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By *aucyred3187 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Fgs once again I was at a club last night and another guy trying to get away with going bareback. I asked him before he put it in have you got a condom on? His response was “do I need to?” Uh yes it’s in the rules, I don’t know where you’ve been! Everytime I go there’s always one or two blokes trying it on and it really annoys me!!! *end rant*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might need a club buddy to start watching out for you....

This is disgusting behavior....

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"You might need a club buddy to start watching out for you....

This is disgusting behavior...."

No, what the lady needs is for those stupid, arrogant men to have more respect...

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By *aucyred3187 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I have a couple of club buddies who do look out for me, thankfully but i’m quite good at sorting myself out. Guys just need to stop thinking it’s ok to just go ahead and thrust away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done you... Why not suggest that he (they) indulge in penetration 'bare back'...?

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

If I’m playing like that I always make a little show of getting a condom on or even better they help me put

It on with me.

Takes the whole awkwardness out of it. Helps everybody relax I find.

Abhorrent behaviour to try that.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

That’s dreadful...you shouldn’t even have to ask. Some men are just asking to have their ears boxed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fgs once again I was at a club last night and another guy trying to get away with going bareback. I asked him before he put it in have you got a condom on? His response was “do I need to?” Uh yes it’s in the rules, I don’t know where you’ve been! Everytime I go there’s always one or two blokes trying it on and it really annoys me!!! *end rant* "

Report to the club OP

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

What rules though? The club can't possibly know whether we choose bareback or protection, the rules are all personal rules in my belief.

I make sure I have a check for myself there is a condom on a cock that is going to go inside me.

Not everybody feels the same or goes about those things the same way, so I feel it's down to me to make sure as best I can but I will still be happy that I checked everything was her I wanted it to be in hindsight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s this type of thing that puts me off trying a club

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Of course, if there is a club that has a rule about safe, protected sex only that is fabulous and in this case absolutely report to the club.

I just was unaware that any clubs operated like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having never been to a club is there someone you can report him to and have removed from the club

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Unfortunately this is why I rarely go to clubs without a male friend. You never know when someone isn't going to respect you like that, and sadly they do respect a male "keeper".

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Having never been to a club is there someone you can report him to and have removed from the club"

Not at that point, unfortunately. If he'd persisted, maybe.

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By *iway2016Man
over a year ago

The CF post code


"You might need a club buddy to start watching out for you....

This is disgusting behavior....

No, what the lady needs is for those stupid, arrogant men to have more respect..."

Whilst I agree with you completely we all know that's never going to happen. An unfortunate fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good French letters everyone

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By *ommyxyzMan
over a year ago

harlow


"That’s dreadful...you shouldn’t even have to ask. Some men are just asking to have their ears boxed."

ears boxed!! I wish you were my teacher, what a great saying

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By *lick9Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Yes unfortunately I have to condom watch for my Mrs as there are guys who get there cock out ready to fuck and then look surprised when you ask have you got a condom on and I have a visual check. Maybe they have seen me fuck her without but she is my Mrs. I think you should always assume its protected sex unless the woman tells you otherwise then its your choice which way you play

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP did you still fuck him?

The reason I ask is if these guys try it on but in the end still get their dick wet they will never behave any differently. If we refuse to fuck them then maybe they will learn to have some respect for us!

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton


"Yes unfortunately I have to condom watch for my Mrs as there are guys who get there cock out ready to fuck and then look surprised when you ask have you got a condom on and I have a visual check. Maybe they have seen me fuck her without but she is my Mrs. I think you should always assume its protected sex unless the woman tells you otherwise then its your choice which way you play "

I do the same for Jill especially in a group play , surprising how many guys say oh I forgot mine does any one have one ? I even caught one guy out trying to put a used one on off the floor , He must of thought my eyes were fucking glued shut as he was promptly shown the door .

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By *aucyred3187 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle


"OP did you still fuck him?

The reason I ask is if these guys try it on but in the end still get their dick wet they will never behave any differently. If we refuse to fuck them then maybe they will learn to have some respect for us! "

No I didn’t! I stormed out of there and told him, no condom, no play

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"OP did you still fuck him?

The reason I ask is if these guys try it on but in the end still get their dick wet they will never behave any differently. If we refuse to fuck them then maybe they will learn to have some respect for us!

No I didn’t! I stormed out of there and told him, no condom, no play "

Good for you. That's exactly what I would do too. Maybe he might learn from it !

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"Yes unfortunately I have to condom watch for my Mrs as there are guys who get there cock out ready to fuck and then look surprised when you ask have you got a condom on and I have a visual check. Maybe they have seen me fuck her without but she is my Mrs. I think you should always assume its protected sex unless the woman tells you otherwise then its your choice which way you play

I do the same for Jill especially in a group play , surprising how many guys say oh I forgot mine does any one have one ? I even caught one guy out trying to put a used one on off the floor , He must of thought my eyes were fucking glued shut as he was promptly shown the door . "

Gakkkkk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes unfortunately I have to condom watch for my Mrs as there are guys who get there cock out ready to fuck and then look surprised when you ask have you got a condom on and I have a visual check. Maybe they have seen me fuck her without but she is my Mrs. I think you should always assume its protected sex unless the woman tells you otherwise then its your choice which way you play

I do the same for Jill especially in a group play , surprising how many guys say oh I forgot mine does any one have one ? I even caught one guy out trying to put a used one on off the floor , He must of thought my eyes were fucking glued shut as he was promptly shown the door . "

That guy is disgusting eww

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"OP did you still fuck him?

The reason I ask is if these guys try it on but in the end still get their dick wet they will never behave any differently. If we refuse to fuck them then maybe they will learn to have some respect for us!

No I didn’t! I stormed out of there and told him, no condom, no play "

Exactly what I would do!

I do this with both club and private meets. I always have condoms we could use but that's not the point. To turn up without them shows an expectation of bareback in my opinion and a lack of consideration and respect for any play partners.

There is no excuse, particularly in clubs. They are either available free or at low cost from the club.

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton


"Yes unfortunately I have to condom watch for my Mrs as there are guys who get there cock out ready to fuck and then look surprised when you ask have you got a condom on and I have a visual check. Maybe they have seen me fuck her without but she is my Mrs. I think you should always assume its protected sex unless the woman tells you otherwise then its your choice which way you play

I do the same for Jill especially in a group play , surprising how many guys say oh I forgot mine does any one have one ? I even caught one guy out trying to put a used one on off the floor , He must of thought my eyes were fucking glued shut as he was promptly shown the door .

That guy is disgusting eww"

Exactly no self respect or any for anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that’s actually criminal! No one has the right to play with your sexual health like that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What rules though? The club can't possibly know whether we choose bareback or protection, the rules are all personal rules in my belief.

I make sure I have a check for myself there is a condom on a cock that is going to go inside me.

Not everybody feels the same or goes about those things the same way, so I feel it's down to me to make sure as best I can but I will still be happy that I checked everything was her I wanted it to be in hindsight"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always use my own condoms as I don't trust anyone else's. So I always hand them one before they get too close.

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