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Timewasters!! grr!!

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By *ynandi OP   Couple
over a year ago

manningtree

What is it with all the timewasters on this site? We arranged a meet last night, actually was able to get a babysitter (which is difficult for us) even got txt confirmation in the morning from thm and thn was a no show

We would never do that! We can usually spot them but this time they got us. Does anyone else have this prob alot?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wouldnt say a lot no, ive had a couple of no shows but i get more cancel last min that not show but even thats a small number most of the meets i arrange turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ony a couple of times in the few years ive been here.

what I think people forget is some cpls see it as a dipping toes in thing, or some cpls dont know what they would actually do confronted by someone else sexually, and lastly...its always possible that 1 side of the cpl i pushing another against their will of sorts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been here about 18months, ive had 1 no show and 2 or 3 that have had to cancel, the cancelling I can live with, ive on occasions also had to cancel, I would never just not turn up

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By *YLINDERCouple
over a year ago

CARDIFF

know that feeling well.... very dissapointing . a simple text making an excuse is better than just a no show. some people have no manners xx

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By *ynandi OP   Couple
over a year ago

manningtree

I didnt mean alot lol weve had a cpl of no shows in our time, we had been speakin for weeks and loads too, thn just nothin... Took us by suprise thts all as had had so much convo goin on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they got cold feet and couldn't go through with it in the end no matter how much they wanted to.

Still no excuse to just not turn up and waste someones time, I have had to cancel meets in the past but would never deliberately not turn up x

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By *sa fun bradfordMan
over a year ago

bradford/leeds

nothing more binding then time wasters alot of folk on here talk a good game but when you get down to trying to arange a meet all the reason's under the sun come out as they carnt meet at the moment or work has made them unable to meet... if you arange a date and time its only respectfull you try your best to for fill your meet if you ask me.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

We've been swinging for 6 years and have never, ever had a real no show. One or 2 cancelled due to life's little surprises but never a true no show. If that had happened to us, we'd have just gone to a club - no drama. Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always allow for 90% no shows. Always works out about right.

We don't meet the same people over and over again mind you, so each contact is "new".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've been swinging for 6 years and have never, ever had a real no show. One or 2 cancelled due to life's little surprises but never a true no show. If that had happened to us, we'd have just gone to a club - no drama. Z"

I've been on site three years and not encountered a no show. After meeting a guy socially two years ago I only met him to play two weeks ago as our work and life meant we've both had to cancel. Funny thing is he lives 10 minutes drive away.

Some people would have called us timewasters!

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"We've been swinging for 6 years and have never, ever had a real no show. One or 2 cancelled due to life's little surprises but never a true no show. If that had happened to us, we'd have just gone to a club - no drama. Z

I've been on site three years and not encountered a no show. After meeting a guy socially two years ago I only met him to play two weeks ago as our work and life meant we've both had to cancel. Funny thing is he lives 10 minutes drive away.

Some people would have called us timewasters! "

We have had similar situations - not 2 years though but chatted to a couple a few times starting in november and met them last night. Not every one is free all the time. Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit happens dont it lol quit moaning about it already and just move on. Ive had a few not turn up and cancel on me last min .com One when I was 2mins away after driving 40miles. Like I say it happens just deal with it and move on dont ya as no ones perfect on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never had a no show, but a few cancellations, which, as has been said, is par for the course. we have had to once, so it happens.

think getting a no show would mean we stop doing it i think as she has very little patience for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have our sumpathies weve had it done before. So bloody annoying after the effort you go too n why the hell fo people do it ?.. what do they possibly get out of it!. Idiots it inly takes a text call or e mail to cancel if they really have too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm really growing to despise seeing the word timewaster on here, how many threads of this do we need really. Some people are dicks, its called LIFE. Moaning seems to be a favourite past time on fab!! Forgive my harshness but in all honesty I really think the word should be banned lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy on here it's really frustrating, lots of idiots giving us genuine ones a bad reputation. There are genuine single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single guy on here it's really frustrating, lots of idiots giving us genuine ones a bad reputation. There are genuine single guys "

idiots come in both sex, its not just single guys in here that mess people about, couples and women can too

Ive only had two no shows in 11 years of doing this so cant moan really but one of them was a couple and other a single guy so its been 50/50 for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we always meet for a social in a pub or something first, had a few not show up to that, so we just have a good night out and enjoy ourselves, if they turn up then great.

always leave playing to another time, and never been let down on the play night, it also gets rid of the awkward dont really want to play with you moments, as we all have a few days to think about them, and they us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm really growing to despise seeing the word timewaster on here, how many threads of this do we need really. Some people are dicks, its called LIFE. Moaning seems to be a favourite past time on fab!! Forgive my harshness but in all honesty I really think the word should be banned lol."

I couldnt agree more with you, here here and well said

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"As a single guy on here it's really frustrating, lots of idiots giving us genuine ones a bad reputation. There are genuine single guys "

You've got it back-to-front - the idiots do you a massive favour by helping you to stand out - its just a shame there aren't more of them

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

most have had it we have a few times, have to say it knocks the selfesteem but ya gotta realise there are always goin to be wasters here, after all they are only here to mess people and prob get a big buzz from it so we dont worry any more, we actually had same people few times tryin to do same again but they for get they been chattin to us but as paid members we see when we last messaged some times newbe's with same old pix lol we just get on with it now and try to be more picky

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