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Dignity and Respect

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By *olamarvin OP   Couple
over a year ago

corby area

When people post or reply why do they have not any dignity or respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give us an example, or some context.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people post or reply why do they have not any dignity or respect."

I’ve not used the forums long but I would say 99.9% are respectful?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people post or reply why do they have not any dignity or respect."

Sorry, I’ve not experienced it myself. Most people seem lovely.

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By *olamarvin OP   Couple
over a year ago

corby area

An example. Send us a face pic. Which you do and then blocked. Instead of a polite no. Also the cheek of post a pic without them sending one. We are not talking about the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people post or reply why do they have not any dignity or respect."

Depends on many factors:

Tone and sentiment of the initial post.

Grammar and spelling of the initial post.

If the initial poster has tits etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An example. Send us a face pic. Which you do and then blocked. Instead of a polite no. Also the cheek of post a pic without them sending one. We are not talking about the forums."

Ah, you mean messages.

Forget what I said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An example. Send us a face pic. Which you do and then blocked. Instead of a polite no. Also the cheek of post a pic without them sending one. We are not talking about the forums."

That example just seems like they're taking the easy way of saying no thanks without the awkward conversation.

Solution? Don't send pics to those who ask and haven't sent one themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people post or reply why do they have not any dignity or respect."

That will always happen in any online platform. It is frustrating but if you can’t look past it then I’d suggest moving away from online

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By *olamarvin OP   Couple
over a year ago

corby area

Or smart arse replies and clipped tone in reply. Manners cost nothing and not everyone is a woman getting thousand of messages. Re dont send a pic. Erm there has to be some interaction to try and get things moving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An example. Send us a face pic. Which you do and then blocked. Instead of a polite no. Also the cheek of post a pic without them sending one. We are not talking about the forums."

That doesn't seem very bad behavior to me. A lot of people choose to end an interaction like that rather than risk repercussions from their rejection.

I send a lot of messages with multiple face pics to women. Should I be annoyed every time one is deleted without a reply?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people post or reply why do they have not any dignity or respect."

Cause they haven’t got Deacon Blue and Aretha Franklin on their playlist ?!

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum

Its just the way it is best thing to do is ignore these people.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"When people post or reply why do they have not any dignity or respect.

Cause they haven’t got Deacon Blue and Aretha Franklin on their playlist ?! "

And today's "Reply Of The Day Award" goes to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people post or reply why do they have not any dignity or respect."

My first response to reading something like that is...they must have history or take things personal.

I've found however most are respectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you talking specifically about women, men, couples or everyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its just the way it is best thing to do is ignore these people. "

Bruce Hornsby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people post or reply why do they have not any dignity or respect.

Cause they haven’t got Deacon Blue and Aretha Franklin on their playlist ?! "

I'm a bit slow today, but I got it finally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you talking specifically about women, men, couples or everyone?"

Have you found they're different on the forums?

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By *olamarvin OP   Couple
over a year ago

corby area

If the person has sent the first message to engage the conversation.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Ok yeah it happens it doesn’t mean they don’t have manners it just means you don’t fit their preferences and to avoid an awkward conversation they just block. It’s very common on here some profiles even state it in their bio. So OP don’t take it to heart just see it as a bump in the road and move on there are loads of people out there.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Online manners etc are slightly different to in person or on the phone. It takes some getting used to.

If people are demanding things of you, you don't have to agree (although it's up to them to set their terms, you can set yours too). Delete without reply just means no thank you, and there are good reasons for this. Blocking can just stop further interaction. It's rarely personal.

I wish things were different, but unfortunately you find yourself getting burned when you try more traditional courtesy.

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