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Friendship and regular contact or Fuck and Go?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ooops

Now space to write you will about the title

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both work for us

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

It depends what you mean by regular.

I would go for friendship and regular contact out of the two options

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By *andys manMan
over a year ago

colchester

Friendship and regular contact is a big plus but sometimes a fuck and go works if it suits needs

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By *perm nurseTV/TS
over a year ago

colchester

Certainly not go x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck and go

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Friendship and regular contact. A relationship is my goal. Watching this with interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Friendship and regular contact. A relationship is my goal. Watching this with interest. "
xxx

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By *ancsmancsMan
over a year ago

Skipton

Friendship and contact, F&G sounds to mechanical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular and friendship bit of company few laughs and giggles . Definitely makes the sex better x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interesting... wish I hadn’t deleted my original post...

I was worried I would get beaten for my choice which is friendship and fun...

Mrs P x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck and go "

I like your style x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting... wish I hadn’t deleted my original post...

I was worried I would get beaten for my choice which is friendship and fun...

Mrs P x"

It's ur choice huni ... some prefer a fuck and go . I'm not one of them . Prefer having kisses and cuddles as it's all part of sex x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

both as depends on what i feel like on the day ... but regular is good as long as its fun and sexual as soon as clingy or emotional stuff starts then its goodbyeeee

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Interesting... wish I hadn’t deleted my original post...

I was worried I would get beaten for my choice which is friendship and fun...

Mrs P x

It's ur choice huni ... some prefer a fuck and go . I'm not one of them . Prefer having kisses and cuddles as it's all part of sex x"

Thanks babes.

I totally get that 95% of the men on here want to smell the sex then just grab the fun with both hands literally.

We’ve noticed a dramatic drop in messages since we’ve highlighted exactly what we want. I guess we’re just reducing timewasting in long run for everyone involved.

Personally I think the more I get to know a guy, the better the sex. And we want a regular RELIABLE, hot, mature, intelligent, well hung unicorn (as they are so hard to find) to become a regular play mate....

Seems we’re searching and searching...,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go"

Lol... no Fuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy the social side so friendship is good. I have found that keeping in contact following an initial meet leads to both parties enjoying and fulfilling fantasies. The build up to the meet can often be as much fun as the meet with the right people x

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Hopefully the first contact is good enough to make both want to do it again, it’s also good to explore what you both like and you can’t really do that with one fuck and go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friendship and regular is good for me. I like to get to know people and have a laugh and then whatever fun we both want. Makes it more relaxed and natural.

But sometimes you just want to fuck lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely the former.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friendship definitely

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Friendship and regular x

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Regular meets with an element of friendship suits me.

If that's daily chat or just a message every few days I don't mind but I find if there's no chat between meets the chemistry evaporates for me. A message once a month to arrange a meet isn't enough to keep my interest

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By *ottielouWoman
over a year ago

Come and see x

Can't you have both? x

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Regular friendship anytime over fuck and go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting... wish I hadn’t deleted my original post...

I was worried I would get beaten for my choice which is friendship and fun...

Mrs P x

It's ur choice huni ... some prefer a fuck and go . I'm not one of them . Prefer having kisses and cuddles as it's all part of sex x

Thanks babes.

I totally get that 95% of the men on here want to smell the sex then just grab the fun with both hands literally.

We’ve noticed a dramatic drop in messages since we’ve highlighted exactly what we want. I guess we’re just reducing timewasting in long run for everyone involved.

Personally I think the more I get to know a guy, the better the sex. And we want a regular RELIABLE, hot, mature, intelligent, well hung unicorn (as they are so hard to find) to become a regular play mate....

Seems we’re searching and searching...,"

I'm one of the 5% then. Not looking for a relationship but connection makes the sex so much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friendship and regular contact woupd be my choice x things improve each time xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friendship and regular. Would be ideal. But finding that one guy seems harder than I thought.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Friendship and regular. Would be ideal. But finding that one guy seems harder than I thought. "

There’s loads of guys out there!

