FabSwingers.com forum: Have you met someone without a face photo?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m nosey... Has anyone here ever met someone without seeing their face photo?

And what was the outcome - surprised or horrified?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Met a pleasant, chatty lady for social coffee, shortly after I joined. She left my first veri.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not on here but I did on a dating site. Was a pleasant surprise x

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Quite a few times for dogging meets and it was always fine and dandy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet without a photo swap but have met plenty of blokes over the years who look nothing like their photos

A quick video chat on kik is better for checking someone out I have learnt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes met quite a few couples and single females without a face photo and enjoyed meeting them all, it’s not always about looks it’s about meeting people and having lots of hot sexy fun, a lot of couples and singles don’t put their photos on for there own privacy and you have to respect that if they feel comfortable with you they will send a face photo.

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By *ir Phineas Lucius AshbyMan
over a year ago

nr Chester NW

Yesive meet up with a few couples

And they were a professional couples worried about there job and people finding out but all worked out well

Since meet up a few times in hotels room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not for me. I wouldn't no what to say if they were nothing like what they said

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Nope and never would.

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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury

Yes I have a few times, but always on the basis that I can politely say "sorry you're not for me".

But on most occasions I have been pleasantly surprised by what I saw. It all adds to the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, 99.9 % of my meets are without me seeing a face pic or any pic.

All have worked out ok

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By *corpio67Man
over a year ago

hillingdon

"No not for me. I wouldn't no what to say if they were nothing like what they said"

Thanks but no thanks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope and never will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope and wouldn’t

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Yes a few times never been disappointed yet

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By *illie99TV/TS
over a year ago

Central Scotland

I have face pics, but then I normally look nothing like them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and wouldn’t do it again.

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

No! Face is sexist part for us.

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

I met someone without a face once,couldn't look them in the eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m nosey... Has anyone here ever met someone without seeing their face photo?

And what was the outcome - surprised or horrified?"

Horrified, yeah he was fit, but also my nephews best friend

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By *rs Myvanwy Scarlet-BlackTV/TS
over a year ago

Darlaston

Yes I've meet a few with out profile pics eather dogging or at a club some I've played with and some I've turned down as they don't measure up etc and just know they had not read my profile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met one without seeing his face. But it was to live out a fantasy... I met him many times after that, but still never saw his face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m nosey... Has anyone here ever met someone without seeing their face photo?

And what was the outcome - surprised or horrified?

Horrified, yeah he was fit, but also my nephews best friend

Hilarious

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By *ennilee888TV/TS
over a year ago

bournemouth/London

I personally wouldn't. I would like to see who I would be meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m nosey... Has anyone here ever met someone without seeing their face photo?

And what was the outcome - surprised or horrified?

Horrified, yeah he was fit, but also my nephews best friend

Hilarious

But amazing sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems by most of the answers men will meet and ladies would not.

And answer yes I have once. But we chatted on the phone for a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few, some hit some miss .

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

Yes and have often been pleasantly surprised. I can understand that some are nervous about sharing a face pic because of personal circumstances. I haven’t met anyone who looks like Shrek yet lol but even if I had it's not the end of the world

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By *rJackMrsDanielsCouple
over a year ago

norton

No but we would, obviously we would have to have an attraction with them but it’s definitely deeper than that for us, the connection is much more about the mind and them being on the same page as us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time is too precious to take the risk of a wasted night...

I'd always want to check there was mutual physical attraction before meeting. Last time I met someone without seeing a photo was in 1994.

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By *oandjohnCouple
over a year ago

South Wales, will travel to Hereford, Worcestershire and Shropshire

We normally on meet at parties or clubs... we don’t dish out face pictures and we don’t ask for them

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

Hell no.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Not a chance.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Yes a handful of times for socials, they all worked out well.

