become my best friends, family even.

I can't see me ever having a 'normal 24/7' relationship again. I'd decided that long before I joined here.

From Fabs, I've made friends, sexual & platonic, a long term FWB, several others I see occasionaly.

I've learnt more about myself in the last 2yrs than I had in 2 decades.

This site has ticked a lot of boxes for me, still have a few more to tick off though

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By *adlyDeeplyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"I'd been single a very long time, my GBF set me a profile on a dating app.

Totaly niave to the perils & pitfalls of this modern online approach, I had a series of very disasterous dates.

Men who spent weeks 'wooing' me, then turned a out all they wanted was a quick shag.

I met one guy, he was the only one who was upfront enough to say so, he was also on here & told me about Fabs

I was shocked - like I said very niave, but I was curious.

I spent a few weeks looking at the forums, reading threads & realised that some of these people sounded nice, fun & honest.

I signed up...

When you look at the forums as a non member, you can't see pics or full names, but a few really stood out, their attitude, opinions & approach. I had no idea who they were then.

I can now say that several of those people have become my best friends, family even.

I can't see me ever having a 'normal 24/7' relationship again. I'd decided that long before I joined here.

From Fabs, I've made friends, sexual & platonic, a long term FWB, several others I see occasionaly.

I've learnt more about myself in the last 2yrs than I had in 2 decades.

This site has ticked a lot of boxes for me, still have a few more to tick off though

Very nice to hear that. People looking in from the outside tend to view this lifestyle with disdain but open your mind and it offers much beyond physical pleasure.

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over a year ago

Was seeing/dating a gf when we were both in late teens/early twenties, both of us very honest, open minded and tried most things we both wanted to try 1on1.

A beach hotel holiday progressed from us letting other people (mostly guys) see us (as they were sitting on their room balcony's) at it through our room balcony doors, to us doing things on our balcony, and finally us inviting guys to join us.

We started dogging when we were back home and also joined D-D's site which was the only show in town (on the net) I think back then in early 2000's.

I've been into the scene/hobby on and off when I've had the time ever since then.

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By *he fab two OP Couple
over a year ago

brentwood

"Met on here as singles, carrying on as a couple

TB"

No awkward conversation in that new relationship then lol

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By *he fab two OP Couple
over a year ago

brentwood

"We came into it after being into bdsm for a few years, we would often get asked to participate , then one night a couple invited us to there's for a private bdsm play and wanted to go further but not the way I expected. Instead the two ladies wife incl, used there strapon s on each other's husbands wasn't the way I pictured it but was a fun night , we did play with a couple of single guys in a bi cuck bdsm mmf which wife loved . Wasn't until we were trying to find out about a certain club night that we had to join fab to get details. We were invited t9 a private party and while I was chatting to the host wifey got chatting to a couple and when I walked back into the room the hubby was fucking my wife while his wife was sitting on my wife's face , and I hadn't even been introduced to them . Funny not looked back since and it is the wife now who says it's time for a mad night how lucky am I "

What a great story thank you for sharing

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By *he fab two OP Couple
over a year ago

brentwood

"I'd been single a very long time, my GBF set me a profile on a dating app.

Totaly niave to the perils & pitfalls of this modern online approach, I had a series of very disasterous dates.

Men who spent weeks 'wooing' me, then turned a out all they wanted was a quick shag.

I met one guy, he was the only one who was upfront enough to say so, he was also on here & told me about Fabs

I was shocked - like I said very niave, but I was curious.

I spent a few weeks looking at the forums, reading threads & realised that some of these people sounded nice, fun & honest.

I signed up...

When you look at the forums as a non member, you can't see pics or full names, but a few really stood out, their attitude, opinions & approach. I had no idea who they were then.

I can now say that several of those people have become my best friends, family even.

I can't see me ever having a 'normal 24/7' relationship again. I'd decided that long before I joined here.

From Fabs, I've made friends, sexual & platonic, a long term FWB, several others I see occasionaly.

I've learnt more about myself in the last 2yrs than I had in 2 decades.

This site has ticked a lot of boxes for me, still have a few more to tick off though

Very nice to hear that. People looking in from the outside tend to view this lifestyle with disdain but open your mind and it offers much beyond physical pleasure. "

Does make you wonder doesn’t it, does everyone want to try it but scared of what society thinks or are we just different to most of society

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By *he fab two OP Couple
over a year ago

brentwood

"Was seeing/dating a gf when we were both in late teens/early twenties, both of us very honest, open minded and tried most things we both wanted to try 1on1.

We started dogging when we were back home and also joined D-D's site which was the only show in town (on the net) I think back then in early 2000's.

I've been into the scene/hobby on and off when I've had the time ever since then. "

Had simelar when first met wife was in holiday and fucking in bed with curtains open and noticed 4/5 guys on balcony opposite watching us! Back then I didn’t know how she’d react so never told her but I loved it and put in a good show for them lol

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

I used to be a “shagger” according to mrs S and she invited me round on my singles profile,

Few months later and she turned me it to the swinger I am today !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't class myself as a swringer.... Infact I'm not even sure why I'm here

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like most folks because you want to be

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By *av_55Man
over a year ago

Started escorting back in 1998 with a girl I met who had broke down in my road works,

We ended up as a couple then I went as a single,

Made a mint but at same time I was losing my moral compass

Decided to hang up my escorting boots and back to my rigger boots,

Never lost the sex drive and had the attributes to make a good swinger, ,,, the rest is history so to speak,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't class myself as a swringer.... Infact I'm not even sure why I'm here

You are not alone but I know I like women and apparently they are all gagging for it on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last post said with tongue in cheek

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Of course I dont believe that

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By *he fab two OP Couple
over a year ago

brentwood

We joined to get club reviews and enjoy going clubs but don’t share with others, so does that even make us swingers or just friends of swingers lol

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