FabSwingers.com forum: Directing in general chat

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok so I am by no means having a rant here folks but I would like your views on directing in general chat. The rules state no directing or encourageing others to direct caoxing etc etc dee daa dee daa dee daa. So when you see a fem start to strip off and tease in general chat that then pretty much always getts some daft lads to start directing them thus resulting in the lads getting banned and the fem getts away with it every single time.

Surely directing or putting on a show via striping and teaseing etc etc should not be allowed in general chat and should just be for directing rooms only hence the name directing rooms????

Dont get me wrong I am by no means sticking up for any lads here who are foolish enough to let there dicks go to there heads and get them selfs banned from chat for directing but why is it always the lads that get told off and banned yet the fems are left to reel another one in. I am just in general chat at the moment and am anoyed to see a string of young fellas keep falling for this trick one after another.

It is of my humble opinion that the rules can be abit petty on this yet always favour the fem who knows exactly what she is doing and what is going to happen when she does it.

So my question is this. Should fems be allowed to stip and tease in general chat THUS ENCOURAGEING lads to direct them. The rules do after all say you cant encourage others to direct do they not????

As I say I am not having a rant here I am just voiceing my humble opinion on this and asking for the views of others regards this subject.

Right then cheers peeps and im going back into general chat for abit now yeah but will look fwd to reading some of your replies good or bad towards me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely as a fem you should be allowed to do whatever you feel comfortable doing... just because a girl like to show off on cam doesn't mean to say she wants a load of nobheads telling her how to do it.

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By *j_markCouple
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over a year ago

Totteridge/Whetstone

Rule 5 of chat covers this and specifically states that playing or appearing nude in non directing rooms is fine:

http://www.fabswingers.com/webchat/rules

5. Unless you're in the directing room, you can't specifically ask to be directed (told what to do) because it makes things impossible for the moderators. For clarity, "playing" and appearing on cam nude in non-directing rooms are fine but specifically asking people to direct you (tell you what to do) in those rooms is not OK and the moderators will ask you to move to the directing room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps the lady wishes to strip / tease / demonstrate how to make the perfect sponge cake without a bunch of baying hormonal idiots bombarding her with "Get Yer Tits out Love" or "Those eggs and sugar are making me cream"

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

So women need to curtail their behaviour because men overstep the mark...care to rethink that timbers?

If a woman is asking to be directed, report, if men are directing, report.

Playing in non direcing rooms is fun, and i dont see why i should stop cos some numpties cant read.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I think it isn't the playing on cam that is the problem, it is the directors who can't control their typing finger

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

The lady isnt in control of the men opening their gobs!

You cant blame the lady for that or even if it was the other way round.

The person playing on camera is responsible for themselves only. Not the people not being able to contraol their mouths

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, so how about a voyeurs and exhibitionists room then, where women and men can show off, be watched, without being directed. After all voyeurism is listed in the interests....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, so how about a voyeurs and exhibitionists room then, where women and men can show off, be watched, without being directed. After all voyeurism is listed in the interests...."

I think that's the point of the non-directing rooms. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but some people go on and show their faces, others go on and show their breakfasts!, maybe a more specific one is required for those a bit more daring but not wishing to be directed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but some people go on and show their faces, others go on and show their breakfasts!, maybe a more specific one is required for those a bit more daring but not wishing to be directed"

Ah got you, and have chat only rooms?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well lets not say chat only - some convos in 'chat' are hardly that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"but some people go on and show their faces, others go on and show their breakfasts!, maybe a more specific one is required for those a bit more daring but not wishing to be directed

Ah got you, and have chat only rooms? "

Yes chat only rooms as in general chat room so you can only do exactly what it says on the tin and chat to other people hassle free.

And na puddlefuck I dont want to re think that at all as im enjoying the different opinions and views on this so far hence the reason I posted this thread in the first place m8 to debate and thats debate without the master haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So should men be banned from wanking on cam in the non directing room just in case the woman get carried away and start directing?

A woman should be free to do as she wants on cam in any room, if men like it then compliment her, but there is no need to direct in a non directing room. Surely people can restrain themselves and enjoy the view?

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

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Anyone should be allowed to show what they want on cam as long as within site rules. The directors might find it easier to control their fingers if it were possible to only be in one chat/directing room at a time save the confusion about which room they are in?

The only exception being mods for obvious reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strangely enough I have very rarely seen a roomful of women directing a man....... must be the only place we don't tell them what to do, how to do it and to do it faster....... oh tell a fib, I did tell a guy to wank faster once ...... he ended up with third degree burns to his palm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a man should be free to do what he wants too. But people of both sexes do direct, hence the issue. A voyeurs room would be better for those that dont want/like direction, and it could have a guideline given on entry ie 'you are entering the voyeurs room. Any direction shall result in an immdiate ban to the lobby. Do you agree?' then an enter button.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So should men be banned from wanking on cam in the non directing room just in case the woman get carried away and start directing?

