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By *heffcouple09 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield

I know this is a sex site but jesus christ how hard is it to actually have a conversation with anyone!!

We're looking for friendship within the scene and if there's any play then it's an added bonus.

Is there anybody out there that can hold a decent conversation?? Lol

Bruce xx

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

If you want a pen pal, write to prison

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know exactly what you mean, anoying isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different people use the site for different things...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very true lily

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By *ig Chris75Man
over a year ago

Sandbach

I absolutely agree with the OP.

For me there has to be some cerebral connection as well as physical - it can be difficult to find people willing to respond in more than single syllables...

Sadly I don't venture to Sheffield much... but happy to chat...

They are out there... somewhere... keep trying....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this is a sex site but jesus christ how hard is it to actually have a conversation with anyone!!

We're looking for friendship within the scene and if there's any play then it's an added bonus.

Is there anybody out there that can hold a decent conversation?? Lol

Bruce xx"

I will be honest I get tongue tied on here and sometimes find it difficult in chat rooms and don’t know what to say But I find it easier to chat f2f. Strange but true. But will be polite and not pushy but if you’re gentle with me I warm up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All bout making freinds and connecting,

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We came to the conclusion long ago that very few people genuinely want to chat, hence we use the forum.

It's much easier face to face which is why organised socials are successful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have put alot of time and effort cultivating friendships on here and have made great fun friends.

But it takes alot of time and energy to find those that love the whole friendship as well as the fun side of things.

We have friends up and down the country now that swing and it's great x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've noticed this too. We made reference to looking for something specifically like this but judging by the messages received since we changed the profile, it looks likely they're not reading that bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo do like face to face tex is terrible for being misunderstood, im always happy to make new freinds it dosnt always have to be sexual

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I know this is a sex site but jesus christ how hard is it to actually have a conversation with anyone!!

We're looking for friendship within the scene and if there's any play then it's an added bonus.

Is there anybody out there that can hold a decent conversation?? Lol

Bruce xx"

I would like to think that I can hold a decent conversation. It's good to find others who can do the same. I enjoy the company of people who are intelligent and have a good snse of humour. I have had the pleasure of meeting quite a lot, sadly I have met some others who I can't say the same of. Hey ho, there you go, part of the risk of the scene.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"We've noticed this too. We made reference to looking for something specifically like this but judging by the messages received since we changed the profile, it looks likely they're not reading that bit "

I have techie friend, always a useful person to know. One of his favourite responses is RTFM, (Read The Fucking Manual). We have played together in the past and I discussed the problem you describe. He suggested the letters RTFP, Read The Fucking Profile, I find it has worked for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok night all happy to chat and be freinds feel free to add or message night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We came to the conclusion long ago that very few people genuinely want to chat, hence we use the forum.

It's much easier face to face which is why organised socials are successful."

some of us are not so confident in face to face encounters or chat i am nearly 60 but find such things awkward and difficult especially to the opposite sex i am looking for friends though (hi from st.leonards btw)

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By *innypopsCouple
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Absolutely agree OP, there are some conversationalist here, have no fear!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you want a pen pal, write to prison "

You forgot “and get your tits out”

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We came to the conclusion long ago that very few people genuinely want to chat, hence we use the forum.

It's much easier face to face which is why organised socials are successful.

some of us are not so confident in face to face encounters or chat i am nearly 60 but find such things awkward and difficult especially to the opposite sex i am looking for friends though (hi from st.leonards btw)"

I understand that it can be awkward. In general though the people who contact us asking if we fancy a chat actually mean do we fancy meeting them next week after asking how we are twice .

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By *HEFFUN78Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield

The thing that drives us mad is couples talking to us then just wanting to meet bec,bore the fuck off...much prefer clubs when we get the time .

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"If you want a pen pal, write to prison

You forgot “and get your tits out” "

I see you have and very nice too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd suggest maybe organise some non-sex fun day outs with others and see who you click with naturally. Friendship and stimulating conversation will then just happen.

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

You have a good point, I get LOADS of "Hi, can we meet" and " will you cum to my house now" type of messages . I will never meet without plenty of chat and a vanilla meet for a coffee.

And i can only assume that you get LOADS more requests than me x x

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Generally conversation doesn't work out very well on here because most blokes have already set the agenda for which direction they'd like it to take.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"We came to the conclusion long ago that very few people genuinely want to chat, hence we use the forum.

It's much easier face to face which is why organised socials are successful."

Indeed they are, attended one in Plymouth Saturday night and met some lovely new people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've noticed this too. We made reference to looking for something specifically like this but judging by the messages received since we changed the profile, it looks likely they're not reading that bit

I have techie friend, always a useful person to know. One of his favourite responses is RTFM, (Read The Fucking Manual). We have played together in the past and I discussed the problem you describe. He suggested the letters RTFP, Read The Fucking Profile, I find it has worked for me."

Omg! Brilliant I'm so going to use this! Give him a kiss from me!

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By *lsieWoman
over a year ago

where ever


"I know this is a sex site but jesus christ how hard is it to actually have a conversation with anyone!!

We're looking for friendship within the scene and if there's any play then it's an added bonus.

Is there anybody out there that can hold a decent conversation?? Lol

Bruce xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have made a good friend on Fab with no plans to have a meet but we still have a lot of fun with our banter.

We both enjoy the friendship with no thought of a meet in mind

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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If they can’t or won’t chat then we can’t cant meet. Do what suits you obviously but it would do nothing for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to chat. Online or in person can both be great if both people are making the effort.

I'm in Manchester but have seen a few Sheffield people I'd be interested to meet for a social (hello Exquisite Deviance, I'm looking at you!). Maybe we could arrange something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this is a sex site but jesus christ how hard is it to actually have a conversation with anyone!!

We're looking for friendship within the scene and if there's any play then it's an added bonus.

Is there anybody out there that can hold a decent conversation?? Lol

Bruce xx"

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had lots of conversations from the site. We normally end up on Kik or what’s app and arrange a social from there. No complaints here.

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