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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

do you look for people that live real close like in the same town or rather keep a bit of distance !!!

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

Local is best. Least travelling, easy repeat meets.

We play as a couple so have no 'fear' or discovery or being 'outed'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not wish to be known as the local bike.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I prefer not to meet locally.

I used to but learned a lesson the hard way so now choose not to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like closeish but not that close im likely to bump into them doing the school run or while out shopping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to prefer local meets but since I started bumping into an unsuccessful meet at my gym, I have reconsidered the distance I am willing to travel...

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By *nnie2009Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

we have seen u out shopping lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Living in a fairly small village I prefer to keep a distance between my fun and my family and friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

at least the other side of town to avoid anything even remotely embarrassing in the local supermarket... own doorstep and all that...

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to meet fairly local as repeat funtime is always easier if there isn't a long way to travel but I don't like to meet so close that it is on mt doorstep x

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"do you look for people that live real close like in the same town or rather keep a bit of distance !!!"

we live in a village, thats too close for comfort, but a town say above 5000 would be fine

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By *nJ_NW_cplCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Local enough to be a max of about 45 mins away and far enough for our kids to be at different schools lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

York is a very small city but I've only bumped into a shag once, in a pub.

York is difficult, swinging wise, so I go to Leeds to get my funsies. But I have met guys in York, and have met a guy in my village. Happy to, cos it saves on train fare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we meet others at parties or clubs away from home.. and found out they were locals yes..

But wouldn't go looking for locals direct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am yet to find a meet in the same place where I live, so haven't had to make that choice. I don't have a problem with it in principle though.

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By *herry n JonesyCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire / Leicester

Never in the same town as I live in.. I keep a little distance between where I live and the people I meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As singles I never cared (but I lived in London which I think changes things), where as Boho was more cautious. As a couple we fall somewhere between the 2 scenarios.

Personaly, when I was single I think it was quite easy to not worry about it - I may be wrong but I suspect single fems are probably the most discrete demographic on here.

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By *BW38jWoman
over a year ago

Dudley/Telford

bumped into a colleague at chams lol looked at him look at me smiled

following week looked at him looked at me smiled didnt say a dicky bird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've bumped into more swingers I know in supermarkets than in any clubs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't mind where we meet people from as long as they can be discrete thats the big thing.. and generally people from here can

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

we prefer a long way away saves chance of comlications, i know we' are all here for same reason but some tend to talk or brag to much we like our privicy

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"we prefer a long way away saves chance of comlications, i know we' are all here for same reason but some tend to talk or brag to much we like our privicy"

our thought too, and if things go tits up i dont want it being discussed in the village shop or pub

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"we prefer a long way away saves chance of comlications, i know we' are all here for same reason but some tend to talk or brag to much we like our privicy

our thought too, and if things go tits up i dont want it being discussed in the village shop or pub"
exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've bumped into a meet in Sainsbury's and we've both been alone. You wouldn't believe the day before he had his tongue buried in my arse...we didn't even acknowledge each other.

We've also sat beside each other on the train, feeling him tremble as he watched the videos of our play I was Bluetoothing him.

I've a playmate that lives 10 minutes drive from me and we're comfortable with that because we've built up a trust over the years, respect boundaries and are not needy. It wouldn't cross either of our minds to go knocking on the others door uninvited.

Every Friday I used to travel to Wilmslow from London. Too much like hard work, I like the fact my playmates are local for when I need them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Living in a large City like Leeds means it's not really a problem, I've met a few 'local' guys .... not sure I would meet from my own borough though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer out of my local area if I'm honest. have bumped into a couple of people while out shopping. Fairly embarrassing.

Then I thought I'd be safe venturing further afield - a different county, only to bump into a family friend ( female) . well thankfully her eyesight is pretty poor, cos I managed to escape before she saw me. That was a close call..

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I prefer out of my local area if I'm honest. have bumped into a couple of people while out shopping. Fairly embarrassing.