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By *ichmond GentMan
over a year ago

Richmond Upon Thames

Yes i have in the past a couple of times going of their profile description. Would i do it again very possibly not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and I wouldn't. Attraction is an all round thing and haven't got time to go for hundreds of socials.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"I wouldn't meet without a photo swap but have met plenty of blokes over the years who look nothing like their photos

A quick video chat on kik is better for checking someone out I have learnt."
Exactly this...

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By *ndyandMandyCouple
over a year ago

swansea

Did once

Not the prettiest and smelt strongly of bo

I said ty but no ty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes and have often been pleasantly surprised. I can understand that some are nervous about sharing a face pic because of personal circumstances. I haven’t met anyone who looks like Shrek yet lol but even if I had it's not the end of the world"

That is because a guy will generally fuck a thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is because a guy will generally fuck a thing

Anything! Lol

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By *igs72Man
over a year ago

motherwell

Yeah have met a few times with no face pic. Sometimes can make the sex better if you keep faces private even during

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes at the glory hole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes at the glory hole "

Ah but that is a whole different ball game

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By *ream3.14159Man
over a year ago

Here & there

Yes on few occasions, most were spontaneous meets and can't remember any that were horrifying and few I was pleasantly surprised and past my expectations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope and never

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By *lick9Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Yes my second meet was totally blind. I had a chat with hubby over the phone and he told me I would not be disappointed. When I turned up to their house and saw his Mrs, well my jaw hit the ground. She was stunning.

I have also had the opposite and been told I would not be disappointed and when I saw her, I was. I now need to see face and or body pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One too many times and usually with consequences of not being attracted to them!

For this very good reason we now insist on face photos as this is not blind date.

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By *ancardiff7Man
over a year ago

Near Cowbridge

Yes plenty of times back in the MSN and Yahoo chat days when hardly anyone had a pic. Luckily all described themselves accurately

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

No never,and never would.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We've met people without recent face photos. We didn't realise that until someone about twenty years older turned up though

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By *aughtybutniceBBWWoman
over a year ago

The County of Northamptonshire

Never and I wouldn’t

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

Not sure why anyone would meet someone without seeing their face?

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By *76498Man
over a year ago

Polesworth

If you arrange to meet someone from this site your lucky if they bother to turn up!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure why anyone would meet someone without seeing their face?"

+1000 with technology as it is now....

There is no need to meet someone without seeing their face....

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

I've had mmfs arranged for me and a blindfolded meet once, so technically yes lol.

I was actually attracted to all of them.

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By *R and BlondieCouple
over a year ago

Bebington, wirral

At least 4 times we have met blind dates but did stipulate socials only and very pleasantly surprised each time, didn't end up just socials on more than one occaision

And would do again

for socials

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"At least 4 times we have met blind dates but did stipulate socials only and very pleasantly surprised each time, didn't end up just socials on more than one occaision

And would do again

for socials"

I have taken this view a few times, I have to say it has always worked out alright

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes met quite a few couples and single females without a face photo and enjoyed meeting them all, it’s not always about looks it’s about meeting people and having lots of hot sexy fun, a lot of couples and singles don’t put their photos on for there own privacy and you have to respect that if they feel comfortable with you they will send a face photo. "

I’m not sure I understand this. The part where you say “it’s not always about looks it’s about meeting people and having lots of hot sexy fun”

What do you mean? You’d have sex with anyone regardless of how they look? Genuine question

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Seems like a bag of mixed replies in here. I’ve met people without photos in the past. I’d say 90% of the time I’ve been disappointed and have had to say “no thanks”. So now I won’t meet without a photo.

I’ve also noticed that people who confidently claim “you won’t be disappointed” (common phrase) tend to be the least attractive. It’s odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, and nothing has ever gone past a social. Never again.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Not sure why anyone would meet someone without seeing their face?

+1000 with technology as it is now....

There is no need to meet someone without seeing their face.... "

Real talk. They could be literally anyone

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Never have, never will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back in the day when I was using IRC yes.

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