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By *onygirlie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Had a few messages recently from guys with absolutely no pics on their profile or in the message. Really do they expect a get a reply....! Come on would you be messaging me without seeing any pics I wonder...

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By *ax_uk_2009Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow


"Had a few messages recently from guys with absolutely no pics on their profile or in the message. Really do they expect a get a reply....! Come on would you be messaging me without seeing any pics I wonder..."

I have photos but not face pics just in case anyone near by knows me. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many lazy guys out there who think they don't need to try.

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Probably not - I'd probably investigate their profile briefly and see if anything sparked interest, but would be suspicious of fakes. That being said a woman would still probably get plenty of interest, whereas even with an honest, friendly, open approach it's way less likely a guy will. Might be because some men are shallow, might just be the usual numbers game, but I'd generally be wary of seeing nothing at all.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I look at the profile and if there are no pics in it,delete.Nothing to pique my interest

Same as if no profile text

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond


"Had a few messages recently from guys with absolutely no pics on their profile or in the message. Really do they expect a get a reply....! Come on would you be messaging me without seeing any pics I wonder..."

Yup, I can guarantee that profiles without pics get messages. Usually people who've actually read the profile, too!

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By *he Cheeky GirlsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Dover and Benidorm

No pics no reply, after all there has to some attraction otherwise what's the point.

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By *hill44Man
over a year ago

hinckley

I don't get how men expect a women to reply without a face pic , they can easily send a private pic , these guys won't get anywhere on here with no pics

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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago

East Northamptonshire

No profile text and no pics gives nothing to go on but some guys still send us messages like 'Great profile.and pics, would love to meet for some fun'. I agree that they shoukd not be surprised when they get no response. They want to see your own pictures and description of what you want but do not reciprocate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always send a face pic when I message someone..... perhaps that's why few reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like people not pics. I read profiles and messages. If we get on we swap pics. I treat people like human beings not pieces of meat to just chuck away if they don't meet my expectations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've blocked profiles with no public photos as I think it's pointless messaging without at least giving me some idea what they look like, I won't ever message a profile without photos & I'm sure most only message me because I have photo's. Dislike that some get around the filter though by either putting a photo up then deleting it or having friends only photos, so I just delete those messages. This isn't blind date.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes, they do.

Hey bb hows u wanna drink? (no pictures, very little profile text)

Delete.

U think ur 2 gud 4 me, (insert insults here?)

Block.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Makes me laugh when they say 'nice pics'...

I might start replying to them with 'thanks i like yours too'.

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By *he Cheeky GirlsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Dover and Benidorm

There has to be attraction, otherwise we may just as well be animals fulfilling a need to have sex with anybody.

Hence photos are essential and some idea of who your getting involved with.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Makes me laugh when they say 'nice pics'...

I might start replying to them with 'thanks i like yours too'."

I didn't have pictures up for awhile (I had good reasons, and not discretion etc). I got plenty of messages telling me I had nice pics!

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire


"Makes me laugh when they say 'nice pics'...

I might start replying to them with 'thanks i like yours too'.

I didn't have pictures up for awhile (I had good reasons, and not discretion etc). I got plenty of messages telling me I had nice pics! "

Ah the old copy and paste, did think guys were even bothered to look at our pics so weren't lying about that.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I've blocked these profiles whats the point

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Makes me laugh when they say 'nice pics'...

I might start replying to them with 'thanks i like yours too'.

I didn't have pictures up for awhile (I had good reasons, and not discretion etc). I got plenty of messages telling me I had nice pics!

Ah the old copy and paste, did think guys were even bothered to look at our pics so weren't lying about that. "

I had one recently where they'd accidentally spliced a word. Think tr ee instead of tree. I deleted because I wasn't interested, and got the same splice a few days later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same with females to be honest. There are so many time wasters with no photos. Vague profiles. Why bother at all??

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire


"Makes me laugh when they say 'nice pics'...

I might start replying to them with 'thanks i like yours too'.

I didn't have pictures up for awhile (I had good reasons, and not discretion etc). I got plenty of messages telling me I had nice pics!

Ah the old copy and paste, did think guys were even bothered to look at our pics so weren't lying about that.

I had one recently where they'd accidentally spliced a word. Think tr ee instead of tree. I deleted because I wasn't interested, and got the same splice a few days later. "

Could at least write out a new message every time they come on. :/

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Same with females to be honest. There are so many time wasters with no photos. Vague profiles. Why bother at all??"

That was my profile to start with. I signed up on a whim, didn't know what to expect.

But they're only a timewaster if they agree to show up and don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same with females to be honest. There are so many time wasters with no photos. Vague profiles. Why bother at all??"

How are they time wasters?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a few messages recently from guys with absolutely no pics on their profile or in the message. Really do they expect a get a reply....! Come on would you be messaging me without seeing any pics I wonder..."

I don’t have any pictures,yet I still get plenty of messages. Such is the desperation on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have pics on my profile. Even my bugly mug. I also ask on my profile that should anyone message me that they include a face pic (I understand that some folk just aren't comfortable with flaunting their features). That said - I still get messages with no pics attached or (worse) a cock shot. Honestly fellas. They are all ugly. It's how you use them!!!! Can't wait for 2 weeks when I can actually try to arrange a meet again!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have pics, generally will send a facepic or two in first message, sometimes I send a message saying I have pics if wanted, depends on profile and proximity e.t.c

Have made the same rookie mistakes as most I say. Slowly getting there. Lol

Rarely get a reply, but put it down to the male _female/couple ratio.

Holding out for one getting past the net.

Pro tip... Read profiles... Gives people an idea of what type of pic to send. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is unacceptable

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Makes me laugh when they say 'nice pics'...

I might start replying to them with 'thanks i like yours too'."

Funny that, I get told I look hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, they do.

Hey bb hows u wanna drink? (no pictures, very little profile text)

Delete.

U think ur 2 gud 4 me, (insert insults here?)

Block. "

I'm still amazed that 'blokes' think that approach actually works then when they get knocked back they instantly blame the lady

Yes it's a swinging site but that doesn't mean all decency and manners are left at the door.

But on the flip side it then means us gents who can be courteous have a better chance to chat to you lovely ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t get reply’s with pics do what do they expect

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Yes, they do.

Hey bb hows u wanna drink? (no pictures, very little profile text)

Delete.

U think ur 2 gud 4 me, (insert insults here?)

Block. "

Not just me who gets that then!! except sometimes it is "hey wanna f**k" no pics no profile text and abuse if I delete them

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire


"I've blocked these profiles whats the point "

I did that when i saw your reply here, one person has already got round that block.

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