Then I thought I'd be safe venturing further afield - a different county, only to bump into a family friend ( female) . well thankfully her eyesight is pretty poor, cos I managed to escape before she saw me. That was a close call.."

we often bump into swinging friends in the supermarket, dont see why it should be embarrassing at all...unless i start fondling the cucumber

The words close call suggest u either play with ppl u dont trust or consider swinging in some way sordid Neither say much about your choice to be on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish. Unfortunately my local area seems to be populated by the narrow minded and plain odd! I am yet to speak to anyone local that seems sane.

Must be the water.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't mind meeting people fairly local to where we live and I live in a small village...I'm not particularly well known here but won't meet people from where we work...I know people get their knickers in a twist about the whole "professional" thing but it would have very severe consequences if I ran into someone I'd swung with through work...

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Prefer to meet those who live localish to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont really mind xx

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

doesn't really bother me... but then I think there is a difference between living in a big city which i do)... and living in a little village like jemima does about 15 miles down the road....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its ok if you live in big city, but not good idea if you live in a small place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind as long as there is some attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i tend to use the advanced search option when browsing

'north west' is too broad an area for me so i search by the 3 postcodes that are closest to me

i am in 1 postcode, yet travel a mile or two from my front door and you are in different postcode areas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

local ,however it can be a bit riski,was letting this good looking guy use me ,i new he was married and we had had some realy wild sex one day in asda ,i looked up and there he was walking hand and hand with his wife all kisses and cuddles ,bloody hel i thought as he looked at me ,his wife was a stunner why he was fucking me i will never no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"local ,however it can be a bit riski,was letting this good looking guy use me ,i new he was married and we had had some realy wild sex one day in asda ,i looked up and there he was walking hand and hand with his wife all kisses and cuddles ,bloody hel i thought as he looked at me ,his wife was a stunner why he was fucking me i will never no"

i've thought that many a time too

the only thing i can think is cos if you eat fillet steak every day, a mcdonalds burger tastes fkin awesome now and again

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

We live in a rural location, so there are very few local swingers.

Having had one or two contact us when we first appeared on the scene, and having had one or two worrying messages, we decided very early on to look further afeild for our fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After a local meet with a single guy and the afters we dont even meet anybody from the same county anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

who cares all on here for the same thing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do you look for people that live real close like in the same town or rather keep a bit of distance !!!"

We meet away from home, as we live in a small and Bigoted town, also we work with the public....

We also had a nasty experience when a local chap we had met at home just "popped" in for a cuppa one tea time....could not believe it!

Soooo we only meet away from home and block guys who contact us from our town!

Sad..but just the way we work now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

got to be carfull ,i met a guy thought he was gen local ,then like others he just poped round ,my wife and daughter were in ,he was told my bi sex life was privatre form wife at the time of meet ,i am sure he thought it was some kind of drop in for sex centre, he left after i told him my wife was in ,but for days after he sat outside my house, the moment my wife left he would knock at the door,sorry guys but i had to get realy hevy with him, so far he has not came back

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

we dont do local.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"doesn't really bother me... but then I think there is a difference between living in a big city which i do)... and living in a little village like jemima does about 15 miles down the road....

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would you find many swingers in a small village 1 cpl would prob be rare

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dont mind how close people live to us if we all click then its game on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just a meet would be nice!!!!! pmsl

we should all think ourselves lucky if you lived in the yukon (fab swingers) there are only 2 swinging couples and 34,000 population over god knows how big an area.....stuffed if you dont get along or fancy the others lol or the others are timewasters lol

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I met a guy that turned out to be in the same town. I checked to make sure there was no connection with kids and work etc. His kids have now moved to the same school and it makes me feel very uncomfy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love more swingers local to me so we could take turns driving to chams, hate driving back alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"doesn't really bother me... but then I think there is a difference between living in a big city which i do)... and living in a little village like jemima does about 15 miles down the road....

would you find many swingers in a small village 1 cpl would prob be rare"

Surprisingly loads in my village and it's tiny! lol...one guy just walked round the corner to meet us...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer local meets more safer that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we travelled 1100 miles to south of france and bumped into a lady we played with in birmingham and on a camp site at that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Note: Rob has never been to a club or party and reserves the right to change his opinion if he meets his granny at a gangbang).