I personaly dont think blokes should be allowed to wank on cam either lol mind you in answer to your question tho to be fare does any one really click on wank cams? na didnt think so. General chat should be just that for chatting only all else should be in directing room. Nothing worse than trying to have a conversation with some one in general chat and half the screen is taken up with blokes trying to direct some bird whos getting her tits out and teaseing them and then also some bloke saying things like I got a big cock on cam now anyone want to watch me wank. Its like erm excuse me this is a chat room try strikeing up a coinversation with some one then you may get meets instead of having to wank off on cam to strangers probarbly blimmin miles away who will never meet in person

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

good point timber but as long as its within the site rules its ok ,but if the fem/cpl start doing things the directers ask for they get the same warning asked to move rooms if they dont they get exactly the same ban if needed . i find this mostly with newbies who join and say jump in feet fust and dont read site rules .tell you whats cany when you see a room reg try to keep them within the rules .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand this rule, but at the same time if directing is banned so as to stop the text filling up with comments like 'get your tits out!' etc then why isn't also something being done to curtail the endless hellos and goodbyes xxxxx that seem to fill more than half of the comments. It's not easy to follow the chat as it is, you get 20 seconds to read what is being said before it disappears off the screen and can no longer be read. Seems kinda pointless to fill the chat up with such things as it makes it harder to have a real, intelligent conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can understand this rule, but at the same time if directing is banned so as to stop the text filling up with comments like 'get your tits out!' etc then why isn't also something being done to curtail the endless hellos and goodbyes xxxxx that seem to fill more than half of the comments. It's not easy to follow the chat as it is, you get 20 seconds to read what is being said before it disappears off the screen and can no longer be read. Seems kinda pointless to fill the chat up with such things as it makes it harder to have a real, intelligent conversation."

Sometimes it feels like can't do right for doing wrong.

Don't say hello goodbye you get accusations of the room not being friendly.

Say hello goodbye and it's a waste of space?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh how i know that feeling laine

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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lol

So a no teasing/ playing/ saying hello/ saying goodbye room ?

Any other additions to the title of a new room ? The title could end up huge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ummm sorry, but the whole point of not allowing directing in the chat rooms is to stop it filling up with mindless comments. Not saying there is anything wrong with saying hello and good bye but sometimes the whole page is just filled with person 1 xxxx, person 2 xxxx, etc.. and it distracts a lot from having an interesting conversation.

Why is this not a fair point to bring up?

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By *herry n JonesyCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire / Leicester

"Ummm sorry, but the whole point of not allowing directing in the chat rooms is to stop it filling up with mindless comments. Not saying there is anything wrong with saying hello and good bye but sometimes the whole page is just filled with person 1 xxxx, person 2 xxxx, etc.. and it distracts a lot from having an interesting conversation.

Why is this not a fair point to bring up?"

The general chat room is full of mindless and unimaginative comments from the guys should there be a woman on cam. However, sometimes the room is showing someone as being in the room and on cam when they actually aren't.

I know this has happened on a number of occasions when the person/people have been putting on a show.

It is possible to have proper conversations in the room - I've managed it on a number of occasions even when there have been people on cam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not easy to follow the chat as it is, you get 20 seconds to read what is being said before it disappears off the screen and can no longer be read. Seems kinda pointless to fill the chat up with such things as it makes it harder to have a real, intelligent conversation.

See this from a mods point of view.

A mod has to monitor all, not just their own conversations, watch cams for anything that shouldn't be there, listen to convo's on said cams for directing. And watch out for directing, abuse, spamming, addy's, phone numbers, pop up the rules as a warning etc. etc. in the rooms....

All in same said 20 seconds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got blocked from going on there just for saying "nice arse!" In what way is that directing? Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got blocked from going on there just for saying "nice arse!" In what way is that directing? Haha "

I've had to stop myself from saying things on occasion that I would not consider to be directing but could be construed as such.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"So should men be banned from wanking on cam in the non directing room just in case the woman get carried away and start directing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol

So a no teasing/ playing/ saying hello/ saying goodbye room ?

Any other additions to the title of a new room ? The title could end up huge

Has a title for some new rooms .... male only wanking room... female masterbater room and a couple fuck fest room ... apply with in please

lol

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

how about the lonely room if ya naughty ya get a room to ya self

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Dear OP

I have pretty much said the same in the past.

It’s easy enough to ignore the directors in one of the directing rooms, but for some reason they want to stand out in general chat.

I’ve seen it where they encourage guys to comment bordering on provocation and entrapment even…. and OP you are right… it’s only ever the poor saps who fall for it who suffer the consequences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the idea of the general chat room is that women can go on cam and do what they like without having guys going on at them, lots of women are ok getting their boobs out but get pissed off at guys always trying to push they to show more

Saying that i think general chat isnt the right name, maybe none directing room would be better

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

i am confused directing rooms 1 through 5 why do you need to direct in chat rooms no need to overcomplicate things directing and non directing rooms as it is now perhaps raise the ban time if caught directing in non directing rooms would solve it

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

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Let’s face it… when a woman is laying flat on her back holding one boob up to her mouth and flicking the bean with her other hand, she’s not reading what people are typing. So actually there’s no reason for her not to be in a directing room, she’s hardly going to be put off by the directors when she’d need binoculars to read the screen and doesn’t have a hand free to hold them anyway.

The only downside I can see for her is when she pauses and comes back to her keyboard to ‘ask’ for comments, she won’t know it was all for her if she was in a directing room with other exhibitionists.

So it would seem to be a sensible suggestion to rename one of the directing rooms and keep general chat for… well ermmm as the name suggests, general chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Directing in general chat rooms spoil it for most people, the people getting the tits gash and willys out should be banned too as they love the attention and know its wrong to direct in thete and should rollock the directors. I only know of one mod who would ban the people causing directing too and rightly so, gggrrr winds me up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking along the ideas of MsSticky though .... if everyone entering a chatroom had to click a button agreeing they had read the rules and will abide by them, puts the onus firmly on the individual. So automatic ban if they don't abide by them and no argument or pleading they didn't know/weren't sure of the rules.

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