Unless you’re looking for someone who’s not a complete bell-end, then there’s about 3 of us

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By *evnorMan
over a year ago

normanton

You shouldn't be swayed by others my opinion is mine and I won't be swayed by anyone. Don't like people trying to force their opinion on others. Friendship and fun for me too

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By *eachPreacherMan
over a year ago

Kent/London

F+G is my preference for most meets, but if we were of a similar age and had lots in common I wouldn't say no to something long term

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

All depends on the situation. Bu I'm a friendly kind of a person, so I'd prefer friendships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friendship and regular fun nothing like having good friends and cracking time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind fucking and going in a regular basis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always the friendship as well as the play for us as we feel over time we develop the friendship and the sexual knowledge of our other play partners which we find just gets better and better. Male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't you have both? x"

Yes.

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By *sm81Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

Would prefer friendship and regular contact as I think the sex would just get better

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Friends for me too. There are even a few people that are friends without the fun. I've found the fun gets better as you get more comfortable with each other, and it's nice to have someone to just chill with

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I have a relationship with my hubby, so for me meeting others it's always fuck and go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either for us. But would prefer a long-standing guy to develop the relationship to its full potential.

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Either/or. Not looking for another LTR at the moment since I am fairly recently out of a rather stifling one and feel like I could do with spreading my wings again before getting too deep into anything. By the same token if the sex is good and we get on well, I don't see why a regular friendship can be entered into. It wouldn't be the first time I've had a ONS that's gone on to semi-regular booty calls...

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By *lackduffyMan
over a year ago

london

Both depends on the couple or female. That being said, I lean a lot more towards regular select lucky few .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a few fuck and go meets, but I have had more with couples/females that have become regular and friends. Couples have been between 3-8 years, single females usually around a year. All nsa, no romance or involvement other than the sex. Occasionally a meal in or out as friends. Regular could be weekly or monthly depending on commitments elsewhere.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I used to only do group fuck and go... now exploring the other. Like both for different reasons x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular and friendship. Trust builds room for more daring scenarios x

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

Regular and friendship for me. I’m not very confident sexually so the better I know someone, the more adventurous I become and with the right person, the sky’s the limit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a friendship... but have done the other too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done both.

Yet there's a fortune in friendship...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer to get to know them and what they like, and vice versa. How else will you have amazing sex. I love a cuddle and kiss as well

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

I would prefer friends and regular contact

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

I have discovered a wealth of good friends on here as a result of attending socials. Yes some i have had sex with but most not. That does not stop us going to the cinima or out for a pint and loads more. Real friends. Its been a revolation to me.

Sex with strangers, one off, has its excitments but sex with people you actually know can be fantastic. Just being good friends with people your not sleeping with but can chat about Anything with is fantastic.

I am open to either but not sure you can have too many Real Friends so is some of them also enjoy good sex than bonus!!

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer regular contact and meeting friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We prefer regular contact and meeting friends "

Regular please

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By *LawMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Whatever works. Id prefer a regular.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I used to be a big fan of the fuck and go, but I've recently changed my opinion.

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

A mixture between the two is ideal

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Friendship makes the whole package good

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By *hoenix CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northallerton

Tit spunk and go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friendship and regular contact for us too. Otherwise why spend weeks/months getting to know someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friendship and regular with someone who doesn't mind fuck and go when time only allows for that

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire


"Friendship and regular with someone who doesn't mind fuck and go when time only allows for that"

Yep thats it. Mind you friends who can direct you out of the Carpark helps. Lol. Hope your well brother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Friendship makes the whole package good "

This

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Happy for either, but friendship is always welcome.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Always happy for new friends

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By *read locMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

A regular fuck and go

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Fuck and go is always a really big turn on for me, but some guys we have bumped into a few times and have become friends and repeat fucks.

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Regular is best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friendship with sex is always good and makes things more comfortable, however the occasional fuck and go is fun

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