I've never seen the logic behind the "own doorstep/bigoted local area" argument for looking further afield. Surely anyone who you recognise at a club or party is in just the same boat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met people in the same town, but do prefer not to be that local........

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By *isub69Man
over a year ago

Epsom

Normally I don't do same town as it can be very awkward when out and about with friends.

That being said I have a local meet arranged for next week so we shall see how that goes etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have met both locally and up to 2 hrs away and as long as you dont meet "muppets" ,either is good .Local is fantastic for quick , short notice tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel a bit wary about meeting local, don't really want to turn up to a works meeting etc to find that the host of the meeting is the same man whos had his cock in your every orifice, lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Feel a bit wary about meeting local, don't really want to turn up to a works meeting etc to find that the host of the meeting is the same man whos had his cock in your every orifice, lol "

I would find that hilarious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"got to be carfull ,i met a guy thought he was gen local ,then like others he just poped round ,my wife and daughter were in ,he was told my bi sex life was privatre form wife at the time of meet ,i am sure he thought it was some kind of drop in for sex centre, he left after i told him my wife was in ,but for days after he sat outside my house, the moment my wife left he would knock at the door,sorry guys but i had to get realy hevy with him, so far he has not came back"

OMG creepy

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

prefer a bit of distance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feel a bit wary about meeting local, don't really want to turn up to a works meeting etc to find that the host of the meeting is the same man whos had his cock in your every orifice, lol

I would find that hilarious! "

Oh nooo, I think I would have to feign sickness and leave, lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Feel a bit wary about meeting local, don't really want to turn up to a works meeting etc to find that the host of the meeting is the same man whos had his cock in your every orifice, lol

I would find that hilarious!

Oh nooo, I think I would have to feign sickness and leave, lol "

I'd spend the entire meeting winking at him.

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By *om8420Man
over a year ago

Sunderland

Out dogging once I was invited to shag this woman from behind while she was giving her hubby a bj. Turned out to be a work colleague. Ha the odd nice lunchtime after that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

prefer not more that 30 minutes drive but 2 minutes walk would be absolutely ideal. Dont mind being recognised and would hate to think Id missed out because someone recognised me

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"who cares all on here for the same thing lol"

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"got to be carfull ,i met a guy thought he was gen local ,then like others he just poped round ,my wife and daughter were in ,he was told my bi sex life was privatre form wife at the time of meet ,i am sure he thought it was some kind of drop in for sex centre, he left after i told him my wife was in ,but for days after he sat outside my house, the moment my wife left he would knock at the door,sorry guys but i had to get realy hevy with him, so far he has not came back"

Unfortunately this could happen no matter where the stalker was from

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"doesn't really bother me... but then I think there is a difference between living in a big city which i do)... and living in a little village like jemima does about 15 miles down the road....

would you find many swingers in a small village 1 cpl would prob be rare"

there are about 900 ppl in our village and to our knowledge, 2 other swinging couples, one of whom know we know, cos we recognised their back garden in pics The other who like us feel it is too close if things go wrong. We have never played with either and wouldnt. Living in a small village we know where ppl work ect, things could go badly wrong.

There is also a single bloke ,who we have played with, he is a friend of my dad's and knows if he was indiscrete, the first thing that would happen is my dad would kill him!

It is a bit odd at first sucking the cock of someone who knew you when you were 12, but he has a very nice cock

i think you have to live in a village to really understand how insular and inward looking they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do not wish to be known as the local bike. "

This made me lol and I know what you mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you visit clubs, socials etc you're likely to bump into people you know so personally don't see what the problem is if they're local or not.

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