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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Think fab should put up a name and shame column for all the time wasters so other genuine people can see

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Way too open to abuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You didn't turn up to meet me.

Time waster!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It’s just a shame that people won’t meet anymore due to time wasters

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Then anyone could come on and accuse you of timewasting/not showing/general fakery.

How would anyone know it was true or not?

Then a certain scummy set of people, both male and female would force people into meets etc by using that as a potential consequence should they refuse.

Beginning to see the issue with that idea, OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 17/02/19 22:54:31]

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

So when I put you on that list because you didn't show up for the meet we arranged that will be good use of the list?

And that is why there will never be a name and shame list, and why it is against site rules - it's too easily abused and open to false claims.

Plus, even if there was one, those that had been named would just disappear and reappear with a new profile name - so a list would be pointless and irrelevant.

The *only* way to safeguard against having your time wasted is use a little common sense and do some due diligence - fakes and time wasters are mostly easily spotted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enough accusations, nonsense and mud slinging goes on in the swinging scene and on here without adding to it

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"It’s just a shame that people won’t meet anymore due to time wasters "

That's their prerogative. You can only work on your experience.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Think fab should put up a name and shame column for all the time wasters so other genuine people can see"

Where were you last night when you arranged to meet me?

See....what this could cause....mischief!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I can see your points guys just a shame abit more couldn’t be done

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I can see your points guys just a shame abit more couldn’t be done"

You need to use your judgement and work out what risks you're prepared to take.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s just a shame that people won’t meet anymore due to time wasters "

People do meet though.

There could be loads of different reasons people change their mind about meeting.

Many people jump to the conclusion that these people are time wasters.

Let's say we arranged a meet, but on the day I really wasn't feeling it (could be a number of reasons... hormones, gut rot, tired from work)

If that meet was then cancelled by me would you consider me to be a time waster, or would you think I was someone who actually DIDN'T want to waste your time by giving you notice I wasn't feeling great and wanting to meet when I was at my best rather than at 50%?

I know full well I'd not want to meet someone who wasn't really feeling it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes guys I fully understand that maybe it’s just my luck and I seem to be picking a lot ov single males on a couples profile cause it does seem strange that there’s a lot ov males when we attend a no show meet

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Yeah they should also have a spurious allegation and outright libel section too

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Arranged to meet the OP for a coffee in town, turned out to be a timewaster as he was a no show. Reported to admin" Now, can you see how easy this would be OP? You've had several examples from others on this thread too.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Think fab should put up a name and shame column for all the time wasters so other genuine people can see"

What is the definition of a time waster?. Didn't turn up due to a very genuine reason. One which you don't believe so therefore they are a time waster. No thanks. All the hard done by people ruining people's name for no reason. Neeeeeeext suggestion please. Think we're done here

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Yes guys I fully understand that maybe it’s just my luck and I seem to be picking a lot ov single males on a couples profile cause it does seem strange that there’s a lot ov males when we attend a no show meet "

Simple. Always ask to speak to the female half as well. Not rocket science really is it?..oh wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some times looking at verifications too, because there are a lot of guys on here saying they are couples I was chatting to two new couples on fab and chatted and arranged meets then you look and there profiles had been deleted

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