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By *annic OP   Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes

Hi

Can you please offer some advise as to which to try we haven't been to either before and are a bit nervious

We don't want the pressure to play with others if we don't like them without the atmos changing at a party if we have turned down a cpl and the thought of men following around all night doesn't appeal either

Any advise would be greatly received

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs are going to be easier, you may decide on a party but then you have to find a invite

Guys only follow you around in clubs if you let them, i use clubs a lot if i get any unwanted attention i just tell them to leave me alone, it works for most as most want to play not follow someone around who has no interest in them, plus you can always go on a couples night most club have them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally think you would be better in a club situation

Its a little more anonymous than a house party and you dont even have to engage in conversations, never mind play if you dont want to good luck whatever you decide xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a club on a sat night (most are no single guys) like Liberty Elite or Vanilla Alternative which are 2 close-ish to you.

Both are well run establishments, you can do as much or as little as you like. Play with each other, and just watch others.. if theres others there, that float your boats, just get chatting.

Turning people down is part and parcel of it.. you'll have to get used to it sooner of later. 3 simple words. "No Thank You".

If you dont like people you can be social, friendly, but stand off-ish as usually body language works wonders, you can tell if people like you and it's reciprocated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turning people down is part and parcel of it.. you'll have to get used to it sooner of later. 3 simple words. "No Thank You". "

But just remember as not everyoens going to be for you, your not going to be for everyone so you have to be thicked skinned if the words 'no thank you' are being said to you

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By *annic OP   Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes

Thanks a lot guys the club looks like the way forward

We can say no thanks done it before however some people can't take no for an answer

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

Miss Blonde was right on the money, both of those clubs would be ideal for you on a Saturday night.

There are no single men wandering round and couples at both of those venues stay and play together, plus the design of the venues suits first timers very well. Everything is not in your face as it were so its easy to take things at your own pace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vanilla Alternative,

enough said.

Next, the doctor will see you now.

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