FabSwingers.com forum: Older younger relationships

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve had relationships with women my age never seemed to work out.

Only time I’ve felt comfortable is being with someone who is much older seem to have more in common.

Anyone else find this either being with older men or women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I generally get along better with women who are older. Although as I get older it's starting to stop becoming the case if that makes sense

But yes, much more comfortable in 'older' company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always get on better with a older woman... my ex was 8 years older don't brother me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to have less in common with an older lady as it’s true men are four or five years less mature than a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My man is a lot older than me.

Couldn't be happier,been together

Over 4 years and will never go back to some one my age or even close to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My man is a lot older than me.

Couldn't be happier,been together

Over 4 years and will never go back to some one my age or even close to it."

I rest my case your honour

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

I have had a preferance for older woman most of my life. Some my own age are great and I would not rule out much younger it just depends on the person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Only thing about being with an older woman that annoys me is the judging but you get over it.

I learned fast years ago to ignore it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer older. My favourite bracket of men is 39-49 generally

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By *lder Voyeur 58Man
over a year ago

colchester

My gf is 27 years younger than me and we have been together 5 years!

People do judge but we just don’t care - it’s our life so why should what other people think matter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had relationships w I th both older and younger, some you get on with better than others, not convinced it's down to age either way. You either click or you don't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My gf is 27 years younger than me and we have been together 5 years!

People do judge but we just don’t care - it’s our life so why should what other people think matter?"

Exactly spot on

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

I wonder, are older men with young woman more acceptable to society than the other way round?

Macron in france seams to get a lot of stick for having a much older wife. She was his school teacher in fact.

His people even suggeted killing her to make him a widower to improve his poplularity? WTF!

The thread has heard much more from men with older partners and a couple of folks with young woman partners.

So do younger woman find older men more attractive than younger men find older woman?

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By *ommyxyzMan
over a year ago

Crawley

older women younger men, but i'd hardly call them relationships!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The amount of grief we get from strangers for age gap is unbelieveable.

Most times we shrug it off and laugh but now and again we have got police involved.

In our eyes it's a bop but we would love it to be classed a hate crime like gay and race slander are.

It's either get cops involved or one of us is in jail for assault

Our familes support us 100% even although my man older than both my parents.

As my mum and dad says" if you happy then we happy and age is only a number"

Not to mention,if parents don't agree, then they might lose their son or daughter.

Fortuantly, my family and i not like that though.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I don't know that age is very important. I've been in relationships with women older and younger than myself.

I've been legally married to my wife for 21 years, she's just 6 weeks younger than me. My handfasted wife is 11 years younger.

Age isn't especially relevant.

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By *ommyxyzMan
over a year ago

Crawley

"The amount of grief we get from strangers for age gap is unbelieveable.

Most times we shrug it off and laugh but now and again we have got police involved.

In our eyes it's a bop but we would love it to be classed a hate crime like gay and race slander are.

It's either get cops involved or one of us is in jail for assault

Our familes support us 100% even although my man older than both my parents.

As my mum and dad says" if you happy then we happy and age is only a number"

Not to mention,if parents don't agree, then they might lose their son or daughter.

Fortuantly, my family and i not like that though."

good for you and your coolfamily

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I have a friend who's partner is older than her parents and it all seems fine. Mostly age is a number though i wouldn't date someone under early 20s as I do feel a base line of world experience is necessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer younger women

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

"The amount of grief we get from strangers for age gap is unbelieveable.

Most times we shrug it off and laugh but now and again we have got police involved.

In our eyes it's a bop but we would love it to be classed a hate crime like gay and race slander are.

It's either get cops involved or one of us is in jail for assault

Our familes support us 100% even although my man older than both my parents.

As my mum and dad says" if you happy then we happy and age is only a number"

Not to mention,if parents don't agree, then they might lose their son or daughter.

Fortuantly, my family and i not like that though."

I hear you my Partner is Black and she and I use to get greif on the street from people. The Voice Newspaper even ran an double page article about how terrable it was for Black Woman to date White men!

Glad you dont get the family grief.

I knew a 70 year old Amarican Vicar once whos second wife (widower) was younger than his eldest Son. They had Two Kids under 10.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My man has no children and although i am in a 24 year old body,my mind and attitude are that of a 50 year old woman.

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

"My man has no children and although i am in a 24 year old body,my mind and attitude are that of a 50 year old woman."

In a good way iam sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My man has no children and although i am in a 24 year old body,my mind and attitude are that of a 50 year old woman.

In a good way iam sure."

Well.. as my says. He is very lucky to have a fit female with a mature mind and attitude to life which he can relate to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was always with younger women and they tended to act really immature and cause shit for no reason all the time! I then decided I’d go for older women and had a few relationships with older ones too! Quickly came to the conclusion, nowt changes and generally on the whole nasty pieces of work

haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was always with men my own age and they tended to act really immature and cause shit for no reason all the time! I then decided I’d go for an older man.

Found him and would never go with anyone near my age again,no exceptions.

If youre not over 50 you aint cuming in

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

I admit my girlfriends all tended to be younger my current one is 18 years younger than me biggest age gap ive had but age doesnt matter where love is concerned we get on very well and its great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was always with men my own age and they tended to act really immature and cause shit for no reason all the time! I then decided I’d go for an older man.

Found him and would never go with anyone near my age again,no exceptions.

If youre not over 50 you aint cuming in

How reassuring!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number.

The regular fuck buddy was 19 and I was 34.

To be fair she was really tight but lub helped.

I was also having sex with a 50 year old again good times.

But yes age is just a number.

Just enjoy it

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